I'm a visual person with an innate inability to draw or paint, so the camera has become my weapon of choice. I'm cooler than many rock stars and if you have a hard time believing that you can talk to my mom...she'll set you straight. In addition to being pretty cool I'm very laid back so I often take a "Let's just roll with it" approach. Feel free to bring a big, frightening dood along to any shoot if you feel safer that way. If you don't have access to one, a boyfriend|girlfriend|husband|wife, etc will suffice.
I'm a longtime subscriber to the mindset that "shit happens". Having said that...I'm completely cool with people cancelling or rescheduling a shoot. Hell, I've done it myself and I'm no hypocrite. Just take into consideration that many photographers rent gear & studio space for these shoots and some even take time off from their day jobs to accommodate your schedule. If you repeatedly flake at least do me the favor of not asking for any subsequent shoots because I really loathe giving that emo "I'm done wasting time with you." speech.
I didn't mean that whole bit about talking to my mom, but you can talk to some of the folks on MM that I've worked with if you really are doubting my cool factor (especially after my rant about flakes):
MM# 1604281 - Jenni Cleek
MM# 767422 - JWang
MM# 1400859 - Silu Wang
MM# 574120 - Azura
MM# 322303 - Lauren Eggers
MM# 1349371 - Ashley Strange
MM# 890351 - Ashlee 901
MM# 890053 - Jen Robinson
MM# 1266409 - Stevie Shotwell
MM# 790937 - Rachel Riahi