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Gemma Cullen
Posts: 57
Portsmouth, England, United Kingdom


Hi guys,

I'm pretty new to modelling but I've always taken an escort with me. I had a shoot booked, one where I was doing modelling I wasn't completely comfortable with. I said I was bringing an escort and the photographer cancelled the shoot. Said it affected the creativity between photographer and model. He wanted me to do beauty nude photos, not something I've ever considered doing but I thought it would be good for experience and my portfolio as it was TFP shoot. Then I found out he wanted full frontal nudes !! He has good references on his page. Any advice is it not ok to bring escorts and about nudity
Jun 01 12 09:48 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
K E E L I N G
Posts: 38,914
Peoria, Illinois, US


Gemma Cullen wrote:
Hi guys,

I'm pretty new to modelling but I've always taken an escort with me. I had a shoot booked, one where I was doing modelling I wasn't completely comfortable with. I said I was bringing an escort and the photographer cancelled the shoot. Said it affected the creativity between photographer and model. He wanted me to do beauty nude photos, not something I've ever considered doing but I thought it would be good for experience and my portfolio as it was TFP shoot. Then I found out he wanted full frontal nudes for free!! He has good references on his page. Any advice is it not ok to bring escorts and about nudity for free smile

Sounds like a pretty weak photographer if he can't be creative with more than one person in the room.  However if he pulled the ole bait and switch on you for nudity I'm guessing he had other reasons he didn't want a third person in the room.

Escort, no escort... nudity, no nudity.... set your policies the way you want them and then stick to working with people who have similar policies and ignore the rest.

Jun 01 12 09:52 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
PashaPhoto
Posts: 9,483
Brooklyn, New York, US


the whole escort thing is a bit of a "hot topic" here, and has been for years...

you will hear many opinions, some pro-escort and some will be adamantly against... and this thread will quickly balloon a few pages, before ending up like all of them - in a trainwreck smile

overall, if you feel that you NEED to bring an escort - do... just realize that there are many photographers who refuse to have an escort present, so requiring one as a rule will ultimately cost you gigs...
Jun 01 12 09:55 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
ShotbyRon
Posts: 566
Altoona, Pennsylvania, US


I've had an escort on only one of my shoots. He kept to himself and in the background. But I can understand why some photographers don't like them. As I'm sure not all escorts are good.

As far as that shoot, that photography seems kinda shady if you ask me
Jun 01 12 09:56 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
BTHPhoto
Posts: 6,518
Fairbanks, Alaska, US


Gemma Cullen wrote:
one where I was doing modelling I wasn't completely comfortable with.

That is when the shoot should have been canceled.

Jun 01 12 09:58 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Fotographahaulic
Posts: 3,569
Greensboro, North Carolina, US


There is nothing in your Bio that says you 'reserve the right to bring an escort'.

Add that line into your port  . . . so photographers know to stay clear of you.
Jun 01 12 09:59 am  Link  Quote 
Model
Gemma Cullen
Posts: 57
Portsmouth, England, United Kingdom


Thank you all for your comments. It really appreciate them all. I think if there's going to be nudity then an escort, no nudity no escort unless I'm travelling pretty far. I'm going to stick to this smile
Jun 01 12 10:01 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Sita Mae
Posts: 19,566
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, US


Gemma Cullen wrote:
Thank you all for your comments. It really appreciate them all. I think if there's going to be nudity then an escort, no nudity no escort unless I'm travelling pretty far. I'm going to stick to this smile

That's cool.  Just be sure to follow the suggestion above, to be up front about it either on your profile page or in initial communications (preferably both), so that photographers who do not permit escorts can move on without wasting any of your or their time.

Jun 01 12 10:03 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Magic Image Photography
Posts: 3,606
Temple City, California, US


To some photographers haveing an "Escort" on the shoot is some times degrading to some. It shows a lack of trust to photographers but then again I see the models point of view as in a safty matters.

This photographer is just out of luck due to him haveing such a gorgeous model to photograph and for tfp and yet pass out on such a wonderful expierance. I think you did the right thing in staying ground and requesting that you keep your escort with you. Belive it is better to be safe than sorry. If your ever in the Los Angeles area and need some creative art works keep me in mind. Escort included.
Jun 01 12 10:04 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Tyler C Johnson
Posts: 137
San Diego, California, US


This is a subject that has had many threads dedicated to it so you can probably find more info by using the forum search. Anyways my opinion is first of all everyone has a right to their own preferences and frankly there are enough models and photographers out there that it shouldn't be a problem finding someone to work with. If you believed in Organic/free range foods only you wouldn't want to shop in a regular supermarket, it would just make you frustrated right? Same thing with picking a photographer/model to work with.

To answer your question though, no, there is nothing wrong with shooting nudes with out an escort and no there is nothing wrong with doing full nudes, or any photos for that matter for free.....if you need them. If you can quote a price and he will pay it, all the better for you. Many models here charge for nude work simply due to supply and demand. There are less models willing to pose nude and thus the models who will find there time to be more valuable. However they don't charge for the sake of being naked. That's generally called stripping wink

As far as an escort goes....meh. Its almost not worth arguing over. Just stick to your own guns with this one. For many photographers the thought that they are considered dangerous just because you may be naked during the shoot  is kind of insulting. Would you have an escort around if you hired a house cleaner, or if the cable guy came to hook up your tv? Generally not. Also many photographers work out of a small studio or home studio and escorts have been known to steal things. Its just not worth the risk sometimes.
Jun 01 12 10:06 am  Link  Quote 
Model
Peggy P H
Posts: 4
Lovelock, Nevada, US


I bring an escort with me to al my shoots, especially the nude ones. I can understand a photographer not wanting one there, as they can be distracting. I made sure to put that in my profile though, and it hasn't cost me any gigs or (as far as I know), gotten photographers to steer clear of me. Just go with what you think is best.
Jun 01 12 10:06 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Tyler C Johnson
Posts: 137
San Diego, California, US


Gemma Cullen wrote:
Thank you all for your comments. It really appreciate them all. I think if there's going to be nudity then an escort, no nudity no escort unless I'm travelling pretty far. I'm going to stick to this smile

Here is my question, why would your escort polocy be based on your nudity level? I believe you should personally do what you wish however what this 'rule' would look like to a photographer is that you don't trust photographers who shoot nude and would therefor need 'protection'. Are nude photographers more dangerous than non nude shooters just because of the genre of work they shoot? Would a photographer even want to hire a model who is potentially nervous about shooting nude (it will show in the photos), etc..

Imho you will most likely start to attract only the shady GWC's who want to hire you for clothing shoots so you will show up without an escort and try to convince you to get naked.

Whatever you do, make sure to check references! This is the best way to see weather a photographer is professional and trustworthy.

Jun 01 12 10:11 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Philip R
Posts: 465
Agoura Hills, California, US


I think just the word "escort" is so highly charged, you should specify what you desire.  If someone is going to drive you to a shoot, say "hello" and then go out to get himself a cup of coffee during the actual shoot, most photographers would not mind at all.

If you wish for the person to be sitting there watching the entire process, many would find that bothersome and they should know this upfront.
Jun 01 12 10:17 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Ken Marcus Studios
Posts: 7,977
Los Angeles, California, US


Why should nudity be for money only ?

Are you a hooker or something ?

Either you enjoy modeling nude or don't do it at all.

Doing something only for the money is distasteful and calls your motives into question.
Jun 01 12 10:17 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
DVSmith
Posts: 409
Durham, North Carolina, US


Gemma Cullen wrote:
Hi guys,

I'm pretty new to llamaling but I've always taken an escort with me. I had a shoot booked, one where I was doing llamaling I wasn't completely comfortable with. I said I was bringing an escort and the photographer cancelled the shoot. Said it affected the creativity between photographer and llama. He wanted me to do beauty nude photos, not something I've ever considered doing but I thought it would be good for experience and my portfolio as it was TFP shoot. Then I found out he wanted full frontal nudes for free!! He has good references on his page. Any advice is it not ok to bring escorts and about nudity for free smile

I've had plenty of experienced art llamas work TFP with me -- including GASP the dreaded and decidedly dangerous fullfrontalnudity!!!11!
--

All kidding aside…

…there's an attitude that "you're giving it away for free" if you pose nude in exchange for non-monetary consideration. It's constantly perpetuated in these forums and it's wrong, IMHO.

Sure, there are plenty of male (and female) photographers (aka GWCs), whose sole interest is to see some skin. Those are the sort of people who are going to provide you with uniformly awful photos and you should probably ask for pay, as you're not going to any other benefit.

You won't get quality, paid gigs with a crappy book…

There are also fantastically talented photographers who are interested in making art. Unfortunately, art photography and particularly art nude photography doesn't earn much income in this digital day and age… (but there's no need for a sob story about how expensive photography is… especially since I do pay llamas…)

If you're in it for the art, money is secondary… if you're in it for the money, then art is not the first place I'd suggest looking.
--

On top of that, I don't think it's reasonable to expect "market rates" for your first-ever art nude shoot. If you have no idea what you're doing, or are less than comfortable with the idea (which always, always shows on-camera), why should an experienced (an assumption based on the fact that he has good references) art photographer pay you while you learn how to pose nude?
--

As for chaperones -- I allow them (but not "bodyguards," "security," or "protection"), but I've also had shoots that were basically hamstrung because the llama was self-conscious, or the "escort" kept providing "creative input."

If you don't feel safe going to a shoot, don't go to the shoot.
--

Personally, I don't like it when the terms of the photoshoot significantly change at the last minute, especially when it's issues that could have been discussed at the outset (wardrobe, compensation, styling, escorts, location, transportation, etc.).

When that's happened, on what I've felt were unreasonable terms, I've usually canceled the shoot.

popcorn

Jun 01 12 10:21 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Supermodel Photographer
Posts: 3,306
Oyster Bay, New York, US


Gemma Cullen wrote:
it was TFP shoot. Then I found out he wanted full frontal nudes for free!

He was no longer willing to trade prints?

Jun 01 12 10:23 am  Link  Quote 
Model
Gemma Cullen
Posts: 57
Portsmouth, England, United Kingdom


Magic Image Photography wrote:
To some photographers haveing an "Escort" on the shoot is some times degrading to some. It shows a lack of trust to photographers but then again I see the models point of view as in a safty matters.

This photographer is just out of luck due to him haveing such a gorgeous model to photograph and for tfp and yet pass out on such a wonderful expierance. I think you did the right thing in staying ground and requesting that you keep your escort with you. Belive it is better to be safe than sorry. If your ever in the Los Angeles area and need some creative art works keep me in mind. Escort included.

Thank you for such a nice comment smile if I'm ever in the Los Angeles area I would love to work with you

Jun 01 12 10:24 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Frank Stephens III
Posts: 1,209
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US


Ken Marcus Studios wrote:
Why should nudity be for money only ?

Are you a hooker or something ?

Either you enjoy modeling nude or don't do it at all.

Doing something only for the money is distasteful and calls your motives into question.

I have to agree with this one...I'm totally cool with paying for talent.

But it's a real buzz kill to work with someone who you know is only doing it for the cash...

Jun 01 12 10:24 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Top Gun Digital
Posts: 854
Las Vegas, Nevada, US


It's up to you to do whatever makes you feel comfortable.  If it means bringing an escort to a shoot then by all means do so.  However, just as you have the right to bring an escort a photographer has the right to not allow escorts at a shoot.  In that scenario you both need to find someone else to shoot with.
Jun 01 12 10:25 am  Link  Quote 
Model
Gemma Cullen
Posts: 57
Portsmouth, England, United Kingdom


Ken Marcus Studios wrote:
Why should nudity be for money only ?

Are you a hooker or something ?

Either you enjoy modeling nude or don't do it at all.

Doing something only for the money is distasteful and calls your motives into question.

No nothing like that, I just wasn't aware I would be doing full frontal nudity. I've never done a nude shoot before so it would have been my first time. I've never been completely sure about doing nude work before so I wasn't sure on the ground rules etc. the shoot was for TFP I was more bothered about not being able to take an escort. I wasn't bothered about not being paid. I was just asking for people's opinions.

Jun 01 12 10:28 am  Link  Quote 
Model
Gemma Cullen
Posts: 57
Portsmouth, England, United Kingdom


Frank Stephens III wrote:

I have to agree with this one...I'm totally cool with paying for talent.

But it's a real buzz kill to work with someone who you know is only doing it for the cash...

The shoot was for TFP, not money, but I wasn't aware it was full frontal nudity. Never done a nude shoot before. I wasn't asking for payment

Jun 01 12 10:30 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Abbitt Photography
Posts: 10,558
Oakland Acres, Iowa, US


Some places of business are open to the public and some are for those involved only.  Photography is no exception.  Some will allow escorts, some will not.

If you receive images in exchange for your time, then it's not modeling for free.   

I personally do not follow the correlation you make about escorts, pay and the amount of clothing worn.  If it's TF, you either value the images you feel the photographer will provide or you don't.  A model can value a nude image just as much as a clothed one.
Jun 01 12 10:31 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Greg Kolack
Posts: 17,243
Downers Grove, Illinois, US


Peggy P H wrote:
I bring an escort with me to al my shoots, especially the nude ones. I can understand a photographer not wanting one there, as they can be distracting. I made sure to put that in my profile though, and it hasn't cost me any gigs or (as far as I know), gotten photographers to steer clear of me. Just go with what you think is best.

That's the key words - "as far as I know."

Jun 01 12 10:32 am  Link  Quote 
Model
Gemma Cullen
Posts: 57
Portsmouth, England, United Kingdom


Supermodel Photographer wrote:

He was no longer willing to trade prints?

I worded this wrong, I was not aware he wanted be to do full frontal nudity at all.

Jun 01 12 10:32 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Greg Kolack
Posts: 17,243
Downers Grove, Illinois, US


Fotographahaulic wrote:
There is nothing in your Bio that says you 'reserve the right to bring an escort'.

Add that line into your port  . . . so photographers know to stay clear of you.

I would suggest not using the words "reserve the right."

That implies the photographer doesn't have a choice, which, of course, he / she does.

Almost comes off as a bit of a demand.

Jun 01 12 10:33 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
DVSmith
Posts: 409
Durham, North Carolina, US


Gemma Cullen wrote:

I worded this wrong, I was not aware he wanted be to do full frontal nudity at all.

I think the point that "Supermodel Photographer" was making is that TFP ≠ free.

Free implies that you receive nothing in consideration of your time and talent.

TF* means that the photographer's time and talent, as they are applied to photographing you and processing the resulting images, which will then be provided to you, are what you will receive in compensation.

Jun 01 12 10:37 am  Link  Quote 
Model
Gemma Cullen
Posts: 57
Portsmouth, England, United Kingdom


DVSmith wrote:

I've had plenty of experienced art models work TFP with me -- including GASP the dreaded and decidedly dangerous fullfrontalnudity!!!11!
--

All kidding aside…

…there's an attitude that "you're giving it away for free" if you pose nude in exchange for non-monetary consideration. It's constantly perpetuated in these forums and it's wrong, IMHO.

Sure, there are plenty of male (and female) photographers (aka GWCs), whose sole interest is to see some skin. Those are the sort of people who are going to provide you with uniformly awful photos and you should probably ask for pay, as you're not going to any other benefit.

You won't get quality, paid gigs with a crappy book…

There are also fantastically talented photographers who are interested in making art. Unfortunately, art photography and particularly art nude photography doesn't earn much income in this digital day and age… (but there's no need for a sob story about how expensive photography is… especially since I do pay models…)

If you're in it for the art, money is secondary… if you're in it for the money, then art is not the first place I'd suggest looking.
--

On top of that, I don't think it's reasonable to expect "market rates" for your first-ever art nude shoot. If you have no idea what you're doing, or are less than comfortable with the idea (which always, always shows on-camera), why should an experienced (an assumption based on the fact that he has good references) art photographer pay you while you learn how to pose nude?
--

As for chaperones -- I allow them (but not "bodyguards," "security," or "protection"), but I've also had shoots that were basically hamstrung because the model was self-conscious, or the "escort" kept providing "creative input."

If you don't feel safe going to a shoot, don't go to the shoot.
--

Personally, I don't like it when the terms of the photoshoot significantly change at the last minute, especially when it's issues that could have been discussed at the outset (wardrobe, compensation, styling, escorts, location, transportation, etc.).

When that's happened, on what I've felt were unreasonable terms, I've usually canceled the shoot.

popcorn

This was TFP shoot, I had said at the beginning about bringing an escort but it wasn't mentioned by him, so I confirmed the shoot and asked what was to be expected from me nudity wise and again said I was bringing an escort. He then said no to the shoot. I did not want any cash payment I was happy with TFP but was not aware of the full frontal nudity. I didn't change anything last minute, I just wanted to confirm details

Jun 01 12 10:37 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
J O H N A L L A N
Posts: 7,303
Santa Ana, California, US


Gemma Cullen wrote:
.. I was more bothered about not being able to take an escort.

Yeah - it bothers me too when people insist I conduct myself professionally. (sarc)

Jun 01 12 10:38 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Greg Kolack
Posts: 17,243
Downers Grove, Illinois, US


Gemma Cullen wrote:
Then I found out he wanted full frontal nudes for free!! He has good references on his page. Any advice is it not ok to bring escorts and about nudity for free smile

Every single nude shot on my portfolio was a TFP shoot.

Most models I know who model regularly don't charge different rates depending on if they are wearing clothes or not. They charge to model, or they do TF depending on what the reason it would benefit them is.

It comes of as "you got to see me nude, so you should pay me."

Jun 01 12 10:38 am  Link  Quote 
Model
Gemma Cullen
Posts: 57
Portsmouth, England, United Kingdom


Abbitt Photography wrote:
Some places of business are open to the public and some are for those involved only.  Photography is no exception.  Some will allow escorts, some will not.

If you receive images in exchange for your time, then it's not modeling for free.   

I personally do not follow the correlation you make about escorts, pay and the amount of clothing worn.  If it's TF, you either value the images you feel the photographer will provide or you don't.  A model can value a nude image just as much as a clothed one.

I don't either,I worded it wrong. The photographer did not explain to me he wanted full frontal nudity. I would have said no straight away to the shoot if I knew that. I was happy with TFP.

Jun 01 12 10:40 am  Link  Quote 
Model
Gemma Cullen
Posts: 57
Portsmouth, England, United Kingdom


Greg Kolack wrote:

I would suggest not using the words "reserve the right."

That implies the photographer doesn't have a choice, which, of course, he / she does.

Almost comes off as a bit of a demand.

Ok thanks I will reword it

Jun 01 12 10:41 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
DRImages
Posts: 1,643
San Diego, California, US


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Jun 01 12 10:43 am  Link  Quote 
Model
Gemma Cullen
Posts: 57
Portsmouth, England, United Kingdom


Greg Kolack wrote:

Every single nude shot on my portfolio was a TFP shoot.

Most models I know who model regularly don't charge different rates depending on if they are wearing clothes or not. They charge to model, or they do TF depending on what the reason it would benefit them is.

It comes of as "you got to see me nude, so you should pay me."

I didn't mean for it to come off that way. I just wasn't sure of what other models did with reference to nudity or no nudity. I have never done a nude shoot before. I was just not made aware that full frontal nudity was part of the shoot otherwise I would not have agreed to the shoot in the first placev

Jun 01 12 10:45 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
DeniseRegan Photography
Posts: 1,263
Nashville, Tennessee, US


Gemma Cullen wrote:

The shoot was for TFP, not money, but I wasn't aware it was full frontal nudity. Never done a nude shoot before. I wasn't asking for payment

Paid or not, escort or not, communication before shooting is KEY. I would never wait until the shoot to tell someone I wanted nudes. Not knowing the photographer, it just seems like there was a communication breakdown. You are better off that he cancelled, IMO.

Jun 01 12 10:45 am  Link  Quote 
Model
Gemma Cullen
Posts: 57
Portsmouth, England, United Kingdom


John Allan wrote:

Yeah - it bothers me too when people insist I conduct myself professionally. (sarc)

Not sure what you mean here,do you mean bringing an escorted in professional or that the photographer saying no is un professional. Sorry I'm British!

Jun 01 12 10:48 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
K E E L I N G
Posts: 38,914
Peoria, Illinois, US


Ken Marcus Studios wrote:
Why should nudity be for money only ?

Are you a hooker or something ?

Either you enjoy modeling nude or don't do it at all.

Doing something only for the money is distasteful and calls your motives into question.

Isn't that called a job?

Jun 01 12 10:50 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
DoubleDare Studios
Posts: 977
Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, US


K E E L I N G wrote:

Isn't that called a job?

I was kinda thinking that myself...

Jun 01 12 10:52 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Supermodel Photographer
Posts: 3,306
Oyster Bay, New York, US


DVSmith wrote:
I think the point that "Supermodel Photographer" was making is ...

Right, "DVSmith".

Jun 01 12 10:52 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Greg Kolack
Posts: 17,243
Downers Grove, Illinois, US


Gemma Cullen wrote:
I didn't mean for it to come off that way. I just wasn't sure of what other models did with reference to nudity or no nudity. I have never done a nude shoot before. I was just not made aware that full frontal nudity was part of the shoot otherwise I would not have agreed to the shoot in the first placev

I understand. Just pointing out that many models don't think differently about whether it is nude or not, and you should be careful to not present yourself that way.

I do give you credit for taking advice here under consideration and for taking it to heart. It shows you are interested in learning and progressing. Good for you.

Jun 01 12 10:54 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
AJScalzitti
Posts: 9,538
Atlanta, Georgia, US


Fotographahaulic wrote:
There is nothing in your Bio that says you 'reserve the right to bring an escort'.

Add that line into your port  . . . so photographers know to stay clear of you.

As I looked over the constitution I don't actually see that as one of the "rights" so perhaps something was passed while I wasn't looking.

OP, do realize that a large number of photographers don't want or allow escorts.  Personally I didn't like things to go missing from my studio...

Jun 01 12 10:54 am  Link  Quote 
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