Forums > General Industry > Photographers, what if your model flakes?

Model

jasonbaca

Posts: 10

San Jose, California, US

I am curious, I won't name out any names of people, but I'd be curious to know from the experts.. Say you book a model, a female model to do a shoot for you. Maybe you had a couples shoot you were going to do. The one model arrives on time ready to go. The female does not.

  There are no phone calls to let you know, no texts... so the shoot gets cancelled.. Then the next day you follow up with the model to find out what happened...

   Funny thing is, we were set to do a shoot and the model didn't show. I ended up posting something on here to let others know that this person is possibly flaky... then they turn around and email me and say that I'm rude for "outing" them. Was I wrong for doing this?

Mar 01 12 05:08 pm Link

Photographer

ThatLook Visual Media

Posts: 6420

Nashville, Tennessee, US

The best advice I got from here was to PREDICT flakes.  Flakes give off clues that they will flake well in advance of the shoot.  There's a chart somewhere in these forums.

Flakes
Escort
Canon vs Nikon
Mac vs PC
Why don't they shoot nude for me?
GWC this and that.

We need a separate forum for these posts.

Mar 01 12 05:09 pm Link

Photographer

Gloria Budiman

Posts: 1683

New York, New York, US

jasonbaca wrote:
I am curious, I won't name out any names of people, but I'd be curious to know from the experts.. Say you book a model, a female model to do a shoot for you. Maybe you had a couples shoot you were going to do. The one model arrives on time ready to go. The female does not.

  There are no phone calls to let you know, no texts... so the shoot gets cancelled.. Then the next day you follow up with the model to find out what happened...

   Funny thing is, we were set to do a shoot and the model didn't show. I ended up posting something on here to let others know that this person is possibly flaky... then they turn around and email me and say that I'm rude for "outing" them. Was I wrong for doing this?

Life goes on. This planet called Earth is full of abundance of models - the same may not be true for photographer (you know, real, serious photographer)

Mar 01 12 05:11 pm Link

Photographer

GCobb Photography

Posts: 15898

Southaven, Mississippi, US

No you weren't wrong.  A person is only as good as their word and right now her's isn't too good.  She should put up or shut up. smile

I just find something else to do and don't consider anything they say worth my time anymore.

Mar 01 12 05:13 pm Link

Photographer

Orca Bay Images

Posts: 33877

Arcata, California, US

jasonbaca wrote:
then they turn around and email me and say that I'm rude for "outing" them. Was I wrong for doing this?

Yes.

What do I do when someone flakes on me?

1) I get huffy for a little while.

2) I get happy because I've got free time to do [whatever], plus I won't have all that nasty postprocessing to deal with.

3) I review and figure out where I went wrong to leave myself open to the flake. And I tell myself not to do that again.

4) I treat myself to a burger or soft-serve ice cream.

5) Back to normal.


Oh, and you should have taken a clue when your previous flake-whine got locked.

Mar 01 12 05:15 pm Link

Model

jasonbaca

Posts: 10

San Jose, California, US

I know life goes on and I agree. I just would like to have been able to share this with others but they took the thread down. Hey I call people out when they make me go out of my way and separate my time for them and then they flat out don't call or anything.

This person tried to turn around and say that they tried to text both of us to tell us she was in a major car crash and that it was wrong of me to do that post. All I said in the post was that this model would be a flake and didn't even call to tell us she wasn't going to show.

Mar 01 12 05:16 pm Link

Photographer

ThatLook Visual Media

Posts: 6420

Nashville, Tennessee, US

Flaky models have a tendency to have dead grandparents, horrible car accidents, car troubles, last minute dire emergencies, problematic cellphones and so on.

Just let it go and move on to the next project.

Mar 01 12 05:18 pm Link

Photographer

MDS-Photos

Posts: 329

Darlington, South Carolina, US

jasonbaca wrote:
I know life goes on and I agree. I just would like to have been able to share this with others but they took the thread down. Hey I call people out when they make me go out of my way and separate my time for them and then they flat out don't call or anything.

This person tried to turn around and say that they tried to text both of us to tell us she was in a major car crash and that it was wrong of me to do that post. All I said in the post was that this model would be a flake and didn't even call to tell us she wasn't going to show.

I would have give her the benifit of the doubt. Then I woud have asked her to show me the police report smile.

Mar 01 12 05:20 pm Link

Model

Kozmina

Posts: 6536

Bakersfield, California, US

ThatLook Visual Media wrote:
The best advice I got from here was to PREDICT flakes.  Flakes give off clues that they will flake well in advance of the shoot.  There's a chart somewhere in these forums.

Flakes
Escort
Canon vs Nikon
Mac vs PC
Why don't they shoot nude for me?
GWC this and that.

We need a separate forum for these posts.

+1,000,000,000,000,000

-The whinners section-

Mar 01 12 05:25 pm Link

Photographer

Gloria Budiman

Posts: 1683

New York, New York, US

jasonbaca wrote:
I know life goes on and I agree. I just would like to have been able to share this with others but they took the thread down. Hey I call people out when they make me go out of my way and separate my time for them and then they flat out don't call or anything.

This person tried to turn around and say that they tried to text both of us to tell us she was in a major car crash and that it was wrong of me to do that post. All I said in the post was that this model would be a flake and didn't even call to tell us she wasn't going to show.

This so-called modeling world has a strange tendency that if you "report" the wrong person for being wrong a.k.a. outing, it will 99.9% backfire on you.

Mar 01 12 05:26 pm Link

Model

Kozmina

Posts: 6536

Bakersfield, California, US

jasonbaca wrote:
I am curious, I won't name out any names of people, but I'd be curious to know from the experts.. Say you book a model, a female model to do a shoot for you. Maybe you had a couples shoot you were going to do. The one model arrives on time ready to go. The female does not.

  There are no phone calls to let you know, no texts... so the shoot gets cancelled.. Then the next day you follow up with the model to find out what happened...

   Funny thing is, we were set to do a shoot and the model didn't show. I ended up posting something on here to let others know that this person is possibly flaky... then they turn around and email me and say that I'm rude for "outing" them. Was I wrong for doing this?

Yes.

How does anyone know you're telling the truth? There are 3 sides to a story.You side.Her side.The actual truth.

Mar 01 12 05:30 pm Link

Photographer

Fred Gerhart

Posts: 747

San Antonio, Texas, US

Models flake but life goes on.

We could build a list of models known to flake on some other location besides MM since its against the rules to out someone but I think a much more useful list would be to have a list of models on MM that were proven to be 100% No Flake.

Those models would get the work, us photographers would be happy, and hopefully the flakes would abandon MM.

Mar 01 12 05:33 pm Link

Photographer

TrianglePhoto

Posts: 582

Chicago, Illinois, US

Dude - Flakes happen.

This thread won't help with the shoot that got cancelled.

It also won't help you the next time it happens.

Just walk away.

It just isn't worth it...

Mar 01 12 05:36 pm Link

Photographer

Cosplay Creatives

Posts: 10714

Syowa - permanent station of Japan, Sector claimed by Norway, Antarctica

I chase them down and give them a bottle of head and shoulders.  It'll help them from flaking in the future.

Seriously, I just move on and make note not to work with them in the future.

Mar 01 12 05:36 pm Link

Photographer

Heels and Hemlines

Posts: 2961

Southern Pines, North Carolina, US

The standard procedure for dealing with a flake is to immediately log into the MM forums and post an anti-flake rant thread in Model Colloquy.

... or, you could just relax and treat yourself to a nice dinner using some of the money the model would have gotten.

Mar 01 12 05:38 pm Link

Photographer

PhotographybyT

Posts: 7947

Monterey, California, US

jasonbaca wrote:
Funny thing is, we were set to do a shoot and the model didn't show. I ended up posting something on here to let others know that this person is possibly flaky... then they turn around and email me and say that I'm rude for "outing" them. Was I wrong for doing this?

I can't say if calling her out is right or wrong, although MM doesn't allow outing - so maybe you're wrong in that sense - but hopefully she'll think twice if she has any inkling to possibly flaking in the future.

I had a situation where a model flaked on me a few years ago and I didn't hear back from her for over 3 weeks. She gave the same excuse of being in a car accident the day before the shoot. I took that at face value, but didn't out her. Long story short...she contacted me about a year later and basically guaranteed me that she would make the shoot this time if I gave her another chance.

I did and everything worked out well. Because I didn't burn bridges I got some great photos of someone who I really initially sought after.

Sometimes things happen and sometimes people need a second chance. That being said, not everybody gets a second chance and you have to gauge each situation separately to decide what the best course of action might be.

Mar 01 12 06:02 pm Link

Photographer

PhotographybyT

Posts: 7947

Monterey, California, US

Gryph B wrote:
I chase them down and give them head ....

I stopped reading at this point because it made me chuckle! big_smile

Mar 01 12 06:03 pm Link

Photographer

Cosplay Creatives

Posts: 10714

Syowa - permanent station of Japan, Sector claimed by Norway, Antarctica

PhotographybyT wrote:

I stopped reading at this point because it made me chuckle! big_smile

oh gawd, didn't see that one a comin lol

Mar 01 12 06:04 pm Link

Photographer

PhotographybyT

Posts: 7947

Monterey, California, US

Gryph B wrote:

oh gawd, didn't see that one a comin lol

Refrains from making another sick comment! tongue

Mar 01 12 06:06 pm Link

Photographer

Cosplay Creatives

Posts: 10714

Syowa - permanent station of Japan, Sector claimed by Norway, Antarctica

PhotographybyT wrote:

Refrains from making another sick comment! tongue

big_smile

Mar 01 12 06:07 pm Link

Photographer

Matt Schmidt Photo

Posts: 3709

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

I don't mind sharing flake's and my experience with them with the next photographer on the models list . . . it usually helps the photographer move on to a more reliable person to work with . . . who needs that hassle.

I'm not going to enable a flake . . . by saying nothing.

I've had a good many wonderful people on this site I've collaborated with, I praise them  . . . and a few 'hobbles' that left complete shat stank in my mouth.  I share the good and the bad equally for those who ask.

Mar 01 12 06:12 pm Link

Photographer

TouchofEleganceStudios

Posts: 5480

Vallejo, California, US

I had a model flake on me once. Bet you do not know who she is. So sad, she could have been someone.

smile

Mar 01 12 06:12 pm Link

Photographer

Mr Banner

Posts: 85322

Hayward, California, US

outing is against the rules of this site, so in that respect, yes, you were wrong for doing that. 

If a model flakes, move on... just let it go.  her actions will catch up to her.

Mar 01 12 06:16 pm Link

Model

Lorayne York

Posts: 2146

Topeka, Kansas, US

MDS-Photos wrote:
I would have give her the benifit of the doubt. Then I woud have asked her to show me the police report smile.

Hahaha.

Mar 01 12 06:17 pm Link

Photographer

Abbitt Photography

Posts: 13562

Washington, Utah, US

Flaking or canceling at the last moment is rude, selfish and happens far to often, but I don't think finger pointing helps.  My philosophy is that working with unknown internet models has that risk.  I don't invest anything in shoots I'm not willing to walk away from and I make alternative plans for my time.  I mostly certainly don't put myself in situations where I count having images from a shoot in short order.

If a shoot falls through and I end up drinking a few beers and watching t.v. or doing editing work on previous shoots, then so be it.

Mar 01 12 06:19 pm Link

Photographer

svenler

Posts: 1771

San Diego, California, US

jasonbaca wrote:
Was I wrong for doing this?

Dude, you are 38 year old man. Stop acting like a 12 year old drama queen.

Shit happens, you get on with your life and learn the appropriate lessons.

Mar 01 12 06:31 pm Link

Photographer

marknmanna

Posts: 305

Golden City, Missouri, US

I have never shot myself in the head because a model flaked.
Not even once. :-)

Mar 01 12 06:34 pm Link

Photographer

Jeffrey M Fletcher

Posts: 4861

Asheville, North Carolina, US

I cry. It's really devastating.

I'll have planned a whole day around a model coming over, getting naked and standing or sitting in decorative and expressive ways - if it doesn't happen it's like a black cloud has descended.

I also eat some chocolate.


and re-plan

(I don't send them hate-mail or start nasty rumors about them)

Mar 01 12 06:51 pm Link

Photographer

JAE

Posts: 2207

West Chester, Pennsylvania, US

If a model flakes I sit on the couch while eating a gallon of ice cream and watching Jerry Springer.

Mar 01 12 06:53 pm Link

Photographer

ThatLook Visual Media

Posts: 6420

Nashville, Tennessee, US

marknmanna wrote:
I have never shot myself in the head because a model flaked.
Not even once. :-)

How many times have you missed? lol

Mar 01 12 06:54 pm Link

Photographer

White Lace Studios

Posts: 1719

Mesa, Arizona, US

Photographers, what if your model flakes?

A. You move on.

Yes. you broke the rules outing them. it isn't your job to save people from other (people).

Assuming the model did flake (blew it off) - she won't lastlong. word will get around.

Mar 01 12 06:56 pm Link

Photographer

rfordphotos

Posts: 8866

Antioch, California, US

JAE Photography PA wrote:
If a model flakes I sit on the couch while eating a gallon of ice cream and watching Jerry Springer.

+1

French vanilla ice cream, but I substitute re-runs of M*A*S*H

but then I might just do that anyway smile

what I dont do is get on the internet and whine...

Mar 01 12 07:01 pm Link

Photographer

MKPhoto

Posts: 5665

Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada

Abbitt Photography wrote:
If a shoot falls through and I end up drinking a few beers and watching t.v. or doing editing work on previous shoots, then so be it.

Yep, there is a bar a block from my studio and they charge six bucks for a pint (imperial) of Guinness. Cures all ills.

Mar 01 12 07:01 pm Link

Photographer

CTI

Posts: 38

Denver, Colorado, US

Mar 01 12 07:05 pm Link

Photographer

NewBoldPhoto

Posts: 5216

PORT MURRAY, New Jersey, US

Photographers, what if your model flakes?
Last time we got my assistants mother to 'stand' in.

Mar 01 12 07:06 pm Link

Photographer

Rick Wilson

Posts: 41

Jacksonville, Florida, US

One way I have found to reduce the number of models that flake out....is to call them the night before to confirm. At that point you can usually tell if they are a flakezoid or not.

Mar 01 12 07:07 pm Link

Photographer

The Art of Churchwell

Posts: 3171

QUEENS VILLAGE, New York, US

make a "do not recommend" on your profile page. if people wanna know why they will Inbox you

Mar 01 12 07:10 pm Link

Photographer

Cosplay Creatives

Posts: 10714

Syowa - permanent station of Japan, Sector claimed by Norway, Antarctica

CTI wrote:
http://i67.photobucket.com/albums/h313/ … FLAKES.jpg

now now, do it right. big_smile  Been a while since I last seen this picture in the forums.
https://i67.photobucket.com/albums/h313/steveguchi/MODELFLAKES.jpg

Mar 01 12 07:11 pm Link

Photographer

-Koa-

Posts: 5250

Castaner, Puerto Rico, US

I was supposed to have a shoot tomorrow morning. I knew two weeks ago she was going to flake.

So far, in the past week, two e-mails and one Facebook message.

Nothing.

Will she show up in the morning? Yeah, riiiight!

The key is, pay attention to the signs.

As for my flake, I already saw it coming so I will simply stay in bed late. Her loss.

It happens, get used to it.

-Koa-
www.borikenwarrior.com

P.S. I'm expecting another model no-show next week as well. More sleep time.

Mar 01 12 07:12 pm Link

Model

Kendra from Canada

Posts: 447

Tofino, British Columbia, Canada

Don't ever work with her again!!

Just curious why you couldn't salvage the shoot, sounds like everyone else showed up so a quick adjustment on your theme and you could have walked away with great results; appears the male model showed up.
wink

Mar 01 12 07:13 pm Link