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-Jen-
Posts: 46880
Howell, Michigan, US
pervert. I was like ohhh myyy god. If yer gonna be a pervert, be secretive about it. Idiot.
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Elizabeth Claret
Posts: 56038
Yelm, Washington, US
-Jen- wrote: pervert. I was like ohhh myyy god. If yer gonna be a pervert, be secretive about it. Idiot. I look down my shirt all the time. The way I look at it, if you don't want people to look at your boobs, don't wear shirts that show them off. Wear a baggy sweater, no one will even know you have boobs then.
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Ross Photo
Posts: 1744
Fort Collins, Colorado, US
Hehehe... Just give him a business card with your portfolio address on it.
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Ballistic Penguin Photo
Posts: 11371
Kansas City, Missouri, US
uhmmmm i....ummm...i...errrrr...i gotta go
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Engel Schrei
Posts: 14458
Indianapolis, Indiana, US
When I get bored or if I'm concentrating really hard on something, I'll drum my fingers on the top of my boobs. My old boss used to yell at me for it, cause it made him keep looking. Apparently the finger drumming made my boobs bounce a little. Who'da thunk?
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Elizabeth Claret
Posts: 56038
Yelm, Washington, US
Engel Schrei wrote: When I get bored or if I'm concentrating really hard on something, I'll drum my fingers on the top of my boobs. My old boss used to yell at me for it, cause it made him keep looking. Apparently the finger drumming made my boobs bounce a little. Who'da thunk? I use mine as an arm rest....It's usually not too awkward unless I'm wearing a super low shirt, or I'm naked. I did it yesterday while nude, reviewing photos with the photographer. Didn't realize I was even doing it until he's like "Um, did you, uh, want to um...put a robe on or something?"
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Giacomo Cirrincioni
Posts: 22232
Stamford, Connecticut, US
Please explain this to me, and I'm not being sarcastic by the way, I'm asking this genuinely. You are a nude mode (which I think is great, btw). You offer yourself as an object of art, or desire, or of commerce, etc. I'm sure you have your own specific view on it but, as with any art or visual depiction, much of the viewpoint is defined by the viewer. You know this. You're ok with this. Presumably, one of the reasons you do it is because you are, justifiably so, proud of your body. That is ok. You are not a pervert. Presumably, those looking at your portfolio here are not perverts either, even if they are doing so to just appreciate your breasts. I can't imagine you have a problem with that based on posts made in SF2. So then why is it that if your boss, or any male for that matter, shows a similar appreciation for your breasts, that he immediately gets labeled a pervert?
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Ross Photo
Posts: 1744
Fort Collins, Colorado, US
Paramour Productions wrote: Please explain this to me, and I'm not being sarcastic by the way, I'm asking this genuinely. You are a nude mode (which I think is great, btw). You offer yourself as an object of art, or desire, or of commerce, etc. I'm sure you have your own specific view on it but, as with any art or visual depiction, much of the viewpoint is defined by the viewer. You know this. You're ok with this. Presumably, one of the reasons you do it is because you are, justifiably so, proud of your body. That is ok. You are not a pervert. Presumably, those looking at your portfolio here are not perverts either, even if they are doing so to just appreciate your breasts. I can't imagine you have a problem with that based on posts made in SF2. So then why is it that if your boss, or any male for that matter, shows a similar appreciation for your breasts, that he immediately gets labeled a pervert? My guess is because she's at work!!! Not out on the town... Not posing for images... Work. I don't think that is the place to oogle your subordinates.
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Elizabeth Claret
Posts: 56038
Yelm, Washington, US
Bill Ross Photography wrote:
My guess is because she's at work!!! Not out on the town... Not posing for images... Work. I don't think that is the place to oogle your subordinates. Her boss is a man. She has nice boobs. If she's wearing a shirt that in even the slightest way reveals them, he's going to look. Hell, I'd probably look. That doesn't make him a pervert, it makes him a guy. If he was leering over her breathing heavy and staring wide eyed....then maybe he'd be a pervert.
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Admiral Frog
Posts: 29088
Roswell, Georgia, US
Engel Schrei wrote: When I get bored or if I'm concentrating really hard on something, I'll drum my fingers on the top of my boobs. My old boss used to yell at me for it, cause it made him keep looking. Apparently the finger drumming made my boobs bounce a little. Who'da thunk? I touch myself when I am bored too. And I am bored A LOT!!!
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Giacomo Cirrincioni
Posts: 22232
Stamford, Connecticut, US
Bill Ross Photography wrote:
My guess is because she's at work!!! Not out on the town... Not posing for images... Work. I don't think that is the place to oogle your subordinates. And that part I get. The fact that he wasn't more discreet might make him many things, but a pervert? I don't know you but I'm a guy. I like women. I like to look at beautiful women. I check them out. That, in and of itself, doesn't make me a pervert. We have a really fucked up view of this in this country that I find rather bizarre. I didn't realize how much so until I lived in Europe where people much more readily accept who they are.
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Giacomo Cirrincioni
Posts: 22232
Stamford, Connecticut, US
Elizabeth Claret wrote:
Her boss is a man. She has nice boobs. If she's wearing a shirt that in even the slightest way reveals them, he's going to look. Hell, I'd probably look. That doesn't make him a pervert, it makes him a guy. If he was leering over her breathing heavy and staring wide eyed....then maybe he'd be a pervert. Thank you.
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-Jen-
Posts: 46880
Howell, Michigan, US
Elizabeth Claret wrote:
Her boss is a man. She has nice boobs. If she's wearing a shirt that in even the slightest way reveals them, he's going to look. Hell, I'd probably look. That doesn't make him a pervert, it makes him a guy. If he was leering over her breathing heavy and staring wide eyed....then maybe he'd be a pervert. I was busy working on a project and leaning over.....he purposely came over to talk to me about something completely off the wall. I looked up asking "what" (he mumbles) Then I saw him look as he was trying to come up with his question... and I rolled my eyes and fixed my shirt (which is not really all that low) He's my boss. He's yucky. just...no.
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Fergy
Posts: 22436
Fenton, Michigan, US
Bill Ross Photography wrote:
My guess is because she's at work!!! Not out on the town... Not posing for images... Work. I don't think that is the place to oogle your subordinates. This. She works in Government affairs. They need to be professional. He has been unprofessional before, if you are going to oogle, well then do it. But don't get caught doing it.
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Elizabeth Claret
Posts: 56038
Yelm, Washington, US
-Jen- wrote:
I was busy working on a project and leaning over.....he purposely came over to talk to me about something completely off the wall. I looked up asking "what" (he mumbles) Then I saw him look as he was trying to come up with his question... and I rolled my eyes and fixed my shirt (which is not really all that low) He's my boss. He's yucky. just...no. Yeah, that's kind of perverted. Just like, normal, guy glancing isn't, which is what it sounded like at first.
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Ross Photo
Posts: 1744
Fort Collins, Colorado, US
I like women too. I've worked with some beautiful women. A little self-discipline will go a long way. I understand that guy's eyes wander... God knows, mine have. Sounds to me like her boss positioned himself purposely so he could get a "view" (I may have read too much into this post but...). That kind of stuff gets so many men in trouble at work... Treat people with respect.
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-Jen-
Posts: 46880
Howell, Michigan, US
Elizabeth Claret wrote:
Yeah, that's kind of perverted. Just like, normal, guy glancing isn't, which is what it sounded like at first. Yeah a little glance is no big deal. It happens all the time (especially if I'm cold)
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Paul Bryson Photography
Posts: 48041
Hollywood, Florida, US
Maybe he was just deciding how much of a raise you'll get this year.
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Elizabeth Claret
Posts: 56038
Yelm, Washington, US
-Jen- wrote:
Yeah a little glance is no big deal. It happens all the time (especially if I'm cold) Well, with your coat hanger nipples, I'm not surprised. That's like my Aunt, who has, like Super OMG F boobs or something, wearing a low cut shirt, and then telling my mom that my stepfather kept staring at her boobs. My mom turned around and was like "Jenni, I can't stop staring at your boobs!"
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Not This Guy
Posts: 12851
Aspen Cove, Guam, US
Boobs are soooo hard not to look at. I see them sometimes and tell myself 'don't look at her boobs!' Then I think maybe 'just a peek.' Then I say 'don't look at the boobs!' I go through this cycle a few times and force myself to walk away feeling like a perv.
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Star Child
Posts: 39289
Nashville, Tennessee, US
Paramour Productions wrote: Please explain this to me, and I'm not being sarcastic by the way, I'm asking this genuinely. You are a nude mode (which I think is great, btw). You offer yourself as an object of art, or desire, or of commerce, etc. I'm sure you have your own specific view on it but, as with any art or visual depiction, much of the viewpoint is defined by the viewer. You know this. You're ok with this. Presumably, one of the reasons you do it is because you are, justifiably so, proud of your body. That is ok. You are not a pervert. Presumably, those looking at your portfolio here are not perverts either, even if they are doing so to just appreciate your breasts. I can't imagine you have a problem with that based on posts made in SF2. So then why is it that if your boss, or any male for that matter, shows a similar appreciation for your breasts, that he immediately gets labeled a pervert? I'm thinking that turtle neck she was wearing at the time was just a tad loose and it caught him by surprise.
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Kincaid Blackwood
Posts: 23492
Los Angeles, California, US
-Jen- wrote: pervert. I was like ohhh myyy god. If yer gonna be a pervert, be secretive about it. Idiot. Why be secretive about it? Perhaps he prefers that everything be out in the open. Like yer tits, for instance...
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Nikolette Amani
Posts: 12567
Augusta, Georgia, US
my boss looks at my bewbs. He likes them... and admits it. He also likes the new butt I got from being pregnant. He says "Just because I'm on a diet (to say that he's married) doesn't mean I can't look at the menu (he can still check out the ladies)." Where we used to work he would hit me on the behind with a rubberband alllll the time because he wanted to see if it would jiggle at all. He holds a higher position at our new place of business... so no more rubberband popping. He admits to being a dirty old man (not very old)... so as long as we have that out in the open... i'm pretty cool (just as long as he doesn't do these things around other co workers). Edit... and I don't wear low cut shirts much... but when I do I never get mad when people look... i mean they are right there... I look at women with big boobs too... i don't think people can much help it lol
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Andy Durazo
Posts: 24474
Los Angeles, California, US
-Jen- wrote: pervert. I was like ohhh myyy god. If yer gonna be a pervert, be secretive about it. Idiot. I think the point here is discretion.
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UnoMundo
Posts: 47532
Olympia, Washington, US
-Jen- wrote:
Yeah a little glance is no big deal. It happens all the time (especially if I'm cold) Jen at work, and you wonder why ?
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Stephoto Photography
Posts: 20158
Amherst, Massachusetts, US
ewwww to your boss! you should go to work for my roomate. i walk around basically hanging out half the day (or at least showing quite a bit of chest, minus the nipple and he doesn't even notice. I guess that's what I get for shacking up with a roomie who prefers clothed women over nudes!
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PYPI FASHION
Posts: 36332
San Francisco, California, US
He just wants to get breast implants and was checking out the work.
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SLE Photo
Posts: 113
Orlando, Florida, US
See, the things you never had to worry about before the surgery! Next time someone posts a "should I get a boob job?" thread I'll need to say "Well it can lead to your boss staring down your shirt."
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Vivus Hussein Denuo
Posts: 64211
New York, New York, US
Then don't have such nice boobs, silly!
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Zebadiah _MI
Posts: 13433
Ann Arbor, Michigan, US
Fergy wrote: This. She works a job. They need to be professional. fixed it for you Especially a manager. You have a right not to be harassed at work.
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Vivus Hussein Denuo
Posts: 64211
New York, New York, US
Fergy wrote:
This. She works in Government affairs. They need to be professional. He has been unprofessional before, if you are going to oogle, well then do it. But don't get caught doing it. I ogle, but I never oogle. I have my limits.
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UnoMundo
Posts: 47532
Olympia, Washington, US
-Jen- wrote: pervert. I was like ohhh myyy god. If yer gonna be a pervert, be secretive about it. Idiot. Lucky he was not trying to look down your buttcrack
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Lawrence Guy
Posts: 17716
San Diego Country Estates, California, US
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Carlos Occidental
Posts: 10583
Los Angeles, California, US
Um....Like...maybe don't wear shirts your boss can look down?
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-Jen-
Posts: 46880
Howell, Michigan, US
Charles West wrote: Um....Like...maybe don't wear shirts your boss can look down? My shirt is not that low. I was leaning over working on a project and he came up to talk to me. I do not do any work for him. There is no reason for him to come talk to me, he never does any other time he just happened to today.
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Mr Banner
Posts: 85322
Hayward, California, US
Engel Schrei wrote: When I get bored or if I'm concentrating really hard on something, I'll drum my fingers on the top of my boobs. My old boss used to yell at me for it, cause it made him keep looking. Apparently the finger drumming made my boobs bounce a little. Who'da thunk? can i do that when I get bored?
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Mr Banner
Posts: 85322
Hayward, California, US
Whitney Dee En wrote: my boss looks at my bewbs. He likes them... and admits it. He also likes the new butt I got from being pregnant. He says "Just because I'm on a diet (to say that he's married) doesn't mean I can't look at the menu (he can still check out the ladies)." Where we used to work he would hit me on the behind with a rubberband alllll the time because he wanted to see if it would jiggle at all. He holds a higher position at our new place of business... so no more rubberband popping. He admits to being a dirty old man (not very old)... so as long as we have that out in the open... i'm pretty cool (just as long as he doesn't do these things around other co workers). Edit... and I don't wear low cut shirts much... but when I do I never get mad when people look... i mean they are right there... I look at women with big boobs too... i don't think people can much help it lol *shoots a rubber band at you*
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Not active any moooreee
Posts: 2082
Reading, England, United Kingdom
Heehee, thats not /too/ bad. On a train once the guy opposite me took a picture of my legs. The best part was he was pretending to text, but I heard the shutter noise! He looked pretty embarrassed, and got off at the next stop. xD
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Reflected
Posts: 16390
New York, New York, US
Kitty Mutant wrote: Heehee, thats not /too/ bad. On a train once the guy opposite me took a picture of my legs. The best part was he was pretending to text, but I heard the shutter noise! He looked pretty embarrassed, and got off at the next stop. xD Meh... I always look that way. And that really was my stop!!!
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