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Yay! Dropped my escort!
So after FLIPPING out on my man about thinking he needs to come to every shoot I do, he has finally backed off!! IM SO FLIPPING HAPPY!!! Models, those of you that had escorts and don't anymore how did you go about it? Jan 23 13 03:55 pm Link But he's still driving you? Jan 23 13 03:57 pm Link trust between you and your man is important.  Once he believes you have your own mind, and are intelligent enough to make decisions safely on your own you'll both be happy. Thats what this thread is really about, no? Maybe this should be moved to off topic? Jan 23 13 04:11 pm Link To drop me off and pick me up he's going to get coffe or something. Jan 23 13 04:11 pm Link Finally.... an escort thread with a happy ending!  Just my $0.02 Ciao Stefano www.stefanobrunesci.com Jan 23 13 04:13 pm Link My bad here ill ask a question Jan 23 13 04:13 pm Link Lily Darling wrote: That's good to hear but far from being over with for sure, sounds like he has serious trust issues or is insecure as hell. Be prepared for the grilling about what you shot with him not around. Jan 23 13 04:14 pm Link -B-R-U-N-E-S-C-I- wrote: I love happy endings! Jan 23 13 04:15 pm Link Naughty Ties wrote: that was my take too. Jan 23 13 04:15 pm Link Naughty Ties wrote: Oh yeah I already get the "I don't you parading around and having some guy take pictures of you in your underwear!" Meh, one step at a time I guess LOL Jan 23 13 04:16 pm Link -B-R-U-N-E-S-C-I- wrote: I KNOW RIGHT!!! Jan 23 13 04:17 pm Link And as for the driving thing. It's not going to be him all the time, I just don't like to drive alone and I hate driving in high traffic areas Jan 23 13 04:19 pm Link Lily Darling wrote: Geez does THAT smack of insecurity, why would he care? Seems like he'd be proud that someone would want to take photographs of you parading around in your underwear. Hell, my wife has done a ton of nude/explicit modeling and I love bragging about her to people...I'm proud of her. Jan 23 13 04:24 pm Link Naughty Ties wrote: It's just straight insecurities *shrugs* not fair to be taken out on me. And yes. Baby steps Jan 23 13 04:26 pm Link Lily Darling wrote: Naughty Ties wrote: Theres lolz there, depending on how you read it. Jan 23 13 04:31 pm Link For the first little while, you'll probably have to go a little overboard to calm his insecurities. Show him the pics, spend time with him, and keep reminding him that, even though other guys may be photographing you, he's the one you come home to, and he's the only one who gets to touch you. As he starts to accept this, then you can gradually start backing off the excessive reassurance. Paolo Diavolo wrote: Me neither. Her underwear wouldn't fit me. The boys just wouldn't be comfy! Jan 23 13 04:42 pm Link Kyle T Edwards wrote: You could always drop them out the side, I don't judge. But I might be a bit distracted Jan 23 13 04:52 pm Link Ya know, that could make for an interesting shoot! Jan 23 13 04:54 pm Link Lily Darling wrote: lol it's a start;-) Jan 23 13 05:57 pm Link Lily Darling wrote: I think this is a good idea for not having an escort at the actual shoot. Having someone drop you off and pick you up is a good safety method so someone knows your wherabouts when you're meeting up with someone you don't know. Escorts can definitely be avoided if you're escorted to the shoot and picked up. I'm meeting with a new photographer tomorrow for coffee (that way you're not complete strangers when you meet to shoot) so then at the actual shoot you only use your escort for a ride to and from. Good way for both parties to feel comfortable without the escort at the actual shoot. Jan 23 13 06:03 pm Link You could always burn him a special mix CD to play in the car while he waits. Something to let him know you appreciate his understanding. Just don't put J. Geils' "Centerfold" on it. Jan 23 13 06:12 pm Link Orca Bay Images wrote:
Jan 23 13 06:15 pm Link I simply stopped asking if he was available for an escort. Told him I'd checked references and where I'd be. Golden! I still tell him where I'll be though. Better safe than sorry. Total props, though. Seriously. Jan 23 13 06:25 pm Link This is a new turn of events here in the forums, A Model having issues with an Escort, wow.  Jan 23 13 08:19 pm Link Miss Deux wrote: Having someone know where you'll be is a good strategy. So is riding with someone, as long as they don't get bored and make a pest of themselves. Jan 23 13 08:21 pm Link Lily Darling wrote: Isn't he a photographer? He should know how NOT sexual a shoot, even a lingerie shoot, is for the participants. Jan 23 13 08:21 pm Link Lily Darling wrote: So tell him, "What underwear?" Jan 23 13 08:43 pm Link Lily Darling wrote: I've helped models select which underwear to put on after I've photographed them nude. Jan 23 13 08:53 pm Link Miss Deux wrote: The best post in all the history of Model Mayhem!!! Jan 23 13 08:59 pm Link OH MY GOD! Now you've done it! Just you wait - your next post will be to tell us you got raped, killed twice, chopped into bits with a chainsaw, then tickled by a creepy old man with a camera. Jan 23 13 09:14 pm Link new guy here not looking to hijack the thread,, do you think your escort kept you from getting shoots ??? Jan 23 13 10:08 pm Link Psshh I had the opposite problem. I never bring anyone with me to shoots, but the day before my last shoot, the photographer texted me and asked if I was bringing someone along. I said no, and he said, "Well, could you? I could use the help holding reflectors, etc." Ummm... So I asked my boyfriend if he would come help, and he didn't want to! He didn't want to spend his one day off following me around a park holding lights and things. I guess I don't blame him, but it was a backwards situation! Jan 23 13 11:09 pm Link Lily Darling wrote: Oh, man. Jan 24 13 12:50 am Link Never had that problem, but there is a lot of trust and probably because I don't go telling him take it or leave it. Jan 24 13 12:58 am Link If you are a model with an insecure partner your in the wrong job or the wrong relationship. Which would you choose. Jan 24 13 01:12 am Link steve sessem wrote: My escort defiantly kept me from shoots Jan 24 13 06:53 am Link BTHPhoto wrote: I know right!!! I've got it all typed out in advance for when it happens Jan 24 13 06:54 am Link Art of the nude wrote: Yeah he is. And he doesn't care it's different because I'm his woman :eyeroll: Jan 24 13 06:55 am Link -B-R-U-N-E-S-C-I- wrote: Is that the price of a happy ending in Bath? Jan 24 13 07:01 am Link Lily Darling wrote: A llama's boyfriend dropped her off at the hotel for our shoot and picked her up 4 hours later. Jan 24 13 07:05 am Link |
