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Mad Hatter Imagery

Posts: 1325

Buffalo, New York, US

tonyfromsyracuse wrote:
so women get despondant when their looks fall, and their men cheat on them.
its just what guys do. all of them. the ones that arent...arent good looking.

I might be willing to agree with this one statement of yours, and hope that many hot women are listening. lol.

May 06 13 08:43 pm Link

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Big A-Larger Than Life

Posts: 33411

The Woodlands, Texas, US

Mad Hatter Imagery wrote:

I might be willing to agree with this one statement of yours, and hope that many hot women are listening. lol.

Oh we are.  Prenups can even be pink and scented now.  cool

May 06 13 08:54 pm Link

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Jules NYC

Posts: 16229

New York, New York, US

Mad Hatter Imagery wrote:

Well gosh, I thought we was friends. lol. And I was hoping most people would take a more insightful approach to answering the question. It isn't about me so much as to determine how much of as asshole a guy can be to be rejected versus how awesome a guy needs to be to overcome the worth case scenerios. I'd like to think a guy doesn't need to be too amazing to compensate for some shortcomings versus the opposite of only being a slight asshole despite having all that and a bag of chips. I'd like to think all is fairly moderate. And you're right about MM being too unscientific a place to ask these questions which I'm sure all single guys and girls think about when they determine their own value.

I am just telling you straight up you're playing the same card twice.

Why is the sky blue?
I liked that question.

Why are people insane?
I don't like this question.

May 06 13 10:32 pm Link

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Mad Hatter Imagery

Posts: 1325

Buffalo, New York, US

Jules NYC wrote:
I am just telling you straight up you're playing the same card twice.

Why is the sky blue?
I liked that question.

Why are people insane?
I don't like this question.

When did I ask why people are insane? And I thought a question on color might be appropriate for photographers, but it didn't seem anyone else had heard anything along similar lines about the true color of the sky.

May 06 13 10:41 pm Link

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Jules NYC

Posts: 16229

New York, New York, US

Mad Hatter Imagery wrote:

When did I ask why people are insane? And I thought a question on color might be appropriate for photographers, but it didn't seem anyone else had heard anything along similar lines about the true color of the sky.

That is my way of saying why do people make bad choices?
Who knows and who cares.

May 06 13 10:56 pm Link

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Mad Hatter Imagery

Posts: 1325

Buffalo, New York, US

Jules NYC wrote:

That is my way of saying why do people make bad choices?
Who knows and who cares.

If nobody cares than the world can never change for the better. Men will continue hitting women, races around the world be very much as Russell Peters suggests, and the rich will continue to try and succeed to influence politics. The worst people are those that see bad happen and do nothing. smile

May 07 13 11:03 am Link

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Music N Pics

Posts: 352

San Diego, California, US

People are going to be with whoever sparks their interest. I been with females I have no business or have anything in common with and wasted my time with them for about half a year, and I dont regret it.

I think if you show up and pop up where youre suppose to be youll be surprise what can happen..

May 07 13 11:22 am Link

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Carl Roberts

Posts: 32967

Saint Petersburg, Florida, US

Big A-Larger Than Life wrote:
You have much to learn about the territory north of the vajayjay, kind sir.

That's like Australia...

You know it's there...

But don't really care about it

May 07 13 12:22 pm Link

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Natalia_Taffarel

Posts: 7665

Buenos Aires, Buenos Aires, Argentina

Mad Hatter Imagery wrote:
It isn't about me

It is tho... you and your prejudices about people and behavior.

You run under assumptions like "hot woman look for money" "bad looking people are riskier in bed" "Boring people in bed don't cheat"

I don't know where you get this things from but it makes you look like a complete ignorant superficial idiot.

May 07 13 01:08 pm Link

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Chris Rifkin

Posts: 24637

Tampa, Florida, US

Natalia_Taffarel wrote:

It is tho... you and your prejudices about people and behavior.

You run under assumptions like "hot woman look for money" "bad looking people are riskier in bed" "Boring people in bed don't cheat"

I don't know where you get this things from but it makes you look like a complete ignorant superficial idiot.

I don't quite know about superficial,though I think there is a bit of truth here,but the general theme of his posts seem to center about his apparent male pattern baldness and being somewhat oveweight,not making a lot of money...and complaining about why women don't look at him...
Of course I'm not to speak as I have my own issues meeting women,but at least I amd making a vailent attempt to fix the things in my life that I feel could hold me back,whether is my appearene
By being a psycho in the gym,my mental state by spending $150 a week talking to a therapis and listening to self help books....
I am always one to preach that one should never lower their standards as the person doing this will never be happy if they find someone doing this,however,if you don't take the steps in making yourself more desireable in ways you can...then...if you are going to be a shlub working menial
Jobs and not try to better yourself,you reap what you sew and you should not expect a 9 if
you are content with being a 4 or 5 yourself....
And making constant posts about this weekly is not ever going to change things

May 07 13 01:31 pm Link

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Mad Hatter Imagery

Posts: 1325

Buffalo, New York, US

Natalia_Taffarel wrote:

It is tho... you and your prejudices about people and behavior.

You run under assumptions like "hot woman look for money" "bad looking people are riskier in bed" "Boring people in bed don't cheat"

I don't know where you get this things from but it makes you look like a complete ignorant superficial idiot.

Well if I am than I am in the right place. smile

May 07 13 01:57 pm Link

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Jason Haven

Posts: 38336

Washington, District of Columbia, US

It's all about charm and honesty, in my book. If you have those two, you'll do well for yourself no matter what.

May 07 13 02:49 pm Link

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Eastfist

Posts: 3544

Green Bay, Wisconsin, US

All good things come naturally. That's my personal belief.

May 07 13 03:06 pm Link

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Jules NYC

Posts: 16229

New York, New York, US

Mad Hatter Imagery wrote:
Well if I am than I am in the right place. smile

Not all people in this industry are superficial.
Most are very creative, beautiful people.

Don't judge a book by its cover.

PS., opportunists come in all shapes and sizes, and are not privy to gender, intelligence or level of attractiveness.

There are desirable and undesirable traits in people.
We all have our own reasons for what we deem attractive, inside and out.

I like this site and I don't believe everyone is a superficial asshole on it.
You ultimately attract what you want.

If you want someone emotionally healthy, attractive, kind and goodlooking and you equate to those traits, you will get exactly that.

Usually people seek their equal.

May 07 13 03:22 pm Link

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Chris Rifkin

Posts: 24637

Tampa, Florida, US

Somebodu needs a severe dose of Leykus 101

May 07 13 03:26 pm Link

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Jules NYC

Posts: 16229

New York, New York, US

Chris Rifkin wrote:
Somebodu needs a severe dose of Leykus 101

lol

May 07 13 03:34 pm Link

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Jules NYC

Posts: 16229

New York, New York, US

Mad Hatter Imagery wrote:

If nobody cares than the world can never change for the better. Men will continue hitting women, races around the world be very much as Russell Peters suggests, and the rich will continue to try and succeed to influence politics. The worst people are those that see bad happen and do nothing. smile

... and you want to make these changes in a MM thread?

How about volunteering at a domestic abuse shelter...
Getting involved in your community with town legislature...

All of us superficial people here lurking around on MM threads are only looking for hot bitches and rich assholes.

May 07 13 03:41 pm Link

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amb300

Posts: 218

Murfreesboro, Tennessee, US

May 07 13 03:53 pm Link

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Mad Hatter Imagery

Posts: 1325

Buffalo, New York, US

Jules NYC wrote:

Not all people in this industry are superficial.
Most are very creative, beautiful people.

Don't judge a book by its cover.

PS., opportunists come in all shapes and sizes, and are not privy to gender, intelligence or level of attractiveness.

There are desirable and undesirable traits in people.
We all have our own reasons for what we deem attractive, inside and out.

I like this site and I don't believe everyone is a superficial asshole on it.
You ultimately attract what you want.

If you want someone emotionally healthy, attractive, kind and goodlooking and you equate to those traits, you will get exactly that.

Usually people seek their equal.

You're asking me not to judge a book by its cover meanwhile the commentor hasn't even see a cover.

May 07 13 04:10 pm Link

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Mad Hatter Imagery

Posts: 1325

Buffalo, New York, US

amb300 wrote:
It definitely isn't looks, I am well above average in that department, and I don't date. Generally I don't have an interest in it, though. A lot of women at my college are interested in me until I give them lukewarm replies, not being mean, just I have a lot of things to do more important than dating. It also seems like there is a lot of BS attached to dating, and I can't pretend I care, and make small talk or whatever.

I am not sure what this proves. Ugly guys wish they could date more and gorgous guys like yourself have no interest in it. Sounds like the free market we've all come to expect.

May 07 13 04:13 pm Link

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Jules NYC

Posts: 16229

New York, New York, US

Mad Hatter Imagery wrote:

You're asking me not to judge a book by its cover meanwhile the commentor hasn't even see a cover.

Don't know what you mean here.

May 07 13 04:14 pm Link

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Chris Rifkin

Posts: 24637

Tampa, Florida, US

banghead

May 07 13 04:28 pm Link

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Orca Bay Images

Posts: 32233

Lodi, California, US

Chris Rifkin wrote:
banghead

You have finally reached the state of enlightenment, Grasshopper.

May 07 13 04:44 pm Link

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Christopher Carter

Posts: 7688

Indianapolis, Indiana, US

Buy a sports car, or motorcycle.

May 07 13 05:04 pm Link

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Orca Bay Images

Posts: 32233

Lodi, California, US

Mnemosyne Photography wrote:
Buy a sports car, or motorcycle.

Stuffing a salami down his pants would be cheaper.

May 07 13 05:09 pm Link

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my_other_profile

Posts: 666

Ankeny, Iowa, US

My "maybe there's a sociopath in this thread" senses are tingling.

May 07 13 05:13 pm Link

guide forum

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Damianne

Posts: 15975

Austin, Texas, US

You're the passerby when my loved one has been shot.
Honestly you just gotta find someone to whom you are a doctor, and if you can't, go back to school until you know how to operate on a bullet wound.

This whole thread feels like "but really, isn't it that people should have fewer needs in a partner, and I'm actually alright for not being useful to anyone?"

May 07 13 05:17 pm Link

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Christopher Carter

Posts: 7688

Indianapolis, Indiana, US

Orca Bay Images wrote:
Stuffing a salami down his pants would be cheaper.

Yeah, but WAY less manly.

Maybe a Japanese sports car?

May 07 13 05:17 pm Link

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Orca Bay Images

Posts: 32233

Lodi, California, US

Mnemosyne Photography wrote:

Yeah, but WAY less manly.

Maybe a Japanese sports car?

When things get tough, you can't eat a carburetor.

May 07 13 05:18 pm Link

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my_other_profile

Posts: 666

Ankeny, Iowa, US

amb300 wrote:
It definitely isn't looks, I am well above average in that department, and I don't date. Generally I don't have an interest in it, though. A lot of women at my college are interested in me until I give them lukewarm replies, not being mean, just I have a lot of things to do more important than dating. It also seems like there is a lot of BS attached to dating, and I can't pretend I care, and make small talk or whatever.

I keep coming back to this.
Quoted for later reference.

May 07 13 05:38 pm Link

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DivaEroticus

Posts: 14715

Fayetteville, Arkansas, US

amb300 wrote:
It definitely isn't looks, I am well above average in that department, and I don't date. Generally I don't have an interest in it, though. A lot of women at my college are interested in me until I give them lukewarm replies, not being mean, just I have a lot of things to do more important than dating. It also seems like there is a lot of BS attached to dating, and I can't pretend I care, and make small talk or whatever.

QFLulz.

May 07 13 05:40 pm Link

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Chris Rifkin

Posts: 24637

Tampa, Florida, US

Some people go to Walmart to make themselves feel better about themselves
Some people read threads started by certain people to feel better about themselves
I sure as hell am not at a walmart,and I feel better about myself

May 07 13 05:40 pm Link

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Jules NYC

Posts: 16229

New York, New York, US

Chris Rifkin wrote:
Some people go to Walmart to make themselves feel better about themselves
Some people read threads started by certain people to feel better about themselves
I sure as hell am not at a walmart,and I feel better about myself

Take Chris on a date to Walmart and buy him a hotdog.
He will swoon


lol

May 07 13 05:43 pm Link

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Chris Rifkin

Posts: 24637

Tampa, Florida, US

Orca Bay Images wrote:

When things get tough, you can't eat a carburetor.

Maybe with a little mustard

May 07 13 05:43 pm Link

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Jules NYC

Posts: 16229

New York, New York, US

Chris Rifkin wrote:

Maybe with a little mustard

lol

May 07 13 05:45 pm Link

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amb300

Posts: 218

Murfreesboro, Tennessee, US

May 07 13 06:01 pm Link

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SPRINGHEEL

Posts: 38195

Gibraltar, Michigan, US

http://i98.photobucket.com/albums/l249/SPRINGHEEL69/go-home-sloth-youre-drunk-45130_zps7d224ecd.gif

May 07 13 06:13 pm Link

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California Girls Skate

Posts: 343

Los Angeles, California, US

Big A-Larger Than Life wrote:
You make it sound like we should just off ourselves when the Botox is no longer powerful enough to make every dick want to snuggle in our pockets anymore.  Because that's the whole worth and meaning of life for girls, right?  If we're not full of dicks every day, our entire life is unfulfilled?

neutral Sometimes I forget how fabulous you are... then I read something like this.

May 07 13 06:14 pm Link

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Jules NYC

Posts: 16229

New York, New York, US

SPRINGHEEL  wrote:
http://i98.photobucket.com/albums/l249/SPRINGHEEL69/go-home-sloth-youre-drunk-45130_zps7d224ecd.gif

lol

May 07 13 06:18 pm Link

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Chris Rifkin

Posts: 24637

Tampa, Florida, US

This thread just turned the corner and went directly into that bizzaro world that makes me love these forums so much

May 07 13 06:45 pm Link