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William Kious
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Delphos, Ohio, US


macshot20 photography wrote:
i dont see her like that

Dilemma solved.

macshot20 photography wrote:
, she says she trusts me and wants to get it over with so should i be the one to do it or should i not?.

Do her a favor and say no.

macshot20 photography wrote:
obviously im not one of those kinda guys if im asking strangers if i should do it sooooo what should i do? lmfao

Of course you're "one of those kinda guys". In fact... you're WORSE by far. Why? Because you've already stated that you don't see her like that, but you're still considering it. That makes you MORE of a dog than the guy who is honest about wanting in her pants.

Why she trusts you is beyond me. You're taking something that's personal and very private and broadcasting it all over Model Mayhem. Sure, we don't know her name, but she trusted you with the information/request.

Grow... up.

Sep 20 12 09:12 pm  Link  Quote 
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NounStudio
Posts: 1,605
Sarasota, Florida, US


Presley ONeil wrote:

Dp

DP on her first time???

Now that's a party!

Sep 20 12 09:21 pm  Link  Quote 
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Cait Chan
Posts: 6,272
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US


William Kious wrote:

macshot20 photography wrote:
i dont see her like that

Dilemma solved.


Do her a favor and say no.


Of course you're "one of those kinda guys". In fact... you're WORSE by far. Why? Because you've already stated that you don't see her like that, but you're still considering it. That makes you MORE of a dog than the guy who is honest about wanting in her pants.

Why she trusts you is beyond me. You're taking something that's personal and very private and broadcasting it all over llama Mayhem. Sure, we don't know her name, but she trusted you with the information/request.

Grow... up.

Come on...

He doesn't wanna " screw up a chance to get laid"

Sep 20 12 11:09 pm  Link  Quote 
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macshot20 photography
Posts: 291
Stockton, California, US


Cait Chan wrote:

Come on...

He doesn't wanna " screw up a chance to get laid"

lmao yall probably didnt read any of the stuff i posted, its coo... ;op

Sep 20 12 11:57 pm  Link  Quote 
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Cait Chan
Posts: 6,272
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US


macshot20 photography wrote:

lmao yall probably didnt read any of the stuff i posted, its coo... ;op

No I did. And you posted that wink

Sep 21 12 12:00 am  Link  Quote 
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Phane
Posts: 1,959
Rockville, Maryland, US


William Kious wrote:

macshot20 photography wrote:
i dont see her like that

Dilemma solved.

macshot20 photography wrote:
, she says she trusts me and wants to get it over with so should i be the one to do it or should i not?.

Do her a favor and say no.


Of course you're "one of those kinda guys". In fact... you're WORSE by far. Why? Because you've already stated that you don't see her like that, but you're still considering it. That makes you MORE of a dog than the guy who is honest about wanting in her pants.

Why she trusts you is beyond me. You're taking something that's personal and very private and broadcasting it all over Model Mayhem. Sure, we don't know her name, but she trusted you with the information/request.

Grow... up.

This + 100

Sep 21 12 10:12 am  Link  Quote 
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Carlos Occidental
Posts: 10,542
Pasadena, California, US


Iv'e done it twice.  Worked out for me and the woman just fine.  Not a very big deal as long as both go in knowing what to expect during and after.  People are far too uptight about such things.  The friendship survived just fine after both incidents.
Sep 21 12 10:36 am  Link  Quote 
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Carlos Occidental
Posts: 10,542
Pasadena, California, US


LitaKita wrote:
... 'just to get it over with' isn't a very good reason to do something like this either.. neutral

Bull.  You are not the woman.  It's as good a reason as any.  She just doesn't want to be awkward her first time with someone else and wants some experience beforehand with someone she trusts.  Don't speak for her.  Don't speak for him.

Sep 21 12 10:39 am  Link  Quote 
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Carlos Occidental
Posts: 10,542
Pasadena, California, US


T Brown wrote:
its a big deal to some people...because it means something personal to them.

It obviously isn't that big a deal to the woman in question, or the OP.  It's just a big deal to you.

Sep 21 12 10:40 am  Link  Quote 
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Wildcat Photography
Posts: 1,486
Valparaiso, Indiana, US


Presley ONeil wrote:
Dp
NounStudio wrote:
DP on her first time???

Now that's a party!

Yes, that is what I thought, double penetration would quite the devirginizing.

But that would also take a second guy...or with him another girl with a strap on.

Wildcat

Sep 21 12 11:16 am  Link  Quote 
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Shifting Paradigm Photo
Posts: 25
Minneapolis, Minnesota, US


I suggest you print off this list of comments. Since you've made a very private request into a public discussion, I have a feeling she'll see you in a somewhat different way, so you won't have this being such an oppressive issue in your life.
Sep 21 12 01:12 pm  Link  Quote 
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The F-Stop
Posts: 1,136
New York, New York, US


You should have kept this private.

Just do it already!
Sep 21 12 02:00 pm  Link  Quote 
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Koryn
Posts: 34,634
Boston, Massachusetts, US


AdelaideJohn1967 wrote:
Why the hell is losing one's virginity such a big fucking deal?

It was a big fucking deal to me, because it took me three years to find someone who would fuck me the first time, even though I had wanted to lose my virginity since high school. It was emotionally painful, and frustrating.

I wasn't considered "hot" as a teenager, was bullied a lot, never had a boyfriend, or even a date. I finally ended up trading some semi-decent-looking kid who lived in my dorm building a case of beer to have sex with me, because I was a college sophomore by that point, and felt like I *deserved* to know what sex was like. Prior to that time, every time I took a shine to someone, they were always like, "I just don't see you that way."

That was also the first time I'd ever actually seen a penis, and I'm not joking. So, yeah, it was a big fucking deal.

Sep 21 12 02:13 pm  Link  Quote 
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Christopher Carter
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Indianapolis, Indiana, US


I think it's time to take the word "professional" out of the name of this website.
Sep 21 12 02:21 pm  Link  Quote 
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Brooks Ayola
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Chatsworth, California, US


Oh, Model Mayhem... Why can't I quit you?
Sep 21 12 02:39 pm  Link  Quote 
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The F-Stop
Posts: 1,136
New York, New York, US


ShivaKitty wrote:

It was a big fucking deal to me, because it took me three years to find someone who would fuck me the first time, even though I had wanted to lose my virginity since high school. It was emotionally painful, and frustrating.

I wasn't considered "hot" as a teenager, was bullied a lot, never had a boyfriend, or even a date. I finally ended up trading some semi-decent-looking kid who lived in my dorm building a case of beer to have sex with me, because I was a college sophomore by that point, and felt like I *deserved* to know what sex was like. Prior to that time, every time I took a shine to someone, they were always like, "I just don't see you that way."

That was also the first time I'd ever actually seen a penis, and I'm not joking. So, yeah, it was a big fucking deal.

Oh yeah I see what you mean. Are you pulling my leg? Paid a guy a case of beer?.. where the hell was I when all this happened? Are guys today idiots passing up babes like you?

Sep 21 12 03:01 pm  Link  Quote 
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UnoMundo
Posts: 47,527
Olympia, Washington, US


The F-Stop wrote:

Oh yeah I see what you mean. Are you pulling my leg? Paid a guy a case of beer?.. where the hell was I when all this happened? Are guys today idiots passing up babes like you?

Not surprising. Some people bloom late. I totally ignored a girl in high school, she turned out years  later smoking hot like Angela Bassett.

Then I did a photo session for a Indian woman who complained that she was 30 years old and had never been kissed. She was at that time an abused Indian wife. She put those photos on a Indian dating site, remarried later and told me she was happy.

Sep 21 12 03:15 pm  Link  Quote 
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Wildcat Photography
Posts: 1,486
Valparaiso, Indiana, US


ShivaKitty wrote:

It was a big fucking deal to me, because it took me three years to find someone who would fuck me the first time, even though I had wanted to lose my virginity since high school. It was emotionally painful, and frustrating.

I wasn't considered "hot" as a teenager, was bullied a lot, never had a boyfriend, or even a date. I finally ended up trading some semi-decent-looking kid who lived in my dorm building a case of beer to have sex with me, because I was a college sophomore by that point, and felt like I *deserved* to know what sex was like. Prior to that time, every time I took a shine to someone, they were always like, "I just don't see you that way."

That was also the first time I'd ever actually seen a penis, and I'm not joking. So, yeah, it was a big fucking deal.

I am very sorry that you had to go through this.

Teenagers can be so cruel with bullying.

Sep 21 12 04:03 pm  Link  Quote 
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ASYLUM - Photo
Posts: 38,283
Washington, District of Columbia, US


Only if you laugh maniacally while doing it and yell out, "Satan loves you!!!!"
Sep 21 12 05:46 pm  Link  Quote 
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TRPn Pics
Posts: 10,431
Andrews, North Carolina, US


I think it's a safe bet to say within a month or two ......
Sep 21 12 09:15 pm  Link  Quote 
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T
Posts: 53,547
Washington, District of Columbia, US


TRPn Pics wrote:

Dude !

http://images3.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20111125162443/glee/images/2/21/Smh--4.gif

OMG This is awesome! lol

Sep 21 12 09:38 pm  Link  Quote 
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T
Posts: 53,547
Washington, District of Columbia, US


ShivaKitty wrote:

It was a big fucking deal to me, because it took me three years to find someone who would fuck me the first time, even though I had wanted to lose my virginity since high school. It was emotionally painful, and frustrating.

I wasn't considered "hot" as a teenager, was bullied a lot, never had a boyfriend, or even a date. I finally ended up trading some semi-decent-looking kid who lived in my dorm building a case of beer to have sex with me, because I was a college sophomore by that point, and felt like I *deserved* to know what sex was like. Prior to that time, every time I took a shine to someone, they were always like, "I just don't see you that way."

That was also the first time I'd ever actually seen a penis, and I'm not joking. So, yeah, it was a big fucking deal.

http://static.tumblr.com/v1asjlx/i2olwzpv1/sebastian_jaw_drop.gif

Sep 21 12 09:41 pm  Link  Quote 
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Cherrystone
Posts: 35,260
Columbus, Ohio, US


T wrote:

http://static.tumblr.com/v1asjlx/i2olwzpv1/sebastian_jaw_drop.gif

LMAO..... lol lol

Sep 22 12 12:01 pm  Link  Quote 
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Cosplay Creatives
Posts: 10,714
Amundsen-Scott - permanent station of the US, Unclaimed Sector, Antarctica


WTH, this got marked off as a permanent OT thread!?
Sep 22 12 12:25 pm  Link  Quote 
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