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Photographybyjared

Posts: 4

Chicago, Illinois, US

Oaky it seams there is a photographer out there that wants to do Artistic nudity but they want the male and female to have sexual contact (told them everything but actual sex) during the shoot.  The models don't like this but are playing along for now but trying to get it understood they wont be doing that.  Now there is other ways to achieve the desired look I think the guys trying for.  Does this sound at even all right to any body because to me it sounds like soft core porn?

Jan 31 15 07:10 pm Link

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Leonard Gee Photography

Posts: 18096

Sacramento, California, US

Photographybyjared wrote:
wants to do Artistic nudity but they want the male and female to have sexual contact (told them everything but actual sex) during the shoot.

bill clinton? define: sexual contact

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Jan 31 15 07:18 pm Link

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Viator Defessus Photos

Posts: 1259

Houston, Texas, US

Photographybyjared wrote:
Oaky it seams there is a photographer out there that wants to do Artistic nudity but they want the male and female to have sexual contact (told them everything but actual sex) during the shoot.  The models don't like this but are playing along for now but trying to get it understood they wont be doing that.  Now there is other ways to achieve the desired look I think the guys trying for.  Does this sound at even all right to any body because to me it sounds like soft core porn?

I'm confused as to how you become involved in this. Why are these models coming to you asking you questions about what this other guy who you presumably know nothing about is doing?

Since we're getting this as a 3rd hand, he-said-she-said-he-said situation its hard to say anything about what this guy is actually doing or trying to accomplish. There's no way of knowing what's been lost in translation and repetition.

Jan 31 15 07:35 pm Link

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DOUGLASFOTOS

Posts: 10604

Los Angeles, California, US

You Better Call Saul!

Jan 31 15 07:39 pm Link

Photographer

- Phil H -

Posts: 26552

Mildenhall, England, United Kingdom

Moderator Note!

Photographybyjared wrote:
Oaky it seams there is a photographer out there that wants to do Artistic nudity but they want the male and female to have sexual contact (told them everything but actual sex) during the shoot.  The models don't like this but are playing along for now but trying to get it understood they wont be doing that.  Now there is other ways to achieve the desired look I think the guys trying for.  Does this sound at even all right to any body because to me it sounds like soft core porn?

If the model(s) were initially contacted via MM, have them contact the mods here on MM (https://www.modelmayhem.com/contactamod) and have a chat with them. Soliciting talent to shoot sexual content would almost certainly be considered a violation of MM's "No Adult Networking" and be actionable by the Mods.

That's a likely a far better course of action for them to take, than to have you debate the matter here in the forums.

Jan 31 15 08:23 pm Link

Photographer

Photographybyjared

Posts: 4

Chicago, Illinois, US

I just thought it was off to ask and odd for somone to do a shoot that way so I figured I'd ask some ppl who have seen more then me.  I was going to tell him and her not to do it that way and if the photog has an issue with it then they clearly dont need to shoot with that dude.

Yeah I was asked if that is normal for any types of artisitic nudity and I was like does not sound artistic to me even if he is trying to capture a sexual chemistry and sexual energy did not sound right to me.

Feb 01 15 03:54 am Link

Photographer

Mark Salo

Posts: 11723

Olney, Maryland, US

Photographybyjared wrote:
The models don't like this but are playing along for now but trying to get it understood they wont be doing that.

Everything about this sounds so sketchy.

Feb 01 15 01:00 pm Link

Model

Josie Lee

Posts: 768

San Diego, California, US

Photographybyjared wrote:
I just thought it was off to ask and odd for somone to do a shoot that way so I figured I'd ask some ppl who have seen more then me.  I was going to tell him and her not to do it that way and if the photog has an issue with it then they clearly dont need to shoot with that dude.

Yeah I was asked if that is normal for any types of artisitic nudity and I was like does not sound artistic to me even if he is trying to capture a sexual chemistry and sexual energy did not sound right to me.

Red flags

There are so many photographers out there who can do enticing shots with
that kind of sensual energy. They don't need to shoot with that guy. He wants
to shoot soft core. Or something too close to it. Shots like that never
benefit the model.

Feb 01 15 01:20 pm Link

Photographer

Fleming Design

Posts: 1380

East Hartford, Connecticut, US

Jared,
Are the two models the same models who pose together in your portfolio?  The other photographer may just want them to look more alive, more passionate, more connected than in your photos.  Beautiful shots of couples intertwined in some manner doesn't mean it is soft core porn any more than a couple dancing together nude would be.

Feb 01 15 01:36 pm Link

Photographer

Lallure Photographic

Posts: 2086

Taylors, South Carolina, US

Don't assume until you know more details, than you have shared in your question.

Feb 01 15 02:03 pm Link

Photographer

toesup

Posts: 1240

Grand Junction, Colorado, US

The models need to get the photographer to define, in more detail, exactly what he (or she) is trying to achieve in the pictures..

I worked with a female and male model a couple of years ago, Aleksa and Aleksandr, where I wanted them to look as if they were in the process of sexual contact, but with careful positioning, of them, the camera and lighting, virtually nothing would be showing..
Seeing as both models were from the Ukraine and I'm a Brit, we had to have a LONG and DETAILED, difficult discussion prior to the shoot (and during, showing them the results) explaining that NO actual sexual contact would be required... only 'as if' they were in the process of making love.
I (and they) think we achieved the results we all had in mind without showing any 'naughty bits' whatsoever and several of the shots from the shoot are on my portfolio.

As others have said, done correctly, shots like this CAN be beautiful.. Done incorrectly, they descend in to porn..

Feb 02 15 10:45 am Link

Model

Dea and the Beast

Posts: 4796

Saint Petersburg, Florida, US

Photographybyjared wrote:
Oaky it seams there is a photographer out there that wants to do Artistic nudity but they want the male and female to have sexual contact (told them everything but actual sex) during the shoot.  The models don't like this but are playing along for now but trying to get it understood they wont be doing that.  Now there is other ways to achieve the desired look I think the guys trying for.  Does this sound at even all right to any body because to me it sounds like soft core porn?

There's a big difference between Intimate contact and Sexual contact.

I'm here looking like sexy stuff is going on with the males, but actually not even our party bits were anywhere near each other's bikini zones. It was still intimate touch.. Knowmean?

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https://www.modelmayhem.com/portfolio/pic/29576724

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https://www.modelmayhem.com/portfolio/pic/31193081

Feb 02 15 11:33 am Link

Photographer

DougBPhoto

Posts: 39248

Portland, Oregon, US

Amadea T wrote:
There's a big difference between Intimate contact and Sexual contact.

I'm here looking like sexy stuff is going on with the males, but actually not even our party bits were anywhere near each other's bikini zones. It was still intimate touch.. Knowmean?

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https://www.modelmayhem.com/portfolio/pic/29576724

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https://www.modelmayhem.com/portfolio/pic/31193081

Exactly what I was thinking.

As the OP described it, I can imagine something totally inappropriate (and against MM's rules) yet at the same time I can ALSO imagine someone being very inarticulate with language and meaning things/work like Amadea linked.

Potentially even more intimate and erotic, what some may call "sexual" but not actually meaning simulating sex, but even then there is art and there is non-art.

Too many people confusing assumptions for facts.  It may be as "porny" as it sounds but it also might not be, especially having an outside, third-party telling us the story.

Knee-jerk, jump to conclusions and quickly pulling the trigger really does not benefit any of us in the long run, except that we seem to be eager for opportunities to rush to grab pitchforks and tar.

Feb 02 15 11:44 am Link

Photographer

Good Egg Productions

Posts: 16713

Orlando, Florida, US

Josie Lee wrote:

Red flags

There are so many photographers out there who can do enticing shots with
that kind of sensual energy. They don't need to shoot with that guy. He wants
to shoot soft core. Or something too close to it. Shots like that never
benefit the model.

Of course they can.  If the benefit is a big wad of cash for the shoot.

This is at best, 3rd party information as filtered through a different 3rd party.  This shoot COULD be creepy softcore porn for personal spankbank material or even for sale on hundreds of websites.  OR, it could be very artistic, gallery level images that a model would be absolutely proud to be a part of.  Or anything in between.

Unless this photographer is directly involved in the shoot, it's probably best to stay out of it.  This is a negotiation between the photographer and the models.  If they can't come to an agreement, then it's on them to not participate.

Feb 02 15 01:56 pm Link