Forums > Model Colloquy > Couples shoot and male models getting too excited

Photographer

Barely StL

Posts: 1281

Saint Louis, Missouri, US

There's a very well-known male model in the northwestern US (who has done more than 100 m/f nude shoots), who says he always apologizes to the female model before doing such a shoot.

"I apologize in advance if I become aroused during the shoot. And I apologize in advance if I don't." He says it's rarely an issue, but it happened a few times.

From behind the camera, I'm not always in a position where I could tell if the male model became aroused.

While I've never had this problem, I know that it's a possibility. Unless the female model is very experienced, I always let her know before the shoot that this could happen but probably won't. Then I suggest that if it does, she not make a big deal of it if it does, but just suggest that we take a break (during which we would regroup).

Aug 24 14 06:44 am Link

Photographer

Barely StL

Posts: 1281

Saint Louis, Missouri, US

Hmmm. Just saw that this thread is 4 years old.

Aug 24 14 06:45 am Link

Model

MatureModelMM

Posts: 2843

Detroit, Michigan, US

I wasn't on MM when this discussion first appeared, but I'll add my thoughts now.

I have been modelling for a long time, 27 years now to be exact. During that time I have been placed with male models on more than a few occasions, both for photography and for figure modelling in art classes. Sometimes erections happen, and it doesn't seem to be related to the model being young and hot........I was in my 40's and 50's for most of the instances that happened and if there was physical contact between us as part of the pose, it wasn't the sort that could cause that reaction, more like a hand on the shoulder or waist.

I'm sure they aren't coming into the assignment with the idea that they are going to get erect and show off, as some have been quite embarrassed when that happened. Eventually, the "problem" will go away and we proceed with posing. In art groups they rarely make any comment about it at all, and just continue working.

Aug 24 14 07:43 am Link

Photographer

Designit - Edward Olson

Posts: 1708

West Hollywood, California, US

Barely StL wrote:
There's a very well-known male model in the northwestern US (who has done more than 100 m/f nude shoots), who says he always apologizes to the female model before doing such a shoot.

"I apologize in advance if I become aroused during the shoot. And I apologize in advance if I don't." He says it's rarely an issue, but it happened a few times.

That's not an original line.

He is quoting, apparently without attribution, the famous actor George C. Scott.

Aug 24 14 09:54 am Link

Photographer

GER Photography

Posts: 8463

Imperial, California, US

Hire a fluffer, problem solved.:-)))))))

Aug 24 14 10:04 am Link

Photographer

Demeter Photography

Posts: 550

Calgary, Alberta, Canada

Marc-Antoine Astier wrote:
1> get a gun

2> point at it

3> tell him that it has 2 minutes to come down or it will come off.

That would work for me ^^

Lol... hard situations, we boys can't help it, and she is a MODEL = doesn't get any hotter than this...

Step 4. Go to jail.

Aug 24 14 10:07 am Link

Photographer

Danny DD

Posts: 347

Baarle-Hertog, Antwerp, Belgium

Ice, lots of it.

Aug 24 14 10:16 am Link

Photographer

Kent Art Photography

Posts: 3588

Ashford, England, United Kingdom

Shit happens.

But that's a whole different ballpark.

Aug 24 14 10:31 am Link

Photographer

Philip R

Posts: 698

Agoura Hills, California, US

Aug 24 14 04:36 pm Link

Photographer

EnlightendedPhotography

Posts: 828

Eugene, Oregon, US

I have done over 25 human statue "couple" shoots involving husbands, boyfriends, and hired male models.  Not once have I had a problem except for the one male model who took Viagra after his makeup was applied.  I stopped the shoot, made him write an apology to female makeup artist and model.  He is no longer on MM.  Made him pay for makeup, female MUA and female models fees and charged him for my time.

Aug 24 14 04:48 pm Link

Photographer

AJ_In_Atlanta

Posts: 13053

Atlanta, Georgia, US

For erections lasting longer than 4 years please kill this thread...

Aug 24 14 04:59 pm Link

Model

Caitin Bre

Posts: 2687

Apache Junction, Arizona, US

if the same male model is still having that problem with the same female then it must be love. lol

Aug 24 14 05:12 pm Link

Photographer

Justin Matthews

Posts: 1546

Melbourne, Victoria, Australia

Mmmmm. I dont't mean to pick bones here, but this is a hard problem and it will just get bigger if you don't do anything. You want relaxed subjects, both male and female, not uncomfortable, stiff models.
Try arousing his interest in a different scenario,  or erect a different background set.
The last thing you want to do is rub him up the wrong way as you may engorge his anger and you'll end up with a swollen face.

Anyway I hope these ideas that I've run up the flag pole have helped.

Justin

Aug 24 14 09:12 pm Link

Photographer

Flex Photography

Posts: 6471

Sudbury, Ontario, Canada

Hit it with a hammer!

https://www.outofourtree.com/miscellaneous/files/animated-hammer-image-0025.gif

Aug 24 14 10:09 pm Link

Model

Nouveau Ind

Posts: 21

Jambi, Jambi, Indonesia

Never thought about this ...as there is never such a problem if the combo is really a 'couple'..

Aug 25 14 12:58 am Link

Photographer

udor

Posts: 25255

New York, New York, US

Justin Matthews wrote:
Mmmmm. I dont't mean to pick bones tug boners here, but this is a hard problem and it will just get bigger if you don't do anything.

NICE!!! borat

There was only a minor thing unclear and I fixed it for you!   evilgrin

Aug 25 14 06:15 am Link

Photographer

D-Light

Posts: 629

Newcastle, Limerick, Ireland

Heather Orr wrote:
Have the model go powder her nose, have him take a moment to think about Liza Minnelli, and all will be good.  It's human nature.  Not a biggie (HA!).

works for me, Angelica Huston works too. smile

Aug 25 14 06:54 am Link

Photographer

Justin Matthews

Posts: 1546

Melbourne, Victoria, Australia

udor wrote:

NICE!!! borat

There was only a minor thing unclear and I fixed it for you!   evilgrin

😊 I'm glad you got the point 😊

Aug 25 14 02:36 pm Link