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Ever approached a coworker about posing/modeling?
I have this self imposed rule against approaching female coworkers about posing for me or about suggesting they should get into modeling ever since I did it once years ago and the girl seemed very uncomfortable around me after that. She was really shy. However, once I am nolonger working there, they are fair game. I was wondering if any of you ever approach coworkers about doing posing/modeling for you or getting into the industry in general. I recently became laid off from my job where most of the wait staff was absolutely gorgeous college girls here in the college town I live in. So, after that I talked to a couple of the ones I had really wanted to do some photographs of and they loved the idea. I plan on working with them soon and asking them to help me with the other girls by giving them business cards to hand out. I really have never worked at a place where literally every female there was beautiful. I think I may have hit a jack pot and may have discovered at least one or two actual future models. Jan 04 06 12:22 am Link Yep, about 15 years ago. That was before my workplace imposed "don't even think about it" rules. Worked out fine - she was stoked to be asked and made some decent pictures. Then she married another guy from work, they quit and moved to Alaska. I don't think that last part was relevent. -Don Jan 04 06 12:26 am Link I shot some photos of my boss when I was working for US Cellular. She was smokin' hot! But it was rather awkward at times when she had to reprimand me for something and I would respond, "Well, yeah! But I've seen you naked!" I would show you some of the photos, but I made a promise to her that I would never release the photos. And my word is golden. But, man OH man! She was HOT! My co-workers all knew I shot with her, and they all begged and begged me to show them the photos. I just told them they would have to get them from her. The best way to get co-workers to shoot with you and NOT get in trouble. Get one of your male co-workers to assist you on a shoot. They'll return to work and brag about how cool it was.. and tell all the ladies for you that you were very professional. Word will spread like wildfire, and next thing you know the hotties will be asking YOU. This is how I got the shoot with my boss. Jan 04 06 12:26 am Link 6 of them over the last 10 years they loved my work but I work in the arts Jan 04 06 12:34 am Link John Jebbia wrote: You also got your lesbian friend to assist on a shoot... with me... Jan 04 06 12:35 am Link Brandy wrote: That was the one that talked my boss into shooting with me. She was sorta like a male co-worker.. Jan 04 06 12:36 am Link John Jebbia wrote: Yeah, I think she was a little more male than female. Jan 04 06 12:38 am Link Rick Edwards wrote: I do art as well. But I do not have any of it on here because I do not feel that is what the site is geared toward. Jan 04 06 12:39 am Link Glamour Boulevard wrote: yeah, I have most glam kinda stuff here Jan 04 06 12:46 am Link Rick Edwards wrote: Ah ,ok. That is different than art photography,lol. There are some really beautiful theater majors here. Jan 04 06 12:48 am Link "most of the wait staff was absolutely gorgeous college girls" So, where is this place you worked? I'm hungry. Jan 04 06 12:54 am Link Chip Morton wrote: A nice restaurant in Davis, California Jan 04 06 01:13 am Link Oh, I thought you meant asking a co-worker as in another photographer to model. I have this thing for photographing photographers. Only did it once. It was fun. I think I also curiously started to gravitate towards some photographers' work (like a few here on MM) so much so that I would consider being the clay they mold into a photograph. (now wondering if I would make good clay...) Jan 04 06 01:28 am Link Would have gotten me fired on the spot. Jan 04 06 03:04 am Link lll wrote: That was why I never asked someone who was a coworker, until I or she was nolonger an employee there after the one time I chanced it. I was never sure of the policies but I never did it beyond the first time because it hit me that I could possibly be fired for sexual harassment. Jan 04 06 03:06 am Link just once, and she turned out to be one of the hottest models i ever shot with, i asked her to model for me after one of us left the business, as it turned out guy we were working for was a total scumbag, we left the same day ,shot the next, hottest dec 7th theres ever been in my memory, WOW. now i just employ me, and i aint asking.--post a shot in the port tomorrow, look for it. Jan 04 06 03:17 am Link I'm self-unemployed, so I have no coworkers to ask... Jan 04 06 03:20 am Link Brian Diaz wrote: Yea, I am working on that Jan 04 06 03:23 am Link Glamour Boulevard wrote: Yes and no.... back in 'the day', when I used to tend bar, I worked at a number of clubs, bars, restaurants, etc... this was also when I was more or less getting started with my photograph, and also pretty much before Al Gore invented the internet, so there weren't sites like this around to netwok on! Jan 04 06 03:24 am Link I had one of my co-workers model for me... Since I am in the air force it's quite difficult and it might get easily taken as sexual harrasment (due to the nature of my pics). Anyway - the above stated case happened after an envolving friendship and a few "dates" outside the military. I would never ask while wearing uniform though, which is kind of sad. There's a beautiful looking woman here on post. Already know her name and everything, but it's kind of difficult to approach her since she works in another unit. Another thing is: She's a PFC and I am MSGT - so it's out of the question to ask her while on duty... Jan 04 06 03:26 am Link Thomas Oed wrote: That is exactly how I handled it with both situations, the one where the girl ended up acting as though she was uncomfortable around me after that and the one that actually did turn into a shoot and that girl was never uncomfortable at all after I talked with her about it. She ,too was the" well if you ever need a model, ive been wanting to" types.But she knew she was a hottie and knew she had a great shape. She is now a aerobics instructor at a local health club.She is the Black/Asian girl with the afro in my portfolio. Jan 04 06 03:30 am Link Glamour Boulevard wrote: Yeah, she's a hot one... sure looks fit! Jan 04 06 03:56 am Link Thomas Oed wrote: -sings- shes a brick..... houssssse Jan 04 06 04:08 am Link Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad idea! JP Jan 04 06 06:33 am Link I think this depends on where you work. At service job in restaurant or bar enviornment it's probably OK because of the workers are in college or trying to do something else like acting, modeling, etc. In professional corporate enviornment, it's probably a bad idea to approach people about photography but where I work everyone knows what I do and has seen my work. When we do have contests and we can get a gift card anywhere my boss has gotten them from Calumet for me when I win. mike Jan 04 06 06:44 am Link Well if you ever tried that at the post office you could expect a sexual harassment case filed on your butt but quick. No thanks. Not going to ever happen. But I did have one lady ask me to shoot with her so we did. I gave her some shots and the first thing she did was take them to work and show them off. I think she was just showing off her big boobs so EVERYBODY could see them. It was interesting but that was 15 yeas ago. bs Jan 04 06 06:49 am Link I have, but never suggested glamour or any type of nudity when I asked. I shot with one co-worker, but after she left the company. I asked another and she agreed, but we never arranged the shoot before I left the company. Both women used to work for me, so I had to be very careful, even though it was a pretty free-wheeling place and I never, ever suggested nudity or anything close to it. Jan 04 06 07:40 am Link I worked with colleagues at the Grand Hotel in Nuremberg, Germany back in 1995/96 (all the women there KNEW that I photographed Retro fashion etc.) I used to photograph Flight Attendant's *stewardesses* (TWA/PAN-AM, NORTHWEST and DELTA) at TIA when I worked there back in the late 1990`s I had no problem`s asking colleagues at former jobs to model for me 75% of the time they worked with me and I produced some of my best works before with "the girl next door" I just had a jam during my 2005 Texas Shootout with a $350,000 Lamborghini (the scheduled model was sick and hospitalized that morning) so I was working with another model, who was at that time working at her normal day job and I had noticed that one of her managers working that morning was quite attractive and had "the look" and I just walked up to her and said, "how would you like to wear a custom made 1960`s dress, gogo boots and model with a $350,000 Lamborghini this afternoon?" Needless to say she agreed............... I think she was even BETTER than the model I had booked for this shoot, so one model`s loss is another`s gain for sure Jan 04 06 08:00 am Link KoolGirlieStuff wrote: I would have no problem asking a coworker in germany either. The US is much different. As for your Lamborgini, I have access to a few of what are basically flying cars right here in town at the manufacturers warehouse. They are jet like cars,selling for about a mill each. Only thing is they want to approve all outfits used in the shoots. which pretty much leaves out anything sexy and futuristic according to the way they are talkin. Jan 04 06 08:05 am Link My boss asked me to take headshots of his kid so that he could get into acting. He kept flaking and finally I took him into the studio and shot a couple rolls. He never chose which prints to enlarge, never reimbursed me for the film as he said he would, he also borrowed a tie last year and never gave it back. lol I'd ask a coworker, but with my reputation (5 secretaries in 1 year) it seems they already get ran off rather easily. haha Jan 04 06 11:50 am Link John Paul wrote: I lost not one, but TWO jobs over me shooting co-workers. Jan 04 06 12:33 pm Link There are a couple of girls at the day job I wouldn't mind asking, but seeing as how they all get jealous of one another over nothing already, and I'm in management, I won't bother with it. Anyway, I prefer girls with modeling experience, even for a TFP shoot. Jan 04 06 02:14 pm Link Mainly how I got started, took classes in college, used a couple girls I worked with to model. Now when I have a project i'm trying to develop I discuss what looks I'm going for with one and she gives me pointers. Started taking pictures of coworkers, they got passed around work and then more come up to me wanting me to do more. Think it really helped, got two wedding jobs and when someone has a kid they want photos done. No complaints yet, mainly give some money and copies for modeling, now one coworker is going to school for makeup and hair so I use her so she can build a portfolio. Jan 04 06 04:23 pm Link shikatoi wrote: There`s another good reason to stay self employed.......... Jan 04 06 04:26 pm Link Monsante Bey wrote: Wow... that's pretty nuts! Jan 04 06 05:17 pm Link I work in the engineering business, so beautiful women are not exactly tripping all over each other! There are few that I have notced, however, and I have come up with a plan: My company is photographer-friendly, and encourages photographing company events and posting them on the file server. We have several opportunities each year, ranging from pool parties to formal dinners. My strategy is to go into a "stroll and shoot" mode and try for some flattering headshots of the likely candidates. Who knows, some of those shots could get a little diffuse glow, etc.! I will then gauge for positive reactions after posting, and see what happens after that... Jan 04 06 05:36 pm Link I've done it twice. The first time was with this Hispanic cutie that I worked with. She said that she had done some modeling before, and I suggested that we do some shooting together one weekend. Well, we talked to a co-worker who owned a farm, and went there to shoot for the day. Had some really nice pics, and could've been better, had the co-worker's son stayed in the house. LOL We did some head shots later on, and they turned out great! Another co-worker and I shot about 2 years ago. She was mainly shooting fashion/casual, and we had a pretty good shoot. I don't know/see of a lot of hot women at my job, and I'm REAL careful about who I approach. Jan 04 06 05:56 pm Link I had a coworker talk me into pics long before I knew what I was doing. I gave her some prints and guess what she did!! Yep took them to work to show off. Well she got fired and I had to talk to the directors about it. I wasn't willing to say anything so they left me alone. I have have been requested to do others but have not. Jan 04 06 08:11 pm Link JenniferMaria wrote: You would make great clay. And I would love to be your potter's wheel. Jan 04 06 08:19 pm Link One of my coworkers actually asked me to shoot her. She had gotten a shirt from her friends clothing line and in exchange he wanted pictures of her modeling it for his site. Aparently she just got lazy about it and we never did the shoot. Thats pretty much the extent of that. As long as you're friends with the person I dont see why it would be a big deal. Jan 04 06 08:51 pm Link |