Forums > Model Colloquy > "send me a nude picture of you"

Model

Miss_Bee

Posts: 149

Minneapolis, Minnesota, US

This has happened to me a few times, photographers asking for an underwear picture or nude picture to be sent prior to setting up a shoot. I'm under the impression that portfolios are partly there to show what models look like, so shouldn't that be sufficient? I have recent pictures up, and they certainly aren't fully clothed. Today I even had someone say it's so they can plan poses? I've also had someone say that it's so they know what I'm comfortable with..
What are other peoples thoughts on this??

Jan 31 14 06:33 pm Link

Photographer

PhotographybyT

Posts: 7947

Monterey, California, US

Stephanie_Bee wrote:
"send me a nude picture of you"

Okay...if you really want me to! tongue

(haha...j/k)

Jan 31 14 06:40 pm Link

Photographer

Grin Without a Cat

Posts: 456

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Stephanie_Bee wrote:
This has happened to me a few times, photographers asking for an underwear picture or nude picture to be sent prior to setting up a shoot. I'm under the impression that portfolios are partly there to show what models look like, so shouldn't that be sufficient? I have recent pictures up, and they certainly aren't fully clothed. Today I even had someone say it's so they can plan poses? I've also had someone say that it's so they know what I'm comfortable with..
What are other peoples thoughts on this??

This could really go either way.  Depending on what type of shoot the photographer is planning, it could be necessary to see more than what you currently have in your port.  You have no nude images at all and the ones in underwear and lingerie are still covering a lot up.  If it was a paid nude shoot, I would also need to see a bit more to decide whether there was going to be any serious retouching issues.

On the other hand, it is also entirely possible that someone just wants to add some nude selfies to their collection. 

Not helpful, I know.  But true nonetheless.

Jan 31 14 06:43 pm Link

Photographer

DELETED-ACCOUNT_

Posts: 10303

Los Angeles, California, US

I assume you're talking to photographers about setting up a nude shoot, based on the "Shoot Nudes = Yes" part of your profile.  I don't see an issue with someone wanting to see you nude before they book you for such a shoot.  For some people they might be a bit picky on how you look, and don't want to waste their time. 

Ex. I've booked a model for a nude concept that had saggy breasts...never knew because all the photos she had she was wearing a bra at minimum.  Some models have horrid scars from implants, birthmarks, stretch marks, nipples pointing in random directions, etc.  So no, I don't see an issue with someone asking for a nude photo before they shoot you (again, assuming they're booking you for a nude shoot), especially since you don't have any examples of nudes in your portfolio currently.  If you had I'd be more inclined to agree that sending examples would be unnecessary though.

Jan 31 14 06:44 pm Link

Photographer

American Glamour

Posts: 38813

Detroit, Michigan, US

T-D-L wrote:
I assume you're talking to photographers about setting up a nude shoot, based on the "Shoot Nudes = Yes" part of your profile.  I don't see an issue with someone wanting to see you nude before they book you for such a shoot.  For some people they might be a bit picky on how you look, and don't want to waste their time.

+1 on that.  If a photographer is going to book you for a nude shoot, it is perfectly reasonable for him to want to see you nude in advance.  Models often look different with their clothes off.

On the other hand, if they are asking you for a nude shot for a fashion shoot, that would be inappropriate.

Jan 31 14 06:47 pm Link

Photographer

Hi_Spade Photography

Posts: 927

Florence, South Carolina, US

T-D-L wrote:
I assume you're talking to photographers about setting up a nude shoot, based on the "Shoot Nudes = Yes" part of your profile.  I don't see an issue with someone wanting to see you nude before they book you for such a shoot.  For some people they might be a bit picky on how you look, and don't want to waste their time. 

Ex. I've booked a model for a nude concept that had saggy breasts...never knew because all the photos she had she was wearing a bra at minimum.  Some models have horrid scars from implants, birthmarks, stretch marks, nipples pointing in random directions, etc.  So no, I don't see an issue with someone asking for a nude photo before they shoot you (again, assuming they're booking you for a nude shoot), especially since you don't have any examples of nudes in your portfolio currently.  If you had I'd be more inclined to agree that sending examples would be unnecessary though.

+1 smile.

Jan 31 14 06:47 pm Link

Photographer

AJ_In_Atlanta

Posts: 13053

Atlanta, Georgia, US

Stephanie_Bee wrote:
This has happened to me a few times, photographers asking for an underwear picture or nude picture to be sent prior to setting up a shoot. I'm under the impression that portfolios are partly there to show what models look like, so shouldn't that be sufficient? I have recent pictures up, and they certainly aren't fully clothed. Today I even had someone say it's so they can plan poses? I've also had someone say that it's so they know what I'm comfortable with..
What are other peoples thoughts on this??

For a normal shoot you are correct your avi should let anyone see your shape.  If its for a nude casting that is a little different, as you have none in your portfolio that really isn't sufficient.

I would worry that you have never actually done any before and would be a mess on set if you even showed.  Certainly I would not cast you if I shot nudes, I probably would not even msg you for one or consider your interest in a casting.

Jan 31 14 06:48 pm Link

Model

Miss_Bee

Posts: 149

Minneapolis, Minnesota, US

GPS Studio Services wrote:

T-D-L wrote:
+1 on that.  If a photographer is going to book you for a nude shoot, it is perfectly reasonable for him to want to see you nude in advance.  Models often look different with their clothes off.

On the other hand, if they are asking you for a nude shot for a fashion shoot, that would be inappropriate.

Agreed, mostly if they show some semblance of professionalism beforehand. One was for a bikini shoot!

Jan 31 14 06:49 pm Link

Photographer

East West

Posts: 847

Los Angeles, California, US

I request nude or topless if it's a nude booking only. No need if nudity is not involved.

Jan 31 14 06:51 pm Link

Photographer

DELETED-ACCOUNT_

Posts: 10303

Los Angeles, California, US

Stephanie_Bee wrote:

Agreed, mostly if they show some semblance of professionalism beforehand. One was for a bikini shoot!

If for a bikini shoot then standard polaroids are more than acceptable (ie. front and side with a bikini on).  That person was just a creeper lol

Jan 31 14 06:51 pm Link

Model

Miss_Bee

Posts: 149

Minneapolis, Minnesota, US

AJScalzitti wrote:
I would worry that you have never actually done any before and would be a mess on set if you even showed.  Certainly I would not cast you if I shot nudes, I probably would not even msg you for one or consider your interest in a casting.

Nice critique?
Edit: By the way, I have shot nudes before, I have just asked not to be credited because of social commentary that I'm glad I did, but I'm not sure I'd like to be permanently associated with yet.

Jan 31 14 06:53 pm Link

Model

Julia Steel

Posts: 2474

Sylvania, Ohio, US

For some reason newbie photogs request this of me a lot, as well as tons of other information that more experienced photographers just discuss at the shoot. Like "what poses do you know how to do or "send me a picture of every piece of clothing and jewelry you are bringing so i can 'plan'." It's good to have a very recent, unretouched or hardly retouched photo you can show them in your port. When they ask just point them in that direction, and say as a policy you do not send nude selfies to potential clients due to the fact that people have acted inappropriately about them in the past, that's what i do.

Jan 31 14 06:56 pm Link

Photographer

Viator Defessus Photos

Posts: 1259

Houston, Texas, US

Stephanie_Bee wrote:
This has happened to me a few times, photographers asking for an underwear picture or nude picture to be sent prior to setting up a shoot. I'm under the impression that portfolios are partly there to show what models look like, so shouldn't that be sufficient? I have recent pictures up, and they certainly aren't fully clothed. Today I even had someone say it's so they can plan poses? I've also had someone say that it's so they know what I'm comfortable with..
What are other peoples thoughts on this??

The first time I ever hired and shot with a model nude, I went based on her port. It turned out later that most of the images in her port were taken when she was 18 or 19... She was 26, and she'd had 2 kids in the interim... That taught me a valuable and early lesson about trusting ports... Even if the picture is uploaded recently, that doesn't mean it was taken recently. Even if it was taken only a month or two prior, things can change in that time. Even if it was taken a week or two prior, a shot in a port might be Photoshopped... Some of the worst shoots I've ever had happened because I trusted the photos in a port.

I sometimes ask for shots in lingerie or nude so I know roughly how she's going to look when she shows up to pose. If it's a new model that has never posed nude before, it also tells me that she's comfortable with the idea of there being nude photos of her, me seeing her nude, and having photos of her nude. In that regard, it can be a screen for cold-feet.

This is not something I always ask for and this is not something that I necessarily consider a deal-breaker, but some days it really helps.

Not too long ago a woman approached me on another site wanting to shoot nudes. There were no pictures on her profile that showed any meaningful portion of her face or body because she was concerned about privacy. I asked her to send me some photos, preferably nudes if she wanted to be shot nude. She was nervous at first and I assured her that these images would never be shown to anyone else and would only serve to show me how she looked. She agreed to send them. We've shot three times now.

Jan 31 14 06:57 pm Link

Model

Julia Steel

Posts: 2474

Sylvania, Ohio, US

Hey we have similar avatars! Haha! Avi twins! (I've been drinking)

Jan 31 14 06:57 pm Link

Photographer

East West

Posts: 847

Los Angeles, California, US

Stephanie_Bee wrote:

Nice critique?
Edit: By the way, I have shot nudes before, I have just asked not to be credited because of social commentary that I'm glad I did, but I'm not sure I'd like to be permanently associated with yet.

if your face is visible, then you are permanently associated with them

Jan 31 14 06:58 pm Link

Model

Miss_Bee

Posts: 149

Minneapolis, Minnesota, US

Julia Francesca  wrote:
say as a policy you do not send nude selfies to potential clients due to the fact that people have acted inappropriately about them in the past, that's what i do.

Me too!

Julia Francesca  wrote:
Hey we have similar avatars! Haha! Avi twins! (I've been drinking)

Haha, I like you.

Jan 31 14 07:00 pm Link

Model

Miss_Bee

Posts: 149

Minneapolis, Minnesota, US

MDWM wrote:
if your face is visible, then you are permanently associated with them

Goes without saying.

Jan 31 14 07:00 pm Link

Model

D A N I

Posts: 4627

Little Rock, Arkansas, US

I have a full nude, full body, unretouched photo (front and back) that I send if requested. I won't stand in the mirror and take a butt naked selfie.

Jan 31 14 07:01 pm Link

Model

Koryn

Posts: 39496

Boston, Massachusetts, US

Yes, it's normal.

If you decide to become full-time, at some point, people are going to ask for unedited, cell phone type shots, pretty regularly.

Jan 31 14 07:03 pm Link

Model

Miss_Bee

Posts: 149

Minneapolis, Minnesota, US

I do work full-time, actually, but usually in lingerie (edits take so long, grr). I've heard the reasoning that it might be photoshopped, but even when telling them it's not they still want it? I'm under the impression that a full time and working model, especially if it's someone who wants to/is becoming big/popular, would not want nude selfies out? Am I not trusting enough, or are others too much so?

Jan 31 14 07:06 pm Link

Photographer

AJ_In_Atlanta

Posts: 13053

Atlanta, Georgia, US

Stephanie_Bee wrote:
Nice critique?
Edit: By the way, I have shot nudes before, I have just asked not to be credited because of social commentary that I'm glad I did, but I'm not sure I'd like to be permanently associated with yet.

No critique, I was saying I would not cast a model with no nudes in their portfolio for a nude shoot.  For that matter I would not cast a model with no lifestyle images for a lifestyle shoot.

I shoot beauty and I think you have an interesting look for it, but saying that would be a critique that I am not allowed to do

Jan 31 14 07:09 pm Link

Photographer

Nico Simon Princely

Posts: 1972

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

I would never book a model for a nude shoot that I have not seen nude first or at least topless. I have to see what her breasts look like and how they hang. I also have to see what her butt looks like but that can be done wearing a thong.

Sometimes they send pictures and other times they show me in person when they are trying on wardrobe ideas. I also do pre-shoot meetings 95% of the time or possibly even a test shoot.

I do all of the above so that my shoot goes well, the model in comfortable working with me and I know what to expect and I can plan shots. Certain body types work well with better angles and poses than others.

The more you work with someone the better the results you get, which is why I like test shoots as a warm up to a main shoot.

Jan 31 14 07:10 pm Link

Makeup Artist

apjjj236

Posts: 1

Atlanta, Georgia, US

My opinion they got sone horny ass "photographers" out there and some dumb chicks who fuel them.

Jan 31 14 07:12 pm Link

Model

D A N I

Posts: 4627

Little Rock, Arkansas, US

apjjj236 wrote:
My opinion they got sone horny ass "photographers" out there and some dumb chicks who fuel them.

The fun part is figuring out which is legit

Jan 31 14 07:16 pm Link

Photographer

Another Italian Guy

Posts: 3281

Bath, England, United Kingdom

GPS Studio Services wrote:
If a photographer is going to book you for a nude shoot, it is perfectly reasonable for him to want to see you nude in advance.  Models often look different with their clothes off.

+1

I won't even risk wasting my time shooting trade nudes with a model unless has has nudes in her portfolio or is willing to send me some. There's just too much potential for nasty surprises otherwise.

GPS Studio Services wrote:
On the other hand, if they are asking you for a nude shot for a fashion shoot, that would be inappropriate.

What about fashion nudes? wink



Just my $0.02 etc. etc.

Jan 31 14 07:18 pm Link

Photographer

eybdoog

Posts: 2647

New York, New York, US

OP: It depends on the circumstance in which they are asking. For example, if it is an established photographer, and you have done your homework to check references..etc. (and they also shoot nudes/fine art as their main style), generally fine art photographers do not cast folks for nudes that have little to no experience with nudes before. I am not saying that you have not as you mention that you have posed nude before, but you do not have any images in your portfolio that are nude technically. A simple way to solve this (and there are several other models that do this) is to set up a private gallery that is password protected here on MM, and if people ask to cast you for a nude shoot, send them the link to that gallery with the password. It does not have to be selfies exactly, but most serious artists that cast for fine art nudes will want to see that you actually have experience posing nude. This is not reflected in your current collection of images.

Also, if you are not ready to post your nudes in your portfolio, you may want to think about shoots like that before you continue. Even if a photographer does not credit you in your work, there are no guarantees that someone may not see an image of you in someone's portfolio and recognize you. The bottom line is that if you are not comfortable putting your name on it on the internet, then don't do it. Once it is out there, it is out there. just my .02 cents.  good luck in your journey!

Jan 31 14 07:21 pm Link

Photographer

Another Italian Guy

Posts: 3281

Bath, England, United Kingdom

Stephanie_Bee wrote:
I'm under the impression that a full time and working model, especially if it's someone who wants to/is becoming big/popular, would not want nude selfies out? Am I not trusting enough, or are others too much so?

Have you got something to hide? wink

I don't mean that as an accusation, but if you're willing to shoot nudes (I'm guessing for pay) then why would you have a problem with sending a photographer (who was proposing to pay you for exactly that) a nude selfie? What's the difference?

If there's some 'issue' that needs to be photoshopped out, then you should be telling the photographer about it before agreeing to take his money anyway. If there isn't an issue and you're willing to pose nude for somebody else and sign a model release saying they can do whatever they want with ALL the pictures taken at the session, then how can a nude 'selfie' be harmful?



Just my $0.02 etc. etc.

Jan 31 14 07:22 pm Link

Model

Miss_Bee

Posts: 149

Minneapolis, Minnesota, US

^Good idea on the password album.
Honestly I don't just do any nudes with any person, and I don't really think people should (sometimes conservatism comes out of me? it's weird). I accept communicated ideas, and most people come to me with none. I don't want to do nudes for the sake of there being sexy pictures of me, I want to make art with meaning and emotion behind it. To me, these people asking for these photos have shown (to me, maybe it was the way they spoke?) that that is not what they are interested in, and I have declined all offers as such.
The shoot I mentioned not being credited in I'm wearing a burka, so there are all sorts of themes in that leading to my not being sure whether I want my name on it at this time.

Jan 31 14 07:26 pm Link

Photographer

Garry k

Posts: 30130

Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada

T-D-L wrote:
I assume you're talking to photographers about setting up a nude shoot, based on the "Shoot Nudes = Yes" part of your profile.  I don't see an issue with someone wanting to see you nude before they book you for such a shoot.  For some people they might be a bit picky on how you look, and don't want to waste their time. 

Ex. I've booked a model for a nude concept that had saggy breasts...never knew because all the photos she had she was wearing a bra at minimum.  Some models have horrid scars from implants, birthmarks, stretch marks, nipples pointing in random directions, etc.  So no, I don't see an issue with someone asking for a nude photo before they shoot you (again, assuming they're booking you for a nude shoot), especially since you don't have any examples of nudes in your portfolio currently.  If you had I'd be more inclined to agree that sending examples would be unnecessary though.

I would agree with this

A few years back I did the first ( and only )  nude shoot with a young upcoming model who had a strong lingerie and bikini look

the problem ( for both of us ) was that once her clothes came off it was evident that she'd had a very poorly done breast augmentation ..

Jan 31 14 07:29 pm Link

Photographer

East West

Posts: 847

Los Angeles, California, US

for models uncomfortable sending nudes. I recommend sending topless with their head cropped out.

Jan 31 14 07:53 pm Link

Model

Koryn

Posts: 39496

Boston, Massachusetts, US

MDWM wrote:
for models uncomfortable sending nudes. I recommend sending topless with their head cropped out.

That's not going to fly. They want to know it's YOU.

Jan 31 14 07:54 pm Link

Photographer

East West

Posts: 847

Los Angeles, California, US

Koryn wrote:

That's not going to fly. They want to know it's YOU.

I send them samples of what I need and it includes a series of photos including bra, implied and topless. Same mirror, same background.

Jan 31 14 08:05 pm Link

Photographer

imcFOTO

Posts: 581

Bothell, Washington, US

I understand the dilemma and I think it really depends on the type of shoot you're being contracted for. If it's a paid shoot for full nude, then I could understand a photographer's reluctance if none of your shots show any nudity. Having said that, although you choose not to show nudes in your portfolio (which is not that uncommon) I see there are a couple of decent implied/semi-nudes on your credited link which pretty much show as much as I'd need to see.


Maybe if as you said, there are nude shots on other portfolios that aren't actually credited to you, you can just send the link to them if requested.

Personally, if I was planning a nude shoot with you, I can probably see enough already to know what I would be getting. I'd probably ask a few detailed questions to ensure we're on the same page and then just book you.

I agree it is difficult for models who are willing to shoot nude but don't want the direct association to their name. Maybe if you could get some quality implied nude (but effectively full nude with minimal cover-up) you could satisfy photographers. Another idea is to have a few nudes in a separate album but password protect it and just give the password out when you need to (and just change it periodically).

Jan 31 14 11:55 pm Link

Photographer

J O H N A L L A N

Posts: 12221

Los Angeles, California, US

Stephanie_Bee wrote:
^Good idea on the password album.
Honestly I don't just do any nudes with any person, and I don't really think people should (sometimes conservatism comes out of me? it's weird). I accept communicated ideas, and most people come to me with none. I don't want to do nudes for the sake of there being sexy pictures of me, I want to make art with meaning and emotion behind it. To me, these people asking for these photos have shown (to me, maybe it was the way they spoke?) that that is not what they are interested in, and I have declined all offers as such.
The shoot I mentioned not being credited in I'm wearing a burka, so there are all sorts of themes in that leading to my not being sure whether I want my name on it at this time.

I support the idea of being choosy with whom you shoot nudes with, just as I support being choosy with shooting anything with. But, I also think it's completely reasonable for someone considering paying you to shoot nude, to see your nude body in advance of making the decision.

Feb 01 14 12:05 am Link

Photographer

Srefis

Posts: 960

Asheville, North Carolina, US

Just to let you know I'm skipping all the other comments in this post thus far.

So.. You are marked as you do nudes.. But you don't have a single nude in your portfolio here on MM.. I would ask for a nude photo before I pay you to shoot you for nudes.

Feb 01 14 12:21 am Link

Photographer

DAVISICON

Posts: 644

San Antonio, Texas, US

Koryn wrote:
Yes, it's normal.

If you decide to become full-time, at some point, people are going to ask for unedited, cell phone type shots, pretty regularly.

Srefis Limited wrote:
So.. You are marked as you do nudes.. But you don't have a single nude in your portfolio here on MM.. I would ask for a nude photo before I pay you to shoot you for nudes.

why would you expect someone to hire you for a nude shoot without knowing what you actually look like?

always before a shoot i ask for unedited cameraphone shots of the models "current" look and yes if it is a nude shoot, then i ask for nude shots. Most models have no problem with this, I dont judge a look from a portfolio because there may not be any current photos and also there is the possibility of heavy photoshop. If its clothed or swimwear shoot, then i ask for underwear or clothed shots, if its nude and the model is uncomfortable with sending recent nudes then , that may indicate a problem with their comfort level and or could create problems with the shoot? Yes it does help seeing the model nude before a nude shoot for planning and it cuts time on 50 questions of piercings?, tatts?, body type?, body hair?, etc.....If knowing the nude look is essential beforehand for the shoot and the model refuses to send shots, then I cancel the model and move on to the next model.

Feb 01 14 12:37 am Link

Model

Miss_Bee

Posts: 149

Minneapolis, Minnesota, US

This is not a question of whether or not you would hire me, this is a question to models about whether they have this happen.

Feb 01 14 01:18 am Link

Model

Ida Saint-Luc

Posts: 449

San Francisco, California, US

To me, just having nudes in your portfolio (even if they're in a locked album) is significantly less creepy than sending selfies to strangers.

I actually haven't had a photographer ask me for a selfie before. Hmm. But I guess it's common enough.

Feb 01 14 01:24 am Link

Photographer

Darren Brade

Posts: 3351

London, England, United Kingdom

J

AJScalzitti wrote:
I would worry that you have never actually done any before and would be a mess on set if you even showed.  Certainly I would not cast you if I shot nudes, I probably would not even msg you for one or consider your interest in a casting.

Stephanie_Bee wrote:
Nice critique?
Edit: By the way, I have shot nudes before, I have just asked not to be credited because of social commentary that I'm glad I did, but I'm not sure I'd like to be permanently associated with yet.

How is that a critic? You state in your profile you do nude but only have a few implied shoots on your credits. the fact you don't have your nudes credited is no where in your profile. Photographer are pretty shitty mind readers.

if it had been a nude shoot then i could understand why, in the lack of proof, they'd want to see nude pics since there is a risk the model might change their mind. For bikini, all they should need is an unretouched bikini shot.

Feb 01 14 03:13 am Link

Photographer

Et eris in perpetuum

Posts: 62

Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada

I can't make a definitive statement about the photographers you have been dealing with, but if they were looking to hire you for a nude shoot then it is not an unreasonable request, as you have no nudes in your portfolio.  Your portfolio does not show what you look like nude, your level of comfort or your limitations or inhibitions, all of which are important for the photographer to know.

I would not ask for a selfie, though.  It would feel weird.  I prefer to state what I want in a casting call and see who replies and then make a decision based upon their portfolio.

Feb 01 14 03:36 am Link