I love this.

But I made up my mind. I'm gonna upgrade. She's not really in touch with my generation so much anyways (she's 65!).

Ugh.

Thanks for chipping in here though.

Its important to feel that your needs are met. Verbalizing why you left to her would be helpful for you to empower yourself and may teach her something.

I hear you. I did that with my first guy, who was never able to answer the phone or even return a call before the week was over. Sometimes I couldn't get ahold of anyone to even make an appointment. Then his secretary lied to me (which he told me, in all honesty. I was surprised.) . I broke up with him gently, and he thanked me and told me that he'd take these issues seriously and that it will help him be a better dude to the next patient.

I think secretly he was happy to be rid of me. I was a trainwreck.