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My winning streak just keeps on growing! I have been hearing people talk about their divorces, breakups and abandonments for decades. And I have the distinct pleasure of ONLY knowing the person who was in the right in every single case! It's always the other person who was crazy, drunk, sloppy, OCD, stoned, promiscuous, lazy, mean, hateful, stupid, gluttonous, fat, criminal or somewhat odiferous. Stick with me, folks! You're on the winning team, relationship-wise! Sep 11 15 02:20 pm Link Why would anyone tell it any different? Sep 11 15 02:49 pm Link ernst tischler wrote: It really depends on the people ... Sep 11 15 03:39 pm Link Antichrist Sep 27 15 01:03 pm Link Piscis Noctis wrote: That's how all of my relationships have ended basically. Sep 27 15 01:54 pm Link I know plenty of people who have taken full responsibility for the breakdown of a relationship and of course I know plenty of people who are NEVER at fault for anything, ever! Oct 03 15 01:58 pm Link ernst tischler wrote: I would. Oct 03 15 02:52 pm Link I really only dislike one of my major exs. the other four I like just fine. Holding grudges simply makes no sense. Oct 03 15 03:51 pm Link How you treat the weak is your true nature calling - Jane's Addiction https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yZyeuaDIRv8 Oct 04 15 04:17 am Link I've never really had a "bad exit" to a relationship. I must be one of the lucky ones - we figure out it doesn't work, and stop seeing each other romantically. Disclaimer : Not that my wife will see this, but it's been 4+ years since I've had a recent ex. Oct 04 15 05:01 pm Link Oh it's definitely me, not them. *I* actively dislike being lied to, bad hygene in my partner, and being sexually neglected and emotionally abused. So since I'm not a good partner putting up with a boatload of crap, I though I'd do the husband(s) a favor by removing myself from a relationshit (sic). The end. Eta: if the fourth (!!) therapist/marriage counsellor gives you 'the look' (the "what are you doing with him still?" look), after 3 years of marital mind-rape, I don't feel like I abandoned anything but myself if I didn't take steps. Oct 07 15 10:29 am Link I date someone whose marriaged ended and he takes the blame. I have finally convinced him it wasn't all his fault. Now he says it's 75/25. Not everyone blames the other person. Just don't ask me about MY ex. I could make your skin crawl and your belly churn with the things he has done. Oct 10 15 02:51 pm Link Isis22 wrote: Nods on that. Oct 10 15 04:46 pm Link Broke up with my jar full of gold nuggets. I am bitter since my one and only love is on some rich snobs hand, breast or ear when It should be In my hands. Never got over it :'( Oct 14 15 06:45 pm Link Gerardo Martinez wrote: There is still time. Oct 15 15 11:30 am Link Gerardo Martinez wrote:
Oct 15 15 08:50 pm Link Dexter, a nicer guy by far. Oct 19 15 10:08 am Link i remember asking one ex what went wrong and she said something like "at first i really enjoyed coming to see you and then i didn't" hard to argue with that. Oct 19 15 10:28 am Link |
