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8v44f6t

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Maitland, New South Wales, Australia

Hello lovelies.

I'm visiting my dad at the moment and I've just noticed he put some of his skin care products on my side of the vanity (which is his subtle way of throwing them out without feeling wasteful). The brand is Herban Lifestyle and he has the shaving oil, after shave and facial lotion. Now, while all of these smell absolutely delicious I wonder if they could possibly be bad for young female skin.

The shaving oil is just amazing. It's the most beautifully smooth formula of sunflower oil, sesame oil, green tea extract and a whole bunch of other yummies. I use a very small amount (less than 15 drops for my entire leg) and its like shaving on heaven.

I've no idea what after shave actually does apart from smell nice so I haven't used it but I've been tempted to go and splash it on a few attractive men. It's made from Jamaican rum, bay leaves, cinnamon, vanilla and orange oil amongst other things. It's delicious, but not feminine at all.

Now the facial lotion, is made from aloe Vera juice, coconut oil, olive oil, rooiboos tea extract and a bunch of other amazing sounding things and feels like the silkiest of all silky face primers. I only have to use the tiniest amount and it just smooths my skin flawlessly.

So, are these in any way possibly damaging for my skin? They are far more natural and subtle than the harsh chemical filled products I usually find myself using, but they are intended for use by men. Is there any difference in women's products and men's products? I'd love your thoughts.

Jun 11 13 06:32 pm Link

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AJ_In_Atlanta

Posts: 13053

Atlanta, Georgia, US

Not that it helps but aftershave was meant to "close" our skin after shaving, cold water does the same; mostly it just smells nice smile and it is less concentrated than say a perfume.

Jun 11 13 06:44 pm Link

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David Westlake

Posts: 1539

Mansfield Center, Connecticut, US

There is a store in Boston called "`The art of shaving". The female sales person said she uses the mens sandalwood shave cream on her legs. I can tell you it feels great when shaving my face. The shave cream makes a big differnce. I couldn't imagine shaving my face with regular soap like some women use shaving their legs in the shower.

Jun 11 13 07:02 pm Link

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Jay Dezelic

Posts: 5029

Seattle, Washington, US

The stuff that *could* harm you over time is the nasty chemicals found in a lot of mainstream products. I looks like your dad uses a lot of natural things that probably won't hurt you.  However, test a little on your on a small area of for a couple days skin to make sure you don't get a reaction.  Things like tea tree oil can sometimes cause allergic reactions. 

I use strait cold-pressed extra-virgin olive oil for shaving an as a moisturizer.  It's been in use for more than 5,000 years.  Make sure you get the real stuff though.  Much of what you find on store shelves has been cut with other types of oils that could create issues for some people.

Jun 11 13 07:11 pm Link

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8v44f6t

Posts: 517

Maitland, New South Wales, Australia

AJScalzitti wrote:
Not that it helps but aftershave was meant to "close" our skin after shaving, cold water does the same; mostly it just smells nice smile and it is less concentrated than say a perfume.

Cool, I never knew that. Thanks smile

Jun 11 13 07:13 pm Link

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8v44f6t

Posts: 517

Maitland, New South Wales, Australia

David Westlake wrote:
There is a store in Boston called "`The art of shaving". The female sales person said she uses the mens sandalwood shave cream on her legs. I can tell you it feels great when shaving my face. The shave cream makes a big differnce. I couldn't imagine shaving my face with regular soap like some women use shaving their legs in the shower.

I'm not allergic to soap but it dries my skin out like crazy and shaving with most body washes in the shower is almost impossible because they just slip away before you've even put the razer to your skin. I've never thought of shaving with oil before, but it makes sense.

Jun 11 13 07:15 pm Link

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Lauren Reynolds Makeup

Posts: 282

London, England, United Kingdom

Usually, the only difference between men's products and women's products is the smell. Men's skin can be a bit more oily, otherwise skin is skin and there's no huge difference between the sexes - the products will be perfectly safe.

Jun 11 13 07:19 pm Link

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Tiffany_B

Posts: 1551

Atlanta, Georgia, US

Provided that what's in the products isn't much different from the products you typically use you shouldn't have an issue. For the most part it sounds like the ingredients are fairly natural and the important thing to keep in mind is that they are meant to be used on skin. This is a very different scenario then something which could be truly dangerous like using acrylic paint instead of body paint.

My suggestion is twofold. First, since you've already shaved with the product don't do anything else to your leg for a bit and see if you have an adverse reaction. If you don't contact the number that's usually included on the back of products and/or a trusted dermatologist and see if the product can safely be used on women. It's vital that you emphasize gender as opposed to age since I know that certain products can't even be safely handled by women, there's a particular pill that comes to mind which is used to regrow hair I believe which states clearly that women shouldn't handle broken tablets.

Jun 11 13 07:20 pm Link

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Lauren Reynolds Makeup

Posts: 282

London, England, United Kingdom

Jay Dezelic wrote:
The stuff that *could* harm you over time is the nasty chemicals found in a lot of mainstream products. I looks like your dad uses a lot of natural things that probably won't hurt you.  However, test a little on your on a small area of for a couple days skin to make sure you don't get a reaction.  Things like tea tree oil can sometimes cause allergic reactions. 

I use strait cold-pressed extra-virgin olive oil for shaving an as a moisturizer.  It's been in use for more than 5,000 years.  Make sure you get the real stuff though.  Much of what you find on store shelves has been cut with other types of oils that could create issues for some people.

"Natural" does not necessarily equal safe or better. That is a marketing myth. Some natural products are very irritating, just as some synthetics are.

Extra virgin olive oil is not great for a lot of people to use on the skin as it's very heavy and can cause breakouts. Great if your skin likes it, I know my own certainly doesn't. Jojoba oil and rosehip oil are less heavy, are similar to the skin's natural sebum and tend not to cause so many problems.

Tiffany_B wrote:
Provided that what's in the products isn't much different from the products you typically use you shouldn't have an issue. For the most part it sounds like the ingredients are fairly natural and the important thing to keep in mind is that they are meant to be used on skin. This is a very different scenario then something which could be truly dangerous like using acrylic paint instead of body paint.

My suggestion is twofold. First, since you've already shaved with the product don't do anything else to your leg for a bit and see if you have an adverse reaction. If you don't contact the number that's usually included on the back of products and/or a trusted dermatologist and see if the product can safely be used on women. It's vital that you emphasize gender as opposed to age since I know that certain products can't even be safely handled by women, there's a particular pill that comes to mind which is used to regrow hair I believe which states clearly that women shouldn't handle broken tablets.

Standard men's bathroom products are unlikely to be so dangerous to a woman... many women share bathrooms with men after all... prescription drugs are a totally different ballgame I'm sure you understand smile

Jun 11 13 07:43 pm Link

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Jay Dezelic

Posts: 5029

Seattle, Washington, US

Lauren Reynolds MUA wrote:
"Natural" does not necessarily equal safe or better. That is a marketing myth. Some natural products are very irritating, just as some synthetics are.

Extra virgin olive oil is not great for a lot of people to use on the skin as it's very heavy and can cause breakouts. Great if your skin likes it, I know my own certainly doesn't. Jojoba oil and rosehip oil are less heavy, are similar to the skin's natural sebum and tend not to cause so many problems.

Agreed.  The word "Natural" means absolutely nothing in the marketing world anymore.  Everything on earth comes from some natural source before it gets processed. 

EVO is a heavy oil that can probably block pores.  Depending how much toxic substances you consume, your skin needs the ability to release things.  People who consume a lot of sugar, animal fats and processed food chemicals probably would not do as well with olive oil. If olive oil creates skin problems, it could be a sign that you are consuming too much unhealthy food.

Thin oils can be dangerous though.  Things that can soak into your blood stream (like solvents) probably aren't going to help your skin or your other organs in the long term.

Jun 11 13 08:21 pm Link

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Lauren Reynolds Makeup

Posts: 282

London, England, United Kingdom

Jay Dezelic wrote:
EVO is a heavy oil that can probably block pores.  Depending how much toxic substances you consume, your skin needs the ability to release things.  People who consume a lot of sugar, animal fats and processed food chemicals probably would not do as well with olive oil. If olive oil creates skin problems, it could be a sign that you are consuming too much unhealthy food.

Probably true for a lot of people but not me - I follow a largely unprocessed vegetarian diet too. I personally believe skin condition is a reflection of several factors, not diet alone, although it is important. For my own skin, which is very sensitive and has a tendency to breakout, I think it's a combination of genetics and living in a polluted urban environment. All skin is different though, one type of oil is never going to solve everyone's skin problems. Sorry, off-topic!

Jun 11 13 08:36 pm Link

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Tiffany_B

Posts: 1551

Atlanta, Georgia, US

Lauren Reynolds MUA wrote:
Standard men's bathroom products are unlikely to be so dangerous to a woman... many women share bathrooms with men after all... prescription drugs are a totally different ballgame I'm sure you understand smile

I fully understand and in a pinch I've used the hubby's shaving cream but in the event anyone is worried about the products they're putting on their skin I suggest getting a professional opinion since as a stylist I don't deal with skin care other than my own BUT as an MUA I'm sure you know better smile

Jun 11 13 09:10 pm Link

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Davis W

Posts: 1284

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

LR MUA wrote:
Usually, the only difference between men's products and women's products is the smell. Men's skin can be a bit more oily, otherwise skin is skin and there's no huge difference between the sexes - the products will be perfectly safe.

Shes right.

Jun 12 13 09:33 pm Link