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Photographer

sospix

Posts: 23775

Orlando, Florida, US

I have two grown daughters  .  .  .  both of whom have posed nude (one also worked as a dancer for a VERY short period) in their earlier days  .  .  .  neither sought, nor felt they needed, my "permission", or blessing to do so  .  .  .  so, I guess in my case, it's a mute point  .  .  .  as a side note, both are well respected, successful professionals  .  .  .  THANK GAWD they didn't take after their father  .  .  .  wink

SOS

Jul 16 14 06:39 am Link

Photographer

The Grand Artist

Posts: 468

Fort Worth, Texas, US

I am only commenting to say that this thread may be one of the best examples of a lot of people posting on the internet completely lying through their teeth.

You guys completely crack me up sometimes.

Jul 16 14 02:14 pm Link

Photographer

Beautiful Boudoir

Posts: 119

Quincy, Massachusetts, US

I have a daughter who is about to turn 19 and she is very beautiful and would be a terrific model (she did some runway stuff in the past and didn't enjoy it).  If she said she was posing nude I would let her know she is an adult and gets to deal with the consequences of her actions..good or bad.

That said the reason I am posting is I find it funny that so many of the fathers say they would want their daughters to be "safe".  But if a model says she wants to bring an escort to be "safe" everyone freaks out.  Okay not everyone but a lot of folks.

Jul 16 14 03:43 pm Link

Photographer

The Grand Artist

Posts: 468

Fort Worth, Texas, US

Beautiful Boudoir wrote:
That said the reason I am posting is I find it funny that so many of the fathers say they would want their daughters to be "safe".  But if a model says she wants to bring an escort to be "safe" everyone freaks out.  Okay not everyone but a lot of folks.

Which is why I made the comment I made

Jul 16 14 03:48 pm Link

Photographer

Outoffocus

Posts: 631

Worcester, England, United Kingdom

No daughters, but several nieces. No, I would not want them posing nude for a bunch of amateur photographers. I'm ok, and there's a bloke in Ipswich who is also ok, but the rest of you are scum.

Jul 16 14 03:57 pm Link

Photographer

r T p

Posts: 3511

Los Angeles, California, US

The Grand Artist wrote:
I am only commenting to say that this thread may be one of the best examples of a lot of people posting on the internet completely lying through their teeth.

You guys completely crack me up sometimes.


ho
w 'bout people without teeth

... what are they lying through?

Jul 16 14 04:21 pm Link

Photographer

Toto Photo

Posts: 3757

Belmont, California, US

Beautiful Boudoir wrote:
That said the reason I am posting is I find it funny that so many of the fathers say they would want their daughters to be "safe".  But if a model says she wants to bring an escort to be "safe" everyone freaks out.  Okay not everyone but a lot of folks.

I was wondering if anybody else would pickup on that. Of course if you called them a hypocrite they'd have a long drawn out explanation why that wasn't so.

Jul 18 14 02:47 pm Link

Photographer

Steve Anderson

Posts: 547

Los Angeles, California, US

its her life. I'd support her if she chooses to to be nude in photos, on stage or in the movies. I would not be interested in photographing her at all and little desire to see the work unless she asked.
life is already full of unwarranted judgement.
my .02
Steve
www.SteveAndersonPhotography.com

Jul 20 14 02:18 pm Link

Photographer

David Stone Imaging

Posts: 1032

Seattle, Washington, US

Beautiful Boudoir wrote:
That said the reason I am posting is I find it funny that so many of the fathers say they would want their daughters to be "safe".  But if a model says she wants to bring an escort to be "safe" everyone freaks out.  Okay not everyone but a lot of folks.

Toto Photo wrote:
I was wondering if anybody else would pickup on that. Of course if you called them a hypocrite they'd have a long drawn out explanation why that wasn't so.

"Safe" does not equal "Escort."  This is an illogical jump in logic.

Escorts do not guarantee safety.  Safe means due dilligence and checking references.

Jul 20 14 02:38 pm Link

Photographer

Matty272

Posts: 229

Dunfermline, Scotland, United Kingdom

The thought of any of my kids not being able to make their own decisions as they get older scares the crap out of me.

If one of those decisions is to pose, nude or clothed, I'll be happy with it because it's *THEIR* decision.

Jul 20 14 02:58 pm Link

Model

Jen B

Posts: 4474

Phoenix, Arizona, US

Kelly Kooper wrote:
I've been shooting nudes with a particular photographer for years now and asked him recently if he'd be ok with his daughter posing nude one day, if she chose to.

His answer was a very adamant no.

As an artist, I was surprised by this and when I asked him why, he shrugged off the question.

So my question to photographers that shoot nudes is the same - would you be ok with your daughter posing nude one day, if she wanted to? Why/Why not?

Hi,
I'm posting from my model profile but, yeah, I'd be okay with my hypothetical daughter posing nude.
Jen

Jul 20 14 03:05 pm Link

Model

Jen B

Posts: 4474

Phoenix, Arizona, US

BTHPhoto wrote:

I don't doubt that.  I just think it describes the morals of a very slimy human being.

I always liked your to the point way of saying things. wink

Jul 20 14 03:07 pm Link

Photographer

S A L B

Posts: 604

Melbourne, Victoria, Australia

Kelly Kooper wrote:
As an artist, I was surprised by this and when I asked him why, he shrugged off the question.

So my question to photographers that shoot nudes is the same - would you be ok with your daughter posing nude one day, if she wanted to? Why/Why not?

As an artist I'm surprised by this too.

I wouldn't have a problem with it at all. Although that said, Id probably prefer art nude modelling than anything too overtly sexualised, but she'd be over 18 and, hopefully, willing to talk about her decision with me before hand, given that I've got experience in the industry. I'd just tell her to be safe and smart and to trust her gut, and to have fun and enjoy working with the people she collaborates with along the way.

Jul 22 14 08:18 am Link

Photographer

craigWphoto

Posts: 82

Columbia, South Carolina, US

I don't have a daughter, but I have a 16 year old niece that I'm very close to and protective of.

I would be absolutely fine with her modeling nude, as I don't think that nudity is anything to be ashamed of or slutty, or anything along those lines. But I would want to make sure that she was working with the right people - in other words, people that wouldn't try to take advantage of her, or push her into doing something she didn't want to do, etc.

The vast majority of photographers who shoot nude work are extremely professional and err on the side of too much caution because of the nature of it. But of course there are some creepers out there who see it as a sex thing, a way to get a girl naked and make a move on her or something. Or other scams. I think that it is very easy to vet photographers and to know what you're getting into. But I would also want her to bring someone with her to ANY photo shoot, for safety purposes.

I've shot models one on one many times, including nudes, and nothing has gone wrong. But it's really in everyone's best interest to have someone there just in case any kind of issues arise.

Aug 02 14 02:56 pm Link

Photographer

PhotoLoveXO

Posts: 95

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US

To quote someone from earlier in this thread.

"No daughters, but several nieces. No, I would not want them posing nude for a bunch of amateur photographers."

A few points I would like to add. 

Most "art nudes", seem creepy to me.  The typical black and white "art nudes" you see all over on model mayhem.  I think its the situation.  The idea of a 50 year old (I'm 23) amateur photographer shooting "art nudes" of younger girls seems weird.  Its hard for me to see the art in that.  Do whatever you want it's just a feeling I get when I see most "art nudes" in someones portfolio.   

If a daughter of mine wanted to shoot with someone like Kesler Tran which some people would find way worse then "art nudes"  I might be fine with it.  I am not a dad though so I have no clue about the whole "my daughter will never do that , she cant even have a boyfriend until shes 30"  father thing.

A lot of it has to do with the skill level of the photographer I guess.

Then again I have no idea what its like to be a Dad.

I'd think the photographer you shot with may have known some of his motives to shoot nudes and wasn't comfortable with them or comfortable with a guy with those motives shooting his daughter.

Aug 02 14 03:22 pm Link

Photographer

Art Silva

Posts: 10064

Santa Barbara, California, US

That above is exactly the closed minded, unhealthy attitude that has frustrated artist for centuries.
To assume all older men in he industry are out to simply be creepy and have nothing but perverted motives when they shoot black and white photos of young nude women is not only opinionated and super conservative but also shows a lack of artistic knowledge and history.

Yes there are some here who shoot the cookie cutter naked pose just for reasons of capturing and looking at naked girls but there are also those who shoot for composition and emotional reasons where nudity is just one element of the photo... Many who are female themselves, are they perverts too?
To photograph a nude figure in the context of light and shapes and composing them in a manner that is not only beautiful but also meaningful as well as challenging and one of the hardest things to do right... This is the goal of many and to disrespect those intentions only shows ignorance.

Suggestion: visit a few museums and fine art galleries before tagging all people who work with nudes as "creepy".
Oh and open your mind a little.

Aug 02 14 03:47 pm Link

Photographer

Cherrystone

Posts: 37171

Columbus, Ohio, US

TheRobertHanley wrote:
A few points I would like to add. 

Most "art nudes", seem creepy to me.  The typical black and white "art nudes" you see all over on model mayhem.  I think its the situation.  The idea of a 50 year old (I'm 23) amateur photographer shooting "art nudes" of younger girls seems weird.  Its hard for me to see the art in that.  Do whatever you want it's just a feeling I get when I see most "art nudes" in someones portfolio.   

If a daughter of mine wanted to shoot with someone like Kesler Tran which some people would find way worse then "art nudes"  I might be fine with it.  I am not a dad though so I have no clue about the whole "my daughter will never do that , she cant even have a boyfriend until shes 30"  father thing.

A lot of it has to do with the skill level of the photographer I guess.

Then again I have no idea what its like to be a Dad.

I'd think the photographer you shot with may have known some of his motives to shoot nudes and wasn't comfortable with them or comfortable with a guy with those motives shooting his daughter.

This kinda boggles my mind. facepalm

I could say a lot, I won't but I suspect sour grapes or green apples are involved.

Aug 02 14 04:04 pm Link

Photographer

Marin Photo NYC

Posts: 7348

New York, New York, US

TheRobertHanley wrote:
To quote someone from earlier in this thread.

"No daughters, but several nieces. No, I would not want them posing nude for a bunch of amateur photographers."

A few points I would like to add. 

Most "art nudes", seem creepy to me.  The typical black and white "art nudes" you see all over on model mayhem.  I think its the situation.  The idea of a 50 year old (I'm 23) amateur photographer shooting "art nudes" of younger girls seems weird.  Its hard for me to see the art in that.  Do whatever you want it's just a feeling I get when I see most "art nudes" in someones portfolio.   

If a daughter of mine wanted to shoot with someone like Kesler Tran which some people would find way worse then "art nudes"  I might be fine with it.  I am not a dad though so I have no clue about the whole "my daughter will never do that , she cant even have a boyfriend until shes 30"  father thing.

A lot of it has to do with the skill level of the photographer I guess.

Then again I have no idea what its like to be a Dad.

I'd think the photographer you shot with may have known some of his motives to shoot nudes and wasn't comfortable with them or comfortable with a guy with those motives shooting his daughter.

What does someone's age have to do with anything? Oh wait you are 23...nevermind.  Wisdom comes with age and experience.

Aug 02 14 04:34 pm Link

Photographer

wynnesome

Posts: 5453

Long Beach, California, US

I don't model much anymore, but have a good amount of experience as a figure nude model as well as being a photographer.

I do not have kids and don't expect to, but would encourage ANYONE who wants to model nude to do so, starting out by working with reputable photographers by referral from friends. I've had friends who had an interest, and encouraged them to pursue it, and closest I can get to the exact original question, is I would also support my sister, or even my mom, in the same way, if they had that interest.

Aug 02 14 04:47 pm Link

Photographer

PhotoLoveXO

Posts: 95

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US

Thanks for the personal attack Marin. I thought that wasn't allowed here. Age has nothing to to with it other than what I said.  It's just a feeling.

Art Silva.  I wouldn't count your shots in that category of "art nudes" that I see so often on MM.  I think its more being subjective then closed minded.  I tried to make it clear that it has a lot to do with the skill of the photographer.  I know everyone has to start somewhere.  This forum post is about having your daughter shoot nudes.  I think that if I had a daughter I would want her to shoot with someone I find talented. 

Creepy can make good images.  I am not as "closed minded" as you may think.  I don't really have anything against creepy dudes or "gwc's" but for my daughter I would rather not.

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that above is exactly the closed minded, unhealthy attitude that has frustrated artist for centuries.  ( It has never frustrated me.  You have to allow yourself to become frustrated. )

To assume all older men in he industry are out to simply be creepy and have nothing but perverted motives when they shoot black and white photos of young nude women is not only opinionated and super conservative but also shows a lack of artistic knowledge and history.  ( I never said all older men.)

Yes there are some here who shoot the cookie cutter naked pose just for reasons of capturing and looking at naked girls but there are also those who shoot for composition and emotional reasons where nudity is just one element of the photo... Many who are female themselves, are they perverts too?  (  I don't see anything wrong with being a pervert )

To photograph a nude figure in the context of light and shapes and composing them in a manner that is not only beautiful but also meaningful as well as challenging and one of the hardest things to do right... This is the goal of many and to disrespect those intentions only shows ignorance. ( I am sorry if this was your goal and you allowed yourself to feel disrespected.  I never saw your photos when I posted that so I don't know why you would assume I was talking about you.  If you did that is. )

Suggestion: visit a few museums and fine art galleries before tagging all people who work with nudes as "creepy".
Oh and open your mind a little.   ( I never tagged all people who work with nudes as creepy. I actually praised one )

You may be projecting.

Aug 02 14 05:30 pm Link

Photographer

Mark C Smith

Posts: 1073

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

I'd like to say if my daughter made the decision to pose nude, I'd support her as long as she was careful and chose the photographers she worked with responsibly. I'd like to think I've raised her to make smart decisions for herself and given her every opportunity to live her life the way she chooses...

...that said, if I ever actually have a daughter, it's just as likely I'll be grabbing a shotgun and chasing away any nude photographer my daughter so much as mentions.

Aug 02 14 05:54 pm Link

Photographer

Cherrystone

Posts: 37171

Columbus, Ohio, US

TheRobertHanley wrote:
Thanks for the personal attack Marin. I thought that wasn't allowed here. Age has nothing to to with it other than what I said.  It's just a feeling.

Art Silva.  I wouldn't count your shots in that category of "art nudes" that I see so often on MM.  I think its more being subjective then closed minded.  I tried to make it clear that it has a lot to do with the skill of the photographer.  I know everyone has to start somewhere.  This forum post is about having your daughter shoot nudes.  I think that if I had a daughter I would want her to shoot with someone I find talented. 

Creepy can make good images.  I am not as "closed minded" as you may think.  I don't really have anything against creepy dudes or "gwc's" but for my daughter I would rather not.

Gee, I feel left out.

Just because you might not like something, doesn't make it a personal attack.
Seems like an observation to me.....probably with a ring of truth.

Aug 02 14 07:05 pm Link

Photographer

DwLPhoto

Posts: 808

Palo Alto, California, US

humans are weird.    I didn't have a problem when my gf put up pictures kissing 3 of her female friends on facebook.

but like 6 mo later, I put up pictures of me and a male friend making out and my gf flipped out and removed all the tags of her I had on my fb.

Aug 03 14 03:49 am Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

Kelly Kooper wrote:
I've been shooting nudes with a particular photographer for years now and asked him recently if he'd be ok with his daughter posing nude one day, if she chose to.

His answer was a very adamant no.

As an artist, I was surprised by this and when I asked him why, he shrugged off the question.

So my question to photographers that shoot nudes is the same - would you be ok with your daughter posing nude one day, if she wanted to? Why/Why not?

If she thought it through, I'd respect her choice, and try to give some suggestions.  But, with the particular career goals she has, and her own lack of interest in any sort of modeling, it's not likely.

Aug 03 14 08:29 am Link

Photographer

Swank Photography

Posts: 19020

Key West, Florida, US

Kelly Kooper wrote:
I've been shooting nudes with a particular photographer for years now and asked him recently if he'd be ok with his daughter posing nude one day, if she chose to.

His answer was a very adamant no.

As an artist, I was surprised by this and when I asked him why, he shrugged off the question.

So my question to photographers that shoot nudes is the same - would you be ok with your daughter posing nude one day, if she wanted to? Why/Why not?

As long as she was legal age and wanted to pose nude then I wouldn't have an issue with it.

However, let the photographer get out of line and watch this momma bear go on the attack (also my husband is fine on this topic as well)

Aug 03 14 08:40 am Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

Magda Kulpinska wrote:
He probably has some dirty thoughts every now and so often and hates the idea of someone else doing exaclty that, lol!

You don't have to photograph, or even see, a woman nude to have "dirty thoughts."  You don't even have to be male.

Aug 03 14 09:09 am Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

TheRobertHanley wrote:
Most "art nudes", seem creepy to me.  The typical black and white "art nudes" you see all over on model mayhem.  I think its the situation.  The idea of a 50 year old (I'm 23) amateur photographer shooting "art nudes" of younger girls seems weird.  Its hard for me to see the art in that.  Do whatever you want it's just a feeling I get when I see most "art nudes" in someones portfolio.

What possible difference does the age of the photographer make?

My work is, or is not, artistic; based on the images.  If I was 18, 40, 60, or 95, it's not relevant.

Aug 03 14 09:15 am Link

Photographer

Art Silva

Posts: 10064

Santa Barbara, California, US

Art of the nude wrote:

What possible difference does the age of the photographer make?

My work is, or is not, artistic; based on the images.  If I was 18, 40, 60, or 95, it's not relevant.

Exactly! I was shooting nudes when I was 18 long After I saw and painted my first nude.
Now that Ive reached 50, my view and nude work hasn't changed much except now I'm Creepy?!
Cool, haha.

If I live to be 95, I sure hope I am still shooting young nudes as art, THAT to me is very impressive and I hope to be that artist wink

Aug 03 14 09:35 am Link

Photographer

E stars

Posts: 10

Calgary, Alberta, Canada

It would ultimately be her decision. I photograph nudes but I make it a point to keep it very tasteful and not cross the proverbial line of indecent. Modelling nude is not pornography and that is exactly how I approach my nude shoots. I would be ok with my daughter doing the type of stuff that I shoot from time to time, as long as it was a safe environment with a reputable photographer.

Aug 03 14 10:00 am Link

Photographer

BarryH

Posts: 864

Taipei City, Taipei City, Taiwan

I have young sons, not a daughter, but anyone who knows the fashion industry knows that teenage males have also been the target of creeps.

My older son models because he likes it--no pressure from me. But if if wants to continue into his teen years, and if he continues to get interest from major brands, you can be sure that I'll be chaperoning him through it all and offering him all the advice I can.

After he's an adult, the choices are entirely up to him; I just hope the education I've given him will help him make smart decisions.

Aug 03 14 11:23 am Link

Photographer

190608

Posts: 2383

Los Angeles, California, US

This topic is fascination and I'd like to participate. I'm 33 and for the past four years, I'm proactive in my male nudity project.

If I had adult sons of legal age, I would be OK with him modeling nude; HOWEVER, I would be selective of the photographer who he models nude for! I would even help procure a photographer using my name and reputation and work a discount out (if the photographer has his fees). If the photographer has a friend that needs a modeling portfolio, I could waive my fees, etc.

There is nothing wrong with nudes, I've learned and challenged myself four years ago to appreciate the artistic and classy-sexy of the well-executed male nudes.

There is nothing wrong with elderly men taking "ART NUDES," provided they are EXCEPTIONAL(!!!)

Aug 03 14 12:26 pm Link

Photographer

190608

Posts: 2383

Los Angeles, California, US

Wonderful thoughts, Barry. In reality, our actions (as adults) has consequences and it would be a learning of life's lessons.

BarryH wrote:
I have young sons, not a daughter, but anyone who knows the fashion industry knows that teenage males have also been the target of creeps.

My older son models because he likes it--no pressure from me. But if if wants to continue into his teen years, and if he continues to get interest from major brands, you can be sure that I'll be chaperoning him through it all and offering him all the advice I can.

After he's an adult, the choices are entirely up to him; I just hope the education I've given him will help him make smart decisions.

Aug 03 14 12:28 pm Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

RONALD NZ TAN wrote:
There is nothing wrong with elderly men taking "ART NUDES," provided they are EXCEPTIONAL(!!!)

Two questions;

1. How often does someone start out "exceptional"??

2.  Who gets to decide whether someone's work is "exceptional"?

My work has been called (at least) anything from "amazing art" to "sub par."  If I'm not mistaken, by the same person.

Aug 03 14 05:21 pm Link

Photographer

Optical Prime

Posts: 91

Arlington, Virginia, US

I don't have a daughter, I have colleagues with daughters, more specifically teenage daughters. One in particular is very talented and well respected in our niche field of photographers, as was his father, and he's encouraging his daughters not to be PROFESSIONAL photographers, let alone modeling. Actually, now that I think of it, I know two that are both going forward with that policy.

Aug 04 14 07:16 am Link