I'm a fat man in a model body. By all rights I should look like Chris Farley, but, alas, 2 kids and countless 5 Guys Burgers later, I've still got the skinny. As a result, I am the least judgmental person you will ever meet. I remain astonished every passing day that I haven't ballooned into Jabba the Hut. In contrast, I think people who spend hours at the gym every day and starve themselves end up having a lot of anger and resentment toward people who can have cheez whiz whenever they want. Understandable. Cheez whiz is pretty freakin awesome.
"Be aware of wonder. Live a balanced life - learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day."~Robert Fulghum
P.S.- I'm married, yes, happily. Please don't ask me for a date.