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Photographer

J O H N A L L A N

Posts: 12221

Los Angeles, California, US

I am rarely shooting such exact poses, that detailed positioning would even be necessary. Preferring instead fluidity in motion.
But hair's a different matter or a piece of lint for example. But I virtually always have someone doing makeup/hair on set and that falls naturally into their domain.

However, all that said, if there would be an instance where I would fix something directly, I'd definitely ask first. It would be really invasive otherwise.

I remember a few years back when I took Salsa lessons, the instructor asked the first few times if she could touch me. There's a lot of fairly close touching and holding during that kind of instruction. So I appreciated the professionalism although I didn't mind because it was inherent to the activity. But still she asked because she was a professional.

May 04 13 11:23 am Link

Photographer

KungPaoChic

Posts: 4221

West Palm Beach, Florida, US

Cherrystone wrote:

Other than flicking some loose hairs, how is it easier to adjust them yourself?

Because really it isn't.

Sometimes it really is. Because they can't see what you see. I always try to ask. But I also do makeup. I also work as a stylist. And I really am not a touchy feely person -- I do usually make a point of asking to someone to touch someone but sometimes after we have gotten into a rhythm you stop asking for every little thing.

I would prefer the model could move herself, adjust her clothes, adjust her hair but if she doesn't see it or if I don't have someone with me I will step in and make the adjustment.

But it does slow me down.

I would say unless someone is touching you in a non-professional way I don't think it should be a problem.

If you are nude -- then obviously it is a different dynamic ( and obviously no reason to adjust clothing anymore).

May 04 13 11:37 am Link

Photographer

Cherrystone

Posts: 37171

Columbus, Ohio, US

KungPaoChic wrote:

Sometimes it really is. Because they can't see what you see. I always try to ask. But I also do makeup. I also work as a stylist. And I really am not a touchy feely person -- I do usually make a point of asking to someone to touch someone but sometimes after we have gotten into a rhythm you stop asking for every little thing.

I would prefer the model could move herself, adjust her clothes, adjust her hair but if she doesn't see it or if I don't have someone with me I will step in and make the adjustment.

But it does slow me down.

I would say unless someone is touching you in a non-professional way I don't think it should be a problem.

If you are nude -- then obviously it is a different dynamic ( and obviously no reason to adjust clothing anymore).

In my earlier years, I made more contact. Over time I found easy ways to get around that, and worked better than actual contact.

May 04 13 11:41 am Link

Photographer

rfordphotos

Posts: 8866

Antioch, California, US

ewww, touch a model? yeccchhhhh.

Seriously, I have only found it necessary a handful of times in decades of shooting. In each and every case, I ask, and wait for an answer before proceeding.

Its simply a matter of being respectful, not rocket science. Dont make any assumptions, just ask.....

May 04 13 11:47 am Link

Photographer

FotoArcade

Posts: 393

San Diego, California, US

touching the model should be very rare. As a photographer, you should be able to explain the pose you want and if you can't, a demonstration may be necessary. For stray hairs or clothing fixes that the model can't see, ask permission (even if you have worked with him/her before), approach from a direction they can see and don't loiter when you've finished (I feel like I am  working with horses). Don't make a big deal about it.

I've also been at fashion shoots where the model had three sets of hands working on them at a time so if a model has a problem being touched, this may not be the right industry for them.

May 04 13 11:58 am Link

Photographer

Click Hamilton

Posts: 36555

San Diego, California, US

Depending on the model, sometimes I touch and then retouch them.
https://www.modelmayhem.com/portfolio/pic/11646874

Sometimes I sleep with them
http://www.pbase.com/click_hamilton/sle … ith_models

A gentleman should always ask first. Yes means yes; no means no.


On the other hand, I'm also a model in my photos, so maybe the rules are different for models touching models.

May 04 13 12:12 pm Link

Photographer

Click Hamilton

Posts: 36555

San Diego, California, US

For those who appreciate it, human contact is good.

Hugs work.

Look how friendly my avatar feels - these feelings are real. We are having fun and there's a magnetic feeling of mutual respect and admiration. That's why it makes a good photo.

https://photos.modelmayhem.com/photos/130326/16/51522ba754c62.jpg

May 04 13 12:17 pm Link

Photographer

Jim McSmith

Posts: 794

Edinburgh, Scotland, United Kingdom

I only touch in accordance with the Sam Fox lyrics.

May 04 13 12:23 pm Link

Photographer

LA StarShooter

Posts: 2733

Los Angeles, California, US

Drew Tommons wrote:
Photographer touches model without asking, caught on film.  Go to 4 minutes for full on touching.  Shocking stuff!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xuPgK1RdQYY

I am glad you posted that, and I had seen it before, when looking up Bailey. I then watched Rankin on a BBC documentary attempt to duplicate some iconic fashion images, such as Avedon's model and elephants.

I like what Bailey did very much, in order to achieve something that would stand out. I may actually do more of what Bailey did, as it makes sense to put a lot of work into setting up a great image, to really think about the flow of hair, to actually arrange it a bit.

I am told by those who have worked with me, such as clothing designers, that I am really good at directing models. In terms of emotion in an image, for commercial or fashion I would like to work on creating a more intimate look. So, again, thanks for posting that.  I have moved strands of hair myself and it usually rolls like this. "Don't move. I'm just coming in to move a strand of hair." It really depends on how comfortable they are with you. I am more of a director type, in that I really take charge.

May 04 13 12:31 pm Link

Photographer

Art4U

Posts: 12

Cardiff, Wales, United Kingdom

i make a point of touching all my models in an inappropriate fashion and belching loudly as i do so
and i like to show my solidarity when doing artnude by only wearing a hat
i feel this only adds to the shoot ;-)

May 04 13 12:32 pm Link

Photographer

Kincaid Blackwood

Posts: 23492

Los Angeles, California, US

It depends. If I need to give them the backhand or a proper full Nelson, I might have to touch them a bit. It happens.

Seriously though, in most cases, if I need to be closer than three feet I tell them why. Usually a “Dude, that blouse is killing me. It needs to be clipped. I can do it or you can throw you back out trying.” Or something like that. It's typically styling related and we discuss beforehand that there are moments when I'll need to change or adjust something. But if I have something heavily styled, I already have a group of people styling and touching the model. A model in the midst of a team isn't going to view her personal space the same way as others might.

May 04 13 12:35 pm Link

Photographer

Mortonovich

Posts: 6209

San Diego, California, US

Doesn't anyone use cattle prods anymore?

May 04 13 12:37 pm Link

Model

Alabaster Crowley

Posts: 8283

Tucson, Arizona, US

Ask. Always ask. Anyone should ask to touch you period, not just photographers.

Sometimes a photographer will be like "can you move that piece of hair to there" or something and I'll just tell them to do it how they want it.

May 04 13 12:48 pm Link

Model

sasweets

Posts: 410

Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

I think photographers should ask first or usually the photoshoot goes down hill from there. And it shows in the photos.. .-.

May 04 13 12:52 pm Link

Photographer

Click Hamilton

Posts: 36555

San Diego, California, US

ChiMo wrote:
Doesn't anyone use cattle prods anymore?

It looks cruel

https://www.abc.net.au/rural/sa/img/Overuse_of_Cattle_Prods.jpg


... but might have possibilities

https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSDRcsOLmGGs9mnMlNDmJOorkI_tQrIUUlo4Sun01b1pua4RfKe

Do you want to run with it, or should I?

May 04 13 01:04 pm Link

Photographer

Click Hamilton

Posts: 36555

San Diego, California, US

As long as you are not coming at them like a drooling, bulging-eyed, bad-breath weirdo with pants, oinks and snorts, ...

... I think lots of women like to bask in the attention and the luxury of being preened and primped for photos. Maybe it can be more fun than Disneyland.

It just depends on the person. It's so easy to offer, or ask. Then you know, without question.

Some people ice up when anyone gets within a long arms length of them. In that case, use caution to give them their space, or the photos will suffer.

---

I'm working on a photo now called "Click Hamilton Banana Massage" and I think it's going to be a great one. Yes, it requires some camaraderie, trust and intimate contact. I can't wait to show the finished image. I think it will be a Click Classic.

---

"It depends" ... no truer words than these.

May 04 13 01:21 pm Link

Photographer

925 image

Posts: 284

Martinez, California, US

we are touchy aren't we?

May 04 13 01:27 pm Link

Photographer

bwhstudios

Posts: 74

Hingham, Massachusetts, US

I wish I could.  I'm too old to be showing the pose when the model does not understand what I am trying to capture but I suck it up.  I caution the models that if I can not get up from the floor to call 911.

May 04 13 01:40 pm Link

Model

AellaGirl

Posts: 152

Austin, Texas, US

I once had a photographer 'fix' my boob. Without asking. Or any prior warning.

And then I later found out he'd been secretly recording the whole thing. So yeah, that was a great shoot.

Lesson to everybody: Don't ever touch a model unless you've agreed to it and paid her a lot of money.

May 04 13 01:49 pm Link

Model

Meghan Hale

Posts: 335

Mississauga, Ontario, Canada

Honestly I don't even care. I never do any shoots that would involve anyone adjusting something in an innapropriete place. When photographers or designers ask if they can fix something or move my arm a certain way, I just say "go ahead!" because I expect that now.

Never had any bad experiences.

May 04 13 01:50 pm Link

Photographer

Mr Banner

Posts: 85322

Hayward, California, US

-B-R-U-N-E-S-C-I- wrote:

Some photographers encourage it! wink



Ciao
Stefano

www.stefanobrunesci.com

what?

May 04 13 01:51 pm Link

Photographer

Mr Banner

Posts: 85322

Hayward, California, US

If I'm tying a model up, I tell the model I'm going to touch them. 

the end.

May 04 13 01:52 pm Link

Photographer

Bravo Magic Images

Posts: 765

Temple City, California, US

I wonder if Movie directors go up and get all touchy touchy with their actors to get a point across.

I for one never  touch a model no need to unless she so undirectable that i have to go up and indicate to her this is your right  arm and this is your left foot.

May 04 13 02:12 pm Link

Photographer

SYCF

Posts: 276

Los Angeles, California, US

Never had to touch a model, and that's with my hard to understand direction sometimes. However I had a successful model from the 80s telling me not to be afraid to position the model the way you want, to get the shot you want. Thought it was interesting of her telling me that.

May 04 13 02:58 pm Link

Photographer

DELETED-ACCOUNT_

Posts: 10303

Los Angeles, California, US

If we're not understanding one another with the direction I'm giving, I have no problem adjusting the model.  For me it's 99.9% of the time just nudging their shoulder more in the direction I want though.  Don't really do anything specific pose-wise that I need to adjust anything specific like their toes or anything lol.  If hair is in the face I just tell them to move it themselves, or have makeup do it.

May 04 13 03:06 pm Link

Model

Tiffany Bond

Posts: 76

West Jordan, Utah, US

Luckily, I haven't had that problem. Photographers have always asked me to do it myself, or have asked before they touched me. I really don't mind if they ask.

May 04 13 04:24 pm Link

Model

Tiffany Bond

Posts: 76

West Jordan, Utah, US

Bravo Magic Images wrote:
I wonder if Movie directors go up and get all touchy touchy with their actors to get a point across.

I for one never  touch a model no need to unless she so undirectable that i have to go up and indicate to her this is your right  arm and this is your left foot.

This made me giggle. To this day, I still need to make an "L" with both hands to immediately figure out which one is my left. Otherwise, I have to sit there and think about it. My husband always tells me "No, your other left" or "My version of left not your version of left". Modeling, I've only had that problem once or twice momentarily, thankfully, and the photographer and I were both able to laugh about it.

May 04 13 04:28 pm Link

Photographer

Robert Lynch

Posts: 2550

Bowie, Maryland, US

Antier wrote:
Lesson to everybody: Don't ever touch a llama unless you've agreed to it and paid her a lot of money.

WTF?

So you are suggesting that llamas should be treated like prostitutes?  No money, no touchy? 

Touch, like words, gestures, expressions, etc. is part of human communication.  Sometimes it is appropriate and necessary, sometimes it is not, but paying the llama has nothing to do with it.

There are already enough misguided people who confuse llamas with prostitutes.  You aren't helping things.

May 04 13 04:29 pm Link

Photographer

Aileedubaron

Posts: 342

San Antonio, Texas, US

Oops, I never actually thought about this.  I touch models all day. I normally provide an "excuse me" every once and a while, but meh lol.

I also do my own nipple tweaking. Flaccid nipples are never a good thing. wink

But everyone loves me and I'm sexy as heck, so that always helps. :p

May 04 13 04:40 pm Link

Photographer

mathieu drut

Posts: 404

Santa Clara, California, US

There is something a little creepy about asking: "can I touch you?". If you have to touch it would seem less awkward to just warn the model "I'm going to readjust ....".

May 04 13 04:52 pm Link

Model

Scarlett de la Calle

Posts: 414

Canberra, Australian Capital Territory, Australia

I am comfortable with being adjusted. But I prefer to be told that is their intention first.

May 04 13 05:03 pm Link

Model

Scarlett de la Calle

Posts: 414

Canberra, Australian Capital Territory, Australia

Babylon Dubaron Imagery wrote:
Oops, I never actually thought about this.  I touch models all day. I normally provide an "excuse me" every once and a while, but meh lol.

I also do my own nipple tweaking. Flaccid nipples are never a good thing. wink

But everyone loves me and I'm sexy as heck, so that always helps. :p

Would not be happy with a photographer touching my nipples no matter how good looking they are hmm

May 04 13 05:04 pm Link

Photographer

EdwardKristopher

Posts: 3409

Tempe, Arizona, US

Drew Smith Photography wrote:
I always ask.

It's perfectly all right for you to initiate a conversation prior to the commencement of the shoot to discuss 'rules of engagement' with the photography and others.

+1

May 04 13 05:06 pm Link

Photographer

Flex Photography

Posts: 6471

Sudbury, Ontario, Canada

rfordphotos wrote:
ewww, touch a model? yeccchhhhh.

Seriously, I have only found it necessary a handful of times in decades of shooting. In each and every case, I ask, and wait for an answer before proceeding.

Its simply a matter of being respectful, not rocket science. Dont make any assumptions, just ask.....

big_smile

May 04 13 05:10 pm Link

Photographer

Ed Woodson Photography

Posts: 2644

Savannah, Georgia, US

While I find it to be a rare occassion that I need to touch a model, I never do so without first asking.  And, I usually cover that before the shoot starts.

However, I never, ever touch a model during a nude shoot.  If my wife is in attendance, she will adjust a nude model after asking permission.  Or, I will ask their escort to make any adjustments. (I ask models to bring a female escort to nude shoots.)

May 04 13 05:19 pm Link

Model

IDiivil

Posts: 4615

Los Angeles, California, US

I don't need warnings or an OK from anyone when it comes to being adjusted/etc. Photographers, makeup artists, etc... go for it. I have enough gut instinct that I can tell pretty quick if someone is coming at me for a reason that may bring harm to me.

The only time I personally will fix something is when it is something to do with my private area (thong, etc). I don't really want to be adjusted there.

May 04 13 05:21 pm Link

Model

K I C K H A M

Posts: 14689

Los Angeles, California, US

salvatori. wrote:
It's funny, if you are playing baseball and need to adjust a stance to hit, or a football player maximizing a tackling stance; there's a good chance the coach will come over and grab your leg or arm and move it into place.

If you go to get your hair cut, the barber will touch your hair in order to cut it.

If you take a ballroom dance class, your instructor will hold you (a lot!)

In none of these cases is a boob grab or a palm on your privates acceptable, but.... otherwise; it's how things are done in a world that isn't paranoid and immature.

Of course, it is unfortunate that we don't live in that world. And yes, pun intended, people shouldn't be so 'touchy.'

Lies.

I did gymnastics for a number of years-- and inappropriate situations happened all the time to the point that coaches were more closely watched and people were more paranoid.

May 04 13 05:26 pm Link

Makeup Artist

Lindsey Sharon

Posts: 306

Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

Part of my job is touching. If the model/actor isn't on set, I'll usually let then know "I just need to adjust something" but I rarely go into details as to what. However, if the photographer/camera/director has had to stop to let me step in, then I think it's pretty obvious I'm going to be touching you.

If its something more intimate (tucking in the tag on a pair of pants, adjusting the back of a bra) then I will tell the model my intentions. I've been asked by both photographers and directors to adjust things in the past that they could have done themselves. It seems people just expect more touching from hair/makeup artist and wardrobe.  And after spending 30 minutes in our chairs, models are usually pretty us touching them.

Oh, and I rarely ask to touch so much as inform that I will be touching someone. If I'm doing it, it's because it's not something you can do/see yourself or the photographer wants you to hold a pose.

May 04 13 05:36 pm Link

Makeup Artist

Lindsey Sharon

Posts: 306

Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

DP

May 04 13 05:36 pm Link

Model

B R E N N A N

Posts: 4247

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

I'm of a strong "don't touch me" mindset.

I have a sensory disorder and it seriously freaks me out to have people just walk up and touch me. If asked I can brace myself for it.

Someone made the "your barber will touch you if you got in to get your haircut" reference, which is fine, because I went in there under the assumption that I'm going to get touched; this is not the same at a shoot.

It's not the hard to say "do you mind if I move that stray hair?" or fill in the blank before touching a model. It's easier to assume the model needs to be warned before making adjustments and to warn her than to just make them and find out she's not okay with it.

May 04 13 05:40 pm Link