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All Yours Photography
Posts: 2,332
Toledo, Ohio, US


IBS wrote:
That and the irony of the verbiage in her profile that tags are for people that she has worked with unless they are famous.

But A-ok to spam other people's pages with a pay me tag.

Weird.

I hadn't looked at her profile until I read this, but yes.  Quite interesting that someone with this:

"-Tags are reserved for people I've worked with (unless you're Stefano or Breann, because they're my famous friends. big_smile)"

feels that it's fine for her to blanket tag every photographer in a city that she's passing through.


EDIT:  Look, Ma.  Top of the page!

Jan 17 13 08:38 pm  Link  Quote 
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Orca Bay Images
Posts: 32,233
Lodi, California, US


T A Y L O R  wrote:
2) I was mostly ranting, but thank you for all the replies. (Even "get help", I appreciate that one Bob roll)

Please don't use the condescending rolleyes on me when you're the one threatening to turn into an angry vengeful spammer/stalker, and for a "no thanks."

Jan 17 13 09:07 pm  Link  Quote 
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Sal W Hanna
Posts: 6,629
Huntington Beach, California, US


Orca Bay Images wrote:
"No thanks" is butthurt?

Sounds pretty direct and civil to me.

T A Y L O R  wrote:
Why even take the time to respond to it? It's a tag for goodness sake. It's not like I sent you a PM or responded to a casting call. Just ignore it.

Simple, because it's spam. Spam tags get CAM-ed and deleted when they land on my page. Same with "hire me" messages. There is a reason there is a travel notice forum.

Jan 17 13 10:46 pm  Link  Quote 
Photographer
DougBPhoto
Posts: 38,275
Portland, Oregon, US


Sal W Hanna wrote:

Orca Bay Images wrote:
"No thanks" is butthurt?

Sounds pretty direct and civil to me.

Simple, because it's spam. Spam tags get CAM-ed and deleted when they land on my page. Same with "hire me" messages. There is a reason there is a travel notice forum.

Sorry Sal, the travel notice section actually sucks.

Until MM has a system in place that can generate notifications for models traveling into the area, or allow searching the travel notices based on zip code, they are worthless for a lot of locations.

I would much prefer to have a model "spam" me than to see on Facebook when a model is leaving my town.

Jan 17 13 10:48 pm  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Image K
Posts: 23,366
Las Vegas, Nevada, US


Allen Carbon wrote:

Orca Bay Images wrote:
"No thanks" is butthurt?

Sounds pretty direct and civil to me.

'No thanks' is pretty standard and civil. You tagged him and therefore you made a public announcement with his name. It's only fair if he has the same privilege of accepting or denying that on the same forum.

He did so in a polite manner which in no way has any ounce of butt hurt.

+1

Jan 18 13 01:52 am  Link  Quote 
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Image K
Posts: 23,366
Las Vegas, Nevada, US


Sal W Hanna wrote:

Orca Bay Images wrote:
"No thanks" is butthurt?

Sounds pretty direct and civil to me.

Simple, because it's spam. Spam tags get CAM-ed and deleted when they land on my page. Same with "hire me" messages. There is a reason there is a travel notice forum.

+2

Jan 18 13 01:52 am  Link  Quote 
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Image K
Posts: 23,366
Las Vegas, Nevada, US


V Laroche wrote:
Posts like this are sure to encourage others to want to work with you.

Worth repeating.

Jan 18 13 01:54 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Art of the nude
Posts: 11,869
Olivet, Michigan, US


T A Y L O R  wrote:
Dude bros, sorry I'm insulting your dick size indiscriminately tagging everyone in your area. Calm your balls.

Orca Bay Images wrote:
"No thanks" warrants genital insults and stalking?

Get help.

Stalking?

Jan 18 13 03:39 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Art of the nude
Posts: 11,869
Olivet, Michigan, US


R_Marquez wrote:
I just ignore the messages/tags, but they do get annoying after a while. Just post an availability/travel notice.

I just assume they're looking to trade with me, but don't want to publicize that fact.  smile

Jan 18 13 03:41 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Art of the nude
Posts: 11,869
Olivet, Michigan, US


R A V E N D R I V E wrote:
people want to feel special, the indiscriminate thing may be working against your appeal really

[b]
I've had models messaging me saying they were wanting to work with me exclusively, which was interesting since I got the same message on another account, oops.
[b]
but I don't really care

They want someone to pay them enough that they don't need multiple jobs.  Doesn't matter WHO.

Jan 18 13 03:43 am  Link  Quote 
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Jason Haven
Posts: 38,295
Washington, District of Columbia, US


Not a big fan of the spam tags, myself. I either ignore them, or respond back with a simple "no thanks". I didn't realize that qualified as "butt hurt" or rude or whatever, seems pretty honest and forward. O.o

I'll never understand the intricacies of social interaction.
Jan 18 13 03:57 am  Link  Quote 
Model
modeled
Posts: 9,334
San Diego, California, US


butt. hurt. blow. hards.?

dafuq?
Jan 18 13 06:36 am  Link  Quote 
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Cherrystone
Posts: 36,543
Columbus, Ohio, US


This thread warms my heart. It's good to see all the wonderful gesture pics, since the admins said it's cool to use in the forums. big_smile
Jan 18 13 06:44 am  Link  Quote 
Model
DivaEroticus
Posts: 14,659
Fayetteville, Arkansas, US


Small Fruit Pits wrote:
This thread warms my heart. It's good to see all the wonderful gesture pics, since the admins said it's cool to use in the forums. big_smile

QFT

Jan 18 13 06:47 am  Link  Quote 
Clothing Designer
Chain Reaction
Posts: 529
Grand Rapids, Michigan, US


Orca Bay Images wrote:
"No thanks" is butthurt?
Sounds pretty direct and civil to me.

T A Y L O R  wrote:
Why even take the time to respond to it? It's a tag for goodness sake. It's not like I sent you a PM or responded to a casting call. Just ignore it.

Allen Carbon wrote:
'No thanks' is pretty standard and civil. You tagged him and therefore you made a public announcement with his name. It's only fair if he has the same privilege of accepting or denying that on the same forum.

He did so in a polite manner which in no way has any ounce of butt hurt.

OP - Perhaps you are butthurt by rejection. Even if it's polite.

Jan 18 13 06:56 am  Link  Quote 
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Caradoc
Posts: 19,634
Scottsdale, Arizona, US


Chain Reaction wrote:
OP - Perhaps you are butthurt by rejection. Even if it's polite.

borat

Jan 18 13 07:00 am  Link  Quote 
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Christopher Hartman
Posts: 54,145
Buena Park, California, US


T A Y L O R  wrote:
When I travel I find it easiest and most polite to tag people in the area I'm going to with a short "Hi! I'm going to be in X area X dates. If you have any assignments that need models in which I fit the criteria, please don't hesitate to contact me. Rates are reasonable and negotiable. Thanks!"

I've had TWO people leave butt hurt response tags on my wall. One was someone just saying "no thanks" which I roll
The other basically said (I deleted it) "I would never ever pay you, you're not good enough."

....
Dude bros, sorry I'm insulting your dick size indiscriminately tagging everyone in your area. Calm your balls.

That does suck.  However...I prefer private messages.  Tagged for work availability makes me feel used and I delete them.

Jan 18 13 07:09 am  Link  Quote 
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Orca Bay Images
Posts: 32,233
Lodi, California, US


T A Y L O R  wrote:
Dude bros, sorry I'm insulting your dick size indiscriminately tagging everyone in your area. Calm your balls.

Orca Bay Images wrote:
"No thanks" warrants genital insults and stalking?

Get help.

Art of the nude wrote:
Stalking?

She threatens to spam his neighbors with insults about his dick. Stalking. And all because he said "no thanks?"

Jan 18 13 07:16 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
Reflected
Posts: 16,061
New York, New York, US


Orca Bay Images wrote:
She threatens to spam his neighbors with insults about his dick. Stalking. And all because he said "no thanks?"

The phrasing is a bit awkward, but I think you may have misinterpreted the intent of the quoted line.

Jan 18 13 07:45 am  Link  Quote 
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KonstantKarma
Posts: 2,513
Hickory, North Carolina, US


I'm going to side with the model on this one.

Tagging back "no thanks" is rude. Some people see the spammy tags as rude, but I don't - If a model is visiting or interested in working together it doesn't hurt to say hi, in a tag or a private message.  There's no harm in that.

If you're not interested in working with a model don't respond back, or do so in a private message.  To shoot them down on a public venue is tacky.
Jan 18 13 08:08 am  Link  Quote 
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Damon Banner
Posts: 85,305
Hayward, California, US


KonstantKarma wrote:
I'm going to side with the model on this one.

Tagging back "no thanks" is rude. Some people see the spammy tags as rude, but I don't - If a model is visiting or interested in working together it doesn't hurt to say hi, in a tag or a private message.  There's no harm in that.

If you're not interested in working with a model don't respond back, or do so in a private message.  To shoot them down on a public venue is tacky.

isn't soliciting work in a public venue equally as tacky?

Jan 18 13 10:04 am  Link  Quote 
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salvatori.
Posts: 3,810
State College, Pennsylvania, US


T A Y L O R  wrote:
When I travel I find it easiest and most polite to tag people in the area I'm going to with a short "Hi! I'm going to be in X area X dates. If you have any assignments that need models in which I fit the criteria, please don't hesitate to contact me. Rates are reasonable and negotiable. Thanks!"

I've had TWO people leave butt hurt response tags on my wall. One was someone just saying "no thanks" which I roll
The other basically said (I deleted it) "I would never ever pay you, you're not good enough."

....
Dude bros, sorry I'm insulting your dick size indiscriminately tagging everyone in your area. Calm your balls.

You do realize that this original post is the very definition of butthurt, right?

O_o

And in the interest of giving fair warning, disclosure, etc... I am perfectly happy with the size of my dick. And my balls are calm... for the moment anyway, but who knows what will happen tonight - I rented a movie with Gwyneth Paltrow...

And I'm still tryin' to figure out what 'dude bros' are.

smile

Jan 18 13 10:06 am  Link  Quote 
Photographer
r T p
Posts: 3,033
Los Angeles, California, US


salvatori. wrote:
...

And in the interest of giving fair warning, disclosure, etc... I am perfectly happy with the size of my dick. And my balls are calm... for the moment anyway, but who knows what will happen tonight - I rented a movie with Gwyneth Paltrow...

smile

http://i.mycommentspace.com/125/12588.gif

Jan 18 13 10:54 am  Link  Quote 
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salvatori.
Posts: 3,810
State College, Pennsylvania, US


cy be rea n wrote:

http://i.mycommentspace.com/125/12588.gif

You're most welcome....

smile

Jan 18 13 12:36 pm  Link  Quote 
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Shon D.- Homme
Posts: 3,196
Virginia Beach, Virginia, US


T A Y L O R  wrote:
When I travel I find it easiest and most polite to tag people in the area I'm going to with a short "Hi! I'm going to be in X area X dates. If you have any assignments that need models in which I fit the criteria, please don't hesitate to contact me. Rates are reasonable and negotiable. Thanks!"

I've had TWO people leave butt hurt response tags on my wall. One was someone just saying "no thanks" which I roll
The other basically said (I deleted it) "I would never ever pay you, you're not good enough."

....
Dude bros, sorry I'm insulting your dick size indiscriminately tagging everyone in your area. Calm your balls.

I personally find it rude for people to contact ME seeking paid work. So I think the butthurt is warranted here.

Jan 18 13 12:39 pm  Link  Quote 
Photographer
AndyD10
Posts: 341
Dublin, Dublin, Ireland


-Tags are reserved for people I've worked with (unless you're Stefano or Breann, because they're my famous friends. big_smile)

Spamming strangers with tags while rejecting tags from strangers on her own profile is both funny and rude.

Jan 18 13 12:46 pm  Link  Quote 
Model
Lily Darling
Posts: 1,299
Lansing, Michigan, US


O.O
Jan 18 13 12:50 pm  Link  Quote 
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