login info join!
Forums > Off-Topic Discussion > SF2: Ess Effin Two > please, nobody else. Search   Reply
Model
rhus
Posts: 1,820
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US


4 deaths this year, 2 of which are life-changing for me. It's December... there can't be any more this year, right??  .....right??
Dec 04 12 02:23 am  Link  Quote 
guide forum
Model
Sha-Lynne
Posts: 22,680
Las Vegas, Nevada, US


rhus wrote:
4 deaths this year, 2 of which are life-changing for me. It's December... there can't be any more this year, right??  .....right??

Deal.


I'm sorry you're going through all of this...that's a lot to handle at once.  *hug*

Dec 04 12 02:26 am  Link  Quote 
Model
rhus
Posts: 1,820
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US


Sha-Lynne wrote:
Deal.


I'm sorry you're going through all of this...that's a lot to handle at once.  *hug*

*hugs back*  Thank you....

just having a bad moment...

(did I ever tell you that I discovered you because you didn't sign out of a photographer's account on MM and he accidentally emailed me from your account....?)

^rhus is drunk on MM again^

Dec 04 12 02:34 am  Link  Quote 
guide forum
Model
Sha-Lynne
Posts: 22,680
Las Vegas, Nevada, US


rhus wrote:

*hugs back*  Thank you....

just having a bad moment...

(did I ever tell you that I discovered you because you didn't sign out of a photographer's account on MM and he accidentally emailed me from your account....?)

^rhus is drunk on MM again^

Entirely understandable.  If you ever need to talk...

Haha that's funny...do you remember who it was?

Dec 04 12 02:38 am  Link  Quote 
Model
rhus
Posts: 1,820
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US


Sha-Lynne wrote:

Entirely understandable.  If you ever need to talk...

Haha that's funny...do you remember who it was?

It was Creative Lens Photo in Lancaster, PA... lol. 

Thank you. I don't tend to talk much about this stuff outside of the occasional online rant, but I know where you live... sort of...

Dec 04 12 03:00 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Carl Roberts
Posts: 32,888
Saint Petersburg, Florida, US


Doing a lot of Probate work and having lost both parents myself I have had a fair bit of exposure to death and it's effects...

I comfort myself by thinking the following...

First and foremost, they are in a better place. I'm personally convinced of that.
I feel our time here on earth in our mortal coils is intentionally meant to be short and that death is just as much a part of life as being born is.
And that when we die we go back to the ether from whence we came and rejoin all those that have come before us and all those that have yet to come as one common entity.

Further, if you think about what the most feared creature in all of history is you'll realize it is Vampires. Not because they suck blood, but because they curse you with the unforgivable curse of eternal life

While loss is painful, it is a selfish pain, it is a pain felt by those that remain, not by those that have departed, because they feel no pain, they are happy and reunited.

Sorry for your losses, this too shall pass

Be well
Dec 04 12 04:55 am  Link  Quote 
Retoucher
Matt Barr
Posts: 246
Richmond, Virginia, US


I went through this last year, losing a couple lifelong friends, a family member and my father in the previous. It's very tough to handle, especially when they are sudden and totally unexpected. My condolences.
Dec 04 12 05:56 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
SME
Posts: 20,702
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, US


I am so sorry to hear this.  That's a lot in one year.  Sending you big hugs.
Dec 04 12 05:57 am  Link  Quote 
Artist/Painter
Two Pears Studio
Posts: 3,243
Wilmington, Delaware, US


It so sucks to lose someone close... I fear that I will lose my father pretty soon. It is a difficult thing to process...

The good thing is I feel I am resourced and have enough support to guide me through. For him and for me.

I hope you have what you need to be a support? I am close if you need an ear?

hard times.
Dec 04 12 07:59 am  Link  Quote 
Model
a raw muse
Posts: 2,816
Brooklyn, New York, US


big hugs to you.
Dec 04 12 08:04 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
DougBPhoto
Posts: 36,958
Portland, Oregon, US


Very sorry for your loss.   

Yes, that is a lot, hopefully more for you this year.
Dec 04 12 08:56 am  Link  Quote 
Model
rhus
Posts: 1,820
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US


Thanks, guys.  Sorry for spilling.  It's just been icky lately.
Dec 05 12 12:42 am  Link  Quote 
Model
Gabrielle Heather
Posts: 10,064
Middle Island, New York, US


Really sorry. There are no words that help when things like this happen. Life sucks when it feels like it keeps throwing fastballs at your face and you are forced to catch them with it. That whole when it rains it pours thing. Hang in there. At least those who passed on are on good company of one another. I am sending you a huge bear hug from anyone you wish it to be from right now. Close your eyes and take it.
Dec 05 12 12:50 am  Link  Quote 
guide forum
Model
Sha-Lynne
Posts: 22,680
Las Vegas, Nevada, US


rhus wrote:

It was Creative Lens Photo in Lancaster, PA... lol. 

Thank you. I don't tend to talk much about this stuff outside of the occasional online rant, but I know where you live... sort of...

Oh wow that was forever ago LoL.  That was a good shoot/trip/etc.

Heh I'm sure you could probably twist Jay's arm to find out  ;P

Dec 05 12 01:01 am  Link  Quote 
  Search   Reply



main | browse | casting/travel | forums | shout box | help | advertising | contests | share | join the mayhem

more modelmayhem on: | | | edu

©2006-2014 ModelMayhem.com. All Rights Reserved.
MODEL MAYHEM is a registered trademark.
Toggle Worksafe Mode: Off | On
Terms | Privacy | Careers