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Sha-Lynne
Posts: 22685
Las Vegas, Nevada, US
My buddy would do it for his bf...I can't remember if he said he enjoyed it or not, but I know he didn't want reciprocation.
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Damon Strong
Posts: 1853
Hamilton, Ontario, Canada
It's usually the married guys who take it.
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WIP
Posts: 15973
Cheltenham, England, United Kingdom
After seeing a few porn film/clips I thought buttsex was a normal hetrosexual practice.
Or maybe it's just a porn star thing taking it in the stink.
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64318
Posts: 1638
San Anselmo, California, US
That mention of prostitutes placing razor blades in their pussies is utter BS. Some Navy Chief addressing a bunch of new naive recruits might make up a stoopid story of that kind to frighten some 18 year olds...but thats nonsense. Whores would loose business fast if they ever pulled a trick like that and probably suffer real unpleasant repercussions.
Plus RE: new sexual contacts...its always a good idea to get a good look at privates. You might like what you see...and if you dont like .......make a fast exit.
(Well I had a medical background)
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64318
Posts: 1638
San Anselmo, California, US
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The Duchess of Dork
Posts: 7812
Washington, District of Columbia, US
Davepit wrote:
I always suspected that was the case. I figure if some straight women don't like anal sex, some gay men don't like it either. They just need some practice.
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PeachesP
Posts: 425
Austin, Texas, US
Dazey wrote:
Hetero males are not always dominant... or the top!
;-)
again stereotypes and generalizations are not always true! +100 :p
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Rikala
Posts: 1603
Rochester, New York, US
misszara wrote:
I had to look that up! It's hilarious!
Especially this picture:
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_RGX2lgFSrdM/S … oraem3.png (18+) Kamarose wrote:
Aw. It looks like it's gonna start talking or something!  That's creepy it does look like it's going to talk. The movie is worth a pretty good laugh if you've never seen it though. It's kind of a spoof in some ways I laugh at the main character chick through the entire first half of the movie until she gets more badass
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Eastfist
Posts: 3580
Green Bay, Wisconsin, US
Paul Bryson Photography wrote:
Contrary to popular belief, buttsex is NOT the defining factor in being a gay male. Physical attraction to the same gender IS the defining factor.
Up until my early 30's, I thought I was the only gay man in the world who didn't like buttsex, and only did it with my boyfriends because I was misguided into thinking that ALL gay men wanted it. Then at age 33 (6 years ago), I moved to a major metropolis and found out differently...LOTS of men down here prefer fondling, mutual masturbation, and frottage (google it) as their favored sexual activities. Not only is it safer, but to me it's more fun (not to mention much less prep time and clean-up).
I experimented with this on a gay forum, and found that approximately 25% of the guys who responded prefer NOT to have buttsex, and only do it for the same reason I did: They thought it was a requirement, and they live in a sparsely populated area where most openly gay men require buttsex from their partners...slim pickins.
Also, the forum I asked on was a gay fitness forum, so most of the guys are NOT the stereotype. In fact, they're more masculine than most straight guys I know...everything from personal trainers to MMA instructors to pro and semi-pro wrestlers and boxers and all other "predominately-straight" sports.
So, my questions here:
- What's your take on gay men who do NOT enjoy anal sex?
- If you fall in this category, do you have trouble finding a like-minded partner?
I know we're a rare breed, but I think it's because most non-anal gay men are afraid to come out of the closet due partially to fears of being labeled with the stereotype, and fear of not being able to find a suitable partner.
Disclaimer: This thread is NOT part of the "g0y" movement, which is a group of "christian" non-anal gay guys who spend more time bashing pro-anal gay guys than they do actually enjoying life...very sad and hateful group. If you are part of that group, your brownie points will immediately be taken away and you will not get a cookie. I didn't know what pegging was until recently (thanks fleshbot). Now I know what frottage is. The more we ig'nants learn, the less a'feard we becames.
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ckhd Photography
Posts: 1244
Saint Johns, Arizona, US
Blessed Amen wrote:
why do you have to say "well i'm not gay" nobody really cares if you're gay or straight you know. you make it seem like the rest of us who are responding are all gay when that's not the case but anyways may not be what you meant to say but it's how i interpreted it. OK, then. You can interpret it how you want.
However, since he was asking about gay men, I wanted to let him know that I was viewing it from an 'outside' perspective and may not fully understand where he's coming from.
Sorry for making you look gay. It wasn't my intention.
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Koryn
Posts: 39496
Boston, Massachusetts, US
S U S A N wrote:
I don't understand the concept of strap ons. Why would girls want that when they are getting away from dick in the first place? It doesn't really add much to the girl on girl action. I certainly don't want any fake dick penetration if I were with a girl. I wouldn't know though. It`s fun, kinda like novelty sex, if that makes sense. Strap-on sex is something you do every now & then for shits & giggles. 
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-Jen-
Posts: 46880
Howell, Michigan, US
ShivaKitty wrote:
It`s fun, kinda like novelty sex, if that makes sense. Strap-on sex is something you do every now & then for shits & giggles. Plus, to look at yourself in the mirror with a dick is just HILARIOUS!!
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MJF Artworks
Posts: 3765
San Diego, California, US
-Jen- wrote:
Plus, to look at yourself in the mirror with a dick is just HILARIOUS!! But if you trip and fall, like you often do, it probably hurts quite a bit to be speared by your own strap-on.
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Dara_w
Posts: 12100
Atlanta, Georgia, US
somebody explained this startling fact a few years ago and i was shocked. I think a lot of straight people think gay people enjoy all things within the realms of being gay. dumb, i know.
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That's creepy it does look like it's going to talk. The movie is worth a pretty good laugh if you've never seen it though. It's kind of a spoof in some ways I laugh at the main character chick through the entire first half of the movie until she gets more badass
