Digital Photo PLUS wrote:
I disagree. I don't think anyone can really change without motivation from the outside, positive or negative.
Which doesn't mean that a person will change with sufficient help or motivation. We are very resistant to change for good or bad reasons.
I agree that you often need an outside perspective, I did not say you didnt, what I am saying is that you ultimately need your own will power in order to make that change. People dont give themselves enough credit and often look to others when they have what they need within. I do agree with you that it takes the help or viewpoint of others.