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Jenny Jannetty
Posts: 436
Roanoke, Virginia, US


My husband is just starting to take a real intrest in photography.  After 5 years of his support in my modeling, I find it silly to even think of jealousy.  He has never gotten jealous when I get nude for photographers.  All he ever says to me is "You do what you like and feel comfortable with."  He loves me way too much to ruin our marriage over innappropriate behaviour, and he knows I love him too much too.  It's all about trust.  I trust him completely smile
Oct 13 12 07:43 am  Link  Quote 
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Shifting Paradigm Photo
Posts: 25
Minneapolis, Minnesota, US


What a pointless issue.  You make some presumption that we're outside the norm, some sort of perverts or freaks. Would you feel better if those of us who are "nude photographers" wore a Scarlet "N" our our chests? I haven't looked, but I assume this question was raised by an American. Nobody else in the world cares one way or the other. Ah, the American fear of nipples. You can expose everything but two bits of skin the size of a coin. Frankly, if I were single and dating, I wouldn't date anyone with that kind of puritanical point of view. Get a life.
Oct 13 12 07:51 am  Link  Quote 
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KonstantKarma
Posts: 2,512
Hickory, North Carolina, US


As a nude photographer, my bed is kept warm much more often than before. I'm exposed to more artsy types who share similar interests.

However, when I did nude modelling I got shot down quite a bit for dates, as that bothers a lot of people it seems.
Oct 13 12 08:38 am  Link  Quote 
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Image Studios
Posts: 175
Marengo, Illinois, US


The better question would be do models who do not shoot nudes, would they date a photographer who photographs nude models.
Oct 13 12 09:07 am  Link  Quote 
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MB Jen B
Posts: 2,433
Anchorage, Alaska, US


VisiFoto wrote:
Or rather a photographer of nudes?

Would you trust him/her around beautiful nudes on a regular basis?

Why or why not?

If he is someone that I would date regardless of him shooting nudes then yes, I would date him as his art is not a dealbreaker, (quite the opposite.)

I feel more comfortable around people that have an artistic perception and view of the world and want to create work to express express or live that and can relate to *some* of them more than with people who are not like that.
Jen

Oct 13 12 11:09 am  Link  Quote 
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Webspinner
Posts: 6,927
Chicago, Illinois, US


I honestly dont care what someone does...as long as they dont lie about it or act like its some kind of issue. Within reason. I am both a naked model and photographer big_smile
i used to have five naked women including myself running around my place for weeks. I didnt date any of them...but I did live with my bf at the time who had no issue...other than the estrogen overload making him leave
Oct 13 12 11:38 am  Link  Quote 
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Webspinner
Posts: 6,927
Chicago, Illinois, US


Beautiful gets commonplace...if you are a REAL photographer or artist...you are concentrating on the exposure and composition...no matter how erotic the subject may be. So men and women are attracted to surface beauty...If you actually  have muses you shoot a million times...It becomes a different ballgame. Once you shoot with 200 photographers and have shot with 200 models...you realize that this american association with nude/sensual and available are farces.
Oct 13 12 11:40 am  Link  Quote 
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Webspinner
Posts: 6,927
Chicago, Illinois, US


Image Studios wrote:
The better question would be do models who do not shoot nudes, would they date a photographer who photographs nude models.

I wouldnt date a prude. They wouldnt last a week. And i would think a photographer that was uptight about shhooting nudes would be uptight about dating a model who did.

Oct 13 12 11:42 am  Link  Quote 
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KATHY JEAN
Posts: 5,511
Pekin, Illinois, US


KonstantKarma wrote:
As a nude photographer, my bed is kept warm much more often than before. I'm exposed to more artsy types who share similar interests.

However, when I did nude modelling I got shot down quite a bit for dates, as that bothers a lot of people it seems.

Your response is a breath of fresh air.

Oct 13 12 01:29 pm  Link  Quote 
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Art of the nude
Posts: 11,748
Olivet, Michigan, US


Webspinner wrote:
I honestly dont care what someone does...as long as they dont lie about it or act like its some kind of issue. Within reason. I am both a naked model and photographer big_smile
i used to have five naked women including myself running around my place for weeks. I didnt date any of them...but I did live with my bf at the time who had no issue...other than the estrogen overload making him leave

Personally, if I had five naked women running around the house, models or not, I'd find a way to deal with it.  big_smile

Oct 13 12 02:28 pm  Link  Quote 
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Art of the nude
Posts: 11,748
Olivet, Michigan, US


Webspinner wrote:
I wouldnt date a prude. They wouldnt last a week. And i would think a photographer that was uptight about shhooting nudes would be uptight about dating a model who did.

Assuming I was single, I wouldn't have a problem dating a model who didn't shoot nudes, if she treated it as a personal preference, rather than judging me or the models I worked with.

I can think of several non nude models from the forums and from my personal work who have completely respectful attitudes about work that they personally don't do.  If I praise them by name, someone would probably deem it outing, so I won't.

Oct 13 12 02:32 pm  Link  Quote 
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Kelleth
Posts: 2,437
Toronto, Ontario, Canada


My husband is a professional fashion photographer (who sometimes includes an element of nudity in his shots where fits). I am completely comfortable with him doing this just as he is comfortable with my modeling. We trust each other and both know how each other conducts themself on set.
Oct 13 12 06:04 pm  Link  Quote 
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Lanna_
Posts: 817
Seattle, Washington, US


Am I one of the few models to say no?

No.

I enjoy a separation of work and home life.  It's nice to share life with a person who rounds me out.  I model full time and spend a lot of my day preparing for work, going to castings, emailing about work, actually working, etc.  At the end of the day I like to forget work - I'm not sure I'd want to be involved with someone else in the same field.  I feel like we'd just end up taking work home all the time.  That's not how I recharge.

It's not a trust issue, just a conflict of interests wink When you spend your day immersed in something, it's a breath of fresh air to be with a person who brings you a different perspective.

Would I date someone with an interest in photography (any genre)? Sure, I don't see why not.  Would I date someone who does this full time as a profession?  Not likely.
Oct 14 12 01:07 am  Link  Quote 
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M U S E
Posts: 226
Durham, North Carolina, US


VisiFoto wrote:
Or rather a photographer of nudes?

Would you trust him/her around beautiful nudes on a regular basis?

Why or why not?

It depends on the qualty of the nudes.  If he is just shooting "naked girls" and has only chosen nude photography to get women into bed, lol then no. But if he is a true artist who acts professional, then sure i'd date him smile

Oct 14 12 01:26 am  Link  Quote 
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Echo_
Posts: 269
Besançon, Franche-Comté, France


Lanna_ wrote:
Am I one of the few models to say no?

No.

I enjoy a separation of work and home life.  It's nice to share life with a person who rounds me out.  I model full time and spend a lot of my day preparing for work, going to castings, emailing about work, actually working, etc.  At the end of the day I like to forget work - I'm not sure I'd want to be involved with someone else in the same field.  I feel like we'd just end up taking work home all the time.  That's not how I recharge.

It's not a trust issue, just a conflict of interests wink When you spend your day immersed in something, it's a breath of fresh air to be with a person who brings you a different perspective.

Would I date someone with an interest in photography (any genre)? Sure, I don't see why not.  Would I date someone who does this full time as a profession?  Not likely.

Like the above poster, I wouldn't either.
not because they shoot nudes but rather because I wouldn't want to date someone in the same field as me.

Oct 14 12 02:28 am  Link  Quote 
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Figuremodel001
Posts: 246
Chicago, Illinois, US


Augustine York wrote:
Sure I would. For the same reasons that my boyfriend (well, now husband) trusts me to be naked around people. It's just about being a in a secure, trusting relationship.

Me, too except change to girlfriend (well, now wife). She actually likes hanging around the photographer side of the camera.

Oct 14 12 11:20 am  Link  Quote 
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VisiFoto
Posts: 501
Knoxville, Tennessee, US


Image Studios wrote:
The better question would be do models who do not shoot nudes, would they date a photographer who photographs nude models.

Exactly.

And...once a photog shoots nudes, does the list of approving dates shrink to only include nude models?

Oct 14 12 09:00 pm  Link  Quote 
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VisiFoto
Posts: 501
Knoxville, Tennessee, US


KonstantKarma wrote:
As a nude photographer, my bed is kept warm much more often than before. I'm exposed to more artsy types who share similar interests.

However, when I did nude modelling I got shot down quite a bit for dates, as that bothers a lot of people it seems.

Hence the secrecy on MM.

It does appear to require substituting one group of friends for another.

Oct 14 12 09:01 pm  Link  Quote 
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VisiFoto
Posts: 501
Knoxville, Tennessee, US


immateria wrote:
If I can get naked in front of strange men, my boyfriend can look at nude women.

But really, I am in a trusting relationship. Why would I worry?

Yes, that's a powerfull benefit.

"Honey, if you let me strip for strange men, I'll let you see all the naked women you want."

Hard to say no to that...

Oct 14 12 09:54 pm  Link  Quote 
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VisiFoto
Posts: 501
Knoxville, Tennessee, US


Art of the nude wrote:
Personally, if I had five naked women running around the house, models or not, I'd find a way to deal with it.  big_smile

Roger that...man up! (figuratively or literally)

Oct 14 12 09:55 pm  Link  Quote 
Photographer
VisiFoto
Posts: 501
Knoxville, Tennessee, US


Art of the nude wrote:

Lee Nutter wrote:
For those that haven't seen it, the opposite question has been raised in the photographers forum smile

You linked to THIS thread . . . .

http://www.modelmayhem.com/po.php?threa … 672&page=1

Oct 15 12 12:21 am  Link  Quote 
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K E S L E R
Posts: 11,572
Los Angeles, California, US


No, bad idea.
Oct 15 12 11:43 am  Link  Quote 
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BarryH
Posts: 823
Taipei City, Taipei City, Taiwan


Phone conversaton with my wife from a couple of years ago:

She: "Hi baby, what are you doing?"

I: "I'm in a hotel room with a naked woman."

She: "Do you have your camera with you?"

I: "Yes."

She: "Ok, then. See you tonight."


I love my wife.
Oct 15 12 10:53 pm  Link  Quote 
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Seker Pare
Posts: 186
Canberra, Australian Capital Territory, Australia


haha big_smile

why not? It would be the same as someone distrusting me for doing nude modelling.
If someone is likely to be unreliable and deceptive, I like to think I'd figure that out and if not just cut it out once you notice.
Oct 16 12 01:56 am  Link  Quote 
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Danielle Reid
Posts: 2,977
Little Rock, Arkansas, US


Why are people so afraid of the human body?
Oct 16 12 02:00 am  Link  Quote 
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Rebecca Elizabeth
Posts: 11
Bournemouth, England, United Kingdom


yeh, just because there nude doesnt mean there going to just have sex, he could come onto any model, fashio,,commerical ect or anyone on the planet.
Oct 16 12 04:33 am  Link  Quote 
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Woven Thought
Posts: 328
Petersburg, Virginia, US


VisiFoto wrote:
There's a huge number of models (and photogs) afraid to comment and reveal their inner demons...which I find most interesting.

Are you okay?  or just seeing if you can find controversy? 

I already answered on the other thread, and it's the same view as the models here.  You have the WRONG question.  I find it sad when people don't even know the question they should be asking.

Oct 16 12 04:43 am  Link  Quote 
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