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Eclectic Vision

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I was just checking through my okcupid messages. I freaking hate it when I get messages from guys who say that homosexuality is a sin in their answers section. If you think homosexuality is a sin, why the fuck would you message a bisexual woman?

Aug 01 14 08:27 am Link

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Eclectic Vision

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Toledo, Ohio, US

My response to him was this-



"I have no interest in speaking to someone who thinks I'm a "sinner". Homosexuality is not a "sin". Since that is how you feel, I'd recommend that you never message bisexual women.

Every time some guy messages me and I see that that is how he feels about homosexuality, it breaks my heart a little. I love how far the world has come, but then there are people like you that bring us back to the dark ages. *sigh*

I am going to block you now. I hope you can get over your prejudices some day."

Aug 01 14 08:27 am Link

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Toto Photo

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Well said!

Aug 01 14 12:52 pm Link

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NothingIsRealButTheGirl

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Aug 01 14 05:35 pm Link

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DEP E510

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NothingIsRealButTheGirl wrote:
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Aug 01 14 05:45 pm Link

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Koryn

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Boston, Massachusetts, US

I just opened a new profile on there tonight.

It took literally 15 minutes for someone to message me, and we chit chatted for the past hour, and will probably go get coffee next week.

I met my last boyfriend on OkC. That obviously didn't work out. They say the definition of madness is doing the same thing, over and over, and expecting a different result. If I have another failed relationship from online dating, I guess I should stop doing that, because it might be bordering on insanity.

Mostly, I'm just sick of being alone, and hurting over a relationship that's dead and gone. It kind of took a lot of guts to make myself start to at least consider going on dates again. I had to psyche myself up for it. I don't take too kindly to homophobes either.

Aug 01 14 08:46 pm Link

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Art Silva

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Santa Barbara, California, US

Koryn wrote:
I just opened a new profile on there tonight.

It took literally 15 minutes for someone to message me, and we chit chatted for the past hour, and will probably go get coffee next week.

I met my last boyfriend on OkC. That obviously didn't work out. They say the definition of madness is doing the same thing, over and over, and expecting a different result. If I have another failed relationship from online dating, I guess I should stop doing that, because it might be bordering on insanity.

Mostly, I'm just sick of being alone, and hurting over a relationship that's dead and gone. It kind of took a lot of guts to make myself start to at least consider going on dates again. I had to psyche myself up for it. I don't take too kindly to homophobes either.

{hugs}

Aug 01 14 09:22 pm Link

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scrymettet

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Quebec, Quebec, Canada

Eclectic Vision  wrote:
I was just checking through my okcupid messages. I freaking hate it when I get messages from guys who say that homosexuality is a sin in their answers section. If you think homosexuality is a sin, why the fuck would you message a bisexual woman?

guys can be stupid
but it's not an excuse to be rude

Aug 02 14 02:15 am Link

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Eclectic Vision

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Toledo, Ohio, US

scrymettet wrote:

guys can be stupid
but it's not an excuse to be rude

My response to him was very polite.

Aug 02 14 07:42 am Link

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udor

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New York, New York, US

Eclectic Vision  wrote:
I was just checking through my okcupid messages. I freaking hate it when I get messages from guys who say that homosexuality is a sin in their answers section. If you think homosexuality is a sin, why the fuck would you message a bisexual woman?

I am a straight male... and I could never date a woman who would think that homosexuality is a sin!

Aug 02 14 08:53 am Link

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Lumen Sky

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Center Moriches, New York, US

Koryn wrote:
I just opened a new profile on there tonight.

It took literally 15 minutes for someone to message me, and we chit chatted for the past hour, and will probably go get coffee next week.

I met my last boyfriend on OkC. That obviously didn't work out. They say the definition of madness is doing the same thing, over and over, and expecting a different result. If I have another failed relationship from online dating, I guess I should stop doing that, because it might be bordering on insanity.

Mostly, I'm just sick of being alone, and hurting over a relationship that's dead and gone. It kind of took a lot of guts to make myself start to at least consider going on dates again. I had to psyche myself up for it. I don't take too kindly to homophobes either.

im so nervous to open a profile on there. I get hurt so often just by "regular" people. My father has been the person to tell me to open dating profiles.

Aug 02 14 11:08 am Link

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scrymettet

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Quebec, Quebec, Canada

Eclectic Vision  wrote:

My response to him was very polite.

I wasn't speaking of your perfect answer. Sorry if I wasn't clear enough

Aug 02 14 11:10 am Link

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JJMiller

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Buffalo, New York, US

Technically, if one believes that the bible is the perfect word of a god, and that there is such a thing as sin, then homosexuality (specifically man on man) is a sin, at least according to Leviticus- but Leviticus is obviously the Crazy Uncle of the bible. The case with the other passages is that they are foggy at best and vary on the interpreter.

Aug 02 14 12:49 pm Link

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Koryn

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JJMiller wrote:
Technically, if one believes that the bible is the perfect word of a god, and that there is such a thing as sin, then homosexuality (specifically man on man) is a sin, at least according to Leviticus- but Leviticus is obviously the Crazy Uncle of the bible. The case with the other passages is that they are foggy at best and vary on the interpreter.

TECHNICALLY, it's also a sin to wear clothing made of mixed fibers.

If you want to avoid sin, you better go through every single garment in your closet and get rid of all those cotton polyester blends.

Aug 02 14 03:55 pm Link

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Koryn

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Lumen Sky wrote:

im so nervous to open a profile on there. I get hurt so often just by "regular" people. My father has been the person to tell me to open dating profiles.

You actually meet some really nice people on those sites. You just have to wade through a bunch of rubbish, and 20 year old douchebags who "wanna chill wi chu sumtime."

Aug 02 14 03:56 pm Link

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Shadow Dancer

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Bellingham, Washington, US

Koryn wrote:

TECHNICALLY, it's also a sin to wear clothing made of mixed fibers.

If you want to avoid sin, you better go through every single garment in your closet and get rid of all those cotton polyester blends.

Plus if your daughter screws somebody outside of your people you are supposed to bury them up to the neck in your front yard and then the neighbors can come over and stone their head until they die.

People don't do that much anymore either.

Aug 02 14 04:28 pm Link

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Koryn

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Shadow Dancer wrote:

Plus if your daughter screws somebody outside of your people you are supposed to bury them up to the neck in your front yard and then the neighbors can come over and stone their head until they die.

People don't do that much anymore either.

And beards.

It's a sin to trim, or shave your beard off during certain times of the year.

It's July and your face is too hot with all that hair on it?  Tough luck, guy. No beard trim for you!

Aug 02 14 05:20 pm Link

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Eclectic Vision

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Toledo, Ohio, US

Koryn wrote:

You just have to wade through a bunch of rubbish, and 20 year old douchebags who "wanna chill wi chu sumtime."

I hate that shit. No, thank you, little boy.

Aug 03 14 02:01 am Link

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Robb Mann

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Baltimore, Maryland, US

Koryn wrote:

TECHNICALLY, it's also a sin to wear clothing made of mixed fibers.

If you want to avoid sin, you better go through every single garment in your closet and get rid of all those cotton polyester blends.

Exactly. It's 100% poly or nothing!

Aug 03 14 05:13 am Link

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JJMiller

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Buffalo, New York, US

Koryn wrote:
TECHNICALLY, it's also a sin to wear clothing made of mixed fibers.

If you want to avoid sin, you better go through every single garment in your closet and get rid of all those cotton polyester blends.

Thankfully I'm an atheist so I don't buy into the concept of sin (don't forget to throw out your jewellery too)  wink

  Most people cherry pick the nice parts from the bible, but give it a read and there the nasty parts are.

Aug 03 14 05:59 am Link

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LeWhite

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Los Angeles, California, US

I should love the sinner and hate the sin, or at least try.
@^  Levi says wool and linen
Lester says read before speak

Aug 03 14 09:21 pm Link

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Lumatic

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Brooklyn, New York, US

Koryn wrote:

You actually meet some really nice people on those sites. You just have to wade through a bunch of rubbish, and 20 year old douchebags who "wanna chill wi chu sumtime."

lolz yo

Aug 03 14 10:07 pm Link