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Models who absolutely don't do nudes ....
AJScalzitti wrote: Come back Buffy, all is forgiven. Aug 21 12 10:08 am Link Sarah Thiessen wrote: There is NOT "lots of money in nudes" as a rule. It makes it more likely for a model to get paid, in general, but there is no pot of gold, just a bit of cash, in a few cases, enough to live modestly. Aug 21 12 10:08 am Link Patrick Walberg wrote: not for me, as im a Childcare Worker. I rather not loose my main career Aug 21 12 02:27 pm Link Reizvoll wrote: I sure hope you're not teaching. Aug 21 12 06:40 pm Link Kaia Murphy wrote: Agreed! Aug 23 12 06:31 am Link I think sadly that men in general who also make up most of the photographers who want to shoot nudes do not care about other people's futures or feelings enough to accept a simple no and not be pushy. This is comparable to alot of areas of life where men "coerce" women/girls into doing things they do not want to do simply for their own gain. In other words men are selfish they simply do not care how they get what they want or how them getting what they want hurts you as a person. As long as they get what they want they are happy. And that is why fathers never trust any man to take their daughters on a date etc.. because men know what other men are truly like. The same is true of men even in job settings like modelling. If they can bribe you to do it then they are happy. If you then get emotionally distraught, lose your job over it, or lose future modelling opportunities over it as far as they're concerned it doesn't matter one bit cuz woohoo they got to shoot a woman naked in the name of "art". Sadly that is the world we live in, people are selfish and they will lie, coerce, cheat and steal to get their way. In other words photographers will never learn to simply take no as an answer, they will always try to "talk/bribe/guilt you into doing it" no matter what your concerns are and no matter how many examples of these decisions hurting other girls you bring up. It's called "lack of empathy" and until men get more of it the world will always be a dangerous place. Sep 11 12 11:07 pm Link Neil Snape wrote: Sadly not everyone has this level of respect for other human beings. A person's nudity is very, well personal, there are some things that should just be held in higher respect. Yet not everyone gets that point. It makes life very frustrating to have to constantly be in fear of coming across these kinds of crazy/disrespectful people. Sep 11 12 11:16 pm Link the phenomenona of the photographers obsessed with nudity and nudes only. I found the comments of the upscale scouting male agent to be very interesting, here: DVD "Fashion Photography Exposed" by Melissa Rodwell Part #6. "Model Agency Interview" starting 12m:44s in essense, the best photographers of women's beauty are usually female photographers or gay men photographers. (maybe I generalize too much, because it was more FASHION, than glamor related). being a straight male, I probably don't have much chances to succeed in this department so, I don't shoot nudes much, if any, recently. Sep 11 12 11:19 pm Link Patrick Walberg wrote: These type of threads have nudged me over to doing nudes. Guess it didn't take long but, I do feel like I am very lucky with who I have shot my nudes with! ki era wrote: Hi, What you express here sounds more like human trafficking than modeling. Yikes. Sep 12 12 08:08 am Link OK, Everyone has a price. Granted, one may not see theirs here but, everyone has a price. As far as posting "does not do nudes". except it. If a photographer is looking to shoot nudes, why waste time trying to bend a model who has posted that she/he will not. Are there model who say one thing and mean another? Of course. How much time do you have to waste finding this out, and for what purpose. There's no one model that you can't live without shooting naked. The real question here should be, why do you care? Why does it matter so much to you? Will your query benefit the outcome. Personally, I've always wondered why tons of people on MM post "Very Experienced", just to follow it with images that don't reflect. Or just the opposite, "No Experience" with stunning photos. OK, I'm off topic. I'm out. Sep 12 12 08:34 am Link Kevin Alex Photography wrote: Was this a drive by? A hit n run? Sep 12 12 08:38 am Link Myrna Byrna wrote: Sorry, I caught the blog during work and threw in my 2 cents between what I'm suppose to be doing. LOL Sep 12 12 10:17 am Link Nudes are completely off limits to me. I've seen a small handful of photographers that can pull off nudity with complete dignity and it is beautiful. But there is a lot of amateur photography on here, which is girls getting their tits and bits out for no reason apart from the fact they can. Personally, I think getting naked is a very personal thing, and something I share only with my partner. I couldn't imagine doing that, or even being that comfortable with anyone, let alone a photographer. I also know a lot of people who are suicide girls/front girls etc and they are harassed daily by pervert men who have seen them online. That's not something I could be bothered with. I'd rather just not do it. I've been 'persuaded' with money and basically having photographers begging. The second that happens, I delete them, the messages and never speak to them again. It's disgustingly unprofessional and a genuine photographer will want to photograph you with clothes on or off. If not, they're not worth your time. Also, isn't it better to leave something a mystery rather than having it all out for the world to see? Charlotte www.facebook.com/CharlottteModel Sep 12 12 10:48 am Link Images by MR wrote: Pressuring models to go above and beyond (both in front of the camera and elsewhere) is SOP for many photographers. Sep 12 12 10:51 am Link If you are absolutely "non-negotiable" could you please elaborate on why? Because I model as a hobby/part-time thing; I work a corporate job by day and cant really participate in that genre due to that. I know its been offered in the thread that a lot of people posters know who are now in 'professional' positions did nude work and it didnt harm them - but the potential is always there. All it takes is one angry person in your life with that knowledge, and then your nipples are being faxed to your boss. Id rather not have it hanging over my head. Since Im short, its consistently beaten into my face that "lol, shoot nude or fail - no one else wants or needs you, shorty" - seemingly trying to corner me into it with fears of failure or not being taken "seriously". I politely disagree. Edit: The only caveat to that would be particularly well concept-ed/graceful implied, and even then Id ask that my face not show. Sep 12 12 11:43 am Link Images by MR wrote: ........ + 1. Sep 12 12 11:48 am Link If models are not up for nudity its completely their choice - only an arsehole would pressure them otherwise Sep 12 12 12:37 pm Link I do not do nudes and never would for any amount of money because the reasons behind why I don't do them is about my faith and my marriage. For me those are two strong reasons for why I don't do nudity it's not that I just don't want to do it. Sep 12 12 12:52 pm Link I do NOT do nudes. It is non- negotiable. I do not have anything against models who do, but personally, I just won't do it. It's not because I am religious, it's not because getting in front of a camera is immoral, it's just a personal choice, and I let photographers that I work with know that and I have never been pushed to do something that I won't do. Something that really bothers me is when a model says NO NUDES but they are basically naked in their photos anyway... It makes me think, "What's the point?" Anyway, that's my 2 cents. Sep 12 12 01:01 pm Link So it's not a big deal, a little respect goes a long way. But if you hired a nude for nudes n she doesn't want to do her end of the contract..... it's you! Sep 12 12 04:26 pm Link no to nudity for me anyway Sep 12 12 05:20 pm Link Charlottte wrote: Hi Charlotte, Sep 12 12 06:08 pm Link My nudity policy is non-negotiable. My reasoning is that I feel if I wouldn't show my family my photos, I shouldn't be doing them. I'm also happily married so I feel that the only person who should see me naked is my husband. Also, one of the reasons I started modeling is show people that you don't have to wear a g-string and pasties or go nude to be sexy. I do have an appreciation for artistic nudes, but they're just not for me. I'm trying to help bring back an appreciation for classic, vintage glamour Sep 12 12 10:10 pm Link I say I will not shoot topless/nude for anyone. I did do a fashion/artistic topless set twice (tfp) with a photographer that I really liked his work but besides that I have refused every offer to shoot nudes/topless. I bet if someone offered me like $5,000 I'd do it...only if it was a artistic concept with an amazing photographer But to the point: It's not really the money, it's just not something that I would want to do with my career, or have them floating all around the internet So most likely my tits and bits will remain hidden in my photos but they will still be edgy as always Sep 14 12 12:27 pm Link ki era wrote: I'm sorry you've had such bad experiences with males. There are men who feel the same way, in general, about women. They think women can never be trusted and are always looking to take advantage of them. Wish I had an answer. Sep 15 12 08:18 am Link Harley Ginger wrote: I rarely aim for sexy with nudes, and I've never shot a model in "g string and pasties." With the right model and photographer, nudes can be beautiful. But I'm happy to respect the choices of those who don't want to shoot them. I do ask that they respect my choice, and that of the models I work with. Sep 15 12 08:21 am Link For so long as I have any sort of association with the Beauty Pageant industry, nudes aren't really an option for me. If I ever sever that tie completely (I rarely compete but still have the association via mentoring contestants and helping organise) I may reconsider, but until then...no exceptions. Sep 15 12 01:02 pm Link I've had a couple of occasions where I've talked a llama out of it. One of them had done 'nude life drawing classes' as a llama in another country and when we met (over a coffee prior to shooting) to discuss ideas, she explained her main job was 'real world marketing for serious businesses'... By the time the lattes were gone, so was her enthusiasm to shoot nude. In the old days, 'forget' waste default and you had to make an effort to 'remember stuff'. With the web, 'remember' is now the default and nude shots of any llama in the world would be close to impossible to eradicate. So 'do it' or 'don't do it', just give the consequences 5 minutes :-) Sep 16 12 03:30 pm Link Art of the nude wrote: I totally understand that sometimes a model will check no nudes, but be open to it and also understand why checking with an interesting model would be a good idea. Sep 16 12 09:39 pm Link I think a lot of them write "no nudes" so they don't get bombarded with requests to shoot nudes by every guy with a camera on MM...even if they are willing to do nudes with the right photographer. Sep 16 12 09:47 pm Link I don't think nudes would help me in my goals for llamaing and that's the only reason I don't do them. Sep 19 12 09:43 am Link This is such an interested thread because I've had a similar curiosity and I have actually asked a few models, although only one of them actually responded and was very rude in his answer. ( I was not rude or unprofessional when I asked the question.) It bugs me when a model says they don't do nudes yet clearly has nudes in their own portfolio. I understand maybe they don't anymore, I get it. Honestly I'd rather a model say they will do nudes but just not with me than to say they don't when clearly they do. But more to the original post, I have asked three different models about doing nudes because I saw nudes in their portfolio, even though their profile says they don't. I acknowledged seeing the "no" selected but that "I see in your portfolio you have done nudes in the past and I wonder if you would consider it again". Two did not respond at all but the one who did said I must be gay and just want to see him naked if I'm asking this question. I let it go because I saw no point in arguing about it, but if I was only interested in seeing him naked, I could have simply looked at his own portfolio. Sep 19 12 10:06 am Link When there are soooooooo very many willing, capable and liberated nude models, who even needs to worry about the ladies that won't or why? For me it's nothing, it's without boundaries and trappings, it's liberating and feels great (pics are pretty damn cool too). I expect that one day a family member or colleague will see one of my nudes and I'm cool with that reality. Sep 19 12 10:15 am Link There could be many reasons why a model doesn't do nudes. A) They're not exactly comfortable in their own skin. B) They're uncomfortable being naked in front of a stranger. C) A former photographer tried to go out of their way to touch a model inappropriately. (Like me for instance) Etc. Its wrong for a photographer to bribe a model to do a nude shoot. Also its very unprofessional. Its greedy & selfish of someone to do that. Photographers should respect models in their wishes. If they don't want to do nude, they don't want to do nude. Period. No ifs, ands, or buts. Leave them alone and find a model who is interested in doing a nude shoot. Sep 19 12 10:26 am Link Saedcantas wrote: Ding ding ding DING ! Sep 19 12 10:37 am Link Del Sep 19 12 10:43 am Link ki era wrote: Wow, hate men much? Sep 19 12 10:49 am Link Patrick Walberg wrote: Models who don't do nudes may have many reasons, including but not limited to, future career ramifications. If they plan to become news reporter or anchor or run for public office one day, these nudes photos might be a career killer. Others may be concerned about family and friends. In any case, trying to persuade someone to do nudes doesn't seem necessary. But some are probably in need of money and can be persuaded, but as a photographer, I wouldn't try to persuade anybody. Just find models who would. Sep 19 12 11:07 am Link Lucy Mariela wrote: I agree with the last bit you said, but Your "C" option really doesn't make sense to me. Sep 19 12 11:07 pm Link It's their choice and their right to say what they wish, where they will do it, and what their limits are. Move on. Some pose nude, some don't. It ain't rocket science. Sep 20 12 08:03 am Link |