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Since I have always worked with an agency before and worked with photogs I knew, I'm not sure what the rules are or how to make sure I'm going to a safe location when responding to casting calls. Any advice would be appreciated. Jan 02 13 11:46 am Link Laura1982 wrote: Hi Laura Jan 02 13 11:50 am Link use common sense. check references. let someone know where you're going, and what time you expect to be back. Jan 02 13 11:51 am Link Paolo Diavolo wrote: +1 Jan 02 13 11:58 am Link You can never be 100% sure of anything with strangers. Ask what you need to and go with your instinct. Don't go anywhere if this is telling you not to. It's ultra important that you can feel the sincerity before engaging in a project. Often the photographers portfolio already says a lot. Then look to the sort of models in the pictures. Follow along those threads, ask models if you are still not convinced. Good luck with it. Most of the many thousands of photographers here are good people, voyeurs though as all are, ready to play their part as well as you should be. Jan 02 13 12:06 pm Link Bring an escort! If anyone has a problem with that then leave. Jan 02 13 12:31 pm Link Neil Snape wrote: Or people that you know, for that matter. Jan 02 13 12:40 pm Link Communications is the key. Sometime a model and the photographer just don't hit it off. It happens. Sometimes it is a match made in heaven. If you feel comfortable with your communications with the photographer, do as others say. Check references. Any model I have ever worked with will gladly give you a reference. Know where you will be shooting, when and when you expect to be done. and let everyone know and the name of the photographer. Should go smoothly if you follow those instructions. As a photographer, I second the notion, if it feels wrong, leave immediately. You can have regrets later. Jan 02 13 12:41 pm Link Laura1982 wrote: Get to know the models in your local area. When you are thinking about working with a photographer, ask them if anyone has any stories to share. Jan 02 13 12:43 pm Link The F-Stop wrote: Bringing someone with you does not mean its automatically a safe situation. Jan 02 13 12:46 pm Link The F-Stop wrote: Your troll post is not wanted here. Jan 02 13 12:48 pm Link The F-Stop wrote: Yup, it's the safest. Because you may not have the shoot then. Stay at home after all. The safest. Jan 02 13 12:49 pm Link you can do your homework on the photographer (google them, check references) but i don't think you ever be 100% sure about someone (and some people won't give a bad reference for fear of reprisal). sometimes the bad things happen after a model and photographer have worked together a bunch of times. sometimes the photographer is great with everyone else but just goes nuts with one particular person. i've heard of one rape but otherwise it's more nuisance stuff of guys behaving badly. some guys seem to think that the fee they pay to models includes escort-type services. models who tend to freeze under pressure (vs. kicking them in the balls and leaving) can get themselves into trouble with these guys. you could hire a MUA to stay for the entire shoot. but a guy intent on doing bad might be able to take care of two women. this site is frequently referenced: http://madamebink.co.uk/?p=450 that said i know internet models who travel, get paid and do lots of shoots and are still alive and well. your mileage may vary. Jan 02 13 04:40 pm Link Laura1982 wrote: I've never felt scared, threatened, or uncomfortable when planning shoots, and I've literally met hundreds of people who I initially met online. Jan 02 13 05:06 pm Link Would you bring an llama herder to a job interview, or a first date, or any other time you might be alone with someone for the first time? Like everyone has said, get a couple references, let someone know where you're going, and don't be too paranoid. Jan 02 13 05:41 pm Link i've been on some first dates where i WISH i had brought an escort to bail me out. lol. Christinare wrote: Jan 02 13 05:47 pm Link use common sense and let people know where you are, who you're with and when you are returning. Jan 02 13 05:48 pm Link i had a model call me on monday for just that purpose. she was shooting on short notice with someone she thought she didn't know (turns out she did know them after all) and told me her plans just to be on the safe side. she was shooting nearby and i would have gone over to check on her if she hadn't texted saying everything was going fine. use the buddy system. S230 wrote: Jan 02 13 05:50 pm Link Take an escort! I made the mistake of not taking one, and it lead me to a bad exprience which has almost cost me my chance at modeling.My word vs the photographer. TAKE AN ESCORT! Jan 02 13 06:01 pm Link not all photographers on here allow them. and usually it's the guys they most want to shoot with who don't. Katherine1959 wrote: Jan 02 13 06:54 pm Link The F-Stop wrote: Where's the shield and cape? Jan 02 13 07:46 pm Link Katherine1959 wrote: If you stereotype, your options will remain rather limited. Jan 02 13 07:47 pm Link Laura1982 wrote: I'll say for the most part you're in just as much danger getting out of your home and going to work or to the store. Discuss things up front. Don't do anything that isn't covered unless you both agree. Jan 02 13 07:51 pm Link Too many "have been knowns" in here.... Escorts who "have been known" to ruin photo shoots. And then the photographers who "have been known" to kidnap and rape models. People who "have been known" to steal stuff, blah blah blah. Why not just apply the eternal rules of the internet meet up.... If you are meeting somebody from the internet for the first time.....meet in a very PUBLIC location, not in the woods somewhere, never at their house. If you have any reservations, bring a friend. If your photographer is not creative enough to work around an escort, then they probably are not creative enough to work with in general. Epic photos are not earned on the first photo shoot.....they come after mutual trust is established. Jan 02 13 08:24 pm Link The F-Stop wrote: Really? I am a professional with a studio. What is inherently more dangerous about me than a massage therapist or a hair stylist or a sole poleprietor CPA, FFS? Would you bring an escort to see your accountant? Jan 02 13 08:35 pm Link Eyesso wrote: I've gotten "epic photos" on the first shoot many times. Perhaps because "mutual trust" was established through pre shoot and at shoot communications. And illustrated by the lack of anyone brought to threaten me. Jan 02 13 08:38 pm Link Bring an escort. Have them hang out in the neighborhood but not at the shoot. If your shooting at a house, they'll know the address. If you're shooting at a hotel, text them the room number right before you go in. If it's an "in the yellow pages" studio, you don't need an escort. How hard is this? And photographers - you have no right to say, "You don't need an escort!" Not every photographer is you. Someone might want to shoot with some guy that does photography as a hobby and has cool stuff in his port. They can take a few precautions and go shoot. Jan 02 13 08:56 pm Link sammyspade wrote: Actually, I have every right to say whatever the hell I want. Jan 02 13 09:47 pm Link Yes, I do encourage models to always bring an escort. Also, tell someone the exact location and time the shoot is. Jan 02 13 10:08 pm Link Eyesso wrote: What a bunch of White Knight tripe. Jan 02 13 10:11 pm Link Laura, You're completely within your rights to demand an escort. Photographers are also completely within their rights to move on to the next model. You can ask for just about anything, but keep in mind that you'll exclude yourself from consideration by a hefty number of photographers. We all have shoot conditions and either sticking to them or being flexible on them is our individual choice. Jan 02 13 10:18 pm Link landscapeartphotography wrote: Do they have a reason to not feel SAFE around you? Jan 02 13 10:24 pm Link landscapeartphotography wrote: If a llama wants to bring an escort there will be no shoot with her! Jan 03 13 01:41 am Link Escorts lol Jan 03 13 01:54 am Link My Take: I meet with all models in a public place when setting up the shoot for my comfort and hers. This has resulted in more comfort for both of us and I weed out the flakes and A.D.D. afflicted. I also tell them it's ok to check in every hour or so. I don't do llama herders unless you and your llama herder are willing to take me out for dinner first so I get to know him/her. I started doing that after one did take me out to dinner and I was fine with him sitting there and he stayed out of the way. I still prefer to shoot without one though most of the time. Always trust your gut feeling about someone, but if you're a fearful person this is not the industry for you. Even though the chances of being harmed or raped by a photographer are much less than it happening on a date or by your boyfriend or husband. Jan 03 13 01:55 am Link Tonic Dog Studios wrote: Oh, sure. It's just that no one should listen to you. You're like, "I have a studio! I've spent a lot on lighting! I have lenses! If that doesn't make me a personal safety expert, I don't know what does!" Jan 03 13 07:37 am Link Tonic Dog Studios wrote: No, you don't. Jan 03 13 07:44 am Link Sophistocles wrote: +1 Jan 03 13 07:52 am Link Treat a first shoot the same way that you'd treat cleaning someone's home, baby sitting, delivering a pizza etc. for the first time. As adults, we meet many people throughout our lives. Being careful, checking references etc. are the ways that we create the safest alternatives. Photo shoots are no more dangerous or safer than other pursuits in life. We can choose to be 100% safe and never do anything, or almost 100% dangerous and not be careful at all. As in most things in life, it's about moderation and middle ground. As to the idea of meeting with a model ahead of time, it's a fantastic idea, I'd like to do that everytime. The problem is that young people (most models tend to be young) don't want to take the time to do that. I've only had one model agree to meet with me ahead of time out of the 50-60 that I've done shoots with. Experienced (read professional) models never care about escorts. I bet statistics, if they existed for this, would show that those experienced models end up being safer than the beginning models who want to use escorts. Jan 03 13 08:34 am Link From MM Edu How to deal with unprofessional behavior in a professional manner You may find some of that info helpful. Jan 03 13 08:42 am Link |