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Matty272
Posts: 217
Dunfermline, Scotland, United Kingdom


Jojo West wrote:

That would be like the opening line to a great joke. smile

"A Scotsman and a Brit walk into a pub..."

Not to take this into politics, but........

If that idiot Salmond gets his way, this will be true!

Dec 23 12 02:34 am  Link  Quote 
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Matty272
Posts: 217
Dunfermline, Scotland, United Kingdom


P.S. Bump!
Dec 23 12 02:34 am  Link  Quote 
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Olivia Cheyenna
Posts: 1
New York, New York, US


A  M E N.
Jan 07 13 06:25 pm  Link  Quote 
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Buh bye
Posts: 14
Lowell, Massachusetts, US


I stumbled upon this thread after dealing with the same issue. A family member I barely speak to had the gall to tell me that my modelling is not appropriate (I wasn't nude hmm I was in a bikini top with shorts) and went off on me. Told me that 'HER' family wouldn't approve of my work and that I need to take it down. She than reported me to facebook for sexual violations.

Oyee..

So I guess now I'll have to watch out for HER family calling me a sleazy whore because I posted some of my latest shoot on facebook. (And I KNOW they will. They've done it before hmm)
Jan 29 14 11:34 am  Link  Quote 
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R Byron Johnson
Posts: 767
Norman, Oklahoma, US


CAJPhoto wrote:
The wish list on your portfolio....uh, is this a common thing for models to do?

Yes, and why not?  If people were willing to buy me stuff, I'd do it too.

Jan 29 14 12:05 pm  Link  Quote 
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R Byron Johnson
Posts: 767
Norman, Oklahoma, US


Some people, particularly men, are still caught up in that outdated idea that only the one you love should ever see you naked.

Though photographers do sometimes face similar issues.  I'm newly single now and I always get nervous telling women I date about what I do out of concern for their reaction.  Like they'll think I'm just some perv who takes nekkid pics of chicks to whack off too or something.  For that reason, I try to date within artistic circles, because artists tend to get it more than the average person does.
Jan 29 14 12:10 pm  Link  Quote 
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Eleanor Rose
Posts: 2,241
San Francisco, California, US


I'd like to send a thank you and a big hug to the OP. I found this thread three or so years ago and it's a big contributor to my still being around here.
Jan 29 14 01:25 pm  Link  Quote 
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Patrick Walberg
Posts: 42,464
Salinas, California, US


Eleanor R wrote:
I'd like to send a thank you and a big hug to the OP. I found this thread three or so years ago and it's a big contributor to my still being around here.

Haahaa .. this certainly is one of those threads that keeps going and going!  I do think it is a very important message though.

Jan 29 14 03:17 pm  Link  Quote 
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Bravoscape
Posts: 259
Frederick, Maryland, US


Daniela Victoria wrote:
Nude modeling.
Glamour modeling.
Art modeling.
Showing any skin whatsoever....

Countless threads on "my family/boyfriend/husband/girlfriend doesn't approve and it hurts...what do I do?"

Has anyone ever thought to say to that person or those people that it's THEM disappointing YOU and not the other way around?

Why is it that people in our lives feel that it's simply perfect for them to tell us how we should conduct our modeling (i.e. nudes and not doing nudes) and it's not OK for us to be upset with them? Why do THEY get to be upset with US but we don't get to be upset and disappointed at how close minded they are?

Folks- if there is a person in your life, or people that say they can't handle your modeling (Esp. for you nude models out there) then express to them that you are hurt by that and move on. )Put it on them. Don't sit there and say "how do I handle this because my so-and-so doesn't approve", but instead say to that so-and-so that YOU don't approve of THEIR negativity toward modeling nude or just modeling in general.

I'm disappointed in those that are close to models and don't support them. I think it's bullshit. I think it's the models that should be upset and not their family or friends or significant others.

I'm just tired of these threads.

You don't approve of my modeling? I don't approve of you.
It's YOU disappointing ME.

Try that next time someone gives you crap. That doesn't work? Walk away.

/rant.

Well said.

Jan 29 14 06:41 pm  Link  Quote 
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