Forums > Off-Topic Discussion > Views on egg/ sperm donors lol

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DaniNikole

Posts: 129

Sacramento, California, US

I was discussing how I felt this is a very kind and noble thing for someone to do with my friend earlier today and wanted some other people's opinions on the subject. Especially since most of these families look for smart yet also attractive donors so some models can put their input here as well lol.

Would you?

Feb 18 13 09:47 pm Link

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EvaScarlet

Posts: 6250

Los Angeles, California, US

I can't speak for everyone (of course) but the financial aspect is a big deal for a good number of "donors"...

I have considered egg donation on a number of occasions (though honestly, I'm not sure if my psych history would disqualify me hmm) but I have always just been too reticent...the idea of my biological child being out there somewhere (sure, I know not everyone views it that way- but I find it hard not to), not to mention the slight chance of medical complications (since I very much do want to have my own kids)...

I've had a few friends who have participated in egg donation, and their experiences were positive.

Feb 18 13 09:51 pm Link

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DaniNikole

Posts: 129

Sacramento, California, US

I have always considered doing it. I love children and am a nanny and would love knowing I gave someone the gift of starting their own family. I would never have that feeling that it was "my child" I was giving away. I think it's a great thing!

Feb 18 13 09:53 pm Link

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DaniNikole

Posts: 129

Sacramento, California, US

I could see how some would feel their spawn were put there and they didn't know where they were or what they were doing. Lol but id be comfortable with it

Feb 18 13 09:57 pm Link

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EvaScarlet

Posts: 6250

Los Angeles, California, US

Dani Nikole Feist wrote:
I have always considered doing it. I love children and am a nanny and would love knowing I gave someone the gift of starting their own family. I would never have that feeling that it was "my child" I was giving away. I think it's a great thing!

And I really think that is the perfect attitude to have! Exactly the type person who "ought to be" engaging in this...

You're a young, tall, lovely girl- I'm sure they'd be happy to have you!

(I do know that the screening process is so rigorous... There are many medical conditions/histories that can make it a no-go.)

Feb 18 13 09:58 pm Link

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EvaScarlet

Posts: 6250

Los Angeles, California, US

Oddly (or not oddly?) enough, I would much, much sooner be a surrogate than an egg donor... For now, I have to have my body un-pregnant for my acting career (plus many times there is the requirement that the surrogate have at least one healthy child of their own- I've had a pregnancy, years ago, but it ended in miscarriage sad). In the future, though, I would be interested in this. I think a really fantastic situation would be assisting a gay couple in having a baby. smile

Feb 18 13 10:01 pm Link

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DaniNikole

Posts: 129

Sacramento, California, US

EvaScarlet wrote:
You're a young, tall, lovely girl- I'm sure they'd be happy to have you!

(I do know that the screening process is so rigorous... There are many medical conditions/histories that can make it a no-go.)

Ha, perhaps I will.
Yeah it is a pretty intense background screening.

Feb 18 13 10:01 pm Link

Model

DaniNikole

Posts: 129

Sacramento, California, US

EvaScarlet wrote:
Oddly (or not oddly?) enough, I would much, much sooner be a surrogate than an egg donor... For now, I have to have my body un-pregnant for my acting career (plus many times there is the requirement that the surrogate have at least one healthy child of their own- I've had a pregnancy, years ago, but it ended in miscarriage sad). In the future, though, I would be interested in this. I think a really fantastic situation would be assisting a gay couple in having a baby. smile

Yeah to be a surrogate you have to of had at least one child which I have not. Otherwise I probably would consider that too! Lol

My best friend since third grade is gay and we made a pact in elementary school I would be his surrogate when we were adults ha! Maybe that's where my open mind about this came from! But I think a lot of people share this opinion. Or they just aren't voicing it haha

Feb 18 13 10:04 pm Link

Photographer

Cherrystone

Posts: 36710

Columbus, Ohio, US

Depends on the method of donation.

Feb 18 13 10:15 pm Link

Photographer

John M Hoyt

Posts: 347

Greenville, South Carolina, US

Small Fruit Pits wrote:
Depends on the method of donation.

Heh... The personal touch would be nice, but I'm afraid it's just a cup and a magazine for the guys wink

Feb 18 13 10:51 pm Link

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Wynd Mulysa

Posts: 8612

Berkeley, California, US

I have considered being an egg donor before.  I've heard that it's a very painful process, but the financial benefits are still a lure.  However, they are pretty strict about one's medical history and family medical history.  So I don't qualify.

A friend of mine got denied as a sperm donor because his extended family did not have the money to see doctors regularly and he could not provide adequate medical history for them.

Seems kind of discriminatory.  They only want young attractive people with healthy, wealthy backgrounds.

Feb 18 13 10:56 pm Link

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Wynd Mulysa

Posts: 8612

Berkeley, California, US

John M Hoyt wrote:

Heh... The personal touch would be nice, but I'm afraid it's just a cup and a magazine for the guys wink

These days one could probably bring their smart phone in and mutually masturbate with a lover or something.

Feb 18 13 11:00 pm Link

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John M Hoyt

Posts: 347

Greenville, South Carolina, US

Wynd Mulysa wrote:
These days one could probably bring their smart phone in and mutually masturbate with a lover or something.

From the wiki:
A man donates sperm at a clinic or sperm bank by way of masturbation in a private room or cabin, known as a 'men's production room' (UK), 'donor cabin' (DK) or a masturbatorium (USA). Many of these facilities contain pornography such as videos/DVD, magazines, and/or photographs which may assist the donor in becoming stimulated in order to facilitate production of the ejaculate, also known as the 'semen sample'. In some circumstances, it may also be possible for donors to ejaculate during sexual intercourse, and use a condom to collect the sperm.

Okay... So there is a "masturbatorium" hahah. Do you think there is a plaque on the door that says that?

Secondly....   That last option sounds not so bad. Wonder if a partner is provided, or if it is strictly BYOB.

Feb 18 13 11:18 pm Link

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Wynd Mulysa

Posts: 8612

Berkeley, California, US

John M Hoyt wrote:

From the wiki:
A man donates sperm at a clinic or sperm bank by way of masturbation in a private room or cabin, known as a 'men's production room' (UK), 'donor cabin' (DK) or a masturbatorium (USA). Many of these facilities contain pornography such as videos/DVD, magazines, and/or photographs which may assist the donor in becoming stimulated in order to facilitate production of the ejaculate, also known as the 'semen sample'. In some circumstances, it may also be possible for donors to ejaculate during sexual intercourse, and use a condom to collect the sperm.

Okay... So there is a "masturbatorium" hahah. Do you think there is a plaque on the door that says that?

Secondly....   That last option sounds not so bad. Wonder if a partner is provided, or if it is strictly BYOB.

byo.. what?

Feb 18 13 11:28 pm Link

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DaniNikole

Posts: 129

Sacramento, California, US

I wish I had a brother. I would so put a sign on his door that said "masturbatorium"

Feb 18 13 11:44 pm Link

Photographer

John M Hoyt

Posts: 347

Greenville, South Carolina, US

Wynd Mulysa wrote:
byo.. what?

Babe?
Boy?
Bro?

Feb 18 13 11:46 pm Link

Photographer

John M Hoyt

Posts: 347

Greenville, South Carolina, US

Dani Nikole Feist wrote:
I wish I had a brother. I would so put a sign on his door that said "masturbatorium"

Hahahahaha

Feb 18 13 11:46 pm Link

Photographer

What Fun Productions

Posts: 20192

Phoenix, Arizona, US

A sperm bank is the only bank where after you make a deposit, you lose interest.

Feb 19 13 08:04 am Link

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Anna Adrielle

Posts: 18763

Antwerp, Antwerp, Belgium

well in my country, eggcel donation doesn't pay. You get paid for your expenses made (like transportation cost, for instance), but that's it.

I would never sell my eggs just for money, but harvesting eggs for donation is a very tiring process, with lots of medical investigations and hormones you have to take. So I would never do it unless it is for someone I know and that I'm willing to go through all that trouble for...

Feb 19 13 08:35 am Link

Artist/Painter

Two Pears Studio

Posts: 3400

Wilmington, Delaware, US

I could not imagine doing it. I have no opinion about others doing it, but for me it is not something I could do.

Feb 19 13 08:37 am Link

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Jules NYC

Posts: 16234

New York, New York, US

NO

a million times
*lol*
a very serious topic

Feb 19 13 09:12 am Link

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Kincaid Blackwood

Posts: 23406

Atlanta, Georgia, US

I've considered it. Even read up on it.

I couldn't get past the notion of having some kid out there to whom I'd potentially given all of my qualities but no contact with him or her to watch those qualities take root and flourish. I don't know what the amount of money is to make me accept that (I mean, we all have a price) but whatever amount it was I found in my research wasn't enough.

Feb 19 13 09:36 am Link

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Cait Chan

Posts: 6272

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US

Kincaid Blackwood wrote:
I've considered it. Even read up on it.

I couldn't get past the notion of having some kid out there to whom I'd potentially given all of my qualities but no contact with him or her to watch those qualities take root and flourish. I don't know what the amount of money is to make me accept that (I mean, we all have a price) but whatever amount it was I found in my research wasn't enough.

I feel the EXACT same way.

I would be giving away a part of my heart I feel.

Feb 19 13 10:14 am Link

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DaniNikole

Posts: 129

Sacramento, California, US

Kincaid Blackwood wrote:
I've considered it. Even read up on it.

I couldn't get past the notion of having some kid out there to whom I'd potentially given all of my qualities but no contact with him or her to watch those qualities take root and flourish. I don't know what the amount of money is to make me accept that (I mean, we all have a price) but whatever amount it was I found in my research wasn't enough.

I completely see how some people see it this way. I just don't feel it would be "my" child. It would be similar to if I gave away a body part like a kidney or something. Like its a part of myself but something someone could use and benefit from that I'm not using or would miss. However I don't feel I could give away a child for adoption, that would be "my" child.

Feb 19 13 11:05 am Link