Forums > Off-Topic Discussion > NYC: Bold and bare breasted in public

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SPRINGHEEL

Posts: 38224

Detroit, Michigan, US

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Jul 13 13 09:56 am Link

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Model MoRina

Posts: 6639

MacMurdo - permanent station of the US, Sector claimed by New Zealand, Antarctica

I don't want to see anyone topless in a restaurant, male or female. 

Beach?  Go for it.  I wish full nudity was allowed at beaches in designated areas at least.

Jul 13 13 11:05 am Link

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Bob Helm Photography

Posts: 18907

Cherry Hill, New Jersey, US

Want to be bold? Try waking down any street in NYC with an unloaded shotgun, action open, all legal and see how many cops you meet with guns drawn.

Just because something is legal does not mean most people will know it...including police.

Jul 13 13 01:13 pm Link

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Cheyenne Lutek

Posts: 74

Los Angeles, California, US

studio36uk wrote:
LET'S PUT THIS URBAN MYTH TO BED

"no shirt, no shoes, no service, by order of the health code / health department" claims are 100% bunkum!

see: http://www.barefooters.org/health-dept/

Barefooters surveyed almost all of the US states' health departments, more than once, on the question of shoes [foot coverings] and NONE claimed that there were any health regulations, codes, ect, that were violated by a CUSTOMER entering a place of business including a restaurant without shoes. Some, but not all, in response to the barefooters question remarked that if any requirement exists in their particular state that it applies ONLY to EMPLOYEES and food service operators themselves... but NOT customers

Here is the response to barefooters from NY state. Responses from other states are linked from their page above.

https://studio36.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/NY2009.jpg

I fully expect that if you asked the [additional] question about shirts the answers would be the same.

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Those of us who are old enough know that those signs started appearing in the ca mid-1960s and were directed at keeping out hippies. It may be a matter of a particular place's policy but it is certainly not now and never was a health code issue.



Studio36

Wow, I didn't know that! But I certainly agree that not having a shirt, or shoes for that matter, is definitely not a serious health code issue. Nobody is eating off of the floor or off of my chest and my body isn't leaking fluids onto people's plates. I mean, even if it WAS leaking fluids, a shirt wouldn't stop it!!

Jul 13 13 01:19 pm Link

Artist/Painter

Augustine

Posts: 1153

Los Angeles, California, US

studio36uk wrote:
LET'S PUT THIS URBAN MYTH TO BED

interesting

Jul 13 13 01:22 pm Link

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Cheyenne Lutek

Posts: 74

Los Angeles, California, US

RennsportPhotography wrote:
Want to be bold? Try waking down any street in NYC with an unloaded shotgun, action open, all legal and see how many cops you meet with guns drawn.

Just because something is legal does not mean most people will know it...including police.

I'm not fighting for gun laws though. We all are passionate about something different. I'm writing a few articles for magazines now and delving into other women's rights issues from this such as women's wages in professional careers as compared to men's, and pro choice decisions when it comes to a woman's body and her fertility.

Just because people don't know it doesn't mean I won't try to help change it.

Jul 13 13 01:25 pm Link

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Cherrystone

Posts: 37171

Columbus, Ohio, US

studio36uk wrote:
"Those of us who are old enough know that those signs started appearing in the ca mid-1960s and were directed at keeping out hippies. It may be a matter of a particular place's policy but it is certainly not now and never was a health code issue.

Studio36

Precisely.
Now they're directed at keeping out bewbs. wink

Jul 13 13 01:53 pm Link

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j3_photo

Posts: 19885

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

SPRINGHEEL  wrote:
https://i98.photobucket.com/albums/l249/SPRINGHEEL69/aPvwg9n_700ba_zps696a3797.gif

lol lol lol

Jul 13 13 01:58 pm Link

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Augustine

Posts: 1153

Los Angeles, California, US

j3_photo wrote:
lol lol lol

I keep watching it, though. Hope springs eternal in the human breast.

So to speak.

Jul 13 13 02:20 pm Link

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Dario Western

Posts: 703

Brisbane, Queensland, Australia

You should also check these sites out for more topless activities in New York and the world over:

http://www.gotopless.org
http://tera.ca
http://www.sherryglaser.net

Good on you for standing up for women's equality in this regard! smile

Jul 13 13 05:33 pm Link

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Dario Western

Posts: 703

Brisbane, Queensland, Australia

MoRina wrote:
I don't want to see anyone topless in a restaurant, male or female. 

Beach?  Go for it.  I wish full nudity was allowed at beaches in designated areas at least.

Why can't people just go nude and topless where they want?  They're not hurting anybody.

Jul 13 13 05:34 pm Link

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Amber Dawn - Indiana

Posts: 6255

Salem, Indiana, US

If I saw someone get topless in a bar/restaurant while I was eating or even had my kids around I'd find it very disrespectful. Did you ask the people around you if it was okay or give them a heads up?

Jul 13 13 05:55 pm Link

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studio36uk

Posts: 22898

Tavai, Sigave, Wallis and Futuna

Colorado Model Amber wrote:
If I saw someone get topless in a bar/restaurant while I was eating or even had my kids around I'd find it very disrespectful. Did you ask the people around you if it was okay or give them a heads up?

And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee
- - - Matthew 18:9 [KJ Cambridge Ed.]

https://www.roflcat.com/images/cats/Don__t_Look.jpg


Studio36

Jul 13 13 09:00 pm Link

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Cheyenne Lutek

Posts: 74

Los Angeles, California, US

Dario Western wrote:

Why can't people just go nude and topless where they want?  They're not hurting anybody.

Society convinces itself that it's wrong to do certain things. In African countries, tribal women don't wear shirts as their custom. The only reason why American society can consider it immoral is if they consider breasts as symbols of sex, which is a private act. That is the first thing most would think in our culture, and then second, as a source for food (which even then some people shy aware from the thought.)

I don't know why a woman's breasts are such a sin to bare when I see overweight men bearing larger breasts than mine in public parks and what not. THEY LOOK THE SAME.

Think about it, unsupporters. It's all in your heads.

Jul 14 13 07:54 pm Link

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j3_photo

Posts: 19885

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Cheyenne Lutek wrote:

Society convinces itself that it's wrong to do certain things. In African countries, tribal women don't wear shirts as their custom. The only reason why American society can consider it immoral is if they consider breasts as symbols of sex, which is a private act. That is the first thing most would think in our culture, and then second, as a source for food (which even then some people shy aware from the thought.)

I don't know why a woman's breasts are such a sin to bare when I see overweight men bearing larger breasts than mine in public parks and what not. THEY LOOK THE SAME.

Think about it, unsupporters. It's all in your heads.

They don't all look the same and they are most definitely not perceived the same way.

Jul 14 13 08:00 pm Link

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Allen Henson

Posts: 34

Beverly Hills, California, US

This was just a lot of fun. and and us not taking things too seriously. If you feel like photography's work there's probably a good reason for that.

www.allenhenson.com

Jul 15 13 04:14 pm Link

Jul 15 13 04:17 pm Link

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Echo_

Posts: 286

Paris, Île-de-France, France

Maybe I'm just too boring but I'd rather have people spend this much time and attention to gaining equal pay in the work place, or reducing gender stereotypes that get imposed on children. I don't really buy the whole fighting for woman equality in this regard, I'm all for people dressing and not dressing how ever they please but to say its a big step? I disagree, we should be working harder at reducing our rape culture for that matter instead of just making it legal to go bare, seems like a lazy way to go about it.

But  congratulations on making such an impact either way, it gets people talking which is always good ! Plus the pictures at the restaurant that didnt kick you out look really good

Jul 15 13 04:26 pm Link

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studio36uk

Posts: 22898

Tavai, Sigave, Wallis and Futuna

Echo_ wrote:
Maybe I'm just too boring but I'd rather have people spend this much time and attention to gaining equal pay in the work place, or reducing gender stereotypes that get imposed on children.

You have to make progress one thing [OK, two things] at a time.

Studio36

Jul 15 13 04:37 pm Link

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C.C. Holdings

Posts: 914

Los Angeles, California, US

Echo_ wrote:
Maybe I'm just too boring but I'd rather have people spend this much time and attention to gaining equal pay in the work place, or reducing gender stereotypes that get imposed on children. I don't really buy the whole fighting for woman equality in this regard, I'm all for people dressing and not dressing how ever they please but to say its a big step? I disagree, we should be working harder at reducing our rape culture for that matter instead of just making it legal to go bare, seems like a lazy way to go about it.

But  congratulations on making such an impact either way, it gets people talking which is always good ! Plus the pictures at the restaurant that didnt kick you out look really good

In Saudi Arabia, some women leaders don't feel that allowing women to drive or be in cars alone is a worthwhile issue to put time and attention on

In one city, Riyadh, many women are doing it anyway


not an analogy, just some perspective

Jul 15 13 04:48 pm Link

Jul 15 13 05:09 pm Link

Photographer

Jay Edwards

Posts: 18616

Fort Lauderdale, Florida, US

Cheyenne Lutek wrote:
I don't know why a woman's breasts are such a sin to bare when I see overweight men bearing larger breasts than mine in public parks and what not. THEY LOOK THE SAME.

Oh boy... I hope not for your sake.

Life isn't fair and it never will be.

Besides, a private business should have the right to designate their dress code.

Jul 15 13 05:15 pm Link

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Echo_

Posts: 286

Paris, Île-de-France, France

C.C. Holdings  wrote:

In Saudi Arabia, some women leaders don't feel that allowing women to drive or be in cars alone is a worthwhile issue to put time and attention on

In one city, Riyadh, many women are doing it anyway


not an analogy, just some perspective

But I'm not talking about another culture, I am talking about issues that affect more women and in the case of gender stereotypes it affects everyone. To me, this is more of a publicity stunt, which is not a problem but... For whatever reason people always see the ability to be naked as more of an issue... (Creates more media interest as there are more extreme emotions attached to it). When if we are honest with ourselves and the way our culture is ,it won't work until we get rid of rape culture and gender stereotypes.

But sorry ,taking it too seriously >.> I'll go and be quiet now

Jul 15 13 05:31 pm Link

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255 West

Posts: 6468

New York, New York, US

K E E L I N G wrote:
I must be missing something... please explain why it's important we fight for women's rights to be topless in Sushi joints.

You're not missing anything. This is what's "really important" to a lot of people who can't think of weightier things to fight for.

Jul 15 13 05:39 pm Link

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Allen Henson

Posts: 34

Beverly Hills, California, US

MoRina wrote:

Maybe because "decade old" models aren't interested in publicity stunts disguised as women's rights advocacy.

I guess I should have said decades

Jul 15 13 06:29 pm Link

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Allen Henson

Posts: 34

Beverly Hills, California, US

Jul 15 13 06:29 pm Link

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Quay Lude

Posts: 6386

Madison, Wisconsin, US

Cheyenne Lutek wrote:
In African countries, tribal women don't wear shirts as their custom.

This sounds like the wish of a 13 year old boy looking at National Geographic under his bed sheet with a flashlight.

Can you name an African country where a woman might be murdered for baring her chest? Can you name 10? How about 25?

"tribal women"... when you don't know anything, just make shit up.

Jul 15 13 08:25 pm Link

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Sleepy Weasel

Posts: 4839

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Everyone on this site is in this to get noticed. If you're not, you're lying. Why are so many giving her a hard time for getting herself noticed?

While I would not complain about seeing an attractive woman's bare breasts, I might agree it's not appropriate to be topless in a dining establishment. It's hardly something I'd be bent out of shape over, though. And my kid has seen breasts before. Not the end of the world.

I think there are probably more impactful ways to get your point across, but to each their own. Good for you, regardless. Enjoy your time in the spotlight and use your power for good! big_smile

Jul 16 13 01:14 pm Link

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Augustine

Posts: 1153

Los Angeles, California, US

Cheyenne Lutek wrote:
In African countries, tribal women don't wear shirts as their custom.

Cuica Cafezinho wrote:
This sounds like the wish of a 13 year old boy looking at National Geographic under his bed sheet with a flashlight.

Seems to be the case in Ethiopia.

Here's a woman Joey L photographed on his last trip there.

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lqrn4 … 1_1280.jpg 18+

Jul 16 13 01:27 pm Link

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Hikari Tech Photography

Posts: 791

Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada

de0rbit wrote:
What happened to "No Shoes. No Shirt. No Service"

?

Was wondering the same thing.

FYI, with obesity out of control if women are not allowed to go topless then why should those males that SHOULD be wearing a bra not be forced to put on a shirt?!?

I'd rather be surprised to see a pair of so-so bewbies on a woman out in public than fatty bewbs on a guy out in public. Those images are quite difficult to forget... hmm

Jul 16 13 06:57 pm Link

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Portrait Model Shandra

Posts: 81

Beverly, Massachusetts, US

You realize the law you're referencing has been a thing for EONS, and that private businesses can do whatever they want?

I've been topless all over the streets of NYC, and was nude with about 100 others inside the Four Seasons.

Annnnd, everywhere else.  So what?

If you really understood and believed in the issue, you wouldn't think there was anything bold about it, and you wouldn't be trying to force nudity for equality's sake, by being topless in an area that men are not allowed to be topless, either.

Publicity stunt.  Yawn.

This is not the way forward.

Jul 16 13 11:36 pm Link

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Will_DB

Posts: 250

Bristol, England, United Kingdom

Congrats for this bold stunt, and the free publicity you've generated. Nothing wrong with pushing the boundaries a bit... really, who was harmed?

Jul 17 13 12:11 am Link

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Will_DB

Posts: 250

Bristol, England, United Kingdom

de BUEN PHOTOGRAPHY wrote:
FYI, with obesity out of control if women are not allowed to go topless then why should those males that SHOULD be wearing a bra not be forced to put on a shirt?!?

I'd rather be surprised to see a pair of so-so bewbies on a woman out in public than fatty bewbs on a guy out in public. Those images are quite difficult to forget... hmm

Hmm, we probably ought to give the 'fuller figured male' a bit more respect, especially if they're comfortable with their body. Not sure why a fat guy with his top off induces such over the top hysterics!

Jul 17 13 12:35 am Link

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Steve Russ

Posts: 74

Orlando, Florida, US

Cheyenne Lutek wrote:

Wow, I didn't know that! But I certainly agree that not having a shirt, or shoes for that matter, is definitely not a serious health code issue. Nobody is eating off of the floor or off of my chest and my body isn't leaking fluids onto people's plates. I mean, even if it WAS leaking fluids, a shirt wouldn't stop it!!

Then explain the "we'd Love To See You Naked But State Code Requires Shoes & Shirt" sign in Five Guy's.

Jul 17 13 06:28 pm Link

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TerrysPhotocountry

Posts: 4649

Rochester, New York, US

Next time try walking in to a night club like that!

Jul 17 13 06:38 pm Link

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Kincaid Blackwood

Posts: 23492

Los Angeles, California, US

Still trying to figure out what this has to do with women's rights.

Jul 17 13 07:09 pm Link

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Laura UnBound

Posts: 28745

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Kincaid Blackwood wrote:
Still trying to figure out what this has to do with women's rights.

Nothing.

Technically it also has nothing to do with the law she was trying to bring attention to because she didnt understand it well enough to know she wasnt actually following it by trying to use it as a defense for being topless in a private establishment.


So its got nothing to do with anything, except boobs.

Jul 17 13 07:15 pm Link

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IDiivil

Posts: 4615

Los Angeles, California, US

Kincaid Blackwood wrote:
Still trying to figure out what this has to do with women's rights.

Laura UnBound wrote:
Nothing.

Technically it also has nothing to do with the law she was trying to bring attention to because she didnt understand it well enough to know she wasnt actually following it by trying to use it as a defense for being topless in a private establishment.


So its got nothing to do with anything, except boobs.

~

Portrait Model Shandra wrote:
You realize the law you're referencing has been a thing for EONS, and that private businesses can do whatever they want?

I've been topless all over the streets of NYC, and was nude with about 100 others inside the Four Seasons.

Annnnd, everywhere else.  So what?

If you really understood and believed in the issue, you wouldn't think there was anything bold about it, and you wouldn't be trying to force nudity for equality's sake, by being topless in an area that men are not allowed to be topless, either.

Publicity stunt.  Yawn.

This is not the way forward.

+1

Jul 17 13 07:29 pm Link

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Andialu

Posts: 14029

San Pedro, California, US

Laura UnBound wrote:
Nothing.

Technically it also has nothing to do with the law she was trying to bring attention to because she didnt understand it well enough to know she wasnt actually following it by trying to use it as a defense for being topless in a private establishment.


So its got nothing to do with anything, except boobs.

Which, I have to admit I'm an avid fan of. But, as far as making the fuss that the OP has made, it just seems that she is looking for some attention. Which apparently, she has received.

Jul 17 13 08:05 pm Link

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255 West

Posts: 6468

New York, New York, US

Colorado Model Amber wrote:
If I saw someone get topless in a bar/restaurant while I was eating or even had my kids around I'd find it very disrespectful. Did you ask the people around you if it was okay or give them a heads up?

You have to understand, a true Narcissist isn't the slightest bit interested in being respectful to you or anyone else -- but they will demand that you be absolutely respectful to their needs.

Jul 17 13 08:10 pm Link