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RachelReilly
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Washington, District of Columbia, US


How long do you tend to wait before having sex with someone you're seeing?
And for those of you who are in a serious relationship/marriage, in a perfect world how often would you have sex with your partner and what's the actually reality of that ? ;-)

Discuss among yourselves!
Jan 30 13 10:17 am  Link  Quote 
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DivaEroticus
Posts: 14,568
Fayetteville, Arkansas, US


I'm a virgin.  I'm saving it for marriage.
Jan 30 13 10:19 am  Link  Quote 
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Andialu
Posts: 14,029
San Pedro, California, US


Depends on the potency of the chloroform.
Jan 30 13 10:22 am  Link  Quote 
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Damianne
Posts: 15,973
Austin, Texas, US


Sex is only for when you want to have a baby and no other time.
Orgasms are how the devil gets in. That and sneezes, obviously.
Jan 30 13 10:24 am  Link  Quote 
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Cherrystone
Posts: 36,421
Columbus, Ohio, US


The short range was 20 minutes after meeting.....
Jan 30 13 10:24 am  Link  Quote 
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Russian Katarina
Posts: 1,413
London, England, United Kingdom


Andialu wrote:
Depends on the potency of the chloroform.

You're an old geezer, the young guys use roofies these days to get laid.

Jan 30 13 10:25 am  Link  Quote 
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Andialu
Posts: 14,029
San Pedro, California, US


Russian Katarina wrote:

You're an old geezer, the young guys use roofies these days to get laid.

Whipper snappers.....

Jan 30 13 10:27 am  Link  Quote 
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Blue Cube Imaging
Posts: 11,234
Ashland, Oregon, US


Damianne wrote:
Sex is only for when you want to have a baby and no other time.
Orgasms are how the devil gets in. That and sneezes, obviously.

This. Evil impure activities and thoughts will be the final downfall of our society. Repent while you can!

Sneezing is okay, my pastor told me so, as long as no nipples get hard in the process.

Jan 30 13 10:29 am  Link  Quote 
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KonstantKarma
Posts: 2,513
Hickory, North Carolina, US


I prefer sex first, then dating if the chemistry's good.
Jan 30 13 10:29 am  Link  Quote 
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Damianne
Posts: 15,973
Austin, Texas, US


Blue Cube Imaging wrote:

This. Evil impure activities and thoughts will be the final downfall of our society. Repent while you can!

Sneezing is okay, my pastor told me so, as long as no nipples get hard in the process.

That's why you bless someone when they sneeze, if you don't fast enough, satan might slip in.

Jan 30 13 10:30 am  Link  Quote 
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Marc Damon
Posts: 6,562
Biloxi, Mississippi, US


DivaEroticus wrote:
I'm a virgin.  I'm saving it for marriage.

: COUGH CHOKE SNEEZE COUGH:
http://images.sodahead.com/polls/001790073/3335243456_ROFLMAO_1_answer_2_xlarge.jpeg
: COUGH CHOKE SNEEZE COUGH:

Jan 30 13 10:31 am  Link  Quote 
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DivaEroticus
Posts: 14,568
Fayetteville, Arkansas, US


Blue Cube Imaging wrote:

This. Evil impure activities and thoughts will be the final downfall of our society. Repent while you can!

Sneezing is okay, my pastor told me so, as long as no nipples get hard in the process.

I can't sneeze without my nipples getting hard. neutral

I'm going to hell! sad

Jan 30 13 10:32 am  Link  Quote 
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Russian Katarina
Posts: 1,413
London, England, United Kingdom


Damianne wrote:

That's why you bless someone when they sneeze, if you don't fast enough, satan might slip in.

You only do that in the English language though.
That is why the rest of the world is doomed while Gods own country will live on.

Jan 30 13 10:32 am  Link  Quote 
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Andialu
Posts: 14,029
San Pedro, California, US


Russian Katarina wrote:

You only do that in the English language though.
That is why the rest of the world is doomed while Gods own country will live on.

I'll be sure to write a song about you when I receive my theocracy issued harp.

http://images.clipartof.com/small/11282-Angel-With-A-Halo-Playing-A-Harp-Clipart-Illustration.jpg

Jan 30 13 10:36 am  Link  Quote 
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Koryn
Posts: 36,361
Boston, Massachusetts, US


KonstantKarma wrote:
I prefer sex first, then dating if the chemistry's good.

No offense, but that's a very "Asheville" thing.

Jan 30 13 10:37 am  Link  Quote 
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Damianne
Posts: 15,973
Austin, Texas, US


Koryn Locke wrote:

No offense, but that's a very "Asheville" thing.

It's a very everywhere thing, hon.

Jan 30 13 10:38 am  Link  Quote 
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Alien LiFe
Posts: 835
San Francisco, California, US


Answer to OP;

This will depends on whether I use speedlites/strobes or going for available light ... 😜
Jan 30 13 10:38 am  Link  Quote 
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KonstantKarma
Posts: 2,513
Hickory, North Carolina, US


Koryn Locke wrote:

No offense, but that's a very "Asheville" thing.

I know right? lol

wink

Jan 30 13 10:39 am  Link  Quote 
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Chris Rifkin
Posts: 24,524
Tampa, Florida, US


I clicked on this thread with an actual serious response ready to post....


Instead I'll just order a pizza and casually observer this thread
Jan 30 13 10:39 am  Link  Quote 
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E e v a
Posts: 1,724
Nashville, Tennessee, US


I got my husband in bed around 2 days after meeting him. Woooorth it.

But to answer your second question, ideal sexy time is daily. The real amount of sexy time I get is none, because he's deployed sad
Jan 30 13 10:43 am  Link  Quote 
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Andialu
Posts: 14,029
San Pedro, California, US


Damianne wrote:

It's a very everywhere thing, hon.

When did you become a middle aged waitress at a truck stop diner?

Jan 30 13 10:45 am  Link  Quote 
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Damianne
Posts: 15,973
Austin, Texas, US


Andialu wrote:

When did you become a middle aged waitress at a truck stop diner?

When we were talking about small town sex.
Everyone becomes a middle aged waitress at a truck stop diner when talking about small town sex.

Jan 30 13 10:47 am  Link  Quote 
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Russian Katarina
Posts: 1,413
London, England, United Kingdom


Chris Rifkin wrote:
I clicked on this thread with an actual serious response ready to post....


Instead I'll just order a pizza and casually observer this thread

Pizza is always a better choice.
Makes me crave some, even though I already had dinner.

Jan 30 13 10:48 am  Link  Quote 
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Andialu
Posts: 14,029
San Pedro, California, US


Damianne wrote:

When we were talking about small town sex.
Everyone becomes a middle aged waitress at a truck stop diner when talking about small town sex.

Kiss my grits.

Jan 30 13 10:50 am  Link  Quote 
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RachelReilly
Posts: 1,727
Washington, District of Columbia, US


You are all virgins
Jan 30 13 10:51 am  Link  Quote 
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Koryn
Posts: 36,361
Boston, Massachusetts, US


KonstantKarma wrote:
I know right? lol

wink
Damianne wrote:
It's a very everywhere thing, hon.

Asheville dating culture is pretty ... peculiar.

It's also very regionally-specific. I've never met any Americans who shack-up faster than the under-40 set in western North Carolina. Also, every few years, it's like everyone just swaps mates, so the person you're with right now will be living with your best friend 3 years down the road, but it's all copacetic, because you had a FWB thing with her ex a couple years before.

It's even more cliquey than lesbian culture.

Jan 30 13 10:51 am  Link  Quote 
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RachelReilly
Posts: 1,727
Washington, District of Columbia, US


Samantha Emme wrote:
I got my husband in bed around 2 days after meeting him. Woooorth it.

But to answer your second question, ideal sexy time is daily. The real amount of sexy time I get is none, because he's deployed sad

:-(
When is he returning?

Jan 30 13 10:53 am  Link  Quote 
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Kyle T Edwards
Posts: 430
St Catharines, Ontario, Canada


Russian Katarina wrote:

You're an old geezer, the young guys use roofies these days to get laid.

Geez, even roofies are old school!  Here's the tried and true method that doesn't involve anything illegal, we don't have to buy a single drink, and we get in good with the neighbours!  Find the neighbour with the cute puppy, take him out for a walk around town, and let the little chick magnet do his thing.

I mean really, what's more effective,
http://www.drugrehab.net/img/rohypnol.jpg
or

http://www.stevecurtin.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Cute-puppy.jpg

(No, neither picture is mine.  They were found on Google.)

Jan 30 13 10:54 am  Link  Quote 
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Jules NYC
Posts: 16,096
New York, New York, US


Andialu wrote:

Kiss my grits.

Ha ha... just about to post Flo and you beat me to it.
tongue

Jan 30 13 10:55 am  Link  Quote 
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Christopher Hartman
Posts: 54,084
Buena Park, California, US


Rachel Reilly wrote:
How long do you tend to wait before having sex with someone you're seeing?
And for those of you who are in a serious relationship/marriage, in a perfect world how often would you have sex with your partner and what's the actually reality of that ? ;-)

Discuss among yourselves!

How long do you want to make me wait?

Jan 30 13 10:55 am  Link  Quote 
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Andialu
Posts: 14,029
San Pedro, California, US


Jules NYC wrote:

Ha ha... just about to post Flo and you beat me to it.
tongue

Sorry, sugar. smile

Jan 30 13 10:56 am  Link  Quote 
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Koryn
Posts: 36,361
Boston, Massachusetts, US


Samantha Emme wrote:
I got my husband in bed around 2 days after meeting him. Woooorth it.

But to answer your second question, ideal sexy time is daily. The real amount of sexy time I get is none, because he's deployed sad

I had first date sex, in 2005, with the person who eventually became my best friend.

*shrug*

I knew immediately he was a good person.

Jan 30 13 10:56 am  Link  Quote 
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RachelReilly
Posts: 1,727
Washington, District of Columbia, US


Glad you lot are so mature
;-)
Jan 30 13 10:57 am  Link  Quote 
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Blue Cube Imaging
Posts: 11,234
Ashland, Oregon, US


Rachel Reilly wrote:
Glad you lot are so mature
;-)

You should know this crowd is top shelf only. For cereal.

Jan 30 13 10:58 am  Link  Quote 
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RachelReilly
Posts: 1,727
Washington, District of Columbia, US


Christopher Hartman wrote:

How long do you want to make me wait?

I was thinking 4-6 months
Depending on your behavior.

Jan 30 13 10:58 am  Link  Quote 
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Anna Adrielle
Posts: 18,762
Antwerp, Antwerp, Belgium


I wait several months up to half a year, until it is a serious, committed relationship.

i've had plenty of guys break up with me for that because they didn't want to wait, but that's their loss smile.

So I wait a long time... but then it's partytime for the rest of the relationship smile
Jan 30 13 11:00 am  Link  Quote 
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Cherrystone
Posts: 36,421
Columbus, Ohio, US


Koryn Locke wrote:

Asheville dating culture is pretty ... peculiar.

It's also very regionally-specific. I've never met any Americans who shack-up faster than the under-40 set in western North Carolina.

You need to get out more. wink

First thing comes to mind, Upper Peninsula in Michigan. They put bunnies & fishflies to shame.

There's more...lots more.

Jan 30 13 11:03 am  Link  Quote 
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Cherrystone
Posts: 36,421
Columbus, Ohio, US


Kyle T Edwards wrote:

Geez, even roofies are old school!  Here's the tried and true method that doesn't involve anything illegal, we don't have to buy a single drink, and we get in good with the neighbours!  Find the neighbour with the cute puppy, take him out for a walk around town, and let the little chick magnet do his thing.


http://www.stevecurtin.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Cute-puppy.jpg

(No, neither picture is mine.  They were found on Google.)

Guy I worked with would get puppies from the pound for a week, then hit the beach everyday. Take the dog, back....get another one a few weeks later.

You're both deranged. lol

Jan 30 13 11:05 am  Link  Quote 
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Jules NYC
Posts: 16,096
New York, New York, US


I'll give a serious response because I thought about it a lot.

*Won't write a term paper on it though*

Sex doesn't seal or guarantee a relationship.
Sex is a choice and there are pros and cons to having it too early.

In a perfect scenario, where both hearts are WIDE open and the relationship grows in the way you'd hope? for (getting to know each other and actually liking it mutually)...

Why does having sex too early even matter?

Then you must consider how often someone offers their heart/soul and body (depends how you truly feel about how important that is) to anyone that asks/wants it.

Personally, I consider sex important.

I know myself too well and beyond science (and it's true), a woman's heart gets warmer feeling after sex as it's part of the bonding process.  Separate from science and all, I just can't have idle sex without feeling and wanting something more than the physicality of it.

To those who don't have a problem with it, no judgment here.  Just not my thing.
I'm sure you can have many hot, steamy, sexy romps to write about.

If you keep waiting... and waiting... and WAITING... you may lose that openness that is considered 'romance at first blush' that is amazing.

When it comes down to it, you can have sex and be taken for a ride (just got used for sex)... or it could be amazing (if everything works out).

LOL

Who is to really know.

All I know is that I wouldn't have sex with someone who didn't value it.

There are no rules.
Free will.

I will say that if you have sex too early, it's more likely that you'd get hurt if you're looking for a relationship to last.

Loving anyone is a risk.

Who said sex is love?
Unless you want it to be

smile
Jan 30 13 11:06 am  Link  Quote 
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London Fog
Posts: 6,770
London, England, United Kingdom


I'd bang my date within minutes of meeting her, before we even got to the restaurant, if that's what she wanted to do as well, of course!

Ideal world of sex - every 20mins all throughout the day, in every concievable place and setting known to mankind, with breaks only for fluid replacement and the odd snack! - Hey, it's a guy thing!

However, real world of sex - lucky to have it 4-5 times a week!
Jan 30 13 11:07 am  Link  Quote 
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