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Extrosy
Posts: 656
Minneapolis, Minnesota, US


I'm just curious, as a llama how often or big of an issue is it for you?
Sep 14 12 09:09 am  Link  Quote 
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Miss AY
Posts: 8,166
Boston, Massachusetts, US


Never an issue for me. My boyfriend (turned fiance, turned husband) never had a problem with my modeling, be it clothed or nude.
Sep 14 12 09:11 am  Link  Quote 
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Good Egg Productions
Posts: 15,329
Orlando, Florida, US


Augustine York wrote:
Never an issue for me. My boyfriend (turned fiance, turned husband) never had a problem with my modeling, be it clothed or nude.

Stop thread.

This answer explains why Augustine has a successful career as a model AND a successful relationship.

Period. End.

Sep 14 12 09:16 am  Link  Quote 
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Ester Ginzbur
Posts: 128
Edison, New Jersey, US


Never an issue.
Sep 14 12 09:20 am  Link  Quote 
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Just Danielle
Posts: 2,308
Petersfield, England, United Kingdom


Never an issue. As long as I leave my husband details of the photographer and shoot location he's fine with it. Doesn't mind me modelling nude either!
Sep 14 12 09:21 am  Link  Quote 
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Isis22
Posts: 2,499
Muncie, Indiana, US


It's never been an issue and it never will be. I only date men who are fully supportive of what I do.
Sep 14 12 09:21 am  Link  Quote 
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DivaEroticus
Posts: 14,568
Fayetteville, Arkansas, US


I was a model before I met my now-estranged husband.  As time went on, he grew jealous, which affected my modeling.  I left him (for this, and other reasons).
Sep 14 12 09:22 am  Link  Quote 
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William Kious
Posts: 8,841
Delphos, Ohio, US


You're not going to get many negative and/or honest answers to this question. Not many women who are with jealous, possessive and shoot-wrecking asshats are going to admit it in open forum.

wink
Sep 14 12 09:22 am  Link  Quote 
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rdallasPhotography
Posts: 965
Norristown, Pennsylvania, US


Go to the search screen for the forums and search on "jealous". There are 99 threads about this topic, including ones about jealous gf's of photographers. One thread is quite recent and may give you the answer you are looking for.
Sep 14 12 09:23 am  Link  Quote 
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Jordan Bunniie
Posts: 1,643
Los Angeles, California, US


Never. My bf is supportive of my work.
Sep 14 12 09:30 am  Link  Quote 
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P I X I E
Posts: 35,309
Toronto, Ontario, Canada


Augustine York wrote:
Never an issue for me. My boyfriend (turned fiance, turned husband) never had a problem with my modeling, be it clothed or nude.

+1

Sep 14 12 09:32 am  Link  Quote 
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NicoleNudes
Posts: 3,844
Toronto, Ontario, Canada


Jordan Bunniie wrote:
Never. My bf is supportive of my work.

Same smile

I've been doing modeling before I met my bf, if he had a problem with it, that's his problem not mine. Either get over it, or I'm going to find someone else.

I'm not going to stop doing something I enjoy because you're jealous.

Sep 14 12 09:37 am  Link  Quote 
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KendraDeanne
Posts: 94
Toronto, Ontario, Canada


rdallasPhotography wrote:
Go to the search screen for the forums and search on "jealous". There are 99 threads about this topic, including ones about jealous gf's of photographers. One thread is quite recent and may give you the answer you are looking for.

+1000

Sep 14 12 09:44 am  Link  Quote 
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Anna Adrielle
Posts: 18,762
Antwerp, Antwerp, Belgium


never
Sep 14 12 09:47 am  Link  Quote 
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Lorayne York
Posts: 2,120
Wichita, Kansas, US


My boyfriend, who became my fiance and then my husband never had an issue with what type of modeling i did. He loved seeing me happy and loved seeing the images i would create after. He would even hang my photos on his wall, and all his friends told me how proud he was of me.
Sep 14 12 09:51 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Select Models
Posts: 35,728
Upland, California, US


Jealous boyfriends/husbands?

I'm sure I'd have loads of boyfriends that would be jealous of my husband... if I had one... lol... and visa versa... wink
Sep 14 12 09:52 am  Link  Quote 
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Mischa Marie
Posts: 7,892
Sacramento, California, US


Never been an issue. I've been doing this longer than I've known him.
Sep 14 12 10:20 am  Link  Quote 
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Extrosy
Posts: 656
Minneapolis, Minnesota, US


KendraDee wrote:

+1000

You're right of course, but sometimes I speak before I think.

Sep 14 12 11:38 am  Link  Quote 
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Laura UnBound
Posts: 27,249
Toronto, Ontario, Canada


Never, i dont date jealous assholes.
Sep 14 12 11:50 am  Link  Quote 
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-JAY-
Posts: 6,514
Las Vegas, Nevada, US


What is there to be jealous of?

My wife is an awesome nude model... She goes to shoots, why would I be jealous, I'm not a model.
Sep 14 12 11:54 am  Link  Quote 
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Shot By Adam
Posts: 5,631
Las Vegas, Nevada, US


-JAY- wrote:
What is there to be jealous of?

My wife is an awesome nude model... She goes to shoots, why would I be jealous, I'm not a model.

LOL...and she's very cool too. But on the flip side, as a photographer, my wife never gets jealous because I never give her a reason to be. If I'm shooting models, clothes or otherwise, I always let her in on what the shoot is about, who is it for, etc. Hell, half the time she likes to help in post and I'm fine with that because she has a great eye for looking at the female form and her input is always great.

Again, if there is no reason to be jealous, and if the person is, it's on them, not you, and if there is jealousy in a relationship, I can assure you, it's going to manifest itself in many more ways outside of modeling.

Sep 14 12 12:06 pm  Link  Quote 
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hygvhgvkhy
Posts: 2,092
Chicago, Illinois, US


Never.

Jealousy is an ugly quality replaced by trust.
Sep 14 12 12:37 pm  Link  Quote 
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Kelleth
Posts: 2,517
Toronto, Ontario, Canada


My husband's a fashion photographer so we have a mutual respect and understanding for what each other does.
Sep 14 12 01:00 pm  Link  Quote 
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Anna Adrielle
Posts: 18,762
Antwerp, Antwerp, Belgium


Presley ONeil wrote:
Never.

Jealousy is an ugly quality replaced by trust.

jealousy can also come from insecurity sometimes, not necessarily because you don't trust the other one

Sep 14 12 01:02 pm  Link  Quote 
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Cherrystone
Posts: 36,421
Columbus, Ohio, US


William Kious wrote:
You're not going to get many negative and/or honest answers to this question. Not many women who are with jealous, possessive and shoot-wrecking asshats are going to admit it in open forum.

wink

Nor do some even comprehend their own situations with open eyes.

Sep 14 12 01:07 pm  Link  Quote 
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J Welborn
Posts: 2,552
Clarksville, Tennessee, US


Laura UnBound wrote:
Never, i dont date jealous assholes.

The perfect answer --end of problem

Sep 14 12 01:08 pm  Link  Quote 
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Cherrystone
Posts: 36,421
Columbus, Ohio, US


Anna Adrielle wrote:

jealousy can also come from insecurity sometimes, not necessarily because you don't trust the other one

Sometimes? Jealousy doesn't exist.

It always comes from someone's own insecurites and/or the situation they remain in.

Sep 14 12 01:08 pm  Link  Quote 
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Anna Adrielle
Posts: 18,762
Antwerp, Antwerp, Belgium


Cherrystone wrote:

Sometimes? Jealousy doesn't exist.

It always comes from someone's own insecurites and/or the situation they remain in.

meh, I just think there's a difference between being jealous because you don't trust the other one, or being jealous because you have issues yourself.

I can get jealous sometimes. I am 100% confident that he is faithful to me and will be faithful in the future, even when there is temptation. But I still get jealous. But that's my problem.

Sep 14 12 01:10 pm  Link  Quote 
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LizzyB
Posts: 2,178
Rochester, New York, US


unfortunately part of the reason bf's/husbands may be jealous is due to this incorrect (media?) portrayal/mystique that photogs and models often hook-up during shoots...maybe guys can't understand how/why it doesn't happen lol
Sep 14 12 01:12 pm  Link  Quote 
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P I X I E
Posts: 35,309
Toronto, Ontario, Canada


William Kious wrote:
You're not going to get many negative and/or honest answers to this question. Not many women who are with jealous, possessive and shoot-wrecking asshats are going to admit it in open forum.

wink

I've been with jealous and possessive jerks in the past.

What's wrong with the models posting about their supportive boyfriends/fiances/husbands? You think they're not being honest and such people don't exist?

Sep 14 12 01:34 pm  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Art of the nude
Posts: 11,864
Olivet, Michigan, US


William Kious wrote:
You're not going to get many negative and/or honest answers to this question. Not many women who are with jealous, possessive and shoot-wrecking asshats are going to admit it in open forum.

wink

Do you read the same forums I do?

Women, and men, admit plenty of embarrassing things in the forums.   Some of them seem to live for it.

Sep 14 12 01:50 pm  Link  Quote 
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hgldhlhgfh
Posts: 576
Dumont d'Urville - permanent station of France, Sector claimed by France, Antarctica


Sep 14 12 02:07 pm  Link  Quote 
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IDiivil
Posts: 4,019
Los Angeles, California, US


My boyfriend is very supportive of my nude modeling and even of my traveling.
Sep 14 12 03:00 pm  Link  Quote 
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Julia Francesca
Posts: 2,357
Maumee, Ohio, US


Extrosy wrote:
I'm just curious, as a model how often or big of an issue is it for you?

my boyfriend doesn't like it. he doesn't like the idea of me being nude or seminude around someone who isn't him. so i don't even do implieds really any more. a few people have told me "do whatever you want, he doesn't own you!" but i respect his wishes because he respects mine. if i wanted him to stop doing something that upset me i would hope that i would be important enough for him to stop doing it. sometimes it's a little annoying because i love being naked around other people, but it's not like modeling is my job or anything. everyone involved seems to be able to find a way to work around it, so whatever big_smile

Sep 14 12 03:27 pm  Link  Quote 
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T Brown
Posts: 2,460
Traverse City, Michigan, US


Caustic Disco wrote:

my boyfriend doesn't like it. he doesn't like the idea of me being nude or seminude around someone who isn't him. so i don't even do implieds really any more. a few people have told me "do whatever you want, he doesn't own you!" but i respect his wishes because he respects mine. if i wanted him to stop doing something that upset me i would hope that i would be important enough for him to stop doing it. sometimes it's a little annoying because i love being naked around other people, but it's not like modeling is my job or anything. everyone involved seems to be able to find a way to work around it, so whatever big_smile

compromise is a given in any relationship, just be sure you don't compromise too much.  smile you've got a good head on your shoulders.

Sep 14 12 03:34 pm  Link  Quote 
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Extrosy
Posts: 656
Minneapolis, Minnesota, US


Caustic Disco wrote:

sometimes it's a little annoying because i love being naked around other people big_smile

I learn so many interesting things about women here that break my stereotypes.  smile

Sep 14 12 03:57 pm  Link  Quote 
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Lynn Elizabeth
Posts: 1,336
Coral Springs, Florida, US


My husband fully supports my modeling. Even nude work! When I get images from shoots he tells me what he likes about it and what he doesn't. Even simple things like how my hair looks.
Sep 14 12 04:02 pm  Link  Quote 
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Ivanafox
Posts: 979
Healesville, Victoria, Australia


My husband is very proud of what I do. He tells everyone that i'm a model.
Sep 14 12 04:10 pm  Link  Quote 
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Dane Halo
Posts: 1,128
Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada


Only became an issue once.  No, not my modeling.  My boyfriend.  He was out the door the moment he said he didn't like me modeling.

Boyfriends come and go.  Passions stick.
Sep 14 12 04:11 pm  Link  Quote 
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Rich Burroughs
Posts: 3,259
Portland, Oregon, US


Mischa Marie wrote:
Never been an issue. I've been doing this longer than I've known him.

I've known models where that was the case and they still had issues. The guys knew going in and still wanted to change the women. Good for you that it's not an issue smile

Sep 14 12 04:19 pm  Link  Quote 
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