Forums > Model Colloquy > Models, what do you think about having kids?

Model

NothingnesssEver

Posts: 194

New York, New York, US

Hi models (female), I am just curious, do you have kids? and if you don't,
do you plan on having kids in the future, if you do, do you plan on quitting modeling? I suppose it will be awkward for children to find picture of mommy posing sexily floating on the internet... thought?

Jun 12 14 04:58 pm Link

Model

Dea and the Beast

Posts: 4796

Saint Petersburg, Florida, US

I can't have any children.

I'm allergic.

Jun 12 14 05:01 pm Link

Model

FallenEcho

Posts: 1203

Escondido, California, US

Amadea T wrote:
I can't have any children.

I'm allergic.

+1000 lol

I have no intentions of having children. It has nothing to do with modeling I just don't think kids are right for me.

Jun 12 14 05:57 pm Link

Model

Isis22

Posts: 3557

Muncie, Indiana, US

I have 2 children. I am not careless with what's out there. I also monitor their computer use. I'm not too worried if/when it happens. It's art, not porn. I was married in a church that has classic sculptures, and gasp! all the figures are nude or barely draped. I'm not ashamed of my body.

Jun 12 14 05:59 pm Link

Model

Dea and the Beast

Posts: 4796

Saint Petersburg, Florida, US

Yup yup.

Running around Prague. 

Statues with tits out on the buildings and all. 

And then there are churches which hold lovely statues of little baby Jesus, completely undraped, suckling on the exposed Holy Mother's teat.

In Amurucah such items might be misconstrued as blasphemous and/or incestuous child pornography... Catholic church doesn't seem to be vexed though.

Jun 12 14 06:08 pm Link

Model

J Jessica

Posts: 2431

Coconut Creek, Florida, US

Phan Nguyen Nguyen wrote:
Hi models, I am just curious,
do many of us plan on having kids in the future, if you do, do you plan on quitting modeling? I suppose it will be awkward for children to find picture of mommy posing sexily floating on the internet... thought?

I plan to have a python, a dog, and many other nonhuman kids.
smile

Jun 12 14 06:13 pm Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

Amadea T wrote:
Yup yup.

Running around Prague. 

Statues with tits out on the buildings and all. 

And then there are churches which hold lovely statues of little baby Jesus, completely undraped, suckling on the exposed Holy Mother's teat.

In Amurucah such items might be misconstrued as blasphemous and/or incestuous child pornography... Catholic church doesn't seem to be vexed though.

How do you like Prague?
I know a model in that area.

Jun 12 14 06:23 pm Link

Model

Isis22

Posts: 3557

Muncie, Indiana, US

Amadea T wrote:
Yup yup.

Running around Prague. 

Statues with tits out on the buildings and all. 

And then there are churches which hold lovely statues of little baby Jesus, completely undraped, suckling on the exposed Holy Mother's teat.

In Amurucah such items might be misconstrued as blasphemous and/or incestuous child pornography... Catholic church doesn't seem to be vexed though.

Yes, it was a Catholic church in Europe and even has Michelangelo's art in it. So, I tell my kids all the time nudity is not a big deal and their father and I were married in such a place. I guess that is my way of preparing them if the issue does come up.

Jun 12 14 06:26 pm Link

Model

VALERIYA

Posts: 1

San Francisco, California, US

Lol !!! I START MODELING ONLY AFTER I HAD TWO KIDS!!!

Jun 12 14 06:29 pm Link

Photographer

r T p

Posts: 3511

Los Angeles, California, US

J Jessica wrote:
I plan to have a python, a dog, and many other nonhuman kids.
smile


an
d youre not concerned they may see you "sexily floating on the internet"??

Jun 12 14 06:30 pm Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

SHLERANI wrote:
Lol !!! I START MODELING ONLY AFTER I HAD TWO KIDS!!!

You have a great look!   smile

Jun 12 14 06:35 pm Link

Model

michaelgielow

Posts: 1

Lady Lake, Florida, US

having kids as a model is always a no like huge no think Naomi Campbell tyra banks Janice dickinson all never had kids because its bad or your body and it widens your hips

Jun 12 14 06:40 pm Link

Photographer

Solas

Posts: 10390

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

I don't see anything sexy related in your portfolio that you'd have to worry about..though, One famous canadian model I can think of (Pamela Anderson) has kids..i dunno to much about when she had them but, I think you'll find it's a pretty common occurance. I see a lot of high paying commercial/lifestyle/print/advertising work that requests images of mother w/kids or some sort of related concept. I suppose you could get models to fake it but it's a lot easier with the real thing, so when I hear about it I'm like "Oo! bonus!"

Jun 12 14 06:41 pm Link

Model

Isis22

Posts: 3557

Muncie, Indiana, US

michaelgielow wrote:
having kids as a model is always a no like huge no think Naomi Campbell tyra banks Janice dickinson all never had kids because its bad or your body and it widens your hips

That is total nonsense. Look at the ones who have had kids who already responded, myself included.

Jun 12 14 06:42 pm Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

Isis22 wrote:

That is total nonsense. Look at the ones who have had kids who already responded, myself included.

I photographed a model 4 months after she had a kid.   smile

Jun 12 14 06:43 pm Link

Model

NothingnesssEver

Posts: 194

New York, New York, US

Karl JW Johnston wrote:
I don't see anything sexy related in your portfolio that you'd have to worry about..though, One famous canadian model I can think of (Pamela Anderson) has kids..i dunno to much about when she had them but, I think you'll find it's a pretty common occurance. I see a lot of high paying commercial/lifestyle/print/advertising work that requests images of mother w/kids or some sort of related concept. I suppose you could get models to fake it but it's a lot easier with the real thing, so when I hear about it I'm like "Oo! bonus!"

I'm not worry about me i'm just curious lol, I'm planning to quit regardless of kids or not anyway

Jun 12 14 06:58 pm Link

Photographer

AJ_In_Atlanta

Posts: 13053

Atlanta, Georgia, US

You do realize that some models are in fact male right?  In fact there are models who are grandparents as well as moms and dads.  Odd presumption in this thread...

Jun 12 14 07:06 pm Link

Model

D A N I

Posts: 4627

Little Rock, Arkansas, US

My son is 10. I plan to have at least one more. If my family can accept my naked body in compromising positions then so can my kid(s). If not, well they can start paying the rent, light, and water bill themselves.

Jun 12 14 07:12 pm Link

Model

Cervezax

Posts: 152

Atlanta, Georgia, US

I would not be ashamed if they saw the images. I probably will be doing more commercial modeling by the time I'm that age.

Jun 12 14 07:13 pm Link

Photographer

L O C U T U S

Posts: 1746

Bangor, Maine, US

SHLERANI wrote:
Lol !!! I START MODELING ONLY AFTER I HAD TWO KIDS!!!

I love this model!! smile

Jun 12 14 07:17 pm Link

Photographer

Solas

Posts: 10390

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

AJScalzitti wrote:
You do realize that some models are in fact male right?  In fact there are models who are grandparents as well as moms and dads.  Odd presumption in this thread...

How dare you bring logic onto this site, AJ.

Jun 12 14 07:19 pm Link

Model

NothingnesssEver

Posts: 194

New York, New York, US

AJScalzitti wrote:
You do realize that some models are in fact male right?  In fact there are models who are grandparents as well as moms and dads.  Odd presumption in this thread...

My question is directed toward female, sorry I dint specify it from the start. of course I am aware that there are male models, but being a girl, I am interested in what other girls on here think.


Karl JW Johnston wrote:
How dare you bring logic onto this site, AJ.

It's my fault for not specify the target of my question, but wasn't aware that my questions were *illogical* while the majority of models on this site are young females....

Jun 12 14 07:51 pm Link

Model

Koryn

Posts: 39496

Boston, Massachusetts, US

I'm 31, have no children, and do not want any.

Modeling has nothing to do with that choice; I just don't want kids.

Jun 12 14 07:57 pm Link

Model

NothingnesssEver

Posts: 194

New York, New York, US

thanks to all the models who respond, for those who have kids and still working, bravo to you, to those who can straight out say that you don't want kid, I'm envious of you girls. For asian family like mine not having kids is like a crime to my parents...

Jun 12 14 08:01 pm Link

Model

Koryn

Posts: 39496

Boston, Massachusetts, US

Phan Nguyen Nguyen wrote:
thanks to all the models who respond, for those who have kids and still working, bravo to you, to those who can straight out say that you don't want kid, I'm envious of you girls. For asian family like mine not having kids is like a crime to my parents...

I'm an only child, and my family has very conservative/traditional values, so they were REALLY devastated when I they realized that I actually wasn't having children.

But, it's my body, and I'll do with it as I please.

I did well in school, got a college degree, and have always been financially independent. In that regard, I've been a good daughter; I don't ask for anything from my family, visit a couple of times every year, and send gifts/cards at holidays. I've never had to be "bailed out" of any kind of disaster, and I don't feel I owe my parents anything.

I don't live my life to please other people, even people I love. It doesn't work that way. I do what I want to do, and they either accept it, or they don't, and that's just fine.

Jun 12 14 08:14 pm Link

Model

Alabaster Crowley

Posts: 8283

Tucson, Arizona, US

michaelgielow wrote:
having kids as a model is always a no like huge no think Naomi Campbell tyra banks Janice dickinson all never had kids because its bad or your body and it widens your hips

Uh Janis Dickinson did have kids.

Jun 12 14 10:03 pm Link

Model

fluffycakes

Posts: 446

Chicago, Illinois, US

I will have kids. I don't know where my modeling will go. If I end up traveling&booking paid work all the time I'll probably not want to leave that, but modeling will expire eventually for me. Eventually. I haven't even gotten my feet wet yet(;

And kids, who wants to think about that?

Jun 12 14 10:42 pm Link

Model

Victoria Pederson

Posts: 20

Anchorage, Alaska, US

I'm a newer model but I do have kids. They are the joy of my life. I never really liked kids until I had my own because I taught them how to not annoy me. They're great. As for the sexy pictures, they dont have to know (or even understand) until later, then well you have "the talk"...right?

Jun 12 14 10:51 pm Link

Model

Blaire_

Posts: 343

Portland, Oregon, US

I have two kids.  I balance modeling and mothering, I think, pretty well!  I even travel sometimes!

It is a bit hard to get the ol' body back to how it was, but it's doable!!

Jun 13 14 12:55 am Link

Photographer

Garry k

Posts: 30129

Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada

Danielle Reid wrote:
My son is 10. I plan to have at least one more. If my family can accept my naked body in compromising positions then so can my kid(s). If not, well they can start paying the rent, light, and water bill themselves.

You would have had him at 11 according to your bio then ?

Jun 13 14 01:07 am Link

Model

MartaBrixton

Posts: 1022

London, England, United Kingdom

I really want kids!
I have this massive pressure right NOW if I could only be as irresponsible as some people and I wasn't ashamed of putting myself in a situation when I am not able to fully support my child I'd have at least 2 by now. But I do not want to depend on a government, parents or my other half, I need to make sure I have enough so everything has to be in order -> finish Uni -> find a job -> make babies! smile
I don't know if I go back to modelling after, probably not because I won't have time for this, I'd like to spend as much time as I can with my kids, I'm very family orientated. Plus I don't even take modeling seriously, I've been trying for long time and I haven't achieved anything (apart of working with great photographers).

Jun 13 14 01:32 am Link

Model

MartaBrixton

Posts: 1022

London, England, United Kingdom

Phan Nguyen Nguyen wrote:
thanks to all the models who respond, for those who have kids and still working, bravo to you, to those who can straight out say that you don't want kid, I'm envious of you girls. For asian family like mine not having kids is like a crime to my parents...

If you are concerned about your body then don't be! You can go back to your previous shape, you have a great figure and having a baby won't change it, you will just have to work a bit harder for a while. But if you just don't like kids then don't have one for your family, this is your life darling. Anyway, your point of view might change because you are very young, I used to HATE kids till I was like 20 but them BOOOOM and some kind of baby fairy shoot me and now I really love them, I used to look after 6 children and it was just great.

Jun 13 14 01:37 am Link

Photographer

Revenge Photography

Posts: 1905

Horsham, Victoria, Australia

I get the feeling that most models are against having children.

Every time I've asked a model to get knocked up so we can do a TF maternity shoot, they just look at me strange and refuse. It's also entirely possible that those I've asked are not very serious about their modelling.

Jun 13 14 02:21 am Link

Photographer

PrimePix

Posts: 110

Brantford, Ontario, Canada

The only good thing about kids is making them.....

Jun 13 14 02:50 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

Garry k wrote:

You would have had him at 11 according to your bio then ?

Didn't you know that that models often lower their age?  big_smile

Jun 13 14 04:26 am Link

Model

Chloe Selene

Posts: 636

Albuquerque, New Mexico, US

Isis22 wrote:
That is total nonsense. Look at the ones who have had kids who already responded, myself included.

And not only do other amateur/MM models have kids, tons of other huge, top models in the industry have children and still work.  Arizona Muse, Karolina Kurkova, Mirands Kerr, just to name a few. . . so the idea that childbirth destroys your body and ruins your modeling career is completely untrue.  Vogue has even shot Arizona and Karolina both WITH their children.

Jun 13 14 04:37 am Link

Model

Isis22

Posts: 3557

Muncie, Indiana, US

Phan Nguyen Nguyen wrote:
thanks to all the models who respond, for those who have kids and still working, bravo to you, to those who can straight out say that you don't want kid, I'm envious of you girls. For asian family like mine not having kids is like a crime to my parents...

I had my children first, modeling came second. I will model a lot more once my children are grown.

Jun 13 14 06:46 am Link

Model

Michelle Genevieve

Posts: 1140

Gaithersburg, Maryland, US

SHLERANI wrote:
Lol !!! I START MODELING ONLY AFTER I HAD TWO KIDS!!!

Same here. And one of mine is nearly as old as you are now.

Jun 13 14 07:11 am Link

Model

MatureModelMM

Posts: 2843

Detroit, Michigan, US

I was 35 when I started modelling, 39 when I got pregnant and that event really helped my modelling take off as I got plenty of requests from photographers and artists to pose in the nude during the final months of my pregnancy. Most of my modelling has been done since that event.

My child is now an adult who no longer lives at home, knows that mom is a nude art model, and is perfectly OK with that, having seen some of the work I have posed for hanging in various gallery displays and on the walls at home.  Someday I expect a request for a tasteful drawing or painting of one of my poses, to be proudly displayed.

I never let being a parent affect my modelling work, found ways to juggle free time so I could accept modelling assignments, and got family members to babysit if needed.

Now almost 62, I have no intention of ever quitting modelling as long as I am physically able to pose.

Jun 13 14 07:34 am Link

Photographer

A-M-P

Posts: 18465

Orlando, Florida, US

I have kids and I still model.

Jun 13 14 07:37 am Link