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William Kious

Posts: 8841

Delphos, Ohio, US

macshot20 photography wrote:
i dont see her like that

Dilemma solved.

macshot20 photography wrote:
, she says she trusts me and wants to get it over with so should i be the one to do it or should i not?.

Do her a favor and say no.

macshot20 photography wrote:
obviously im not one of those kinda guys if im asking strangers if i should do it sooooo what should i do? lmfao

Of course you're "one of those kinda guys". In fact... you're WORSE by far. Why? Because you've already stated that you don't see her like that, but you're still considering it. That makes you MORE of a dog than the guy who is honest about wanting in her pants.

Why she trusts you is beyond me. You're taking something that's personal and very private and broadcasting it all over Model Mayhem. Sure, we don't know her name, but she trusted you with the information/request.

Grow... up.

Sep 20 12 09:12 pm Link

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NounStudio

Posts: 1605

Sarasota, Florida, US

Presley ONeil wrote:

Dp

DP on her first time???

Now that's a party!

Sep 20 12 09:21 pm Link

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Cait Chan

Posts: 6272

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US

William Kious wrote:

macshot20 photography wrote:
i dont see her like that

Dilemma solved.


Do her a favor and say no.


Of course you're "one of those kinda guys". In fact... you're WORSE by far. Why? Because you've already stated that you don't see her like that, but you're still considering it. That makes you MORE of a dog than the guy who is honest about wanting in her pants.

Why she trusts you is beyond me. You're taking something that's personal and very private and broadcasting it all over llama Mayhem. Sure, we don't know her name, but she trusted you with the information/request.

Grow... up.

Come on...

He doesn't wanna " screw up a chance to get laid"

Sep 20 12 11:09 pm Link

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macshot20 photography

Posts: 291

Stockton, California, US

Cait Chan wrote:

Come on...

He doesn't wanna " screw up a chance to get laid"

lmao yall probably didnt read any of the stuff i posted, its coo... ;op

Sep 20 12 11:57 pm Link

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Cait Chan

Posts: 6272

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US

macshot20 photography wrote:

lmao yall probably didnt read any of the stuff i posted, its coo... ;op

No I did. And you posted that wink

Sep 21 12 12:00 am Link

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Phane

Posts: 2063

Rockville, Maryland, US

William Kious wrote:

macshot20 photography wrote:
i dont see her like that

Dilemma solved.

macshot20 photography wrote:
, she says she trusts me and wants to get it over with so should i be the one to do it or should i not?.

Do her a favor and say no.


Of course you're "one of those kinda guys". In fact... you're WORSE by far. Why? Because you've already stated that you don't see her like that, but you're still considering it. That makes you MORE of a dog than the guy who is honest about wanting in her pants.

Why she trusts you is beyond me. You're taking something that's personal and very private and broadcasting it all over Model Mayhem. Sure, we don't know her name, but she trusted you with the information/request.

Grow... up.

This + 100

Sep 21 12 10:12 am Link

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Carlos Occidental

Posts: 10558

Glendora, California, US

Iv'e done it twice.  Worked out for me and the woman just fine.  Not a very big deal as long as both go in knowing what to expect during and after.  People are far too uptight about such things.  The friendship survived just fine after both incidents.

Sep 21 12 10:36 am Link

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Carlos Occidental

Posts: 10558

Glendora, California, US

LitaKita wrote:
... 'just to get it over with' isn't a very good reason to do something like this either.. neutral

Bull.  You are not the woman.  It's as good a reason as any.  She just doesn't want to be awkward her first time with someone else and wants some experience beforehand with someone she trusts.  Don't speak for her.  Don't speak for him.

Sep 21 12 10:39 am Link

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Carlos Occidental

Posts: 10558

Glendora, California, US

T Brown wrote:
its a big deal to some people...because it means something personal to them.

It obviously isn't that big a deal to the woman in question, or the OP.  It's just a big deal to you.

Sep 21 12 10:40 am Link

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Wildcat Photography

Posts: 1486

Valparaiso, Indiana, US

Presley ONeil wrote:
Dp

NounStudio wrote:
DP on her first time???

Now that's a party!

Yes, that is what I thought, double penetration would quite the devirginizing.

But that would also take a second guy...or with him another girl with a strap on.

Wildcat

Sep 21 12 11:16 am Link

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Shifting Paradigm Photo

Posts: 36

Portland, Oregon, US

I suggest you print off this list of comments. Since you've made a very private request into a public discussion, I have a feeling she'll see you in a somewhat different way, so you won't have this being such an oppressive issue in your life.

Sep 21 12 01:12 pm Link

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The F-Stop

Posts: 2285

New York, New York, US

You should have kept this private.

Just do it already!

Sep 21 12 02:00 pm Link

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Koryn

Posts: 37559

Boston, Massachusetts, US

AdelaideJohn1967 wrote:
Why the hell is losing one's virginity such a big fucking deal?

It was a big fucking deal to me, because it took me three years to find someone who would fuck me the first time, even though I had wanted to lose my virginity since high school. It was emotionally painful, and frustrating.

I wasn't considered "hot" as a teenager, was bullied a lot, never had a boyfriend, or even a date. I finally ended up trading some semi-decent-looking kid who lived in my dorm building a case of beer to have sex with me, because I was a college sophomore by that point, and felt like I *deserved* to know what sex was like. Prior to that time, every time I took a shine to someone, they were always like, "I just don't see you that way."

That was also the first time I'd ever actually seen a penis, and I'm not joking. So, yeah, it was a big fucking deal.

Sep 21 12 02:13 pm Link

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Christopher Carter

Posts: 7747

Indianapolis, Indiana, US

I think it's time to take the word "professional" out of the name of this website.

Sep 21 12 02:21 pm Link

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Brooks Ayola

Posts: 9750

Chatsworth, California, US

Oh, Model Mayhem... Why can't I quit you?

Sep 21 12 02:39 pm Link

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The F-Stop

Posts: 2285

New York, New York, US

ShivaKitty wrote:

It was a big fucking deal to me, because it took me three years to find someone who would fuck me the first time, even though I had wanted to lose my virginity since high school. It was emotionally painful, and frustrating.

I wasn't considered "hot" as a teenager, was bullied a lot, never had a boyfriend, or even a date. I finally ended up trading some semi-decent-looking kid who lived in my dorm building a case of beer to have sex with me, because I was a college sophomore by that point, and felt like I *deserved* to know what sex was like. Prior to that time, every time I took a shine to someone, they were always like, "I just don't see you that way."

That was also the first time I'd ever actually seen a penis, and I'm not joking. So, yeah, it was a big fucking deal.

Oh yeah I see what you mean. Are you pulling my leg? Paid a guy a case of beer?.. where the hell was I when all this happened? Are guys today idiots passing up babes like you?

Sep 21 12 03:01 pm Link

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UnoMundo

Posts: 47532

Olympia, Washington, US

The F-Stop wrote:

Oh yeah I see what you mean. Are you pulling my leg? Paid a guy a case of beer?.. where the hell was I when all this happened? Are guys today idiots passing up babes like you?

Not surprising. Some people bloom late. I totally ignored a girl in high school, she turned out years  later smoking hot like Angela Bassett.

Then I did a photo session for a Indian woman who complained that she was 30 years old and had never been kissed. She was at that time an abused Indian wife. She put those photos on a Indian dating site, remarried later and told me she was happy.

Sep 21 12 03:15 pm Link

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Wildcat Photography

Posts: 1486

Valparaiso, Indiana, US

ShivaKitty wrote:

It was a big fucking deal to me, because it took me three years to find someone who would fuck me the first time, even though I had wanted to lose my virginity since high school. It was emotionally painful, and frustrating.

I wasn't considered "hot" as a teenager, was bullied a lot, never had a boyfriend, or even a date. I finally ended up trading some semi-decent-looking kid who lived in my dorm building a case of beer to have sex with me, because I was a college sophomore by that point, and felt like I *deserved* to know what sex was like. Prior to that time, every time I took a shine to someone, they were always like, "I just don't see you that way."

That was also the first time I'd ever actually seen a penis, and I'm not joking. So, yeah, it was a big fucking deal.

I am very sorry that you had to go through this.

Teenagers can be so cruel with bullying.

Sep 21 12 04:03 pm Link

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Jason Haven

Posts: 38381

Washington, District of Columbia, US

Only if you laugh maniacally while doing it and yell out, "Satan loves you!!!!"

Sep 21 12 05:46 pm Link

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TRPn Pics

Posts: 10431

Andrews, North Carolina, US

I think it's a safe bet to say within a month or two ......

Sep 21 12 09:15 pm Link

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T

Posts: 53557

Washington, District of Columbia, US

TRPn Pics wrote:

Dude !

http://images3.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20111125162443/glee/images/2/21/Smh--4.gif

OMG This is awesome! lol

Sep 21 12 09:38 pm Link

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T

Posts: 53557

Washington, District of Columbia, US

ShivaKitty wrote:

It was a big fucking deal to me, because it took me three years to find someone who would fuck me the first time, even though I had wanted to lose my virginity since high school. It was emotionally painful, and frustrating.

I wasn't considered "hot" as a teenager, was bullied a lot, never had a boyfriend, or even a date. I finally ended up trading some semi-decent-looking kid who lived in my dorm building a case of beer to have sex with me, because I was a college sophomore by that point, and felt like I *deserved* to know what sex was like. Prior to that time, every time I took a shine to someone, they were always like, "I just don't see you that way."

That was also the first time I'd ever actually seen a penis, and I'm not joking. So, yeah, it was a big fucking deal.

http://static.tumblr.com/v1asjlx/i2olwzpv1/sebastian_jaw_drop.gif

Sep 21 12 09:41 pm Link

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Cherrystone

Posts: 37171

Columbus, Ohio, US

T wrote:

http://static.tumblr.com/v1asjlx/i2olwzpv1/sebastian_jaw_drop.gif

LMAO..... lol lol

Sep 22 12 12:01 pm Link

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Cosplay Creatives

Posts: 10714

Syowa - permanent station of Japan, Sector claimed by Norway, Antarctica

WTH, this got marked off as a permanent OT thread!?

Sep 22 12 12:25 pm Link