scrymettet wrote:
no sense of humour.

+ a million

I remember when I got Eddie Murphy's Delerious on tape.

Koryn Locke wrote:

I lived in the South for my entire life, up until I was 26, and never really heard much in the way of racist jokes. I'm sure a lot of people made them, but it wasn't common place - at least not around random people I met. Up here, it's just what people seem to want to start doing the minute they get comfortable around you. It wasn't socially acceptable where I grew up, at least not overtly, but a lot of New Englanders seem to think it's totally okay to just make racist jokes.

I lived in southern New Hampshire for many years before moving to NYC. My folks still live up there too. I'm afraid I have to agree with you. Actually, I knew an older black man who lived in my area who said after growing up in the south and living pretty much everywhere else that  New Hampshire was the only place he'd been called the N-word on the streets. It's really sad.

Two Pears Studio wrote:
Plaque teeth
Smoking
Hooker perfume
Skid marks
bed sores
Heroin abscesses
Broken teeth
Goiter
Chicken pox
Herpes sores
Compound fractures
Gangrene
Weeping sores of any kind

Charming

What kind of people do you hang around?

Two Pears Studio wrote:
Plaque teeth
Smoking
Hooker perfume
Skid marks
bed sores
Heroin abscesses
Broken teeth
Goiter
Chicken pox
Herpes sores
Compound fractures
Gangrene
Weeping sores of any kind

You just described a typical day at work for me.

Sorinphyre wrote:

You just described a typical day at work for me.

Do you find these traits physically unattractive, or have you gotten used to them?

Monad Studios wrote:



Do you find these traits physically unattractive, or have you gotten used to them?

I'm used to dealing with them.  I don't enjoy dealing with them.

I've found I have infinite patience to deal with a patient's specific care needs as long as that patient has a good attitude.  I have no problem putting on gloves and wiping some ass or draining a cyst on someone's butt if they are nice and appreciative of my care.

I'd rather take care of a very sick but pleasant person than care for a less-sick asshole.

Sorinphyre wrote:
Looking more for personal tastes and styles rather than personality traits, although I certainly agree with rudeness being unattractive.

Awe, I see.

Dirty teeth. Smoking.

I like many body types, but there is a point past which I am not attracted to men/woman that are too fat or too thin. Though that is completely dependent on the person. I have seen very thin woman I find attractive and bigger guys I find hot, it just depends on the person. But generally speaking, extremes

And most cologne and perfume

Monad Studios wrote:
Tight clothes on non-tight bodies.

This. I understand people can wear what they feel comfortable in but if you're a size 16 and wearing a size 6 dress surely you have to know that it doesn't look right.

Sorinphyre wrote:
I'm specifically looking for mannerisms, fashion habits, or any manner of physical adornment.  Things that people choose to do.  Not looking for natural physical features.

For me, two of my biggest things that I find unattractive are French tipped fingernails and smoking.

I completely agree with these. Also as far as mannorisms I wish I could setup a system where Tv commercials and popular Tv shows are recorded all day as that people can comment on a range of facial expressions and reactions to situations. People who make TV probably don't use anything that resembles science when it comes to trying to replicate relatable real life.

Anna Adrielle wrote:
balding quite obviously, but still wearing your hair long

Quite obviously huh? Geez. No guys lose their hair where you come from? And the OP specifically said none physical traits.

Mad Hatter Imagery wrote:
Quite obviously huh? Geez. No guys lose their hair where you come from? And the OP specifically said none physical traits.

No you can control if you are balding and you comb over or you have a pony tail.

"I'm specifically looking for mannerisms, fashion habits, or any manner of physical adornment.  Things that people choose to do.  Not looking for natural physical features."

So if you are balding and you do the comb over or you choose do grow the remaining part long you can control that

Chicchowmein wrote:

No you can control if you are balding and you comb over or you have a pony tail.

"I'm specifically looking for mannerisms, fashion habits, or any manner of physical adornment.  Things that people choose to do.  Not looking for natural physical features."

So if you are balding and you do the comb over or you choose do grow the remaining part long you can control that

I'll allow it.  You can't help if you're balding, but you can choose what to do with your remaining hair.

Koryn Locke wrote:

I lived in the South for my entire life, up until I was 26, and never really heard much in the way of racist jokes. I'm sure a lot of people made them, but it wasn't common place - at least not around random people I met. Up here, it's just what people seem to want to start doing the minute they get comfortable around you. It wasn't socially acceptable where I grew up, at least not overtly, but a lot of New Englanders seem to think it's totally okay to just make racist jokes.

Way more casual racism in Edmonton, AB than I've ever seen in Texas.
Really, more racism all over Canada than I've encountered living in Texas.

Aerynn wrote:
Men who have a preference on women's body hair to the point of being disgusted by it or trying to enforce it. RELEVANT.

I was going to quote everyone who mentioned this, but there were too many...

^
Pretty much men having preferences on women's anything to the point of being disgusted by it or trying to enforce it. Not like "nah, that doesn't do it for me" but that super entitled "Well I WOULD NEVER have sex with that, therefore it should be CHANGED because my personal sexual preferences trump a woman's personal decisions I mean OBVIOUSLY."

It's a really ingrained entitlement I see a lot and I not only find it unattractive, I'm bothered by it.

SPRINGHEEL  wrote:
Chicks who don't dig me

I totally dig you.
*digs*

Damianne wrote:

I totally dig you.
*digs*

And I dig you digging me, you dig?

Aerynn wrote:
Men who have a preference on women's body hair to the point of being disgusted by it or trying to enforce it. RELEVANT.

I was going to quote everyone who mentioned this, but there were too many...

Well, as one of the people who replied regarding body hair...

I saw the OP wanted preferences on visual, not personality traits. I'm not hung up on the hair thing, and I would certainly find a woman who shaves sexy, if she was appealing in other (re: personality) ways). I was just trying to contribute to the intended topic.

My favorite trait in women has always been, and will always be, a willingness to put out.

J Jessica  wrote:
Dead guys.
Being dead is very unattractive.

Bernie had game after he died... but only on the weekends.

SPRINGHEEL  wrote:
Chicks who don't dig me

There is no such thing.

*digs*

Babalon Salome wrote:
There is no such thing.

*digs*

The truthiness is strong with this one.  :nodding:

Oh, and what I find unattractive in a man is bad teeth.

Babalon Salome wrote:
There is no such thing.

*digs*

DivaEroticus wrote:
The truthiness is strong with this one.  :nodding:

BorderlineBunny wrote:
Would rather date Marilyn Manson than a cowboy...

SPRINGHEEL  wrote:

Hmmm......

**Would rather date Marilyn Manson in a cowboy hat than an actual cowboy.

That's not really saying much. He looks damn spiffy there.

J Jessica  wrote:
Dead guys.
Being dead is very unattractive.

Lmao!!!!!

Unless it's a Greg Kihn thing

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3tCEQwww65g

Damianne wrote:
Way more casual racism in Edmonton, AB than I've ever seen in Texas.
Really, more racism all over Canada than I've encountered living in Texas.

Yeah, racist Edmonton must have been real hard on a white girl like you