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Peach Jones
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Champaign, Illinois, US


I was at a convention this past weekend and noticed a common theme at the bars I went to (which I usually do not frequent very much).  It seemed very obvious to me that the women bartenders and waitresses seemed overly busty, and were not shy in showing an ample amount of cleavage with huge plunging necklines.

My question is, women, have you ever used cleavage like this for any reason?.....like to get better tips?

Men, are you more likely to give a better tip to  a waitress/bartender that has good cleavage?  or are they wasting their time?

Just an unofficial pole I guess. But that seemed to be my thoughts and observations this past weekend.
Jan 16 13 05:24 pm  Link  Quote 
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Jim Ball
Posts: 17,039
Frontenac, Kansas, US


Peach Jones wrote:
I was at a convention this past weekend and noticed a common theme at the bars I went to (which I usually do not frequent very much).  It seemed very obvious to me that the women bartenders and waitresses seemed overly busty, and were not shy in showing an ample amount of cleavage with huge plunging necklines.

My question is, women, have you ever used cleavage like this for any reason?.....like to get better tips?

Men, are you more likely to give a better tip to  a waitress/bartender that has good cleavage?  or are they wasting their time?

Just an unofficial pole I guess. But that seemed to be my thoughts and observations this past weekend.

Hooters restaurants modus operendi is based on exactly that.

Jan 16 13 05:29 pm  Link  Quote 
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Lawrence Guy
Posts: 17,620
LAKE PEEKSKILL, New York, US


Peach Jones wrote:
Men, are you more likely to give a better tip to  a waitress/bartender that has good cleavage?  or are they wasting their time?

Smiles get tips. Smiles with cleavage *might* get bigger tips. Cleavage with attitude gets diddly.

Jan 16 13 05:30 pm  Link  Quote 
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Digitoxin
Posts: 13,332
Houston, Texas, US


Drunk conventioneers are likely to do a lot of dumb things.
Jan 16 13 05:31 pm  Link  Quote 
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Dan K Photography
Posts: 5,409
STATEN ISLAND, New York, US


Peach Jones wrote:
I was at a convention this past weekend and noticed a common theme at the bars I went to (which I usually do not frequent very much).  It seemed very obvious to me that the women bartenders and waitresses seemed overly busty, and were not shy in showing an ample amount of cleavage with huge plunging necklines.

My question is, women, have you ever used cleavage like this for any reason?.....like to get better tips?

Men, are you more likely to give a better tip to  a waitress/bartender that has good cleavage?  or are they wasting their time?

Just an unofficial pole I guess. But that seemed to be my thoughts and observations this past weekend.

Are you kidding me? You only noticed this now?

Jan 16 13 05:31 pm  Link  Quote 
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Kincaid Blackwood
Posts: 23,293
Atlanta, Georgia, US


Peach Jones wrote:
Just an unofficial pole I guess.

:: chortle::

Jan 16 13 05:31 pm  Link  Quote 
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DivaEroticus
Posts: 14,285
Fayetteville, Arkansas, US


I'm not a waitress or a bartender, but I'm an attention whore.  So...yes, I use it to my advantage.  :shrug:  Castigate me.
Jan 16 13 05:33 pm  Link  Quote 
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Art Silva
Posts: 8,878
Santa Barbara, California, US


I have to admit as a male, yes it ups the attention, tips and customer return.

I tend to frequent places in my town that have friendly busty service employees, especially if they're friends of mine big_smile

... What, there's nothing wrong with that, geez.
Jan 16 13 05:33 pm  Link  Quote 
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Reflected
Posts: 16,043
New York, New York, US


DivaEroticus wrote:
I'm not a waitress or a bartender, but I'm an attention whore.  So...yes, I use it to my advantage.  :shrug:  Castigate me.

I thought it was "spay" for females.

Jan 16 13 05:36 pm  Link  Quote 
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Jim Ball
Posts: 17,039
Frontenac, Kansas, US


DivaEroticus wrote:
I'm not a waitress or a bartender, but I'm an attention whore.  So...yes, I use it to my advantage.  :shrug:  Castigate me.

Whips and restraints?

Jan 16 13 05:43 pm  Link  Quote 
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Lily Darling
Posts: 1,299
Lansing, Michigan, US


LOL oh yeah!
Jan 16 13 05:45 pm  Link  Quote 
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Poses
Posts: 8,139
Kansas City, Missouri, US


I once accidentally showed cleavage when I was fundraising at an amusement park by working one of those rigged game booths. I had stuffed a couple bucks in my bra to buy a soda while in the park (it was super hot out). The staff accused me of stealing money.

That's right. I've used cleavage to my disadvantage.
Jan 16 13 05:51 pm  Link  Quote 
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DivaEroticus
Posts: 14,285
Fayetteville, Arkansas, US


Reflected wrote:
I thought it was "spay" for females.

Well, I've been spayed, but I will not accept castigation!

tongue

Jan 16 13 05:51 pm  Link  Quote 
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Carlos Occidental
Posts: 10,544
Pasadena, California, US


Either you're sixteen years old, or you've lived under a rock your entire life.
Jan 16 13 05:53 pm  Link  Quote 
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DivaEroticus
Posts: 14,285
Fayetteville, Arkansas, US


Jim Ball wrote:

Whips and restraints?

Mehbeh.

Jan 16 13 05:53 pm  Link  Quote 
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Evie Wolfe
Posts: 1,201
Nottingham, England, United Kingdom


Actually, I used to go the other way - I'd dress in huge jumpers and roll-neck sweaters to try and hide my cleavage, because I was upset by the CONSTANT comments. Since I was about twelve, I've had men shout obscenities at me in the street about my chest, and it's enough to give a girl a complex tongue

Of course, then I realised that big jumpers and roll necks are a great way to make your boobs look even bigger, so now I dress in v-necks to minimise. I still get comments, but now I just brush it off. I've never actively used my chest to get tips or anything, but I do know I get treated much better by men when I wear a low cut dress or top. Maybe I should start doing it more often tongue
Jan 16 13 05:59 pm  Link  Quote 
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Poses
Posts: 8,139
Kansas City, Missouri, US


Evie_Wolfe wrote:
Actually, I used to go the other way - I'd dress in huge jumpers and roll-neck sweaters to try and hide my cleavage, because I was upset by the CONSTANT comments. Since I was about twelve, I've had men shout obscenities at me in the street about my chest, and it's enough to give a girl a complex tongue

Men tell me I'll miss catcalls. I think I'm allowed to be upset by something sexual that started happening to me before I was a teenager.

Jan 16 13 06:03 pm  Link  Quote 
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R A V E N D R I V E
Posts: 15,867
New York, New York, US


when the whole staff is busty and showing cleavage I sometimes ask to see the manager in an angry tone, and then give him a handshake and say thank you

then the managers like you, and then the girls extra like you




plus when you press the start menu to pull up the map, there will always be an extra marker at that bar with the manager's initials
Jan 16 13 06:05 pm  Link  Quote 
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Evie Wolfe
Posts: 1,201
Nottingham, England, United Kingdom


Poses wrote:
Men tell me I'll miss catcalls. I think I'm allowed to be upset by something sexual that started happening to me before I was a teenager.

Some men say a lot of things. Since I moved to nottingham, I haven't been screamed at in the street once in a whole year big_smile I don't miss it. The older ladies in my family say it is one of the biggest reliefs in getting old - that and being allowed to go to bed at 8pm pleading old age and get stuck into a really good book! tongue

Jan 16 13 06:09 pm  Link  Quote 
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R A V E N D R I V E
Posts: 15,867
New York, New York, US


Evie_Wolfe wrote:
Some men say a lot of things. Since I moved to nottingham, I haven't been screamed at in the street once in a whole year big_smile I don't miss it. The older ladies in my family say it is one of the biggest reliefs in getting old - that and being allowed to go to bed at 8pm pleading old age and get stuck into a really good book! tongue

you are listed as 22 though


when I was in college, girls - like juniors and seniors - would ask me when I was going to settle down, haha I was like "lolwut" then, and I'm like "lolwut" now.

as if I was old, those old ladies are weiiird

Jan 16 13 06:11 pm  Link  Quote 
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GK photo
Posts: 27,423
Laguna Beach, California, US


Peach Jones wrote:
Just an unofficial pole I guess.

yikes

get back to me when it's official. smile

Jan 16 13 06:15 pm  Link  Quote 
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Evie Wolfe
Posts: 1,201
Nottingham, England, United Kingdom


R A V E N D R I V E wrote:
you are listed as 22 though


when I was in college, girls - like juniors and seniors - would ask me when I was going to settle down, haha I was like "lolwut" then, and I'm like "lolwut" now.

as if I was old, those old ladies are weiiird

I am embarrassed to say I have absolutely no idea what your point is. I must be being dense, sorry.

Jan 16 13 06:20 pm  Link  Quote 
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Laura UnBound
Posts: 26,984
Toronto, Ontario, Canada


Tits or GTFO didnt come from nothing.
Jan 16 13 06:23 pm  Link  Quote 
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Koryn
Posts: 35,649
Asheville, North Carolina, US


Evie_Wolfe wrote:
Some men say a lot of things. Since I moved to nottingham, I haven't been screamed at in the street once in a whole year big_smile I don't miss it. The older ladies in my family say it is one of the biggest reliefs in getting old - that and being allowed to go to bed at 8pm pleading old age and get stuck into a really good book! tongue

Other women talk about this phenomenon of men harassing them constantly, and being annoying. I never really got any attention from men until I was in my early 20s, and even then, it wasn't that often - pretty much only if I wore some over-the-top outfit that was *begging* for attention. I can probably count on one hand the number of times I've been whistled at, or yelled at, from cars ... and that was years ago.

I got hit on when I worked in strip clubs, but that was ONLY in the club. When I walked back out into my regular life, it stopped there.

Unrelated to the above observation, but still relevant: now that I'm getting a little older, I wouldn't mind having some additional cleavage, but that shit is EXPENSIVE.

Jan 16 13 06:47 pm  Link  Quote 
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Evie Wolfe
Posts: 1,201
Nottingham, England, United Kingdom


Koryn Locke wrote:
Other women talk about this phenomenon of men harassing them constantly, and being annoying. I never really got any attention from men until I was in my early 20s, and even then, it wasn't that often - pretty much only if I wore some over-the-top outfit that was *begging* for attention. I can probably count on one hand the number of times I've been whistled at, or yelled at, from cars ... and that was years ago.

I got hit on when I worked in strip clubs, but that was ONLY in the club. When I walked back out into my regular life, it stopped there.

Unrelated to the above observation, but still relevant: now that I'm getting a little older, I wouldn't mind having some additional cleavage, but that shit is EXPENSIVE.

I think it has a lot to do with the area you live in. In some places it is a lot more acceptable than others.

Jan 16 13 06:57 pm  Link  Quote 
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Koryn
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Asheville, North Carolina, US


Evie_Wolfe wrote:

I think it has a lot to do with the area you live in. In some places it is a lot more acceptable than others.

Yeah. I'm sure it plays a  big role in it.

Jan 16 13 07:25 pm  Link  Quote 
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Farenell Photography
Posts: 17,847
Albany, New York, US


Peach Jones wrote:
Men, are you more likely to give a better tip to  a waitress/bartender that has good cleavage?  or are they wasting their time?

Well, ya, women in the service industry aren't dumb! They know men are apt to get loose w/ their wallets when presented w/ eye-candy, doubly so if alcohol enters the equation.

Don't believe me. Visit any strip joint outside of a military installation on a Fri/Sat night.

Jan 16 13 07:26 pm  Link  Quote 
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udor
Posts: 21,693
New York, New York, US


Peach Jones wrote:
My question is, women, have you ever used cleavage like this for any reason?.....like to get better tips?

Men, are you more likely to give a better tip to  a waitress/bartender that has good cleavage?  or are they wasting their time?

Does the moon reflects the light from the sun?

Does day follow night?

Do cats like to hunt mice?

Is water wet?

Does a falling tree in a forest makes a sound when nobody is there to hear it?

Does sex sell?

All questions you can add to your pole... or poll... or whateva... wink

Jan 16 13 07:30 pm  Link  Quote 
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GK photo
Posts: 27,423
Laguna Beach, California, US


and ftr, my plumber's cleavage has never gained me any advantage, either professionally or personally. tongue
Jan 16 13 07:49 pm  Link  Quote 
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Kincaid Blackwood
Posts: 23,293
Atlanta, Georgia, US


Poses wrote:
I once accidentally showed cleavage when I was fundraising at an amusement park by working one of those rigged game booths. I had stuffed a couple bucks in my bra to buy a soda while in the park (it was super hot out). The staff accused me of stealing money.

That's right. I've used cleavage to my disadvantage.

Only you could pull off a feat so difficult.

With your usual panache, no doubt…

Jan 16 13 07:58 pm  Link  Quote 
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MKPhoto
Posts: 5,664
Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada


Peach, how old are you?
Jan 16 13 09:26 pm  Link  Quote 
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Gianantonio
Posts: 7,712
Minneapolis, Minnesota, US


Peach Jones wrote:
I was at a convention this past weekend and noticed a common theme at the bars I went to (which I usually do not frequent very much).  It seemed very obvious to me that the women bartenders and waitresses seemed overly busty, and were not shy in showing an ample amount of cleavage with huge plunging necklines.

My question is, women, have you ever used cleavage like this for any reason?.....like to get better tips?

Men, are you more likely to give a better tip to  a waitress/bartender that has good cleavage?  or are they wasting their time?

Just an unofficial pole I guess. But that seemed to be my thoughts and observations this past weekend.

Well, I use mine to my advantage wherever possible!

Jan 16 13 09:46 pm  Link  Quote 
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Sophia Be
Posts: 6,347
Portland, Oregon, US


Me? Use my boobies to make money?

Never ever

tongue
Jan 16 13 10:41 pm  Link  Quote 
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Dannielle Levan
Posts: 12,857
New Westminster, British Columbia, Canada


My tits HAVE got me discounts. Like y'all have never used your looks to your advantage smile
Jan 16 13 10:42 pm  Link  Quote 
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Top Level Studio
Posts: 3,232
Victoria, British Columbia, Canada


Laura UnBound wrote:
Tits or GTFO didnt come from nothing.

In Scotland, it's "Tits oot fer the lads!"

I don't know how often that actually gets them to come out.

Jan 17 13 12:35 am  Link  Quote 
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Robb Mann
Posts: 9,989
Baltimore, Maryland, US


You are just now noticing that women use their boobs for financial and personal gains?

In other news, rich old men use their money to get sexy young girlfriends.

Actually, there is some symmetry there.
Jan 17 13 03:15 am  Link  Quote 
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GH-Photography
Posts: 9,420
Brunswick, Georgia, US


"Interesting. Sex works even better than chocolate to modify behavior. I wonder if anyone else has stumbled onto that?" ~ Sheldon Cooper
Jan 17 13 03:43 am  Link  Quote 
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Photos 4 The Memories
Posts: 1,275
Kewaskum, Wisconsin, US


Woman's breast is the answer to world peace!
Jan 17 13 03:55 am  Link  Quote 
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Two Pears Studio
Posts: 3,313
Wilmington, Delaware, US


Its a tit for tat kind of thing.

I think it is hard wired for men to open the wallet if sex is involved
Jan 17 13 07:23 am  Link  Quote 
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Curt at photoworks
Posts: 31,785
Riverside, California, US


Funny story ... My wife and I were at a sports bar sitting at one of those tables that is higher than usual with tall chairs. I had my arm right on the side of the table and when the waitress came she actually rested her boobs right on my arm. After she left, my wife rhetorically asked "does she really think that will get her a bigger tip?"

I said I'm damn sure it will but I could only speak for myself.
Jan 17 13 08:08 am  Link  Quote 
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