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Photographer

Jay Farrell

Posts: 13408

Nashville, Tennessee, US

No, I don't. I don't need to have to worry about a stooge, who by the way I have no way of verifying like you can with me. Here are the main potential issues.

-Jealous insecure behavior
-Not shutting up during the shoot
-Distracting the model and killing the creative process
-Risk of theft increased
-Doubling the risk of a cancellation in case they have a scheduling conflict
-They have no reason to be there and will be bored, model worried about entertaining them when she should be worried about our shoot.

Who needs that shit.

Nov 11 13 07:39 pm Link

Photographer

Bob Helm Photography

Posts: 18903

Cherry Hill, New Jersey, US

Depends. At my home studio? NO. At a public location? Why not... as long as they know if the escort becomes a problem that is the end of the shoot and no images on a TF shoot.
Now if a model insists on having one they are eliminating half of the photographers. I know one model that would not do a shoot with an established pro with a well established storefront studio and great wedding business...great photographer so it was her loss.

Nov 11 13 08:57 pm Link

Photographer

MonsterJazz Photography

Posts: 6

Boston, Massachusetts, US

I don't see a problem with it.  As long as they stay to the side and are respectful of the process.  Plus they can hold on to stuff if I need another pair of hands.

Mj

Nov 14 13 09:56 am Link

Photographer

Jay Farrell

Posts: 13408

Nashville, Tennessee, US

MonsterJazz Photography wrote:
I don't see a problem with it.  As long as they stay to the side and are respectful of the process.  Plus they can hold on to stuff if I need another pair of hands.

Mj

"IF" and the liability. No thanks.

Nov 15 13 07:38 pm Link

Photographer

Sky Eyes

Posts: 3

Tahoe Vista, California, US

It depends on the shoot. If it is a solo model shoot, I allow escorts but discourage boyfriends, although I've found some of them to be cool.
Shoot with a model under 18, escort is required to attend.
Multi-model nude shoot, male escorts are prohibited.
If a model has health issues, the escort isn't really an escort, but rather someone with a job to do.

In my experience, most models don't bring them anyway.

Nov 15 13 07:54 pm Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

Here's an experiment:

Look at ports of each photog that has commented in this thread.

Note the number of nudes you see.

Compare that number with their stance on escorts.

Notice trend.

wink
Mel

Nov 16 13 12:06 am Link

Photographer

Drew Smith Photography

Posts: 5214

Nottingham, England, United Kingdom

Mel Recker wrote:
Here's an experiment:

Look at ports of each photog that has commented in this thread.

Note the number of nudes you see.

Compare that number with their stance on escorts.

Notice trend.

wink
Mel

Mel - if you weren't a newbie I'd CAM your snarky ass.

You're implying that photographers that shoot nudes do not allow escorts because they have ulterior motives.

And just to buck your 'trend'; I allow escorts - as long as they are not significant others. On all but one of the nude shoots in my port there was a third party.

Good luck with your acting 'career'. smile

Nov 16 13 12:21 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

Haha. What I was implying was that if you're into shooting nudes (which I have no problem with), then you're probably an adult...and therefore won't need an escort. Geez. Don't hate. wink

Mae

Nov 16 13 12:26 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

But...good luck to you as well? Lol.

Mel

Nov 16 13 12:27 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

But yes, I do think it's possible that some photographers that shoot nudes have ulterior motives. I mean, I don't think that's a crazy thought...Am I wrong on that?

Mel

Nov 16 13 12:28 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

And what is CAM?

Mel

Nov 16 13 12:28 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

I must admit that I'm also very confused by this thing about not allowing significant others. Do models show up with their bf's or gf's...and they haven't told their partner they're shooting nudes?!!! That seems cray cray.

Mel

Nov 16 13 12:35 am Link

Photographer

Revenge Photography

Posts: 1905

Horsham, Victoria, Australia

Mel Recker wrote:
Here's an experiment:

Look at ports of each photog that has commented in this thread.

Note the number of nudes you see.

Compare that number with their stance on escorts.

Notice trend.

wink
Mel

Here is another trend, compare the number of posts and how long the photographer has had an account here.

Newer less experienced photographers are likely to accept escorts.

The more experienced (hopefully better) photographers almost exclusively will not allow them. I myself used to allow them until too many shoots got derailed by an escort.  The simple fact is that eventually if you allow escorts you will have problems with them, so eventually you make the choice not to allow them. It's simply a matter of time.

I might also add that the more experienced photographers are unlikely to still be working so long with models if they are creeps, bad news travels fast and bad reputations even faster.

Ultimately its the models choice, choose to cripple their chances by not working with better more experienced photographers after checking references or allow paranoia to take control, not work with them and go with inexperienced photographers who are less likely to be able to deliver quality images.

Nov 16 13 12:47 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

"Newer less experienced photographers are likely to accept escorts. The more experienced (hopefully better) photographers almost exclusively will not allow them."

I find this very difficult to believe, especially considering so many professional models working with top photographers are underage.

"I might also add that the more experienced photographers are unlikely to still be working so long with models if they are creeps, bad news travels fast and bad reputations even faster."

Clearly you're unfamiliar with Terry Richardson. wink

Mel

Nov 16 13 01:02 am Link

Photographer

Jay Farrell

Posts: 13408

Nashville, Tennessee, US

Mel Recker wrote:
Haha. What I was implying was that if you're into shooting nudes (which I have no problem with), then you're probably an adult...and therefore won't need an escort. Geez. Don't hate. wink

Mae

No hateage, I agree. big_smile

Nov 16 13 01:08 am Link

Photographer

Jay Farrell

Posts: 13408

Nashville, Tennessee, US

Mel Recker wrote:
"Newer less experienced photographers are likely to accept escorts. The more experienced (hopefully better) photographers almost exclusively will not allow them."

I find this very difficult to believe, especially considering so many professional models working with top photographers are underage.

"I might also add that the more experienced photographers are unlikely to still be working so long with models if they are creeps, bad news travels fast and bad reputations even faster."

Clearly you're unfamiliar with Terry Richardson. wink

Mel

Underage is a different situation. But usually when photographers develop experience and longevity, they learn the pitfalls of allowing escorts, and don't. Because they don't have to. And you're right, those who mistreat models etc. the word will travel, those people eventually self destruct. Terry is a pro at it, it's his brand, lol.

Nov 16 13 01:11 am Link

Photographer

Revenge Photography

Posts: 1905

Horsham, Victoria, Australia

Revenge Photography wrote:
Newer less experienced photographers are likely to accept escorts. The more experienced (hopefully better) photographers almost exclusively will not allow them.

Mel Recker wrote:
I find this very difficult to believe, especially considering so many professional models working with top photographers are underage.

Simply look at replies in this forum

Revenge Photography wrote:
Newer less experienced photographers are likely I might also add that the more experienced photographers are unlikely to still be working so long with models if they are creeps, bad news travels fast and bad reputations even faster.

Mel Recker wrote:
Clearly you're unfamiliar with Terry Richardson. wink
Mel

Terry is a perfect example, everybody know he is a creep his bad reputation has spread the world over

Nov 16 13 02:30 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

"Simply look at replies in this forum."

I understand, but I'm gonna go with what I personally know of the professional modeling world.

And everyone and their mom still shoots with Terry. He still works a LOT and he still gets away with it.

Nov 16 13 02:46 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

I understand that things are a bit hazy in the world of high fashion, but in professional commercial print, at least, if a photographer tried to tell an underage model they couldn't bring an escort, it would be a major problem. I'm pretty sure that the photographers who shoot large commercial campaigns are extremely experienced...

Nov 16 13 02:49 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

If Candice Swanepole approaced you tomorrow and said, "Hey, let's shoot. I'm gonna bring my bf, cool?" would you say no?

In some situations, for some photographers, I do believe that this is about making a power play.

Nov 16 13 02:54 am Link

Photographer

DDDDC Photos

Posts: 651

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Ken Marcus Studios wrote:
Great idea for a forum topic . . . !

What we all love about Ken, he always goes right to the heart of a problem!

Nov 16 13 03:17 am Link

Photographer

Renato Alberto

Posts: 1052

San Francisco, California, US

Molly Hoover wrote:
Does a lot of photographers allow escorts , if not why ?

Unless you are under 18, I do not allow escorts. Although I have made exceptions in the past. I have been in this business for many years, and have many references. Sometimes someone comes with the model to meet me first, and then goes and hangs at Starbucks or so while we are shooting.
In one of your responses above you say that sometimes "your gut says NO".
My personal opinion. Always follow your gut!!!
All the best to you.

Nov 16 13 03:44 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

I understand the topic has been beaten to death, but the models' responses always seem to be the same...and sometimes ineffective. They aren't forcing the photographers to answer some very important questions.

For example, I've seen several photogs say that having another person there is distracting. And yet, on very large professional sets, there are often whole teams of people clanging around. People working with the lighting, etc. I have trouble understanding how this is somehow less distracting than an escort. Mario Testino perseveres, somehow. He's apparently able to focus in the face of great distraction...

In many of the threads on this topic, photographers insist that professional models simply know better than to bring an escort. Except these photographers do not live in major markets. Perhaps they used to work in a major market, but no longer do? Or perhaps they don't know what they are talking about.

Again and again, photographers say, "Check my references. Scope me out," but they deny all responsibility in choosing shady models. If a model asks to bring an escort, and you're shooting nudes, why not just ask, "Does your bf/gf know the nature of the photo shoot? Have you discussed it with them?"

Listen, I realize I'm new here, and I understand that I probably sound like a wench, but I can't help it. In my short time here, I have seen some truly incredible photographs. But I also have seen many, where I stopped and said, "I hope that young woman/man wasn't exploited."

I hope you can understand, and I have a sneaking suspicion that I'm voicing some things that many are thinking, but not saying for fear of repercussion.

Nov 16 13 03:52 am Link

Photographer

Revenge Photography

Posts: 1905

Horsham, Victoria, Australia

Mel Recker wrote:
"Simply look at replies in this forum."

I understand, but I'm gonna go with what I personally know of the professional modeling world.

And everyone and their mom still shoots with Terry. He still works a LOT and he still gets away with it.

Yes, he does but those people knowingly shoot with him.
An escort will make no difference either, he shoots on a set full of people.

Nov 16 13 03:54 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

"I might also add that the more experienced photographers are unlikely to still be working so long with models if they are creeps, bad news travels fast and bad reputations even faster."

^ This was the original statement. My point in bringing him up was that if this were true, Terry Richardson would be out of business.

Nov 16 13 03:59 am Link

Photographer

Revenge Photography

Posts: 1905

Horsham, Victoria, Australia

Mel Recker wrote:
I hope you can understand, and I have a sneaking suspicion that I'm voicing some things that many are thinking, but not saying for fear of repercussion.

You are just repeating things that have been beaten to death here repeatedly.

References are easily checked, most photographers here credit the models. Just ask the models we shoot.

If you don't feel safe don't shoot, it's that simple. If its unsafe, bringing an escort just puts a second person in harms way.

A model has every right to "want" to bring an escort, just as every photographer has the right to choose not to shoot those that want to bring one.

So unless the model is a minor and the escort is a parent or guardian, I choose not to shoot those that want to bring an escort. Simply because any person not actively contributing to a shoot is a liability that doesn't need to be there.

Nov 16 13 04:03 am Link

Photographer

Mark Salo

Posts: 11723

Olney, Maryland, US

Mel Recker wrote:
Haha. What I was implying was that if you're into shooting nudes (which I have no problem with), then you're probably an adult...and therefore won't need an escort. Geez. Don't hate. wink

Mae

Mel, you seem to be arguing both sides.  And please do not imply that Terry Richardson has anything to do with me and my practice.

Nov 16 13 04:06 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

I was being somewhat facetious, although no one seemed to notice.

And please refer me to the part where I implied something about you...my memory is foggy.

Nov 16 13 04:10 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

Upon second thought, I think I was trying to illustrate how this topic might cause some serious cognitive dissonance.

Nov 16 13 04:12 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

Molly Hoover wrote:

I'm just starting out so i feel very uncomfortable and sometimes my gut says no so i would like for someone to accompany me

If your gut says no don't do the shoot.

Nov 16 13 04:20 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

Mel Recker wrote:
Here's an experiment:

Look at ports of each photog that has commented in this thread.

Note the number of nudes you see.

Compare that number with their stance on escorts.

Notice trend.

wink
Mel

It does not mean a thing.  I have photographed many models nude and they have not needed escorts.  I just booked 6 models for the next 2 days.   smile

Nov 16 13 04:24 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

Mel Recker wrote:
I must admit that I'm also very confused by this thing about not allowing significant others. Do models show up with their bf's or gf's...and they haven't told their partner they're shooting nudes?!!! That seems cray cray.

Mel

I have had model's boyfriends drop them off and pick them up.

Nov 16 13 04:26 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

"It does not mean a thing.  I have photographed many models nude and they have not needed escorts.  I just booked 6 models for the next 2 days."

I'm pointing out a trend.

You're using an anecdote.

I'm just going to assume you know why those two things are different.

Your most recent post does not really address my question. Do you think your models tell their bf/gf they're shooting nudes with you?

Mel

Nov 16 13 04:32 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

Mel Recker wrote:
"It does not mean a thing.  I have photographed many models nude and they have not needed escorts.  I just booked 6 models for the next 2 days."

I'm pointing out a trend.

You're using an anecdote.

I'm just going to assume you know why those two things are different.

Your most recent post does not really address my question. Do you think your models tell their bf/gf they're shooting nudes with you?

Mel

Many boyfriends know that they are shooting nudes.  I have been told by models that they enjoy shooting nudes after they started shooting nudes.

I will be shooting nudes here in the desert for the next 2 days.

Nov 16 13 04:37 am Link

Photographer

Revenge Photography

Posts: 1905

Horsham, Victoria, Australia

Mel Recker wrote:
Do you think your models tell their bf/gf they're shooting nudes with you?
Mel

I don't know and don't care.

Their relationships are their own business. My interest is primarily limited to the shoot and getting the best possible result.

Nov 16 13 04:41 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

Revenge Photography wrote:

I don't know and don't care.

Their relationships are their own business. My interest is primarily limited to the shoot and getting the best possible result.

+1

Nov 16 13 04:43 am Link

Model

Mel Recker

Posts: 101

Omaha, Nebraska, US

Hey, I'm just illuminating some logical fallacies. People can draw their own conclusions.

With that, I think I can bid you all adieu for the night. It's been a pleasure. smile

Nov 16 13 04:48 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

Mel Recker wrote:
Hey, I'm just illuminating some logical fallacies. People can draw their own conclusions.

With that, I think I can bid you all adieu for the night. It's been a pleasure. smile

You can illuminate but I am here shooting.  There are great models here!
You need some rest.  I'm going to get breakfast.

Nov 16 13 04:54 am Link

Photographer

SPRINGHEEL

Posts: 38224

Detroit, Michigan, US

Mel Recker wrote:
If Candice Swanepole approaced you tomorrow and said, "Hey, let's shoot. I'm gonna bring my bf, cool?" would you say no?

In some situations, for some photographers, I do believe that this is about making a power play.

Never heard of her, had to look her up.  Lovely girl.


The answer would be no

Nov 16 13 05:18 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

Mel Recker wrote:
If Candice Swanepole approaced you tomorrow and said, "Hey, let's shoot. I'm gonna bring my bf, cool?" would you say no?

In some situations, for some photographers, I do believe that this is about making a power play.

You seem to think that I would shoot any model nude.  That is not true.  I would say no.

Nov 16 13 05:25 am Link