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Photographer

Keys88 Photo

Posts: 17646

New York, New York, US

I like these threads.

They're kinda like the "Do you hug your photographer at the end of a shoot?" threads.  I love when people are completely devoid of common sense.   I'm not suggesting that the OP necessarily lacks common sense but ANYONE who feels it's WHOLLY inappropriate to touch a model, EVER, is lacking in the common sense department.

I rarely have need to touch my models.  When I do, I don't generally tell them or ask for permission. I generally DO it.  Asking for "permission" just seems awkward - as if what I'm doing is so unusual that it requires EXTRA permission.

The ONLY exception to that rule is if I'm shooting erotica and --even then-- it depends on the nature of the touching.  I'm not asking permission to pull some hair off a model's face, if I'm shooting close-up and there is no one else on set to do it.  Period.

Aug 20 11 10:28 am Link

Photographer

Lumigraphics

Posts: 32780

Detroit, Michigan, US

InnaDaVida wrote:
I will let a MUA, stylist, wardrobe designer touch me during a shoot but never the photographer.

What is your policy on touching?

Lighten up a bit.

Aug 20 11 10:29 am Link

Model

Baeli

Posts: 1016

Truro, England, United Kingdom

DanK Photography wrote:

Why? Is there a photographer disease going around? Sometimes it is just easier for the photographer to move your hand to the correct spot or move some hair you can't see out of your face.

Agreed. No point getting precious about it, you're there to take a photo - the perfect version of it, not the version with hair in your face, your top slightly askew or your pose at the wrong angle.

Aug 20 11 10:30 am Link

Photographer

FALT Photographics

Posts: 388

Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

Stefano Brunesci wrote:

What if there's nobody else on set and something needs adjusting that you can't do yourself? If the photographer politely asks if he/she can do it will you still refuse?

Part of the business of being a model is getting used to being pushed, prodded, tweaked and adjusted like a mannequin in a window by pretty much all and sundry. If you have an objection to being touched or in some way feel that a photographer who needs to adjust something is automatically a pervert or creep then perhaps you should reconsider whether you're really cut out to be a model?



Just my $0.02

Ciao
Stefano

www.stefanobrunesci.com

I always love your responses, Stefano. When I see posts like this I get a bit irked, and thought something very similar to what you have said...only reading you say it has really washed the...erm..."irkiness"? away.

Aug 20 11 10:32 am Link

Photographer

J Welborn

Posts: 2552

Clarksville, Tennessee, US

Sweet Surrender wrote:
Depends...if I'm nude, regardless I have my assistant with me and he or she will usually assist the photographer with that sort of thing, unless I know the photographer outside of shooting.  If it's still necessary (which in one case involving the placement of certain liquids/paints, it was), as long as the photographer asks before touching I'm fine as long as they have maintained a professional attitude the entire time.  For non nude shoots, again, as long as they maintain a professional attitude the whole time and ask my permission (say, position a prop, wig, wardrobe, foot, hand, whatever) I'm fine with it.

The models assistant is the last person I want to have making adjustments . If they come with the model they have to either be  outside the shoot room or out of the way completely

Aug 20 11 10:34 am Link

Photographer

Memory of a Dream Photo

Posts: 1786

San Francisco, California, US

InnaDaVida wrote:
I will let a MUA, stylist, wardrobe designer touch me during a shoot but never the photographer.

What is your policy on touching?

I do my best to _never_ work with anyone who has such "policies". When we're shooting, we're there to get the shot, pure and simple. If I believe that the most expedient way to that end is to adjust the model, I will. I always have and this has _never_ been an issue for as long as I've been shooting. I expect it never will be.

I generally ask first, I make sure we're all comfortable, and so on, but, ultimately, we must all be on the same team and have a common goal. It's incredible to me that things like this even get brought up in the first place.

If someone brought up such a "policy" mid-shoot, I'd likely end it then and there. We all know the difference between "good touch" and "bad touch" since we were kids and this sort of paranoia has no place on my set.

Aug 20 11 10:37 am Link

Photographer

Roy Whiddon

Posts: 1666

Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

liindsay ann wrote:
Doesn't matter, as long as it's professional and necessary..

This.

There is a big difference between professional touching that is relevant to the shoot (e.g. adjusting hair after the model is in a pose) and groping. I rarely need to touch a model and I always ask permission first (especially since I shoot mostly nudes). But the basic rule is respect for the model's personal space rather than a "never touch" rule.

Aug 20 11 10:41 am Link

Photographer

Jay Farrell

Posts: 13408

Nashville, Tennessee, US

Sweet Surrender wrote:
Depends...if I'm nude, regardless I have my assistant with me and he or she will usually assist the photographer with that sort of thing, unless I know the photographer outside of shooting.  If it's still necessary (which in one case involving the placement of certain liquids/paints, it was), as long as the photographer asks before touching I'm fine as long as they have maintained a professional attitude the entire time.  For non nude shoots, again, as long as they maintain a professional attitude the whole time and ask my permission (say, position a prop, wig, wardrobe, foot, hand, whatever) I'm fine with it.

Works both ways...your "assistant" doesn't always know the shoot and really doesn't belong there....if done professionally, asking first if the model cannot do on their own, is ok. Not everyone WANTS you that way.

Aug 20 11 10:44 am Link

Photographer

Jay Farrell

Posts: 13408

Nashville, Tennessee, US

J  Welborn wrote:

The models assistant is the last person I want to have making adjustments . If they come with the model they have to either be  outside the shoot room or out of the way completely

Yep! smile

Aug 20 11 10:45 am Link

Photographer

Digital Hands

Posts: 928

Milton, Ontario, Canada

I almost always touch models including her breasts, her butt and almost anywhere because I'm painting her. The model KNEW I wasn't fondling her body, I was doing my job as a body painter. My mind focused on painting, not her body.

However, when I'm done with the painting and I become a photographer, I rarely touch the model during the shoot. Strange, huh?

Aug 20 11 10:48 am Link

Model

Jennifer R K

Posts: 729

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

On my most recent shoot, I was in pointe shoes for the first time and the photographer was looking for really specific, authentic ballet positions. So he brought a professional choreographer who would position my feet because I didn't have the strength or training to get into those positions on my own, but the rest of the posing was communicated through dialogue.

Usually explaining works best and touching is unnecessary. I think it's usually kind of insulting and unnecessary to physically pose a model, and what other reason would the photographer have to touch her if not to pose her? Adjusting clothes or hair, if the model can't see where it needs to be fixed, is acceptable if there is no stylist present, but *usually* the photographer can just say, "Pull your left sleeve up", or "Brush the hair out of your left eye" and the model will be able to do it on her own. The few times I've had a photographer try to touch me, it has been unnecessary and therefore uncomfortable. It's not good for the photographer to try to put lotion on the model without asking if she needed help -- that's one example of inappropriate touching. It usually doesn't happen.

Aug 20 11 11:14 am Link

Model

Sweet Surrender

Posts: 576

Nashville, Tennessee, US

J  Welborn wrote:

The models assistant is the last person I want to have making adjustments . If they come with the model they have to either be  outside the shoot room or out of the way completely

My assistant=my make up person, wardrobe stylist/assistant, whatever.  They are present on set for the photographer and for myself....not a simple escort mind you!  But rather somebody who is there to "assist" with anything that either the photographer or model may need during the shoot.

Aug 20 11 11:17 am Link

Photographer

coffee_high

Posts: 227

Chicago, Illinois, US

be touched if necessary ... not fondled..

Aug 20 11 11:19 am Link

Photographer

WIP

Posts: 15973

Cheltenham, England, United Kingdom

InnaDaVida wrote:
I will let a MUA, stylist, wardrobe designer touch me during a shoot but never the photographer.

What is your policy on touching?

I will let a MUA, stylist, wardrobe designer touch me during a shoot but never the model.

Aug 20 11 11:21 am Link

Model

YvonneEmilie

Posts: 3641

Brooklyn, New York, US

If a photographer is going to touch me, he needs to ask first.  That includes moving me, adjusting my hair and adjusting my clothing. 

And he should only do it if its necessary (like zipping up something I can't reach, or adjusting hair I can't see)

Thats really the only issue I have.

Aug 20 11 11:22 am Link

Photographer

Brooks Ayola

Posts: 9754

Chatsworth, California, US

I touch everyone on set, at least three times. Don't flatter yourself.

Aug 20 11 11:23 am Link

Photographer

Dan K Photography

Posts: 5581

STATEN ISLAND, New York, US

Still no answer to my question. Why can the MUA or Hairstylist touch you but not the photographer?

What if they were straight males does that make a difference?

Aug 20 11 11:23 am Link

Photographer

Brooks Ayola

Posts: 9754

Chatsworth, California, US

DanK Photography wrote:
Still no answer to my question. Why can the MUA or Hairstylist touch you but not the photographer?

What if they were straight males does that make a difference?

Those are women's jobs.. like cooking and cleaning.

Aug 20 11 11:24 am Link

Photographer

ICON Photography

Posts: 165

Houston, Texas, US

im just curious to find out why so many photogs reply to a model to model Q'???...

Aug 20 11 11:28 am Link

Model

Sweet Surrender

Posts: 576

Nashville, Tennessee, US

ICON Photography wrote:
im just curious to find out why so many photogs reply to a model to model Q'???...

Exactly!  lol

Aug 20 11 11:29 am Link

Photographer

Brooks Ayola

Posts: 9754

Chatsworth, California, US

ICON Photography wrote:
im just curious to find out why so many photogs reply to a model to model Q'???...

Because we can.

Aug 20 11 11:29 am Link

Photographer

TAFL

Posts: 171

Gardner, Kansas, US

Fiddlers Green Photo wrote:
My policy is to never ever work with a crazy person, if it can be helped.
Crazy people think that everyday kind of personal contact is some sort of sexual assault. It isn't.

The model culture as it is reflected on MM is pretty alien to the one I know.

Appropriate contact is appropriate and most mature adults understand this. I am just glad that most models are fairly sane happy people who are not waiting for a chance to display senseless histrionics.

+1

It's always such a joy to read sensible posts!

Aug 20 11 11:37 am Link

Photographer

RacerXPhoto

Posts: 2521

Brooklyn, New York, US

'Fear is the path to the dark side.
Fear leads to anger.
Anger leads to hate.
Hate...leads to suffering.'
Yoda

Aug 20 11 11:39 am Link

Photographer

TouchofEleganceStudios

Posts: 5480

Vallejo, California, US

The way that I look at it is only the photographer sees what the eye of the camera is capturing. Not the mua, stylist or anyone else. Even with experienced professional models sometimes that one small tweak of an adjustment, that shift of a hand, bending that knee just right is the vision that only the photographer having looked through the eye of the camera knows exactly how much to make that change. As a photographer I am not in it to cop a feel or get a look at her privates. Hell, I have done so many nude shoots and had so many models walking around naked it is just a part of the business.

I do not make adjustments because I want to touch models but instead because I want to create the best images possible. And of course I ask first.

How many photographers out there have had that model in that perfect pose, with that perfect look and an adjustment was needed then that perfect pose and look were forever lost.

Yes, sadly there are perverts out there with cameras. But, most of us here are serious no matter what are level of skill is and we want to create the best portfolios that we can to attract models to work with us.

Aug 20 11 11:42 am Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

oh, i thought this was the photographer forum because so many photoggraphers were posting. lol. i think it's all good. we can learn from each other.

ICON Photography wrote:
im just curious to find out why so many photogs reply to a model to model Q'???...

Aug 20 11 11:42 am Link

Photographer

WIP

Posts: 15973

Cheltenham, England, United Kingdom

ICON Photography wrote:
im just curious to find out why so many photogs reply to a model to model Q'???...

Because we like to be intouch with our female side.

Aug 20 11 11:46 am Link

Model

Sweet Surrender

Posts: 576

Nashville, Tennessee, US

Step Above Photos wrote:
The way that I look at it is only the photographer sees what the eye of the camera is capturing. Not the mua, stylist or anyone else. Even with experienced professional models sometimes that one small tweak of an adjustment, that shift of a hand, bending that knee just right is the vision that only the photographer having looked through the eye of the camera knows exactly how much to make that change. As a photographer I am not in it to cop a feel or get a look at her privates. Hell, I have done so many nude shoots and had so many models walking around naked it is just a part of the business.

I do not make adjustments because I want to touch models but instead because I want to create the best images possible. And of course I ask first.

How many photographers out there have had that model in that perfect pose, with that perfect look and an adjustment was needed then that perfect pose and look were forever lost.

Yes, sadly there are perverts out there with cameras. But, most of us here are serious no matter what are level of skill is and we want to create the best portfolios that we can to attract models to work with us.

I totally agree with you about the photographer seeing what others do not...I generally have no problem with a photographer touching me in order to make an adjustment, as long as he or she asks first.  Usually, though, they have my assistant (again, my assistant is NOT an escort...he or she---usually a she---is a professional MUA or wardrobe stylist whom I bring with me to assist with anything necessary such as wardrobe, make up, hair, etc ) do any adjusting, but sometimes they will do it themselves.  Again, I have no problem with that as long as they maintain a professional attitude the entire time from start to finish, and as long as they ask before touching.  This goes for female photographers too. 

And I'm all for the photographer completely directing the shoot since he/she can see what I cannot!  In fact, I almost always prefer it!  Not that I can't pose on my own, but again, you photographers see what I cannot and I'm with you on wanting to create a perfect, EPIC shot!

Aug 20 11 11:48 am Link

Photographer

TouchofEleganceStudios

Posts: 5480

Vallejo, California, US

Brooks Ayola wrote:
I touch everyone on set, at least three times. Don't flatter yourself.

I am a photographer and sometimes I touch myself   borat

Aug 20 11 11:48 am Link

Photographer

Fotografica Gregor

Posts: 4126

Alexandria, Virginia, US

I am almost always able to communicate with a model using gestures ( most efficient ) and words, or by showing her a few pics on the camera.  However, sometimes an adjustment to outfit or hair needs to be made and she can't see what the issue is.  When absolutely needed, I ask the model if I may touch her to make such an adjustment.  I have never had any other answer but "sure" or "okay" or "of course" or something positive.

I am also accustomed to a hug from models after a shoot or when we work together again.  That's nice and I appreciate it. But I do not initiate it and I do not expect it.

If you are uncomfortable being touched by photographers I would certainly respect that.

Aug 20 11 11:50 am Link

Model

Miss AY

Posts: 8166

Bulqizë, Bulqizë, Albania

InnaDaVida wrote:
I will let a MUA, stylist, wardrobe designer touch me during a shoot but never the photographer.

What is your policy on touching?

As long as they have a good reason and give me a quick heads up of what they are about to adjust I don't care. I'm a big girl I can tell the difference between someone coping a feel and someone just trying to make the photo come out as best they can.

Aug 20 11 11:51 am Link

Photographer

Brooks Ayola

Posts: 9754

Chatsworth, California, US

Sweet Surrender wrote:

I totally agree with you about the photographer seeing what others do not...I generally have no problem with a photographer touching me in order to make an adjustment, as long as he or she asks first.  Usually, though, they have my assistant (again, my assistant is NOT an escort...he or she---usually a she---is a professional MUA or wardrobe stylist whom I bring with me to assist with anything necessary such as wardrobe, make up, hair, etc ) do any adjusting, but sometimes they will do it themselves.  Again, I have no problem with that as long as they maintain a professional attitude the entire time from start to finish, and as long as they ask before touching.  This goes for female photographers too. 

And I'm all for the photographer completely directing the shoot since he/she can see what I cannot!  In fact, I almost always prefer it!  Not that I can't pose on my own, but again, you photographers see what I cannot and I'm with you on wanting to create a perfect, EPIC shot!

Stop it... You're just encouraging photographers to butt into model only discussions.

Aug 20 11 11:55 am Link

Model

Sweet Surrender

Posts: 576

Nashville, Tennessee, US

Brooks Ayola wrote:

Stop it... You're just encouraging photographers to butt into model only discussions.

LOL!

Aug 20 11 11:57 am Link

Model

D Lutz

Posts: 496

Rancho Cucamonga, California, US

It's fine under most circumstances. If a photographer needs to move my hair or wardrobe, no worries, he can move it. If he needs me to move my body, I appreciate him telling me "move this way." I've had one uncomfortable instance where the photographer grabbed me by my hips and shifted my standing position a little, without even telling me first "I need you to shift this way," he just kind of explained why he needed me to move after, and the shoot ended almost immediately afterward. It was inappropriate, not just because he was the photographer. I would be offended if anyone on set did that, MUA or stylist or whatever. There's no need for it.

Aug 20 11 11:59 am Link

Photographer

thePhotosmith

Posts: 425

Durham, North Carolina, US

What if I use a pole of a length of no less than 10 feet?






(Or, you know, I could ask permission.)

Aug 20 11 12:03 pm Link

Photographer

Brooks Ayola

Posts: 9754

Chatsworth, California, US

If I were working with a model who was afraid I was going to touch her inappropriately, or told me she didn't like the way I touched her, the shoot would be over for me too... That's too much pressure to be creative under. I touch everybody. I was only party joking earlier. I never ask permission. None of the very professional models I have in my portfolio here, many who are well known, have ever batted an eye over it.

Aug 20 11 12:06 pm Link

Photographer

J Welborn

Posts: 2552

Clarksville, Tennessee, US

Sweet Surrender wrote:

My assistant=my make up person, wardrobe stylist/assistant, whatever.  They are present on set for the photographer and for myself....not a simple escort mind you!  But rather somebody who is there to "assist" with anything that either the photographer or model may need during the shoot.

Every one has their comfort zone and need for assistance . I have no need for an assistant unless I am shooting a large commercial project and need something moved .

When I shoot models I shoot only with the model every one else has to be out of my and the models field of vision . No exceptions unless it's a child .

Aug 20 11 12:07 pm Link

Model

Rhiannon Davis

Posts: 945

Dallas, Texas, US

With photographers, as long as they ask FIRST and it's not inappropriate touching (like trying to move appendages to get me to do something I'm not comfortable with/trying to get fresh in general) then I am fine with it.

Unless I'm figure modeling, which is almost always nude. I don't let people touch me. However, this is pretty much the standard when it comes to figure/art modeling in class room and all other settings.

Aug 20 11 12:09 pm Link

Photographer

Second Chance Imaging

Posts: 364

Houston, Texas, US

Stefano Brunesci wrote:

InnaDaVida wrote:
...Part of the business of being a model is getting used to being pushed, prodded, tweaked and adjusted like a mannequin in a window by pretty much all and sundry... you should reconsider whether you're really cut out to be a model?

Just my $0.02

Ciao
Stefano

www.stefanobrunesci.com

+1

Thanks for the heads up so I can shoot elsewhere...

Aug 20 11 12:11 pm Link

Model

Marketa Fei

Posts: 401

Berkeley, California, US

I'm fine with whoever's on set for a clothed shoot moving things around to make the shot work. I'd much rather have people touch me than have an unusable image, and asking permission for minor adjustments wastes time.

That said, in a nude/partial nude shoot, where I need to concentrate more on muscle positions as part of my posing, this energy has been shifted from where it would be in a clothed shoot: working against my natural (and typical off-set) reaction of jumping away when being touched, so I appreciate some sort of heads-up in these cases.

Fairly frequently, though, when somebody goes to make minor adjustments to posing, I pick up on what's going to happen from the photographer's body angle and motion, and I can determine which adjustment would have been made before they actually get close enough to touch me, which can save even more time. Yay, efficient shoots!

Aug 20 11 12:11 pm Link

Photographer

BritWoollardPhotography

Posts: 771

Chicago, Illinois, US

veypurr wrote:
I am a designer so sometimes I have to touch the the model to make sure the fit is right. Otherwise I try to touch the model as little as possible.


A photog touching a model....why would they?

That's a stupid question. I only touch a model if I need to fix the garment or move hair out of her/his face. If I have enough assistants, it will be taken care of. But MANY assistants are looking for the tiny things I know I'll have to photoshop if it's not just so.

If it has to do with posture, I try to communicate first or show the model what I want her/him to do with my own body. Sometimes I will adjust the model myself if it'll be quicker just to do so - but always in a professional manner.

The photographer is the one creating the image and knows what he/she wants to create - so why spend a few minutes trying to communicate how to adjust a pose when you can spend a few seconds to adjust the pose yourself?

Again, I think 'touching' is ok if it it appropriate and professional - asking is nice too. My two cents.

Aug 20 11 12:12 pm Link