Speaking as a male model,  I have also had some comments from photographers that made me wince.  But I think I've found so far it's not what they say as how they say it that matters most...

If a photog is respectful, courteous and explains why he wants me to do "x, y and z" then not only am I more likely to agree to do it but I will be happier doing it as well.

Just good manners I guess

not all masters of light are the masters of words.
but I know for sure, ALL masters of words are CREEPY -- check any Nobel laureate of literature

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_N … Literature

for example, it's totally possible read aloud ANY religious book... shamefully to the extreme (INTONATIONS!), full excess. examples? look at youtube videos...

plus, English language is wide-spread, but has LOCAL nuances and differences, not just dialects  (IMPORTANT!).

or your original question inherently US-centric? if so, it's creepy

jk

I've had a photographer who wasn't creepy with what he said, but he'd breathe heavily (as one does when pleasuring oneself) every time we'd shoot something, and that made me feel uncomfortable.