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Model

Loremipsum

Posts: 1

Seoul, Seoul, Korea (South)

Hello all,

Do you have chaperone or escort when going for some shooting project?

In translating, it means to protect some person going someplace or accompanying.

It seems weird to some. Because it does subtly mean there is some danger with the shooting ie. implying photographer or project person may not be safe?

Jun 09 14 12:57 am Link

Model

Marla Pandora

Posts: 2815

Glasgow, Scotland, United Kingdom

I've never brought a chaperone to any of my shoots!! Firstly, I would feel distracted by their presence during the shoot and secondly they can also distract the photographer.. To me its just the same as bringing someone with you when you go to work! What I do for my own piece of mind, is my 'home work'.. Research on the photographer before agreeing to shoot! Check his photography/networking websites and also check for references from other models.. I also always let my husband know where I will be shooting and always keep my phone with me.

I'm not saying its wrong to bring a chaperone, its just not for me. If the photographer doesn't mind you bringing one then I don't see any harm as long as he/she stays quiet and doesn't interfere with the shoot. However, sometimes they may be asked by the photographer to help in holding lighting equipments or other props..!

Jun 09 14 01:26 am Link

Photographer

Cherrystone

Posts: 37171

Columbus, Ohio, US

Bianca K wrote:
Hello all,

Do you have chaperone or escort when going for some shooting project?

In translating, it means to protect some person going someplace or accompanying.

It seems weird to some. Because it does subtly mean there is some danger with the shooting ie. implying photographer or project person may not be safe?

Hear are some recent threads on the subject, for your perusal.

https://www.sendu.me.uk/modelmayhem/?te … rt_order=0

Jun 09 14 01:26 am Link

Photographer

Natural Means

Posts: 936

Yamba, New South Wales, Australia

Bianca K wrote:
Hello all,

Do you have chaperone or escort when going for some shooting project?

In translating, it means to protect some person going someplace or accompanying.

It seems weird to some. Because it does subtly mean there is some danger with the shooting ie. implying photographer or project person may not be safe?

There are better ways (if most of the following lines up);

- references
- tags
- credits
- happy models in the portfolio
- models who are happy using said photographers images
- bit of internet research (facebook etc)
- first shoot in a public place
- be seen ringing someone as you arrive and advise you have to give a mid shoot update

Personal experience is around half a dozen escorts (out of about 50 models) and all to a man have been great guys... but I feel that they lowered the quality of the shoot, (distraction for the model? unfulfilled hospitality sensations for me?).

Escorts can make the photographer feel unsafe and there is a fear that equipment will be stolen.

Many photographers won't shoot if an escort is required (some will btw).

I won't let escorts here for an indoor shoot, but do tolerate them for an outdoor shoot (more room, less of a 'someone peering over my shoulder sensation).

Jun 09 14 02:00 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

If you are worried about photographers you should not model.

Jun 09 14 02:39 am Link

Photographer

The Sweaty Sock

Posts: 470

Glasgow, Scotland, United Kingdom

Jerry Nemeth wrote:
If you are worried about photographers you should not model.

The world is not quite as black and white as that!

I'm no big deal and I've maybe worked with a couple of dozen models in my time so I'm not very experienced. Some have brought chaperones some haven't. I've neither been offended or distracted either way. In fact I often feel more comfortable if there is a chaperone. It seems sensible to me that if a model is going into the unknown. Meeting a stranger and going to be locked into a dark room with them while changing in and out of clothes in close proximity. If the model can't get hold of a good number of references on the photographer then why not?

cheers

The Sweaty Sock

Jun 09 14 03:34 am Link

Photographer

Aberotica

Posts: 500

Aberdeen, Scotland, United Kingdom

"holding lighting equipment..." Actually, I have these special things called, "light stands," to do that for me. smile

Jun 09 14 03:54 am Link

Model

Marla Pandora

Posts: 2815

Glasgow, Scotland, United Kingdom

Aberotica  wrote:
"holding lighting equipment..." Actually, I have these special things called, "light stands," to do that for me. smile

LOL I meant for example on location holding a light reflector etc.. smile

Jun 09 14 03:59 am Link

Photographer

Virtual Studio

Posts: 6725

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

All - OP is in Korea.

Advice which holds good for North America may well not be the same where she lives.

Jun 09 14 04:03 am Link

Photographer

Wolfy4u

Posts: 1103

Grand Junction, Colorado, US

One of the biggest problems with a model demanding to have an escort is that you now have three people who must have the same time available and the same desire to make the shoot successful.
I've rarely seen an 'escort' who really was invested in making sure the the shoot was a success. I've had models cancel because their escort had sometime more important to do at the last minute. I've had escorts who kept asking when the shoot would finish. I've had escorts who were visibly in a bad mood. I've heard of escorts 'borrowing' objects from the photographer. I had one escort at the two model shoot who made the second model very uncomfortable. I've had shoots, that had an escort where 2 out 3 images showed the model posing for the escort, not the camera. It's amazing to me how easy it is to miss the fact that the model's not really looking into the camera when you take the photo. There's so many things to concentrate on at the last second.
I've had 2-3, out of over 100 escorts over the years who were very helpful to me and the model.

Edit: Almost forgot.... I've never had a really experienced model or traveling model ask to bring an escort. When they've been traveling with a male, the male always stays totally out of the way during the shoot. Models often state that if the photographer is 'professional', he'll understand the need for an escort, but professional models never seem to need an escort.

Jun 09 14 04:52 am Link

Photographer

Abbitt Photography

Posts: 13564

Washington, Utah, US

Bianca K wrote:
...Because it does subtly mean there is some danger with the shooting ie. implying photographer or project person may not be safe?

Yes, and personally, I'd rather skip working with a model who perceives me as a threat in favor of those who do not.

Jun 09 14 06:16 am Link

Photographer

L O C U T U S

Posts: 1746

Bangor, Maine, US

Bianca K wrote:
Hello all,

Do you have chaperone or escort when going for some shooting project?

In translating, it means to protect some person going someplace or accompanying.

It seems weird to some. Because it does subtly mean there is some danger with the shooting ie. implying photographer or project person may not be safe?

Over here in the good ole USA the Best answer I have read is;
When boiled down to the essential reason, it is for the model's sense of security.

Historically, photography has been plagued by predators who use the camera to approach people for reasons other than photography. In some cases there have been documented reports of violence, molestation and rape, stalking, and even murder. Anyone who has been a shooter for some time probably knows some jerk who uses the camera to meet girls.

In truth, meeting a photographer is probably as safe as meeting anyone, regardless of profession. The actual risk to the model is far, far less than the model's perceived risk. Since the advent of the internet, urban myths, repeated stories, and misunderstandings, the perceived risk has only grown larger.

Jun 09 14 06:44 am Link

Model

Magda Kulpinska

Posts: 688

Paris, Île-de-France, France

I never quite understood why someone would need an escort unless their underage.

If you feel the photographer is coming off weird, dont do the shoot.

A glance at the portfolio usually suffices to know if it's for real or if it's a weirdo....

Jun 09 14 07:14 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

Virtual Studio wrote:
All - OP is in Korea.

Advice which holds good for North America may well not be the same where she lives.

+1

Jun 09 14 07:28 am Link

Photographer

Marin Photo NYC

Posts: 7348

New York, New York, US

Escorts are a bad idea.  Bring another model or a makeup artist, someone that can be part of the shoot is always a better option.  Saying that you need someone to protect you may offend the person you might work with.

Jun 09 14 07:29 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

The Sweaty Sock wrote:

The world is not quite as black and white as that!

I'm no big deal and I've maybe worked with a couple of dozen models in my time so I'm not very experienced. Some have brought chaperones some haven't. I've neither been offended or distracted either way. In fact I often feel more comfortable if there is a chaperone. It seems sensible to me that if a model is going into the unknown. Meeting a stranger and going to be locked into a dark room with them while changing in and out of clothes in close proximity. If the model can't get hold of a good number of references on the photographer then why not?

cheers

The Sweaty Sock

If she can't get good references she shouldn't shoot with the photographer.

I have photographed many models nude and none of them needed an escort.  They all were experienced models.

Jun 09 14 07:32 am Link

Photographer

Isaiah Brink

Posts: 2328

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

Abbitt Photography wrote:

Yes, and personally, I'd rather skip working with a model who perceives me as a threat in favor of those who do not.

I agree.  I'd skip that model and go with one that dosn't require an escort.

Jun 09 14 08:05 am Link

Photographer

DeanLautermilch

Posts: 321

Sebring, Florida, US

I like escorts that are supportive. I go for the newbies and request they bring someone to the shoot. I shoot in a high homeless area and did get a Nikon snatched a few months ago. There are a lot of transients in my area.

The only bad experience was a jealous BF who was against the idea of his GF in front of the camera.

Jun 12 14 12:08 pm Link

Photographer

EButterfieldPhotography

Posts: 10

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

I've worked with three female models, and all three brought escort/chaperones. While it's a bit odd from my perspective (I know that I'm not a creep, and even if I were a creep, I'd be a gay creep so they're really in no imminent danger), I understand that it's always risky to go to a stranger's home/studio, even after doing homework. In all three cases, the escorts were actually quite helpful in getting the models dressed and prepared (and somebody has to tie those corsets).

I haven't found them intrusive; I just insist that they stay in the room but on the other side of the backdrop, so they're not participating actively or passively in the shoot. (In one case a male escort wandered into "my" side, but he was just interested in watching a photoshoot, and kept quiet and out of the way, so it was acceptable.) Everyone's happy, and I'm not distracted or interfered-with, and neither is the model. It all comes down to folks working out a solution that meets everyone's needs, or at least is minimally inconvenient to everyone.

Jun 12 14 12:17 pm Link

Photographer

Ken Warren Photography

Posts: 933

GLENMOORE, Pennsylvania, US

EButterfieldPhotography wrote:
... and even if I were a creep, I'd be a gay creep so they're really in no imminent danger ...

lol. Everyone knows the right girl can "cure" you, and then watch out!

Not. (Just in case anyone thought I was serious.)

Personally, I've never had a problem, but I explain to models that there are better ways to be safe, and as a result, I've had an escort show up only a couple of times.

Jun 12 14 12:42 pm Link

Photographer

Mark C Smith

Posts: 1073

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Marin Photography NYC wrote:
Escorts are a bad idea.  Bring another model or a makeup artist, someone that can be part of the shoot is always a better option.  Saying that you need someone to protect you may offend the person you might work with.

My thoughts exactly. Requiring an escort just sets the shoot up to have a bad vibe from the start. It's the thought of needing "protection" that turns me off.

I'd rather work on a location shoot first (where the escort can be useful) if it's a model I really want to work with.

Jun 15 14 09:14 am Link

Model

Paris Jay

Posts: 32

Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, US

I think what ever makes you feel comfortable, ask the photographer if they mind and then go from there but I would never just show up with a chaperone

Jun 15 14 04:46 pm Link

Model

Paris Jay

Posts: 32

Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, US

Marin Photography NYC wrote:
Escorts are a bad idea.  Bring another model or a makeup artist, someone that can be part of the shoot is always a better option.  Saying that you need someone to protect you may offend the person you might work with.

This is what I thought, there is no way I would bring anyone that wasnt even part of the industry

Jun 15 14 04:48 pm Link

Photographer

Jim Shibley

Posts: 3309

Phoenix, Arizona, US

I had a model bring her manager/boyfriend. He'd answer e-mails for bookings while she was shooting. She became peeded at both of us for not paying enough attention to her. Hey, pretty girl here! wink

Usually, the model gets a ride & has someone come to pick her up if she doesn't come alone.

Jun 20 14 11:01 pm Link

Photographer

Jay Farrell

Posts: 13408

Nashville, Tennessee, US

Stooges...an added person who isn't needed, if the model does her basic diligence that she should do in any other aspect of her life.

Jun 20 14 11:16 pm Link

Model

Autumn Goodwin

Posts: 4

Ewa Beach, Hawaii, US

As a model, I take an escort with me on every shoot. I don't trust anyone. The world isn't a safe place and I learned that the hard way. My escort is always either my fiance or my brother and neither have ever gotten in the way. In fact I perform better when they're around. I feel comfortable enough to get out of my head and just feel the shots. As far as judging whether or not they're legit based on their portfolio and the happiness of the models/quality of photos, thats bull. Anyone can take pictures off the internet and claim them as their own and unless I knew the picture from elsewhere, I wouldn't know any better. My first shoot I ever did with a photographer that wasn't a friend might have turned out horrible if I hadn't had an escort. He kept trying to angle the camera up my skirt and at the end asked if I wanted to do some fetish shots. The theme was "rock"........ I had a guitar to pose with..... Where does fetish fit into that??? I was extremely uncomfortable. Yes I could have walked away but that makes me look flaky as a model. If I can have someone with me who puts me at ease, why risk my reputation? If a photographer has a serious problem with me bringing an escort, it makes me feel like they have bad intentions. As a rape survivor (from someone who claimed to love me and care about me) I don't trust strangers and I don't leave myself vulnerable. End of story.

Jun 21 14 12:26 am Link

Photographer

Rik Williams

Posts: 4005

Melbourne, Victoria, Australia

I always have a chaperone on hand whenever I shoot with models.

Can't be too careful now can you big_smile

Jun 21 14 01:45 am Link

Photographer

MichaelClements

Posts: 1739

Adelaide, South Australia, Australia

I always shoot with an Mua on site for touch ups etc during the shoot. Only ever had maybe two models insist on a chaperone, my track record and references should speak for themselves when it comes to shooting with me. Personally I find additional redundant people a complete waste of space and a distraction for those involved in the shoot.

Jun 21 14 02:05 am Link

Photographer

MichaelClements

Posts: 1739

Adelaide, South Australia, Australia

Additionally without trying to sound like a complete asshole if you don't have a track record as a model with a promising portfolio that shows you know what you're doing and you insisted on bringing an escort I'd more than likely pass on you.

Jun 21 14 02:18 am Link