You are.  I do the same thing.  It works.

DougBPhoto wrote:
I'll give you smart and attractive... the jury's still out on funny

I'm fuckin' hilarious, dammit.

Can I be smart, funny, and attractive too?

absolutely. But being/having what I am talking about doesn't require it.

Truth!

I think, after a while, you get so sick of dating that you meet someone that treats you well, and you think it's all good. 

And it's the honeymoon state for a while, and we were long distance for quite a while, so the flaws weren't right in front of me.  The times I did see him were all good because who knew when we'd see each other again.

I got hit with the flaws this past week, and they were the same flaws my ex had, the ones I couldn't take anymore.  I asked for him to make a few small changes, like not change the name of my cat, and he couldn't respect me enough to even do that.

The Midwest doesn't help the situation either.  If you're not married by 22, you're flawed.  And that's a shit way of looking at things.

Bow chicka bow wow

*gets popcorn and opera glasses*

Lucky.  You are all three.  It's a shame you are not nice too.... oh wait, you are nice.  Damn Laura, do you have any flaws at all? 

Tell us some jokes, intelligent attractive woman!

Andialu wrote:

I love that!

Of course you are!

You should write a note, of all the specific qualities You love about Yourself.

I have a notepad with them written on the bottom, handy for terrible days.