Forums > Model Colloquy > Getting aroused during photoshoot?

Model

farhaaalin1

Posts: 7

Dhaka, Dhaka, Bangladesh

Hi, although I think arousement for professional model is not a problem at all. Both the photographer and model probably get too used to with with nudity/sensuality. But when you were young, like mine, did you people get aroused during sensual photoshoots?

Since I am a new member of this industry, often it is hard to control my arousal during sensual/couple shoots. (Of course I don't have sex with the photographer/model during that situation. I can control myself)

Is it a positive thing or negative? (some of them experts say real arousal makes photos realstic)

Aug 13 17 09:12 am Link

Photographer

FIFTYONE PHOTOGRAPHY

Posts: 6597

Uniontown, Pennsylvania, US

popcorn

Aug 13 17 09:24 am Link

Photographer

WisconsinArt

Posts: 612

Nashotah, Wisconsin, US

Its probably both positive and negative but I'm not going to expand on the reasons.

I can tell you it's normal. Experienced models get aroused even with an old man like me behind the camera. Those girl parts start to get swollen and enlarged. I always wonder why, I'm an old man......

Aug 13 17 09:26 am Link

Photographer

Yosh Studio

Posts: 1664

Los Angeles, California, US

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Aug 13 17 09:28 am Link

Model

Laura UnBound

Posts: 28745

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

WisconsinArt wrote:
Its probably both positive and negative but I'm not going to expand on the reasons.

I can tell you it's normal. Experienced models get aroused even with an old man like me behind the camera. Those girl parts start to get swollen and enlarged. I always wonder why, I'm an old man......

Maybe consider you have no idea how a strangers genitals are working and then stop asserting that you do.

Aug 13 17 03:26 pm Link

Photographer

Michael DBA Expressions

Posts: 3730

Lynchburg, Virginia, US

Peter Gowland was a famous glamour and nude photographer during the '40s, '50s, and '60s, and I had the pleasure of meeting him and hearing him deliver a program once. Someone asked him did he ever find himself getting aroused, photographing all those gorgeous young women in various states of dishabille. His answer was that it happened to him only once, on a beach in SoCal. He said you have to remember that he always shot with his wife as his able assistant. Her job was making sure the model's hair and makeup were perfect, and then she'd also hold lights, reflectors, etc. when needed, too.

This one time, the location and reflections off the water and a nearby building left them short one "gobo" to catch and remove this one troubling hot spot. His wife took off her trousers to hold up as a light blocker, and it was her almost-nudity that troubled his composure, not the model's nudity. He said that for him, it wasn't the body before him that aroused him, it was his connection to the person he found arousing.

In some 40 years photographing beautiful women in various states of undress, I do not recall a single instance of becoming aroused myself. I was always too busy creating an effect in the camera, dealing with lighting and other technical issues, and getting the photograph to depict what I wanted it to say to have time and energy for arousal. On a couple occasions, I had someone express an interest in further adventures, and it may have been that other models I was photographing got excited but were too professional to act on it. I wouldn't know.

I did have one occasion when I was modeling for a life drawing class with a female model and found myself getting aroused, although we weren't doing anything overtly sexy. It was no big deal, even though guys arousal is pretty hard to hide. She and I took a break until "things" calmed down, then resumed posing and nobody thought it was a big deal.

Aug 13 17 04:03 pm Link

Photographer

udor

Posts: 25255

New York, New York, US

Wow... I haven't seen those kind of posts in years on MM...

Even less frequently from a female model... so... well... kudos to you asking the question and being honest... borat 

However..., considering that you are just starting to post... and come with this kind of question... I wonder if you are a real model, or if yes, if this is a post created with the only purpose to drive lotsa views to your portfolio...

I am just wondering... evilgrin

Aug 13 17 04:07 pm Link

Photographer

Virtual Studio

Posts: 6725

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Laura UnBound wrote:

Maybe consider you have no idea how a strangers genitals are working and then stop asserting that you do.

To be fair they do mostly work in one of two ways....

Aug 13 17 04:52 pm Link

Photographer

WisconsinArt

Posts: 612

Nashotah, Wisconsin, US

Laura UnBound wrote:

Maybe consider you have no idea how a strangers genitals are working and then stop asserting that you do.

Um... yeah... I live in a convent and my girlfriend is a blow up doll.

Aug 13 17 07:53 pm Link

Photographer

Randy Dixon

Posts: 77

Brownsville, Texas, US

udor wrote:
Wow... I haven't seen those kind of posts in years on MM...

Even less frequently from a female model... so... well... kudos to you asking the question and being honest... borat 

However..., considering that you are just starting to post... and come with this kind of question... I wonder if you are a real model, or if yes, if this is a post created with the only purpose to drive lotsa views to your portfolio...

I am just wondering... evilgrin

You're suspicious of a first post that reads "Hi, I get horny shooting pictures" to a roomful of photographers?

Aug 13 17 08:00 pm Link

Model

Laura UnBound

Posts: 28745

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

WisconsinArt wrote:

Um... yeah... I live in a convent and my girlfriend is a blow up doll.

Ah, so you were only referring to your partner's genitals and not anyone else's then? Well then carry on.

Aug 13 17 08:30 pm Link

Model

Laura UnBound

Posts: 28745

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Virtual Studio wrote:
To be fair they do mostly work in one of two ways....

Not really. 

Besides the extremely wide spectrum of genital variance there's also this wonderful thing called arousal nonconcordance.  most of the time when rando dudes talk about knowing for sure for sure that vulva-having models are super turned on by them/their work, they're actually noticing one of two things. One is simple discharge because y'all can't tell the difference between discharge and lubrication/cum, and the other is ANC - the same thing that gave you fear-boners as a kid being told to stand in front of the class and read your book report. Adrenaline/fear/stress/physical exertion does weird shit to the body that is often beyond our mental control. There are tons of photos of sports players with full on erections - not because they're sexually attracted to their opponents or the game, but because bodies are weird and they were just working really damn hard and sports are strenuous and your veins don't care that your dick isn't what's doing the work when your hearts going a million miles a minute, it's just gonna send blood everywhere

Aug 13 17 08:39 pm Link

Photographer

Mark Salo

Posts: 11724

Olney, Maryland, US

farhaaalin1 wrote:
Getting aroused during photoshoot?

Is it a positive thing or negative?

Everyone is different. Enjoy the high and keep it private.

Aug 13 17 08:50 pm Link

Photographer

WisconsinArt

Posts: 612

Nashotah, Wisconsin, US

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Aug 13 17 09:08 pm Link

Photographer

L O C U T U S

Posts: 1746

Bangor, Maine, US

Model aroused or not, she better do her job!
For me, i aint got time to worry about sex.
The job is most important and thats what i focus on. I aint going to bang a model and lose the paycheck i am working so hard to get.

Aug 13 17 10:36 pm Link

Retoucher

3869283

Posts: 1464

Sofia, Sofija grad, Bulgaria

I wonder if there will ever be a thread in this forum about what happens when nobody flakes, nobody gets an arousal, nobody worries about escorts or not receiving images from the shoot, i.e. when everything is done professionally and rightly. Is that possible?

Aug 14 17 12:48 am Link

Photographer

Eros Fine Art Photo

Posts: 3097

Torrance, California, US

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Aug 14 17 01:17 am Link

Model

Koryn

Posts: 39496

Boston, Massachusetts, US

Wow, your professional life is about to get really awful, really fast.

Aug 14 17 02:07 am Link

Photographer

udor

Posts: 25255

New York, New York, US

Randy Dixon wrote:

You're suspicious of a first post that reads "Hi, I get horny shooting pictures" to a roomful of photographers?

Mmmaaayyyybbeeeee...    lol   evilgrin   big_smile

Aug 14 17 02:35 am Link

Model

Laura UnBound

Posts: 28745

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

WisconsinArt wrote:

I'll say it straight up. You're a dunce. Don't you think I got the pictures to prove it? That wasn't the focus of the shoots, I just noticed when processing. In some I had to edit it out.

28 years old and knows it all. Now say something clever thinking you are clever. Thanks for the laughs, kid.

I don't "know it all" but I've got a pretty firm understanding on how a vagina works. There is literally nothing you can show in a photograph to indicate sexual arousal. Biology is, by its nature, very clever.

Aug 14 17 03:29 am Link

Model

farhaaalin1

Posts: 7

Dhaka, Dhaka, Bangladesh

udor wrote:

Mmmaaayyyybbeeeee...    lol   evilgrin   big_smile

Seems like I bring up a taboo subject. I am sorry. Please accept my apology from the novish kid. I won't bring up the topic

Aug 14 17 04:12 am Link

Model

Koryn

Posts: 39496

Boston, Massachusetts, US

WisconsinArt wrote:
Its probably both positive and negative but I'm not going to expand on the reasons.

I can tell you it's normal. Experienced models get aroused even with an old man like me behind the camera. Those girl parts start to get swollen and enlarged. I always wonder why, I'm an old man......

Some women experience increased wetness and blood flow during ovulation, each month. It has literally nothing to do with arousal and is a simple biological occurrence that coincides with the monthly release of an egg.

Aug 14 17 04:23 am Link

Photographer

udor

Posts: 25255

New York, New York, US

farhaaalin1 wrote:

Seems like I bring up a taboo subject. I am sorry. Please accept my apology from the novish kid. I won't bring up the topic

No, you can talk about it as much as you want...

It's just unusual, because there are a lot of people, photographers and models alike, who, quite often lie about the occasional turn on...

In fact, it's being denied so often, that statistically... it doesn't make sense...

In your case, well... there had been a model or two that started out their very first posts with such a headline, because they knew that they will attract a lot of people visiting their portfolio and it's a great way to get attention FAST...

Whatever you want to talk about... go ahead... smile

Aug 14 17 04:26 am Link

Photographer

L o n d o n F o g

Posts: 7497

London, England, United Kingdom

farhaaalin1 wrote:

Seems like I bring up a taboo subject. I am sorry. Please accept my apology from the novish kid. I won't bring up the topic

I have a question, are you for real? I thought this kind of topic was totally not allowed in places like ultra conservative Bangladesh?

Aug 14 17 04:36 am Link

Photographer

L o n d o n F o g

Posts: 7497

London, England, United Kingdom

anchev wrote:
I wonder if there will ever be a thread in this forum about what happens when nobody flakes, nobody gets an arousal, nobody worries about escorts or not receiving images from the shoot, i.e. when everything is done professionally and rightly. Is that possible?

You forgot the Canon vs Nikon debate, also the $100hr models!

Aug 14 17 04:38 am Link

Photographer

L o n d o n F o g

Posts: 7497

London, England, United Kingdom

Oopsie, DP!

Aug 14 17 04:41 am Link

Artist/Painter

Hunter GWPB

Posts: 8179

King of Prussia, Pennsylvania, US

Perhaps you are experiencing arousal because of your perception to the shoot.  If you are doing something that you feel is erotic or sexual then perhaps you find it arousing. 

Consider the difference between being naked and being nude. 
https://www.theguardian.com/artanddesig … graphy.art

Either way, I hope you enjoy what you are doing.

Aug 14 17 05:05 am Link

Photographer

Virtual Studio

Posts: 6725

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Hunter  GWPB wrote:
Perhaps you are experiencing arousal because of your perception to the shoot.  If you are doing something that you feel is erotic or sexual then perhaps you find it arousing. 

Consider the difference between being naked and being nude. 
https://www.theguardian.com/artanddesig … graphy.art

Either way, I hope you enjoy what you are doing.

I always thought was a false dichotomy. I know it's taught as orthodox in most art schools but I can't help but see it as a white western male projection onto images that the commentators have appropriated through power and wealth.

Aug 14 17 05:53 am Link

Model

MatureModelMM

Posts: 2843

Detroit, Michigan, US

For me the difference between being naked and being nude while modelling has always been important.  I was quite aware of the difference when I began modelling, and I think it affects various genres of modelling more than others.  For strictly artistic work and glamour type poses, being nude is perfect.  But when I am modelling in the erotic and fetish genres, I need to think of myself as naked, I need to be seen as naked, and having that frame of mind while posing makes a huge difference in the results. I want to come across as being vulnerable and exposed and naked. I nearly always use the word naked when speaking or writing of my modelling experiences, in order to make others aware of my thoughts on how I choose to present myself as a model.

Sometimes being aroused while modelling can work to the model's advantage as well, again depending on the genre, and may occur quite naturally without intending it to happen. If someone is doing erotic and fetish work it could greatly enhance their mood and appearance. However, I would be quite uncomfortable if the photographer or artist I was posing for became visibly aroused and I was made aware of it either through a comment they made or by the change in their behavior. Even though that may be a natural response for some, I don't want or need to know about it.

Aug 14 17 06:07 am Link

Model

farhaaalin1

Posts: 7

Dhaka, Dhaka, Bangladesh

L o n d o n   F o g wrote:

I have a question, are you for real? I thought this kind of topic was totally not allowed in places like ultra conservative Bangladesh?

BD is rapidly changing. Please take a look at new generation Bangladeshi artists profiles smile

Aug 14 17 08:05 am Link

Photographer

udor

Posts: 25255

New York, New York, US

MatureModelMM wrote:
For me the difference between being naked and being nude while modelling has always been important.  I was quite aware of the difference when I began modelling, and I think it affects various genres of modelling more than others.  For strictly artistic work and glamour type poses, being nude is perfect.  But when I am modelling in the erotic and fetish genres, I need to think of myself as naked, I need to be seen as naked, and having that frame of mind while posing makes a huge difference in the results. I want to come across as being vulnerable and exposed and naked. I nearly always use the word naked when speaking or writing of my modelling experiences, in order to make others Thaware of my thoughts on how I choose to present myself as a model.

Sometimes being aroused while modelling can work to the model's advantage as well, again depending on the genre, and may occur quite naturally without intending it to happen. If someone is doing erotic and fetish work it could greatly enhance their mood and appearance. However, I would be quite uncomfortable if the photographer or artist I was posing for became visibly aroused and I was made aware of it either through a comment they made or by the change in their behavior. Even though that may be a natural response for some, I don't want or need to know about it.

Thank you for your insight and refreshing openness!

Aug 14 17 08:06 am Link

Model

pritymony

Posts: 2

Dhaka, Dhaka, Bangladesh

farhaaalin1 wrote:

BD is rapidly changing. Please take a look at new generation Bangladeshi artists profiles smile

I agree. Our country is in a rapid cultural change

Aug 14 17 08:17 am Link

Photographer

Brooklyn Bridge Images

Posts: 13200

Brooklyn, New York, US

udor wrote:
Wow... I haven't seen those kind of posts in years on MM...

Even less frequently from a female model... so... well... kudos to you asking the question and being honest... borat 

However..., considering that you are just starting to post... and come with this kind of question... I wonder if you are a real model, or if yes, if this is a post created with the only purpose to drive lotsa views to your portfolio...

I am just wondering... evilgrin

Claire Hesse 2.0 ???

Aug 14 17 10:15 am Link

Model

K I C K H A M

Posts: 14689

Los Angeles, California, US

Koryn wrote:

Some women experience increased wetness and blood flow during ovulation, each month. It has literally nothing to do with arousal and is a simple biological occurrence that coincides with the monthly release of an egg.

Yeah, you might want to go with the people who actually have these body parts on this one.

Other options also include that "feeling sexy/ aroused" during a shoot isn't because of a the photographer. Some people get aroused by feeling sexy rather than just the overwhelming attractiveness of the person taking photos.

But, sure, you must know more than we do because you have so many more years of not having a vagina. Yay.

OP: Like all things, just deal with it professionally.  Stay focused on the point of the shoot, and make the priority getting good photos.

Aug 14 17 10:35 am Link

Photographer

Risen Phoenix Photo

Posts: 3779

Minneapolis, Minnesota, US

Laura UnBound wrote:
Maybe consider you have no idea how a strangers genitals are working and then stop asserting that you do.

Ha! Great answer.  Hilarious. I would never assume or think a model is arroused unless she admits to it. As a photographer it is none of my business.  I am there to create images.

Aug 14 17 10:51 am Link

Photographer

East West

Posts: 847

Los Angeles, California, US

farhaaalin1 wrote:
Hi, although I think arousement for professional model is not a problem at all. Both the photographer and model probably get too used to with with nudity/sensuality. But when you were young, like mine, did you people get aroused during sensual photoshoots?

Since I am a new member of this industry, often it is hard to control my arousal during sensual/couple shoots. (Of course I don't have sex with the photographer/model during that situation. I can control myself)

Is it a positive thing or negative? (some of them experts say real arousal makes photos realstic)

It’s negative only if it invites unwanted advances. So as a model, keep it to yourself because it may give others the wrong interpretation.

Aug 14 17 11:26 am Link

Model

farhaaalin1

Posts: 7

Dhaka, Dhaka, Bangladesh

East West wrote:

It’s negative only if it invites unwanted advances. So as a model, keep it to yourself because it may give others the wrong interpretation.

It seems so from this thread. I'll keep my mouth shut.

Aug 14 17 12:08 pm Link

Photographer

WisconsinArt

Posts: 612

Nashotah, Wisconsin, US

Risen Phoenix Photo wrote:

Ha! Great answer.  Hilarious. I would never assume or think a model is arroused unless she admits to it. As a photographer it is none of my business.  I am there to create images.

I didn't know it until I was processing the images after the shoot. I was too busy working during to notice. Maybe you should take your own advice and not make assumptions.

Aug 14 17 10:04 pm Link

Photographer

WIP

Posts: 15973

Cheltenham, England, United Kingdom

I'm getting  aroused when I recive a parcel with a new light modifier...or when I get the feel of a motorcycle I go weak at the knees and drool.

Aug 15 17 04:22 am Link

Photographer

sospix

Posts: 23769

Orlando, Florida, US

farhaaalin1 wrote:
Hi, although I think arousement for professional model is not a problem at all. Both the photographer and model probably get too used to with with nudity/sensuality. But when you were young, like mine, did you people get aroused during sensual photoshoots?

Since I am a new member of this industry, often it is hard to control my arousal during sensual/couple shoots. (Of course I don't have sex with the photographer/model during that situation. I can control myself)

Is it a positive thing or negative? (some of them experts say real arousal makes photos realstic)

I've found that it's usually a positive when the model is excited (and at some level aroused) during a shoot, it brings an extra level of energy and attitude to the images  .  .  .  if it's a shoot that includes nudity, it really depends on whether the desired outcome is a sterile art nude that's a study in shadows and forms, or something more frenetic, with a sensual undertone, where a level of sexual energy is essential to achieve the look  .  .  .  I've had models that can create that look very quickly, and just as quickly turn it off when the shooting is done  .  .  .  I've also had others that would reach a level where they may have to excuse themselves for a few minutes to regain their composure, and then continue shooting, it's different with every model  .  .  .  so, I guess my advice is don't lose the level of energy you're feeling, and just work on channeling in into the shot  .  .  .  much continued success Miss F, and thanks for sharing some insight into your country's current culture!

SOS

Aug 15 17 08:22 am Link