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How bad is it for newbies (Inappropriate offers)?
ShivaKitty wrote: Never would have guessed this. Sep 18 12 07:08 pm Link MilliNY wrote: No...but obviously you are familiar with it. Sep 19 12 12:34 am Link 1873 Images wrote: Really? 1873 Images wrote: Sounds like you said it. 1873 Images wrote: No one knows definitively why newbies leave the site. Many of us suspect that they leave primarily because they are just not serious enough about modeling, and didn't know how hard it was...but that is as speculative as your theory. Sep 19 12 12:40 am Link I think there's many new 'models' here who just want to be able to say that they are models. Having a profile on MM or a similar site allows them to tell their friends that they're part time models and maybe even impress a few guys. When they start getting mails about work they panic and pull their profile. Most of them never intended posing or even discussing a shoot. I was on another site and about 50% of model profiles had no pics and no personal details, it's not like that here at least. Sep 19 12 05:57 am Link I wouldn't say it was "bad." It was plentiful. I had tons of porn offers within a few days of putting up my profile. Plenty of money offered. All you have to do is say, "no thanks." After it got to be annoying to reject offers every day, putting a simple disclaimer in my bio about not being interested in adult work, it stopped immediately...can't say that about the scams though. They're he bigger problem. Sep 19 12 07:58 am Link Shawn Meadows wrote: You shouldn't be receiving *any* offers for adult work on Model Mayhem. This is not permitted. To report the offender, visit http://www.ripoffreport.com Sep 19 12 09:01 am Link Image K wrote: The question is how big a problem is this? Read the last sentence of the OP. Sep 19 12 07:01 pm Link Jordan Bunniie wrote: This. twoharts wrote: These guys target new profiles - members that might not yet have found out that you even can CAM messages/other members or might not know what is considered a CAMable offense. Sep 20 12 08:54 am Link i think mayhem should make CAM part of the main navigation and also get that in front of newbie models somehow (maybe in an introductory email). models shouldn't have to put up with that here. even CL got rid of the adult section (although i guess that stuff just filtered into the regular part). Babalon Salome wrote: Sep 20 12 09:14 am Link I got offers for porn when I first joined, and offers where I slowly realized that the photographer was looking for more than just "art nudes", and offers to go the the beach for picnics!. I think the most difficult part was learning to navigate seemingly legit offers and scope out what the actual concept was before agreeing to anything. And I didn't know you could report people, that would have been helpful. I think most people get offers when they first join - I've friends who're also on MM who've mentioned it. That's probably a factor in people realizing modelling is not for them but can't be the whole story. Sep 21 12 12:04 am Link Rollo David Snook wrote: If you're paying agency rates, I'd be as annoyed as you! Sep 21 12 12:09 am Link Rollo David Snook wrote: Agreed. Sep 21 12 04:30 am Link I'm a newbie and I'm not sure what exactly I should be looking out for. The obvious ones I can pick of course, but I'm still so weary even with photographers who do TFP.. Sep 21 12 04:50 am Link 1873 Images wrote: When I first joined MM a few years ago I received a slew of offers for work that, at the time, I didn't do (nudes) and work that I would never consider even still (porn, webcam gigs, escorts etc.) Sep 21 12 07:51 am Link Why doesn't MM have a little follow up or survey for when people want to leave? Many places do, that way they can improve their positioning with current and future members. For me, I'd like to know if when I started years ago on MM if it was as frequent as today? It harms all of us, to have people come and go so fast, and if it is because the inundation of porn type requests that is something that has to be reviewed. Sep 21 12 08:10 am Link Neil Snape wrote: Good idea! Sep 21 12 08:54 am Link blizzard does this for their world of warcraft game. when you stop paying on your monthly description they ask why. if good models are leaving because they get inundated with porn offers then i think that's something mayhem should be concerned about. Neil Snape wrote: Sep 21 12 09:01 am Link Sounds good to me as well, but why wait until they leave? Maybe a survey could be sent to llamas a week or a month after they register just to ask if they are getting these kinds of offers, and letting them know they can report anything inappropriate. Sep 21 12 09:02 am Link I must be doing something wrong here then, because I never get offers for adult/porn/erotic/webcam/etc/etc work of any kind. (Other than art nudes, which... I shoot, so that is kind of expected) Sep 21 12 09:10 am Link if it makes you feel any better i'd definitely cast you to be in my porn movie! if i made porn movies which i don't. i wonder why some girls get so many requests and you don't? maybe it's something about their age/profile that makes them seem like easy targets. or their location. Amber Tench wrote: Sep 21 12 09:19 am Link twoharts wrote: Yay, porn! Sep 21 12 09:23 am Link _Rei_ wrote: +1 Sep 21 12 09:34 am Link I've worked with several models who, at the time of the shoot, had no MM profile/page. Just about everyone of them have been bombarded with offers to shoot nudes, porno, adult content. Even though..... they have no nudes in the port and state spefically in their profiles that they are not interested. Some of the photographers who send them the messages won't take no for an answer up to the point of beeing creepy. I do, however, warn them that it will happen. One 16 y/o model in the area, who just put her page up, has been getting those offers as well. I told her mother to block and CAM them. Sep 21 12 09:43 am Link There are always folks who are going to prey on newbies. When I joined MM, I didn't receive an inappropriate offer for a photo shoot. I did receive several emails from local models asking me if I'd like to pay them for art nudes. The models were typically mediocre and charging some ridiculous rate. I took a few of them up on the offer and others I didn't. In hindsight, I wasted a lot of time and money. Part of the problem might be inappropriate offers but I think largely, most of these girls aren't serious in the least and/ or get easily distracted by other things in life. Sep 21 12 09:53 am Link i worked with a new model recently who went so far as to receive one of the nigerian scam checks! i guess they're just so excited about getting started they put aside their BS detector. Amber Tench wrote: Sep 21 12 09:54 am Link Park Avenue Pin-ups wrote: Read my previous posts. Sep 21 12 01:20 pm Link Kelleth wrote: I would think that most models that are serious about modeling react that way. Sep 21 12 01:24 pm Link Image K wrote: You should read the OP, the question posed isn't why people leave it's how big a problem are inappropriate offers. Sep 21 12 08:09 pm Link Shaz111 wrote: Well there are several who do, they may not say so on MM but they do. Another reason why some folks ignore the nudity flag on profiles. I know I have seen a few playboy models here with no nudes selected in their profile and others have commented about it. I recall in a thread someone mentioned several names of models who also shoot porn under a different name. The thread was locked and removed obviously but it was growing fast at the time... Sep 21 12 08:17 pm Link Laura UnBound wrote: I think profiles are pulled because many dont really it through before posting, it doesnt cost anything to post a profile and might look like a bit of fun until you realize its actually going to mean that you have to work on it to get jobs. When I first signed up, for at least 6 months, the majority of my inbox was as follows -Porn -thinly veiled porn -offers for something else that turned into porn as the conversation went on -people with no portfolio/references -people really freaking far away -legit but stupid offers -legit good offers that i actually took I was 17. A LOT of newbies are young. A lot of newbies havent tried doing any sort of business online before. Being bombarded with unappealing offers would naturally lead a newbie to believe "well if thats all Im going to get, whats the point?" and pull their profile. One of the first places I went when I signed up was into the forums. I saw other people complaining of those types of messages, and I saw that there were a lot of other people (models and photographers) who were on their side and proof that once you weed through the bullshit you could actually maybe get somewhere. So I stayed around and ignored the offers I didnt want, CAMed the ones I could, and eventually made it to round two and set up some good shoots that helped build my portfolio. The website has a huge membership, only a very small percentage even see the forums much less participate in them. Theres no banner that pops up over your inbox when youre a newbie that says "HANG IN THERE, IT GETS BETTER! ITS NOT ALL POV "artistic" PORN!". C Nox wrote: Thanks. Newbie here and I've read this entire thread. Great information here on an interesting topic. Sep 21 12 08:22 pm Link twoharts wrote: From the feedback I have received, only a small percentage actually "leave" (as in close their account). Many more just abandon their account so they remain classed as active members even though they have no intention of ever logging in again. Given that MM seems to consider anyone logging in even once within the past five years to be an "active account", I'm not sure they view any of this as a problem. Sep 21 12 08:34 pm Link The problem may not be MM. It could be a new model decides to create a profile indicating he/she will shoot nude and her husband/boyfriend, father, or boss catches wind of it and demands the profile be shut down or her coworkers, classmates, or brother's pervy friends find it and pester her so much she closes it to shut them up. I've noticed a few people start a profile and then shut it down almost as quick...but I never assumed it was MM. I just didn't know their life story. Sep 21 12 08:57 pm Link D-Light wrote: +1 Sep 22 12 04:13 pm Link 1873 Images wrote: How would this thread answer that question, and what would constitute "a problem"? Sep 23 12 03:15 am Link Highwaymen Studios wrote: I agree with you...but the OP suspects differently. Sep 23 12 03:18 am Link Isis22 wrote: This is an answers to the question, it is a faily regular occurence for you. Thanks Sep 23 12 05:57 am Link It's MUCH worse when you first start modelling, I used to get dodgy offers all the time. Interestingly, once I started nude modelling, I got much less. And they get much less frequent the more experience you get. Sep 23 12 05:59 am Link Image K wrote: If a number of models state it is a regular-ongoing occurence. Sep 23 12 06:00 am Link I generally refrain from getting involved with these threads, but this may be worth considering. Predators at any level develop a good sense of profiling their prey. Typical GWC is looking for insecurity, lack of experience, shyness, the "need to please" profile statements, etc. each has a little different thing they hunt for. Take a look at your portfolio and profile. I could probably make a pretty good guess at which ones attract inappropriate offers. As your experience grows, the self confidence shows in your portfolio. Lions go after the young and weak, not the prime condition herd members. Grow strong quick. Oct 04 12 08:48 pm Link I get inappropriate offers all the time. I am in a strip club when this happens. Why are these strippers approaching me? Just because I walk into a strip club right away they all think I am there to look at naked ladies. I am there for the happy hour buffet. Maybe I should consider the environment I am swimming in and prepare myself to deal with any sharks that are in the water. (if you don't get the point I am making you may want to consider you are not ready to swim) Oct 04 12 09:08 pm Link |