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How to politely turn down shooting with someone,
John Horwitz wrote: Mar 19 15 11:58 am Link Just some of the replies in this thread are a good example of why you don't have to respond to everything. I used to respond to turn down shoot requests, but I usually don't now. Maybe it's because I'm in a big market area, but I assume that the model is sending out bunches of requests and I don't see the point in filling up their inbox with a negative reply. Also, some people do become extremely unhinged when they are turned down for something. It's better maybe that they are only slightly unhinged over not getting a response. Mar 19 15 12:42 pm Link Mar 19 15 01:20 pm Link John Jebbia wrote: I know many photographers get butthurt when told no. But as for me, just cut to the chase. I don't need a song and dance. "Thank you for considering me. However, I am not interested in this project at this time." Simple... If they don't like it, so what.. ^^This^^ Yes, this. I'd much rather know up front if someone is interested or not. I work on the road a lot and if a model has read my contact message asking her to shoot but does not reply, I sometimes send a follow up message a week or two later that I'm still in the area if she's interested. Sometimes they do not respond to the 2nd message but often they'll message me back and accept. I think it's just common courtesy to reply to someone who's interested enough in your look as a model or your skill as a photographer, stylist or MUA. How long does it take to tell someone 'no thanks'? Mar 19 15 02:15 pm Link
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Reason: other Comments: Privacy Mar 19 15 02:36 pm Link This thread is how to decline a shoot gracefully -- I find no thanks works well for me. -- if you would like to post your accomplishments ( imagined or otherwise) you can do so here https://www.modelmayhem.com/forums/thread/88 -- Mar 19 15 03:34 pm Link
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Reason: violates rules Comments: Privacy. Mar 19 15 03:47 pm Link NinaKat wrote: My advice: be POLITE; being polite is being professional, but failing to respond at all to a legitimate offer is neither. An extremely brief canned response is perfectly acceptable. Mar 19 15 03:55 pm Link |