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still i rise89

Posts: 297

London, England, United Kingdom

what is all this light skin is better than dark skin rubbish

Apr 06 08 03:10 pm Link

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Laura Hopalong

Posts: 9064

Mobile, Alabama, US

It's rubbish.

Apr 06 08 03:12 pm Link

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Mike Carroll

Posts: 56023

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

wha?

Apr 06 08 03:13 pm Link

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Yves Duchamp - Femme

Posts: 24436

Virginia Beach, Virginia, US

Hi, Priscilla. I completely understand what you are talking about...

Research "colorism."

I started a thread on it once which degenerate into a bloodbath for a few pages and then returned to a decent conversation. Also, read "The Color Complex" by Kathy Russel, "Post-Traumatic Slave Syndrome" by Dr. Joy Degruy-Leary, and "Don't Play in the Sun" by Marita Golden.

Exceptional books, those.

Link to the thread: https://www.modelmayhem.com/p.php?thread_id=189409

Apr 06 08 03:14 pm Link

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UnoMundo

Posts: 47532

Olympia, Washington, US

priscilla18 wrote:
what is all this light skin is better than dark skin rubbish

You invented this, read it, thought about it, a personal story?

Or are you quoting some universal truth that the rest of us don't know.

Apr 06 08 03:14 pm Link

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StaceyClarke Retouching

Posts: 642

Swansea, Illinois, US

both can look amazing i think.

theres not a 'better' 1.

Apr 06 08 03:14 pm Link

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still i rise89

Posts: 297

London, England, United Kingdom

i know there's not pretty is pretty but i heard its really bad in america though

Apr 06 08 03:23 pm Link

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UnoMundo

Posts: 47532

Olympia, Washington, US

priscilla18 wrote:
i know there's not pretty is pretty but i heard its really bad in america though

You sound like Mike.

You have basis for the claim ?

Apr 06 08 03:24 pm Link

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Yves Duchamp - Femme

Posts: 24436

Virginia Beach, Virginia, US

priscilla18 wrote:
i know there's not pretty is pretty but i heard its really bad in america though

It is very bad here. Particularly in the South...

Apr 06 08 03:28 pm Link

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Yves Duchamp - Femme

Posts: 24436

Virginia Beach, Virginia, US

UnoMundo wrote:
You sound like Mike.

You have basis for the claim ?

Listen. Just because you know nothing about it doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. So please, take it down a few notches, you're being obnoxious. It really is a big issue in the black community as well as many other ethnic groups, and it is really senseless and hurtful. It's a serious subject, so take it seriously.

Apr 06 08 03:28 pm Link

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UnoMundo

Posts: 47532

Olympia, Washington, US

Shon D Photography wrote:

It is very bad here. Particularly in the South...

Yes, but a general claim.

I have had requests specifically NOT for black models.
So I can back that with fact.
But the OP has not said she has seen it.

Apr 06 08 03:30 pm Link

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still i rise89

Posts: 297

London, England, United Kingdom

lol why though black is black

Apr 06 08 03:30 pm Link

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Yves Duchamp - Femme

Posts: 24436

Virginia Beach, Virginia, US

priscilla18 wrote:
lol why though black is black

Read a little of the thread I linked. Or order any of those books I noted. They're all very informative and good reads...

Apr 06 08 03:31 pm Link

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still i rise89

Posts: 297

London, England, United Kingdom

and i have seen i see it every day on tv

Apr 06 08 03:31 pm Link

Photographer

UnoMundo

Posts: 47532

Olympia, Washington, US

Shon D Photography wrote:

Listen. Just because you know nothing about it doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. So please, take it down a few notches, you're being obnoxious. It really is a big issue in the black community as well as many other ethnic groups, and it is really senseless and hurtful. It's a serious subject, so take it seriously.

Shon, the OP has not posted anything specific about her experience or what she heard.

You have experience with it, so I take your experience as reported.

Apr 06 08 03:33 pm Link

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Yves Duchamp - Femme

Posts: 24436

Virginia Beach, Virginia, US

UnoMundo wrote:

Shon, the OP has not posted anything specific about her experience or what she heard.

You have experience with it, so I take your experience as reported.

I highly doubt that anyone will be able to narrow it down to just one experience. I mean, a few may stick out more than others, but it's not a one time deal. It's almost like a sick social norm. Something that's engrained in a lot of (I would say most) black children and has been for generations. It's an entire lifetime experience.

Apr 06 08 03:36 pm Link

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Laura Ann Photography

Posts: 17921

Peoria, Arizona, US

The color of skin, or how dark it is, never bugs me.

A light skinned black women can be beautiful as well as a women with dark black skin.  I think they're both wonderful.

I don't understand why people would think one is better than the other.  It just defies all logic to me.  Then again, so does racism.

Apr 06 08 03:36 pm Link

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Hipgnosis2

Posts: 582

Dallas, Texas, US

priscilla18 wrote:
lol why though black is black

Not really, not anymore.

And the claim that it is still bad in America isn't entirely true.  Some cultures (localized subcultures) still feel the KKK is right.  But for the most part, it's become pretty commonplace to see mixed race couples walking around.  In fact, the concept that black is black is tough to swallow because of all the racial mixing.

I'm racially mixed.  Heavily mixed.  Some people think I look greek, middle eastern, hispanic, or italian.  Because of this, and because of my heritage, I always choose "other" when filling out questionnaires that ask my racial background. 

The simple fact is that at least here in the states, no one is pure anything anymore.  Oh sure, there are some, here and there.  But for the most part, the melting pot concept has taken root and can now be applied to genetics.

Apr 06 08 03:37 pm Link

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Laura Hopalong

Posts: 9064

Mobile, Alabama, US

UnoMundo wrote:
You invented this, read it, thought about it, a personal story?

Or are you quoting some universal truth that the rest of us don't know.

I've heard it before.

I know in the past, if you were black, it was preferable to have the lightest skin tone possible. It was "better." It was best to have "white" features as well.

I don't know how prevalent this attitude is now, but it is one that came about (in America) due to slavery here. I wouldn't be surprised if there are some people that really do feel that it's "better" still.

Apr 06 08 03:43 pm Link

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Yves Duchamp - Femme

Posts: 24436

Virginia Beach, Virginia, US

Sigh.

Apr 06 08 03:56 pm Link

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Legacys 7

Posts: 33899

San Francisco, California, US

Old news that's been around before all of the members on this website time.

Look at the late 1950's movie titled, 'Imitation of Life.' There you'll find your answer.

Apr 06 08 04:10 pm Link

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Yves Duchamp - Femme

Posts: 24436

Virginia Beach, Virginia, US

Legacys 7 wrote:
Old news that's been around before all of the members on this website time.

Look at the late 1950's movie titled, 'Imitation of Life.' There you'll find your answer.

GOOD ONE!

Apr 06 08 04:14 pm Link

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Ebby is Pink

Posts: 2280

Brooklyn, New York, US

Legacys 7 wrote:
Old news that's been around before all of the members on this website time.

Look at the late 1950's movie titled, 'Imitation of Life.' There you'll find your answer.

I cry every time I see that movie.

Apr 06 08 04:40 pm Link

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MelissaLynnette LaDiva

Posts: 50816

Leawood, Kansas, US

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Apr 06 08 04:42 pm Link

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digital Artform

Posts: 49326

Los Angeles, California, US

Reminds me of this old SNL skit from the 70's with Garret Morris

http://snltranscripts.jt.org/76/76rblac … tive.phtml

Apr 06 08 04:46 pm Link

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Profile Closed

Posts: 5808

Niceville, Florida, US

priscilla18 wrote:
what is all this light skin is better than dark skin rubbish

Isn't this how Rwanda's party ended up?

Apr 06 08 04:47 pm Link

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Yves Duchamp - Femme

Posts: 24436

Virginia Beach, Virginia, US

ResoL101 wrote:

Isn't this how Rwanda's party ended up?

Eh....

Apr 06 08 05:02 pm Link

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Laura Hopalong

Posts: 9064

Mobile, Alabama, US

ResoL101 wrote:

Isn't this how Rwanda's party ended up?

Different from the US, but I see where you're trying to make the connect.

Apr 06 08 05:08 pm Link

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UnoMundo

Posts: 47532

Olympia, Washington, US

ResoL101 wrote:
Isn't this how Rwanda's party ended up?

Rwanda was a tribal system
One group had 85% of the population.
The other (15%) was in charge (colonial history), they refused to give up power.
Elections were held, the group with 85% population won.
The new Prime Minister(mr 85%) was killed.

The 85% group got pissed and commenced a killing spree.

Now come back with the names.

Apr 06 08 05:08 pm Link

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Like an open Rose

Posts: 9754

Los Angeles, California, US

ResoL101 wrote:

Isn't this how Rwanda's party ended up?

No, that was differeing ethnic groups, sort of like bosnia

Apr 06 08 05:08 pm Link

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UnoMundo

Posts: 47532

Olympia, Washington, US

Like an open Rose wrote:

No, that was differeing ethnic groups, sort of like bosnia

they were not ethnic groups, they were tribal groups.

Apr 06 08 05:09 pm Link

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Like an open Rose

Posts: 9754

Los Angeles, California, US

UnoMundo wrote:
they were not ethnic groups, they were tribal groups.

Um okay those words can be interchanged quite easily
Thanks

Ethnic Group
a social group or category of the population that, in a larger society, is set apart and bound together by common ties of race, language, nationality, or culture.






tribe
One entry found.

tribe 
   


Main Entry: tribe 
Pronunciation: \ˈtrīb\
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English, from Latin tribus, a division of the Roman people, tribe
Date: 13th century
1 a: a social group comprising numerous families, clans, or generations together with slaves, dependents, or adopted strangers b: a political division of the Roman people originally representing one of the three original tribes of ancient Rome c: phyle
2: a group of persons having a common character, occupation, or interest
3: a category of taxonomic classification ranking below a subfamily; also : a natural group irrespective of taxonomic rank 

Apr 06 08 05:11 pm Link

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Like an open Rose

Posts: 9754

Los Angeles, California, US

UnoMundo wrote:

they were not ethnic groups, they were tribal groups.

Dude your logic is completely off, those are essentially the same descriptions. Like calling a man a male.

Apr 06 08 05:16 pm Link

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UnoMundo

Posts: 47532

Olympia, Washington, US

Like an open Rose wrote:

Dude your logic is completely off, those are essentially the same descriptions. Like calling a man a male.

You dahling ,
The Hutu and the Tutsi, many of them shared the same language, religion, intermarriage,etc, etc,etc.  It is not like one was Christian and the other Muslim or the other green and the other blue.

It was now neighbor against neighbor depending on tribal origin.

Apr 06 08 05:21 pm Link

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Like an open Rose

Posts: 9754

Los Angeles, California, US

UnoMundo wrote:

You dahling ,
The Hutu and the Tutsi, many of them shared the same language, religion, intermarriage,etc, etc,etc.  It is not like one was Christian and the other Muslim or the other green and the other blue.

It was now neighbor against neighbor depending on tribal origin.

Uh yea ethnic groups are nto dependant on religions, I related it to bosina becuase that is a conflict known to most Americans.

Apr 06 08 05:26 pm Link

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Like an open Rose

Posts: 9754

Los Angeles, California, US

Just to add. I'm not alone on using the term ethnic group as it is considered the modern version of tribe
Here is a list of websites in the hundreds that use the term.

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&sa=X … is&spell=1




http://www.unitedhumanrights.org/Genoci … rwanda.htm

Rwanda is one of the smallest countries in Central Africa, with just 7 million people, and is comprised of two main ethnic groups, the Hutu and the Tutsi. Although the Hutus account for 90 percent of the population, in the past, the Tutsi minority was considered the aristocracy of Rwanda and dominated Hutu peasants for decades, especially while Rwanda was under Belgian colonial rule.

Following independence from Belgium in 1962, the Hutu majority seized power and reversed the roles, oppressing the Tutsis through systematic discrimination and acts of violence. As a result, over 200,000 Tutsis fled to neighboring countries and formed a rebel guerrilla army, the Rwandan Patriotic Front

Apr 06 08 05:35 pm Link

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Alex Davenport

Posts: 10215

Spokane, Missouri, US

The OP seems to be very uninformed about the subject, or at least isn't really contributing much to the conversation.

However, this issue really does exist. Its sad, its stupid, and its frustrating. But the problem exists in the Black community, Latin community, etc.

Apr 06 08 05:40 pm Link

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Profile Closed

Posts: 5808

Niceville, Florida, US

Moxie Haze wrote:

Different from the US, but I see where you're trying to make the connect.

Thank you for "getting" my point.

Apr 06 08 07:17 pm Link

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Profile Closed

Posts: 5808

Niceville, Florida, US

Like an open Rose wrote:
Just to add. I'm not alone on using the term ethnic group as it is considered the modern version of tribe
Here is a list of websites in the hundreds that use the term.

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&sa=X … is&spell=1




http://www.unitedhumanrights.org/Genoci … rwanda.htm

Rwanda is one of the smallest countries in Central Africa, with just 7 million people, and is comprised of two main ethnic groups, the Hutu and the Tutsi. Although the Hutus account for 90 percent of the population, in the past, the Tutsi minority was considered the aristocracy of Rwanda and dominated Hutu peasants for decades, especially while Rwanda was under Belgian colonial rule.

Following independence from Belgium in 1962, the Hutu majority seized power and reversed the roles, oppressing the Tutsis through systematic discrimination and acts of violence. As a result, over 200,000 Tutsis fled to neighboring countries and formed a rebel guerrilla army, the Rwandan Patriotic Front

But do you understand what seemingly MADE a Tutsi different from a Hutu?...

Apr 06 08 07:18 pm Link

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Profile Closed

Posts: 5808

Niceville, Florida, US

Shon D Photography wrote:
Eh....

Study more...

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/ghosts/

I suggest watching the videos...especially the "journalist's" take on the whole thing.

Apr 06 08 07:20 pm Link