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Nicholas Cooper

Posts: 653

Portland, Oregon, US

This thread is full of lose.

Mar 11 08 12:44 pm Link

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Kristen Jeanne

Posts: 5770

Pinardville, New Hampshire, US

lazerbunny wrote:
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You might want to edit your post, personal attacks aren't allowed on MM.

Mar 11 08 12:44 pm Link

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CagedGypsy

Posts: 23953

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, US

lazerbunny wrote:
who ever started this thread is a fucking moron. Nice way to "mainstream media" everyones attention to something thats really a bunch of BULLSHIT. Learn the English language, and pose questions as questions and facts as facts. Idiot. Pat yourself on the back for really being 'Unformative'

So inform him. Why do people get so bent out of shape about teaching. The ignorant are only ignorant because they don't know.

Mar 11 08 12:45 pm Link

Photographer

B Nelson

Posts: 329

Olivette, Missouri, US

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My sincere apologies if I have offended anyone with my posts. Rape is not funny and I should not have joked about it.

*Goes to sit in corner*

What's the joke?  Rape is no laughing matter... unless of course you're raping a clown.

Mar 11 08 12:45 pm Link

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Adrian Ross

Posts: 46

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

This whole thread needs to end. 

The long and short of it is that anyone of any gender, race, age, class status, religion, sexuality, or whatever other variable can be raped.

Rape isn't something that warrants joking as it is an extremely violating and emotionally charged event for most survivors of sexual assault.

Yes, people should be careful in all the ways that have been outlined previously by others.  And of course people should do what they feel most comfortable with to ensure their own safety and security.

Beyond that, I'm not sure what other valuable information needs to be passed on, but certainly making light of a serious issue isn't the best methodology.

Sometimes people joke because it's their way of dealing with a really challenging issue (like sexual assault) and sometimes people joke because they are ignorant.

Either way, for someone who is a survivor, making light of it can be extremely emotionally damaging.

Shame on some of you.

I realize I'm just another person providing a faceless (beyond the portfolio) opinion online, but if you take anything from it, no more posts need to be made on this thread unless they are productive to the apparent original intent.

Just my two cents...Take it as you will.  (I ain't tryin' to start...or continue...a catfight up in here)

Mar 11 08 12:46 pm Link

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CagedGypsy

Posts: 23953

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, US

lazerbunny wrote:
who ever started this thread is a fucking moron. Nice way to "mainstream media" everyones attention to something thats really a bunch of BULLSHIT. Learn the English language, and pose questions as questions and facts as facts. Idiot. Pat yourself on the back for really being 'Unformative'

Oh yea, nice personal attack. hmm

Mar 11 08 12:46 pm Link