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Alabaster Crowley
Posts: 8283
Tucson, Arizona, US
orias wrote:
get a job and get out of their parents home] Explain to me the simplicities of such.
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P I X I E
Posts: 35440
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Laura UnBound wrote:
It shouldn't be difficult for my partner to hear me over my sex toy. 
/dead
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BeatnikDiva
Posts: 14859
Fayetteville, Arkansas, US
Laura UnBound wrote:
For me the noise isn't so much a concern of disturbing other people (though sometimes yes, I'm in places or sharing rooms with people who'd rather not hear my fucking jackhammer of a vibrator going off) but that it's annoying *to me*. If the hitachi sang at me is be just as bothered by it. It's loud and annoying to the point of really fucking unsexy. It shouldn't be difficult for my partner to hear me over my sex toy. Yup, it's just unsexy.
I've tried various ones, over the years, to try and avoid the noise, but the ones that are quiet, just...don't do it for me. All that gel around the vibrating part lessens the vibrations.
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Laura UnBound
Posts: 28745
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Alabaster Crowley wrote:
Explain to me the simplicities of such. I guess I shouldn't masturbate for the MONTH I spend visiting my parents 
Or I shouldn't have been masturbating as a teenager, I had to wait until I could move out.
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Laura UnBound
Posts: 28745
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
DivaEroticus wrote:
Yup, it's just unsexy.
I've tried various ones, over the years, to try and avoid the noise, but the ones that are quiet, just...don't do it for me. All that gel around the vibrating part lessens the vibrations. That's why I like the eroscillator. Ours has gotten a little bit louder after 5+ years of heavy use and travel abuse, but it's still worlds away from the hitachi in noise levels. The LELO lines not bad, and vibrates similar to the hitachi. Problem is it's battery powered and you're fucked if you forget to charge it 
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orias
Posts: 5187
Tampa, Florida, US
Laura UnBound wrote:
For me the noise isn't so much a concern of disturbing other people (though sometimes yes, I'm in places or sharing rooms with people who'd rather not hear my fucking jackhammer of a vibrator going off) but that it's annoying *to me*. If the hitachi sang at me is be just as bothered by it. It's loud and annoying to the point of really fucking unsexy. It shouldn't be difficult for my partner to hear me over my sex toy. that makes sense
i like the mind fuck of turning it on so my partner can clearly hear whats going to happen  but i guess im quite violent so i dont have a problem hearing them over most things lol
different strokes
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Alabaster Crowley
Posts: 8283
Tucson, Arizona, US
Laura UnBound wrote:
I guess I shouldn't masturbate for the MONTH I spend visiting my parents
Or I shouldn't have been masturbating as a teenager, I had to wait until I could move out. Of the reasons why I want to move out of my mom's house, "so I can masturbate" is pretty low on the list.
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BeatnikDiva
Posts: 14859
Fayetteville, Arkansas, US
Laura UnBound wrote:
That's why I like the eroscillator. Ours has gotten a little bit louder after 5+ years of heavy use and travel abuse, but it's still worlds away from the hitachi in noise levels. The LELO lines not bad, and vibrates similar to the hitachi. Problem is it's battery powered and you're fucked if you forget to charge it I saw the Lelo stuff last year when I went to the International Lingerie show. I was very intrigued, but they are expensive.
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Fleur du Mal
Posts: 1437
Derby, England, United Kingdom
*sigh*
It's always nice to be told that if you're a woman who finds it difficult to climax through most means, that you're doing it wrong. Or that you've brought it on yourself. Or that our partner must be inept. Yeah, no. It's nice that it's an easy thing for you, but for some of us, our bodies just don't work that way. Not because of desensitisation, despite (in some cases) phenomenally talented and/or communicative partners. I'm just built that way, and that's OK. Sorry bout it
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P I X I E
Posts: 35440
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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BeatnikDiva
Posts: 14859
Fayetteville, Arkansas, US
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P I X I E
Posts: 35440
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
DivaEroticus wrote:
Right??
And they feel so good to hold. The silicon is very...nice.
But they're expensive.  $169 for this baby. DAMN. I hate being broke.
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Gryph
Posts: 1696
Phoenix, Arizona, US
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Lumen Sky
Posts: 1802
Center Moriches, New York, US
Gryph wrote:
so yer gonna buy me a nice expensive one?
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Lumen Sky
Posts: 1802
Center Moriches, New York, US
DivaEroticus wrote:
Right??
And they feel so good to hold. The silicon is very...nice.
But they're expensive. I think that silicone is the best material for cleanliness. I feel like the plastic stuff is just not great to feel on your skin. The softer plastic maybe? jelly ish material that is too soft feeling, I feel like germs get trapped even though I wash it before and after.
They need to make vibrator bags. What do you guys keep yours in?
There are certain materials that have been the best to my knowledge. A certain silicone I think it was. I am always trying out different combos to get my job done.
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Gryph
Posts: 1696
Phoenix, Arizona, US
Lumen Sky wrote:
so yer gonna buy me a nice expensive one? Dunno. What do I get out of this other than some loud moaning and groaning?
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Laura UnBound
Posts: 28745
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Lumen Sky wrote:
I think that silicone is the best material for cleanliness. I feel like the plastic stuff is just not great to feel on your skin. The softer plastic maybe? jelly ish material that is too soft feeling, I feel like germs get trapped even though I wash it before and after.
They need to make vibrator bags. What do you guys keep yours in?
There are certain materials that have been the best to my knowledge. A certain silicone I think it was. I am always trying out different combos to get my job done. Jelly and rubbers are porous, so they can only be used on yourself unless you use condoms with them (which also helps with clean up). They can be cleaned, but they're not sterile. They can also break down over time and shouldn't be stored touching each other.
Silicone, glass, and metal are nonporous. Much easier to keep clean, and don't chafe as much.
Lelos come with satin bags, but I can keep it in anything basically, the silicone doesn't pick up lint or anything like jelly/rubber does. The eroscillator and hitachi don't have anything to carry them in, they just get tossed in a backpack and when they're home they're in a box of next to the bed or in a nightstand. The rest of the toys are in ziplocks in a giant storage tub. The ziplocks are to keep them from melting each other...cuz that sucks.
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Alabaster Crowley
Posts: 8283
Tucson, Arizona, US
Lumen Sky wrote:
They need to make vibrator bags. They do. I had one; it came with the toy. I can't remember which type now, as I don't have it anymore.
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Mr Banner
Posts: 85322
Hayward, California, US
P I X I E wrote:
$169 for this baby. DAMN. I hate being broke. If you search around, you can find them cheaper. The one that Lelo has listed for abour $200 is for sale for like $100-120 on amazon.
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orias
Posts: 5187
Tampa, Florida, US
Alabaster Crowley wrote:
Explain to me the simplicities of such. it was part of the larger point that you cropped out where i believe audibility is less important than good timing of masturbatory habits
all vibrators make noise as they have moving parts. i lived in a girls dorm where the girls all thought they were super quiet about it, however all were audible through our shitty doors into our common area unless they put on music or something to drown out the humming.
there are ones whisper quiet but theyre so low powered that theyre borderline useless as an adult lol
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orias
Posts: 5187
Tampa, Florida, US
Fleur du Mal wrote:
*sigh*
It's always nice to be told that if you're a woman who finds it difficult to climax through most means, that you're doing it wrong. Or that you've brought it on yourself. Or that our partner must be inept. Yeah, no. It's nice that it's an easy thing for you, but for some of us, our bodies just don't work that way. Not because of desensitisation, despite (in some cases) phenomenally talented and/or communicative partners. I'm just built that way, and that's OK. Sorry bout it emotional orgasms count in my book
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Fleur du Mal
Posts: 1437
Derby, England, United Kingdom
orias wrote:
emotional orgasms count in my book Never had one, at least I don't think so.
Meh. My body just requires specific types of stimulation and a hell of a lot of patience. The rewards are *well* worth it though. That side of my life is extremely satisfying ;-) It just gets a bit annoying when people decide that you must be wrong or inferior because you don't orgasm after five minutes or through penetration. Eff that noise!
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orias
Posts: 5187
Tampa, Florida, US
Fleur du Mal wrote:
Never had one, at least I don't think so.
Meh. My body just requires specific types of stimulation and a hell of a lot of patience. The rewards are *well* worth it though. That side of my life is extremely satisfying ;-) It just gets a bit annoying when people decide that you must be wrong or inferior because you don't orgasm after five minutes or through penetration. Eff that noise! i'd say that as long as you enjoy your intimate time with yourself or your partner, you're doing it right
our bodies are all different instruments, different chords and notes, different resonances, different skill levels to operate, different buttons, etc.
its convenient for the player when there is one major bright red button to make a beautiful melody just by pushing it, but simplicity is certainly not required to be a beautiful instrument with a powerful resonant
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P I X I E
Posts: 35440
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Damon Banner wrote:
If you search around, you can find them cheaper. The one that Lelo has listed for abour $200 is for sale for like $100-120 on amazon. The ORA one?
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Bobby C
Posts: 2696
Bangkok, Bangkok, Thailand
Laura UnBound wrote:
... you're fucked if you forget to charge it Either way, you win ! 
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Mr Banner
Posts: 85322
Hayward, California, US
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P I X I E
Posts: 35440
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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Mr Banner
Posts: 85322
Hayward, California, US
P I X I E wrote:
Thanks! i don't know how reputable that store is, but they accept paypal, so if you don't get what you want, you can always do a reversal.
I almost bought something from them last week, but I found a better deal on what I needed.
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Laura UnBound
Posts: 28745
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Damon Banner wrote:
$104
http://pleasuretease.com/Product/4309/L … fgod9qsAwg Interesting. Probably wouldn't do anything for me though
I wonder if there's a position for impossible-to-please sex toy reviewer. I would fill the shit out of that position only companies really really invested in developing toys for the hard to please would be interested though. I have a theory that the majority of "OH MY FUCKING GOD THIS THING IS THE BEST THING EVER JESUS CHRIST ITS ACTUALLY TOO POWERFUL I CANT BELIEVE IT I LOVE IT TO DEATH!!!!!" Reviews are coming from extremely sexually repressed people who never even looked sideways at their shower head before and this is the first thing besides their partners dick that's ever touched their junk, they'd get off to their cell phone ringing if they tried it. Their experiences are valid, it IS the best thing ever - for them. Completely worthless to helping me choose a toy though
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Mr Banner
Posts: 85322
Hayward, California, US
Laura UnBound wrote:
Interesting. Probably wouldn't do anything for me though
I wonder if there's a position for impossible-to-please sex toy reviewer. I would fill the shit out of that position only companies really really invested in developing toys for the hard to please would be interested though. I have a theory that the majority of "OH MY FUCKING GOD THIS THING IS THE BEST THING EVER JESUS CHRIST ITS ACTUALLY TOO POWERFUL I CANT BELIEVE IT I LOVE IT TO DEATH!!!!!" Reviews are coming from extremely sexually repressed people who never even looked sideways at their shower head before and this is the first thing besides their partners dick that's ever touched their junk, they'd get off to their cell phone ringing if they tried it. Their experiences are valid, it IS the best thing ever - for them. Completely worthless to helping me choose a toy though that's because you need a jackhammer, Laura! I just want to let you know that I recently bought one. they are on sale at pleasuretease
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BeatnikDiva
Posts: 14859
Fayetteville, Arkansas, US
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P I X I E
Posts: 35440
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
DivaEroticus wrote:
I'd totally get the blue one. I like the black one.
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Dea and the Beast
Posts: 4796
Saint Petersburg, Florida, US
Click Hamilton wrote:
A bottle of champagne, candles, some healthy & delicious home made food from scratch by a crackling wood fire, good music in nice surroundings, ... and after a period of relaxation to let the food settle, crank up a Sybian.
After you recover from the Sybian, maybe a little mango ice cream or a biscotti, with a frothy double espresso to finish.
Curl up under thick, fresh and fragrant blankets with a good movie until you drift off to sleep. ... I KNEW I should have moved in with you!
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orias
Posts: 5187
Tampa, Florida, US
my new eroscillator just came in the mail... tried it out and gotta say this... i heard it was more portable than the hitachi, had more cord than the hitachi, had more speeds than the hitachi, was super quiet for a vibe, had tons of attachments for a vibe, etc. ive ben debating it for awhile cause very few people in my sex positive community have them.. its mostly marketed to housewives who are sex deprived and such... well now i see why  its loud. unless you count when you jam it as hard as you can against your body which then hurts and theres little vibration to feel then lol. the high is as loud as the low hitachi sound if its not pushing your clitoris back into your body. the medium sounds like an electric razor and the low like an electric toothbrush. you can hear them outside of a bedroom for sure. all vibes are quieter when smashed into your lady bits, that doesnt make that worth it though with the attachments on its nearly the same size as the hitachi so its still quite large. you're only savin an inch and a quarter. the cord is long yes, cool when you wanna use it while walking around i guess otherwise packing it up is more annoying lol there are only 3 speeds. low is soo low that im guessing a virgin couldnt feel it even if they pulled their hood back and put it right on the nerves... high is too high for the point on accuracy it needs to be felt unless you're massively desensitized or barely let it touch you in which case its loud... so only one speed was semi pleasurable. medium the attachments mostly are variations of the same feeling. there are multiple cut out type cups, multiple ones with different patterns of nodules, and this weird knife blade thing which i can imagine where you'd use that one lol. so out of 6 tips it comes with there are really only 3 variants. though theres a couple other ones out there its useles if you lube the tip and like to move stuff around as if its 1mm away from your clitoris it doesnt feel like anything is happening. for the price it was useless... after a 30 min trial of all speeds with all attachments, i switched back to the hitachi to get the job done and chucked this thing in a drawer to eventually give to one of my girlfriends down the road lol there are other types of stimulators that are way less money and smaller if you like this type of precision sensation. this one just isnt worth half of its price... no wonder they had to pay celebrities to endorse it haha it also looks highly suspicious. if you bring a hitachi with you everywhere it just looks like a back massager to vanilla friends and family... this is pretty obvious what its for but to each clitoris their own
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JadeDRed
Posts: 5620
London, England, United Kingdom
Alabaster Crowley wrote:
Of the reasons why I want to move out of my mom's house, "so I can masturbate" is pretty low on the list. That's, like, the first thing I think of when I'm going to have to stay somewhere long term.
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Dave Mullins
Posts: 1775
Nashua, New Hampshire, US
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Mr Banner
Posts: 85322
Hayward, California, US
JadeDRed wrote:
That's, like, the first thing I think of when I'm going to have to stay somewhere long term. exactly. I'm like, I can't do it where I'm comfortable (a bed) because someone might walk in, maybe something will stain a sheet. So now where!?!?! OMG! I'm gonna explode.
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Lumen Sky
Posts: 1802
Center Moriches, New York, US
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Laura UnBound
Posts: 28745
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
That was easily the weirdest vagina I've ever seen...
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