The Silencing Machine wrote:
I wonder if I can bring a guy home just for this purpose of just cuddling  Not a one night stand, I want a one night spoon.  Think anybody would go for it?

guys don't have always the control of all their ... blood.
ask a girl

Photon Mechanic wrote:
what if while he's spooning nice and tight next to you he gets a huge stiffy, and it starts that throbbing thing them stiffy's are prone to... how would you like to have that pushing itself against the back of your thighs for a while... would that bother you?

just sayin... I feel kinda sorry for the guy... I mean...

those things have a mind of their own sometimes... I can behave.. I CAN behave... but whether or not there is a throbber .. well.. that's another matter. especially if I'm all bundled up and snuggly with mah haut woman... 

*btw - I'm only relating what tends to happen when I'm with MY hawt woman.... cause.. you know.. we have kemistry...

Maybe I can just ply him with enough booze so he passes out and then I can just casually drape his arm around me.  Of course, then I would have to deal with him breathing drunk breath on the back of my neck.  I am pretty sure I can work through that though.

The Silencing Machine wrote:
I wonder if I can bring a guy home just for this purpose of just cuddling  Not a one night stand, I want a one night spoon.  Think anybody would go for it?

you say spoon, does that involve penetration?

The Silencing Machine wrote:
*sigh* I'd probably let them to.

But I probably wouldnt want to cuddle with them after that.  I probably would want them outta my house.

if you promise to behave, I would

pretty pleads wrote:
theyd go for it
then theyd try to fuck you

How old are you exactly little ms silencing???? 

Get a guy drunk, he's happy to cuddle and fall asleep - then he wakes up and the little head is making the decisions...and a morning stiffie is a very determined stiffie...

JayBC wrote:

How old are you exactly little ms silencing???? 

Get a guy drunk, he's happy to cuddle and fall asleep - then he wakes up and the little head is making the decisions...and a morning stiffie is a very determined stiffie...

I am a spry 23 year old.

The Silencing Machine wrote:

I am a spry 23 year old.

And you are unaware of the night / morning dichotomy?

sofija wrote:
I love spooning.

I'm big spoon though, I like pushing up against my man and burying my head into his back. (keeps me super warm too)

WAY WRONG!!!  Proper spooning is the guy behind the woman....

jon mmmayhem wrote:
it's definitely possible, you just gotta make it clear ahead of time and not take any shenanigans if he decides to disregard your line once he's there.
but "just cuddling" CAN happen, and i am living proof.

Spooning can lead to forking.

Spade wrote:

Spooning can lead to forking.

it CAN. but it also can lead to falling asleep with someone nice and close (and clothed)

jon mmmayhem wrote:
it's definitely possible, you just gotta make it clear ahead of time and not take any shenanigans if he decides to disregard your line once he's there.
but "just cuddling" CAN happen, and i am living proof.

Can we cuddle?

Oh my god, can we cuddle?

JayBC wrote:

WAY WRONG!!!  Proper spooning is the guy behind the woman....

you are missing out on the full complexity of the spoon, the only way it can be done wrong is if it's another guy doing it.

The Silencing Machine wrote:
I need snuggles.

I'll snuggle you, and make chocolate chip pancakes in the morning with a whipped cream smiley face.

Spade wrote:

I'll snuggle you, and make chocolate chip pancakes in the morning with a whipped cream smiley face.

I love you so much.  I wanna pet you.

jon mmmayhem wrote:

it CAN. but it also can lead to falling asleep with someone nice and close (and clothed)

Again - the falling asleep is not the issue....it's the 4 AM sh&t that is going to cause her problems....and let's not even discuss the whole what does he order at IHOP the next morning issue

JayBC wrote:

WAY WRONG!!!  Proper spooning is the guy behind the woman....

Nope, we both prefer it this way.

The Silencing Machine wrote:

I love you so much.  I wanna pet you.

*curls up next to TSM*

I have 3 seasons of The Golden Girls on DVD

Damon Banner wrote:

you are missing out on the full complexity of the spoon, the only way it can be done wrong is if it's another guy doing it.

Thank you Damon!

Shandra wrote:

Can we cuddle?

Oh my god, can we cuddle?

did i not include that on the list of Things To Do In Philadelphia? i should have.

JayBC wrote:

Again - the falling asleep is not the issue....it's the 4 AM sh&t that is going to cause her problems....and let's not even discuss the whole what does he order at IHOP the next morning issue

do all of your nights spent with someone else end up with regret? because mine don't. maybe i'm the weird one.

Spade wrote:

*curls up next to TSM*

I have 3 seasons of The Golden Girls on DVD

Let me grab a blanket, pillow, and my pengine slippers and I will be right over!

Nothing better than Bea Arthur and Spade on a friday night.

jon mmmayhem wrote:

do all of your nights spent with someone else end up with regret? because mine don't. maybe i'm the weird one.

Nope - no regrets - you must have completely misunderstood my posts

Kayelless wrote:
yep. I do believe I'm in for another cuddle free night of sleep.
wow. gee, I can't wait to get to bed.

I'm with ya.  Well, if I really was that would solve both our problems.

Kayelless wrote:
yep. I do believe I'm in for another cuddle free night of sleep.
wow. gee, I can't wait to get to bed.

My strategy - get a lot of pillows

The Silencing Machine wrote:

Let me grab a blanket, pillow, and my pengine slippers and I will be right over!

Nothing better than Bea Arthur and Spade on a friday night.

Have you seen her nude paintings?!

Spade wrote:

Have you seen her nude paintings?!

She paints?  No.  I became a fan after reading a smartass interview she gave in Maxium or one of those magazines.  Time to google.

jon mmmayhem wrote:

did i not include that on the list of Things To Do In Philadelphia? i should have.

No.

Yes, you should have.

Cuddling it is.

Woo!