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The Silencing Machine
Posts: 15759
South Amboy, New Jersey, US
Sheng Her wrote:
*grins* But I don't have a problem with his penis size. =P Pretend.
Guys have a lot of pride, especially when it comes to your junk. You need to learn to crush it it your fist.
His pride, not his junk.
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Sheng Her
Posts: 712
La Crosse, Wisconsin, US
MYS Britt wrote:
Hmm, he is not a grown Man
hope he grows up for ya - he needs educating big time That makes me feel like I should flaunt my little boobies at his friends 'cause they seem to like me just fine. Maybe that'll make him shut up. xD
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Sheng Her
Posts: 712
La Crosse, Wisconsin, US
The Silencing Machine wrote:
Pretend.
Guys have a lot of pride, especially when it comes to your junk. You need to learn to crush it it your fist.
His pride, not his junk. Ahhh...I see. *laughs*
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The Silencing Machine
Posts: 15759
South Amboy, New Jersey, US
Sheng Her wrote:
That makes me feel like I should flaunt my little boobies at his friends 'cause they seem to like me just fine. Maybe that'll make him shut up. xD That or you need to work on your confidence.
Look, i am 5 months pregnant, I have stretch marks, my boobs have veins in them, my ass is like, hanging down to my knees, and my belly button is starting to pop out and I still flaunt myself in a bikini at the beach like I am the hottest thing to ever grace the boardwalk.
And if people don't like it, look in the other direction.
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MYS Britt
Posts: 10720
San Diego, California, US
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Sheng Her
Posts: 712
La Crosse, Wisconsin, US
The Silencing Machine wrote:
That or you need to work on your confidence.
Look, i am 5 months pregnant, I have stretch marks, my boobs have veins in them, my ass is like, hanging down to my knees, and my belly button is starting to pop out and I still flaunt myself in a bikini at the beach like I am the hottest thing to ever grace the boardwalk.
And if people don't like it, look in the other direction. WOW! I wish I could've done that when I was 5 months preggo. Well, my mother-in-law told me that it was disgraceful to show off my protruding belly so she made me cover it up. *shrugs* Elders, y'know? I'll work on my confidence, and you guys are definitely helping. 
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The Silencing Machine
Posts: 15759
South Amboy, New Jersey, US
Sheng Her wrote:
WOW! I wish I could've done that when I was 5 months preggo. Well, my mother-in-law told me that it was disgraceful to show off my protruding belly so she made me cover it up. *shrugs* Elders, y'know? I'll work on my confidence, and you guys are definitely helping. Confidence is something you have to teach yourself. I've found myself coming up the past couple of years. I think I am better looking now pregnant than I did when I wasn't. I just want my old boobs back 
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Sheng Her
Posts: 712
La Crosse, Wisconsin, US
The Silencing Machine wrote:
Confidence is something you have to teach yourself. I've found myself coming up the past couple of years. I think I am better looking now pregnant than I did when I wasn't. I just want my old boobs back Lol. I guess. It's rather hard when my husband is always checking out other girls with huge boobs. But I'm sure you look gorgeous. I like that glowing look we get when we're pregnant.
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MLoveStudio Photography
Posts: 3101
Los Angeles, California, US
Sheng Her wrote:
Lol. I guess. It's rather hard when my husband is always checking out other girls with huge boobs. But I'm sure you look gorgeous. I like that glowing look we get when we're pregnant. You're gorgeous the way you are! I'm sorry to hear your man is looking at you just as something to be eye candy...You are more than just your body...and your body is dope! Don't any man take that from you.
Self confidence is the most sexy and attractive thing a person can have so flaunt what you have in confidence and he will catch on.... You should sit him down and tell him his words are hurting you and to stop the verbal abuse. You are gorgeous baby!
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MLoveStudio Photography
Posts: 3101
Los Angeles, California, US
Sheng Her wrote:
Does Tila Tequila have implants? oh and...who cares?....
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Sheng Her
Posts: 712
La Crosse, Wisconsin, US
MLoveStudio wrote:
You're gorgeous the way you are! I'm sorry to hear your man is looking at you just as something to be eye candy...You are more than just your body...and your body is dope! Don't any man take that from you.
Self confidence is the most sexy and attractive thing a person can have so flaunt what you have in confidence and he will catch on.... You should sit him down and tell him his words are hurting you and to stop the verbal abuse. You are gorgeous baby! I'll tell him it hurts me and he'll shrug it off or laugh about it. Guess I'll just have to do what I do.
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Sheng Her
Posts: 712
La Crosse, Wisconsin, US
MLoveStudio wrote:
oh and...who cares?.... A lot of people mentioned how Asian models with huge boobs don't look all too attractive and since Tila seems to have big boobs....don't people find her attractive?
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MLoveStudio Photography
Posts: 3101
Los Angeles, California, US
Sheng Her wrote:
A lot of people mentioned how Asian models with huge boobs don't look all too attractive and since Tila seems to have big boobs....don't people find her attractive? She may be pretty to some on the outside but when she speaks alot of people are turned off...looks get you in the door but intellect keeps them wanting more...
Confidence and intellect goes a loooooooong way
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The Silencing Machine
Posts: 15759
South Amboy, New Jersey, US
Sheng Her wrote:
Lol. I guess. It's rather hard when my husband is always checking out other girls with huge boobs. But I'm sure you look gorgeous. I like that glowing look we get when we're pregnant. I really am average looking.
Men are men, shit, even I check out women with huge boobs.
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LeDeux Art
Posts: 50123
San Ramon, California, US
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MLoveStudio Photography
Posts: 3101
Los Angeles, California, US
Sheng Her wrote:
I'll tell him it hurts me and he'll shrug it off or laugh about it. Guess I'll just have to do what I do. wow. He needs to man up and stop acting like a child. Your baby will catch on to it and male or female it isn't a respectful manner to you as the mother of his children.
Just be happy with you and tell him if he must make rude comments to keep them to himself or at least away from the babies...
Know there are millions who absolutely prefer a woman with confidence in her God given body than those who conformed to what media likes.... I have evidence 
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Sheng Her
Posts: 712
La Crosse, Wisconsin, US
MLoveStudio wrote:
wow. He needs to man up and stop acting like a child. Your baby will catch on to it and male or female it isn't a respectful manner to you as the mother of his children.
Just be happy with you and tell him if he must make rude comments to keep them to himself or at least away from the babies...
Know there are millions who absolutely prefer a woman with confidence in her God given body than those who conformed to what media likes.... I have evidence I did what you guys said. Told my husband that it was mean and I didn't like how he was saying that he didn't like my body. At first he demanded to know who was telling me to say these things to him, then he laughed and said that it didn't matter. I made fun of his junk and he just shrugged and said, yeah, okay, whatever. Ugh.
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Vanderplas
Posts: 1427
Hong Kong, Hong Kong, China
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misszara
Posts: 6715
Seoul, Seoul, Korea (South)
Sheng Her wrote:
Bigger boobs would make me feel more beautiful so I will want to flaunt my boobs instead of hide them? Why do you need big boobs to feel beautiful?
I think you need to feel amazing in your own body, without this 'need' for big breasts.
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Space Case
Posts: 207
Edmonds, Washington, US
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Eisce
Posts: 389
Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Wtf thread revival Batman. Anyone bother to look at the timestamps? 
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Christopher Hartman
Posts: 54196
Buena Park, California, US
Eisce wrote:
Wtf thread revival Batman. Anyone bother to look at the timestamps? Seriously!! Somethings should be left out in pasture!
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Kincaid Blackwood
Posts: 23492
Los Angeles, California, US
Sheng Her wrote:
Should I just be happy with my small chest? •Some people are unhappy with their skin tone so they tan.
•Some people aren't satisfied with their teeth so they get braces.
•Some people aren't satisfied with their hair color so they dye it.
•Some people aren't happy with their height so they wear heels.
•Some people aren't happy with their muscle tone so they work out.
•Some people aren't satisfied with their body shape so they exercise/diet/get-surgery.
•Some people aren't happy with their cleavage so they wear push-up bras.
•Some people aren't happy with their penis size so they buy expensive sports cars (couldn't resist that one).
People make all sorts of body modifications. Tattoos, piercings, hair cuts, colors make-up etc etc. Nobody needs to be happy with anything about your body except for you. Should you be happy with your small chest? isn't the question.
Are you happy with it?
Period. If not, look into options that would make you happy. If so, don't make any changes.
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Kincaid Blackwood
Posts: 23492
Los Angeles, California, US
Eisce wrote:
Wtf thread revival Batman. Anyone bother to look at the timestamps? Whoa!! I didn't even notice that! Gziss!
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H E R B L I S H
Posts: 15189
Orlando, Florida, US
Especially if they bring food to the table or Popeye's chicken!
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Reflected
Posts: 16390
New York, New York, US
Sheng Her wrote:
The fact that I don't want to show off my boobs is the reason that my breasts are so small. I don't think you'll find many doctors willing to support this claim.
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Patrick Walberg
Posts: 45198
San Juan Bautista, California, US
Sheng Her wrote:
Bigger boobs would make me feel more beautiful so I will want to flaunt my boobs instead of hide them? You are very beautiful exactly the way you are now! Not every one likes "big boobs" and it's not what makes you a beautiful woman either way.
OPPS! This is a freaking OLD thread!  Oh well ... my comment still stands.
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Art of the nude
Posts: 12067
Grand Rapids, Michigan, US
Sheng Her wrote:
I'm petite. I have small breasts. That seems to be a problem, no? I think about taking breast-enhancement pills and it makes me shudder. I think about going for plastic surgery and that gives me the willies. Should I just be happy with my small chest?
In response to many people who've asked that since I won't do any nudes, erotic, or swim-wear, I've been thinking that maybe if my breasts did look fuller/bigger, I might actually go for it. The fact that I don't want to show off my boobs is the reason that my breasts are so small and I feel embarrassed to show them off.
Where can I find falsies and how much would I have to invest in them? I've shot with models with small breasts, large breasts, and all sorts in between. It is not relevant to what I do. The model's skill, overall look, comfort, imagination, that sort of thing is very relevant.
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Art of the nude
Posts: 12067
Grand Rapids, Michigan, US
Eisce wrote:
Wtf thread revival Batman. Anyone bother to look at the timestamps? I don't have any problem with old thread, but this bump appears to be spam.
And, the OP lists herself as a "C" cup. That's tiny?????
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Art of the nude
Posts: 12067
Grand Rapids, Michigan, US
Sheng Her wrote:
The fact that I don't want to show off my boobs is the reason that my breasts are so small. Reflected wrote:
I don't think you'll find many doctors willing to support this claim. I think there's a language barrier in the first quoted comment, but as written, I'd have to agree with you.
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Anna Adrielle
Posts: 18763
Antwerp, Antwerp, Belgium
fashion models have small boobs. obviously, at your height, you're not a fashion model, but I'm just saying: it's not because you have small boobs that you can't make killer pictures.
judging from your port, they're not that small by the way. They are small because you are small, it all looks pretty proportioned imho...
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Anzhelika Yakimenko
Posts: 540
Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, US
Your boobs are great. And trust me...Im a connisseur of boobs. Yours are awesome.
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Ararity
Posts: 4358
Mexico City, Distrito Federal, Mexico
Richard Tallent wrote:
Your portfolio says you don't do nudes, implied nudes, or "erotic" (which I presume would include lingerie), and you aren't even sure about swimwear.
Exactly how would breast implants be of any benefit to your portfolio?
And even if you change your mind about nude work later, breast implants are generally only beneficial for glamour nudes--art photographers tend to be more interested in natural forms, and fashion photographers tend to book smaller-chested models. This reply is well-thought out, and excellent, non-bias advice that I'd be happy to take any time of the day! (And prob should, given I am like the OP, lol)
 for great advice!
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Shuatree Photography
Posts: 1
Salt Lake City, Utah, US
Every one has already said every thing that could be said. and such good points they do make. I have to add my voice to those that have said to embrace the beauty of your body. you choose to do what you want but i have been looking for a small breasted model so that i can shoot in a more simplified form without the weighty importance of bog-o-breasts clogging up the shot. just beauty and art and clothes and what i want to express in the image. show them or dont but you SHOULD flaunt them.
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Matt Blais Photography
Posts: 1954
Riverside, California, US
In ten or more years you'll be happy you didn't opt for enlargement, if not sooner.
Think ahead, not for the now..
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Big A-Larger Than Life
Posts: 33451
The Woodlands, Texas, US
I have cranberries smaller than most old 50 year old guy moobs lol. But that's how God made me, so I go with it. Unless you just really WANT to surgically alter your look for YOUR own desire, then don't do it! Rock whatcha got, and FUCK anyone that has a problem with it!
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ninjaprints
Posts: 2457
London, England, United Kingdom
Dont go hacking yourself up and remaking yourself into something else, you look great just how you are.
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Gil Lang C
Posts: 820
Isla Vista, California, US
Everybody is conscious that the OP was asking that question...July 08?
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ninjaprints
Posts: 2457
London, England, United Kingdom
Gil Lang C wrote:
Everybody is conscious that the OP was asking that question...July 08? I am now...
how are your boobs now?
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Dragon Jade Studio
Posts: 190
Allentown, Pennsylvania, US
Sheng Her wrote:
I'm petite. I have small breasts. That seems to be a problem, no? I think about taking breast-enhancement pills and it makes me shudder. I think about going for plastic surgery and that gives me the willies. Should I just be happy with my small chest?
In response to many people who've asked that since I won't do any nudes, erotic, or swim-wear, I've been thinking that maybe if my breasts did look fuller/bigger, I might actually go for it. The fact that I don't want to show off my boobs is the reason that my breasts are so small and I feel embarrassed to show them off.
Where can I find falsies and how much would I have to invest in them? Do not be ashamed of your body Sheng. Everyone is beautiful as God has made us. Be happy the way you are!
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Oh well ... my comment still stands.
for great advice!