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Is it wrong to tell the model to Dress Sexy?
Looks like no matter what you say nowadays, is WRONG! What is the right way to tell a model to dress sexy for an outdoor shoot or any shoot for this matter. Thanks Jul 16 18 07:33 pm Link It is perfectly fine to spec sexy just like lingerie or fetish or nude. Jul 17 18 02:51 am Link A. I. Studios wrote: With a Moodboard, lookbook or in images. Jul 17 18 02:56 am Link A. I. Studios wrote: Just say it. Don't let the pussification of the world make it complicated to explain or describe your shoot. Jul 17 18 04:02 am Link I think that most of my photos are built on sexiness. One photog was male one was female. Love your thought comments on whether the lingerie or fully clothed is more sexy. Jul 17 18 06:23 am Link I actually prefer that the photographer e-mail me some pictures that show what sort of concepts he's looking to create. If those happen to be in a short-dress, lingerie or nude, I know what I need to deliver. Doesn't take any words Jul 17 18 06:28 am Link Nothing wrong at all, making apparel requests. More specificity might be helpful, though. Jul 17 18 07:03 am Link Make sure it's not just a disagreement about words, use images. If the images get a negative or positive reaction - there's your answer. And if it's a positive reaction to the images and a negative reaction to the word, just remind yourself not to use that word. Maybe even ask how the model describes the image. Why argue about words when what you're trying to produce with someone is an image? Jul 17 18 07:19 am Link I worked with one photographer who considered tight secretarial attire to be "sexy," while others have considered lingerie to be sexy. I have also had "sexy" defined as a weird combination of "cut-off jean shorts and red lipstick." Specifically, those two things together, on more than one occasion. Other photographers have requested items like, full support pantyhose to be worn alone in various colors. Someone once wanted to shoot me in nothing but various colors of ski jackets, because they loved the idea of women naked under ski jackets. In other words, send example photos. "Sexy" means something different to literally everyone. Jul 17 18 07:55 am Link There is nothing wrong with it, I think that it goes with the job. How many models have you met that don't think they're attractive, sexy or however you want to put it? Jul 17 18 07:55 am Link bshaw811 wrote: I have to disagree with this "Doesn't take any words" Jul 17 18 08:55 am Link getting them to dress sexy is easy getting them to dress down or dress 'ratty'....oy miles..miles of separation between their idea of ratty and mine prolly should have done the 'mood board' thing Jul 17 18 08:55 am Link TouchofEleganceStudios wrote: The model's assumption is reasonable enough. Although I wouldn't suggest sending nude images as descriptions for poses desired in a non-nude shoot, if it were absolutely necessary I'd suggest being specific with a disclaimer. For example, "please disregard the nudity in the third image, it's the only image I could find to describe the pose, as I mentioned all work will be clothed." Jul 17 18 09:19 am Link Jeffrey M Fletcher wrote: Actually that is almost exactly how I put it Jul 17 18 09:33 am Link "Bring Something Sexy" is the title of an award winning movie created by Pure Rebel https://www.modelmayhem.com/2621488 Every person has a different idea what look sexy. The words are meaningless unless you describe a bit about your vision of sexy. An evening gown can look sexy, and Daisy Dukes with a plaid shirt can be sexy as well. Or did you mean lingerie? A push up, padded bra, or a lacy bralette? or were you looking for a babydoll? All vastly different looks, but all can be sexy, too. Some guys think mom jeans and a cotton shirt looks extremely sexy if she is holding a beer and sandwich. Jul 17 18 09:42 am Link TouchofEleganceStudios wrote: Your message is not clear. Ignore the nudity is fine, but what about the scene? Jul 17 18 09:56 am Link Eric212Grapher wrote: You are taking things out of context. That is merely a sample of one pose for the shoot. It was an example. What you are expecting is for me to share an entire conversation about the shoot. For instance I am in the midst of planning a shoot at a studio with a baby grand piano. That same pose can be done with her back to the piano. We are discussing a pose not the entire shoot! Or do I need to post the outfits that she will be wearing here, including the colors and her make up and hair. Can we just focus on the pose as an example. Jul 17 18 10:03 am Link Alexandra Vincent wrote: Exactly this. "Sexy" is one of those nebulous words like "glamour" that means something different to everyone who uses it. It is best to describe in plain English exactly what you are looking for (or send sample photos if you have them). And don't be shy about asking for exactly what you want. If it crosses the model's limits it is better to find that out during the pre-shoot communication. One thing models hate more than anything else is the "bait and switch" where the photographer leads them to believe the shoot is about one thing, when it is really about something else. Jul 17 18 10:36 am Link After 57 years of marriage with the same woman, I would never dream of telling any woman anything--asking or suggesting works a whole lot better. But as has been said, what you consider sexy I might consider frumpy--visible references such as a section of your own portfolio, a mood board or even just a couple of snapshots can go a long way toward preventing misunderstanding. And the way you make the suggestion can make a difference in the model's reception. "Bring something sexy." can sound a bit creepy where "We'll want to get a very sexy look so please bring something appropriate." might be better. All IMHO as always, of course. Jul 17 18 11:08 am Link If someone tells me to "bring something sexy" for a shoot/project, what am I do do? Bring something I think is sexy, or something THEY think is sexy? Whose version of sexy is the goal? The word SEXY is a very vague word that each person has a specific idea of. Mood boards with examples as well as specific communication on the goals of the images. Jul 17 18 12:14 pm Link The idea of what is "sexy" can vary widely from person to person. It is better to provide example images so that the model and photographer are on the same page. Jul 17 18 01:05 pm Link TouchofEleganceStudios wrote: its not unreasonable. Jul 17 18 01:39 pm Link Philip Brown wrote: One thing about me is that I have been a member of Model Mayhem in good standing for over 12 years with an excellent reputation. Not one complaint from a model in all that time. There is a reason for it. I am ALWAYS straight with models. I read every word in their profiles. What you are saying is no different than model who says "I don't do nude" yet has nudes in her pictures. She said I don't do nudes and I respect that so I NEVER ask. Jul 17 18 03:13 pm Link Words can have limitiations.different interpretations and misinterpretations I will always remember an incident in my early days of shooting fashion shows . I was doing some backstage photography before the show and asked one of the Models ( a young Chinese Woman ) to give me a sultry expression "What You call Me " ? !!! was her response So I learned in real life to either physically display / mimic the pose/ emotion that i am seeking . or if the model has such posing/emoting talents - just go with what she throws at me When corresponding with Models on the Internet I generally send them either a photo that i have taken or a mood photo / mood board so they can understand what i am looking for Jul 17 18 05:51 pm Link Thank you all for your contributions, very informative. -Alan Jul 17 18 09:45 pm Link A. I. Studios wrote: I don't tell a model, "You need to ______.". I say, "I want to shoot ________.". The goal is to be clear, without being demanding. Jul 18 18 06:55 am Link TouchofEleganceStudios wrote: How can I be taking things out of context when you provided no such context? You seem to think the models can read your mind on the limited aspect of the image and your discussion. I am expecting when you post to the forum here about a miscommunication issue for you to provide the full context of the conversation leading to the miscommunication. Jul 18 18 09:44 am Link FIFTYONE PHOTOGRAPHY wrote: Excellent response, because "sexy" means different things to different people Jul 18 18 09:18 pm Link The OP doesnt sound like there was a miscommunication on what "sexy" meant. A lot of people (men) seem to struggle with the boundary between using words to describe aspects of the shoot vs telling the human being in front of them about what they personally find sexually arousing. "I want this shoot to convey a mood of sexiness" vs "stand here and be sexy for me" "Lets shoot some sultry facial expressions" vs " look at the camera like you want to fuck me/look at me like you would look at your boyfriend/make love to the camera/etc" You can certainly tell a model that you're looking for wardrobe that would be considered sexy (though as other posters have pointed out, you're better off requesting specific items, suggesting a certain store, or creating a mood board). If you're using some kind of sentence like you want her to dress sexy for you then theres the issue. Jul 18 18 10:13 pm Link bshaw811 wrote: This makes the most sense. Just asking someone to dress sexy is very vague. it's just too subjective. Emailing examples of what you're looking for is the logical thing to do since asking someone to read your mind is asking for misunderstanding and disappointment, not to mention an unnecessary stress and burden on the model. Jul 20 18 05:20 am Link |