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how do you know you're in love??
i've been wondering? how do you know if you're in love? anyone? what's it's like to find that "special one"? or just knowing you found him/her? what's that feeling feel like? how do you know it's that feeling? or not just a "crush" or what have you. what makes 'love' love? what's that feeling feel like? how can you tell? im repeating myself, but i would really like to know. anyone's replies and opinions are welcomed. please help a confused little girl.  - Jonella Jan 12 06 12:54 am Link If you have to ask if it is then it isn't. If it is then you just know. Jan 12 06 12:57 am Link Simply, you have the only answer to that question. As 'love' is a concept moulded by each individual, it's not a matter of if you're in a situation where you feel strongly enough for someone, but rather a matter of if what you're feeling (and ideally, the investment you have in it) is equal to that of the other person(s) involved. Jan 12 06 12:58 am Link I get a large lump in the front of my pants and I have visions of her naked body running through my mind at all hours of the day.... that's love. Jan 12 06 01:01 am Link Love is when your boy/girl friend and look like a total dork/idiot and you still claim them without shame. Love is when you would willing put yourself in danger for them. Love is when you don't care what material "things" you have, as long as you have the one you love with you. Love is getting upset and fighting with them, but still wanting to stay. I'm sure there is more, but this is what I feel love is. Jan 12 06 01:01 am Link Digital Al wrote: No hun, that is lust! Jan 12 06 01:02 am Link Love sucks like a hooker on a friday night. Jan 12 06 01:07 am Link Love is seeing your future and that person together. Its knowing that your life and dreams would be incomplete and worthless if that one person was not there to share them with. Jan 12 06 01:13 am Link Love is like finding a parking space in the city It's hard to find and once you're there you don't want to leave for anything Jan 12 06 01:18 am Link Horsie Girl wrote: I'd like to add: Jan 12 06 01:22 am Link Jenniffer Lindsay wrote: This is "need", not love. Love is not there to complete one. One should be complete without any one else. Love is a bonus of a complete life. Jan 12 06 01:33 am Link Love is the ending of your individual version of "Me" and the joyful rise of "We" The knowing that when forsaken by all others - a person will not be alone in this world. For a month - or a lifetime - - Doesn't make a damn, it's still love. And sadly, you can most certainly know when you look backwards - and mourn its loss, as a lifetime unfulfilled. Jan 12 06 01:35 am Link Love? Bio-Chemically no different than eating large quantities of chocolate... Jan 12 06 01:38 am Link Horsie Girl wrote: Really? Then lust kicks ass! Jan 12 06 01:38 am Link Nemi wrote: hookers raise prices on fridays and sunday mornings... Jan 12 06 01:40 am Link Digital Al wrote: It sure does!!! Jan 12 06 01:48 am Link Digital Al wrote: Mental note: Schedule myself off on... *looks around* Jan 12 06 02:10 am Link Funny trip is that Love is suppose to happen between us all. Getting laid is something you do with that person you are (personally- culturally) connected to... But the kicker is that (LOVE) is not bangin, or sharing spit and other bodiy fluids. Sex and/or petting just happens within the relationship as an extra side dip... Its not the whole thing... so, when are you in love? Well, you'll know. It keeps U up at night. Sometimes it drains your fluids and sweat. Sometimes it stresses you out. But most of that is the fantasy of thinking how you want your (selfish) significant other to fill you up, may not be what they want to fill you with... So you try to change them, and your first argument is born... Then you compromise and call their best (your second best desire), BC a (real) lover would be able to read your mind and turn their body parts the right way right at the exact moment... Then you wake up and realize that your the only one in bed and your lovely is asleep in their own home... So you call them and drum up a conversation and get all hot and heavy until you sweat again.,.. OK< enough said...  Dont forget to change the sheets in the morning... Jan 12 06 02:22 am Link I know not of this "love" thing you speak. I think its a story parents tell their children to frighten them out of becoming game show hosts or reality show creators. Yeah... Jan 12 06 02:24 am Link Love is hard to describe. I like Kahlil Gibran's The Prophet. (on Love.) http://www.katsandogz.com/onlove.html My thoughts pretty much feel the same. It's wonderful but is harsh. I don't think Love is easy at all, but when you are in love, all seems right and good. I dunno if that's a great description. It's a lot of work and a lot of fun and stuff like that. Jan 12 06 02:54 am Link  "I wanna tell you a little secret ... Being the One is kind of like being in love. No one can tell you you are in love, you just know it. Through and through. Balls to bones." Jan 12 06 02:58 am Link Jonella wrote: When it gets to that point where I can see him as being a great father for my future children, and husband material with an impeccable sense of integrity and loyalty..someone who, if he doesnt pop the question first, I will. Jan 12 06 03:00 am Link Nemi wrote: Thats pure poetry Jan 12 06 06:03 am Link Add up all the time you spend thinking about your other, and all the time you spend thinking about yourself. If the preponderance of your thought is about your other, you are in love. Jan 12 06 08:07 am Link I think it happens for people in different ways at different times. It can be one you are with someone and the rest of the world doesn't matter but it also matters all that much more. Or in a given day if you think about the one you are with more then you think of yourself. When you can see only the person inside and what she looks like in the morning without make up and bed head doesn't even matter. I think there a thousands of ways to know when you are in love because it is different for everybody. Jan 12 06 08:35 am Link There are so many different types of love. I have experienced a lot of them. The lust-love is the most powerful but isnt always the best one. christ, yeah, thats the powerful one... dammit. Jan 12 06 09:47 am Link 'you'll never know for sure if you are in love, but you'll always know for sure if you are not' Jan 12 06 11:28 pm Link How will I know when its love? I can't tell you but it lasts forever... Jan 12 06 11:41 pm Link Hartsoe wrote: I want large quantities of chocolate! Jan 12 06 11:44 pm Link Love is a disease!! It's like mad cow disease, it makes you Crazy! And then it kills you from the inside out... Jan 12 06 11:58 pm Link Aswad Issa wrote: Damn.... beat me to it. Jan 13 06 12:13 am Link Hartsoe wrote: That's true until somebody needs a kidney. Jan 13 06 12:21 am Link |
