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Sexy time - guys and gals
How long do you tend to wait before having sex with someone you're seeing? And for those of you who are in a serious relationship/marriage, in a perfect world how often would you have sex with your partner and what's the actually reality of that ? ;-) Discuss among yourselves! Jan 30 13 10:17 am Link I'm a virgin. I'm saving it for marriage. Jan 30 13 10:19 am Link Depends on the potency of the chloroform. Jan 30 13 10:22 am Link Sex is only for when you want to have a baby and no other time. Orgasms are how the devil gets in. That and sneezes, obviously. Jan 30 13 10:24 am Link The short range was 20 minutes after meeting..... Jan 30 13 10:24 am Link Andialu wrote: You're an old geezer, the young guys use roofies these days to get laid. Jan 30 13 10:25 am Link Russian Katarina wrote: Whipper snappers..... Jan 30 13 10:27 am Link Damianne wrote: This. Evil impure activities and thoughts will be the final downfall of our society. Repent while you can! Jan 30 13 10:29 am Link I prefer sex first, then dating if the chemistry's good. Jan 30 13 10:29 am Link Blue Cube Imaging wrote: That's why you bless someone when they sneeze, if you don't fast enough, satan might slip in. Jan 30 13 10:30 am Link DivaEroticus wrote: : COUGH CHOKE SNEEZE COUGH: Jan 30 13 10:31 am Link Blue Cube Imaging wrote: I can't sneeze without my nipples getting hard. Jan 30 13 10:32 am Link Damianne wrote: You only do that in the English language though. Jan 30 13 10:32 am Link Russian Katarina wrote: I'll be sure to write a song about you when I receive my theocracy issued harp. Jan 30 13 10:36 am Link KonstantKarma wrote: No offense, but that's a very "Asheville" thing. Jan 30 13 10:37 am Link Koryn Locke wrote: It's a very everywhere thing, hon. Jan 30 13 10:38 am Link Answer to OP; This will depends on whether I use speedlites/strobes or going for available light ... 😜 Jan 30 13 10:38 am Link Koryn Locke wrote: I know right? Jan 30 13 10:39 am Link I clicked on this thread with an actual serious response ready to post.... Instead I'll just order a pizza and casually observer this thread Jan 30 13 10:39 am Link I got my husband in bed around 2 days after meeting him. Woooorth it. But to answer your second question, ideal sexy time is daily. The real amount of sexy time I get is none, because he's deployed Jan 30 13 10:43 am Link Damianne wrote: When did you become a middle aged waitress at a truck stop diner? Jan 30 13 10:45 am Link Andialu wrote: When we were talking about small town sex. Jan 30 13 10:47 am Link Chris Rifkin wrote: Pizza is always a better choice. Jan 30 13 10:48 am Link Damianne wrote: Kiss my grits. Jan 30 13 10:50 am Link You are all virgins Jan 30 13 10:51 am Link KonstantKarma wrote: Damianne wrote: Asheville dating culture is pretty ... peculiar. Jan 30 13 10:51 am Link Samantha Emme wrote: :-( Jan 30 13 10:53 am Link Russian Katarina wrote: Geez, even roofies are old school! Here's the tried and true method that doesn't involve anything illegal, we don't have to buy a single drink, and we get in good with the neighbours! Find the neighbour with the cute puppy, take him out for a walk around town, and let the little chick magnet do his thing. Jan 30 13 10:54 am Link Andialu wrote: Ha ha... just about to post Flo and you beat me to it. Jan 30 13 10:55 am Link Rachel Reilly wrote: How long do you want to make me wait? Jan 30 13 10:55 am Link Jules NYC wrote: Sorry, sugar. Jan 30 13 10:56 am Link Samantha Emme wrote: I had first date sex, in 2005, with the person who eventually became my best friend. Jan 30 13 10:56 am Link Glad you lot are so mature ;-) Jan 30 13 10:57 am Link Rachel Reilly wrote: You should know this crowd is top shelf only. For cereal. Jan 30 13 10:58 am Link Christopher Hartman wrote: I was thinking 4-6 months Jan 30 13 10:58 am Link I wait several months up to half a year, until it is a serious, committed relationship. i've had plenty of guys break up with me for that because they didn't want to wait, but that's their loss . So I wait a long time... but then it's partytime for the rest of the relationship Jan 30 13 11:00 am Link Koryn Locke wrote: You need to get out more. Jan 30 13 11:03 am Link Kyle T Edwards wrote: Guy I worked with would get puppies from the pound for a week, then hit the beach everyday. Take the dog, back....get another one a few weeks later. Jan 30 13 11:05 am Link I'll give a serious response because I thought about it a lot. *Won't write a term paper on it though* Sex doesn't seal or guarantee a relationship. Sex is a choice and there are pros and cons to having it too early. In a perfect scenario, where both hearts are WIDE open and the relationship grows in the way you'd hope? for (getting to know each other and actually liking it mutually)... Why does having sex too early even matter? Then you must consider how often someone offers their heart/soul and body (depends how you truly feel about how important that is) to anyone that asks/wants it. Personally, I consider sex important. I know myself too well and beyond science (and it's true), a woman's heart gets warmer feeling after sex as it's part of the bonding process. Separate from science and all, I just can't have idle sex without feeling and wanting something more than the physicality of it. To those who don't have a problem with it, no judgment here. Just not my thing. I'm sure you can have many hot, steamy, sexy romps to write about. If you keep waiting... and waiting... and WAITING... you may lose that openness that is considered 'romance at first blush' that is amazing. When it comes down to it, you can have sex and be taken for a ride (just got used for sex)... or it could be amazing (if everything works out). LOL Who is to really know. All I know is that I wouldn't have sex with someone who didn't value it. There are no rules. Free will. I will say that if you have sex too early, it's more likely that you'd get hurt if you're looking for a relationship to last. Loving anyone is a risk. Who said sex is love? Unless you want it to be Jan 30 13 11:06 am Link I'd bang my date within minutes of meeting her, before we even got to the restaurant, if that's what she wanted to do as well, of course! Ideal world of sex - every 20mins all throughout the day, in every concievable place and setting known to mankind, with breaks only for fluid replacement and the odd snack! - Hey, it's a guy thing! However, real world of sex - lucky to have it 4-5 times a week! Jan 30 13 11:07 am Link |